Ua loaʻa iaʻu kahi incompatibility me ka sperm o kaʻu kāne (ʻo ia hoʻi, e luku ana koʻu mucus i ka sperm o kaʻu hoa.) Ma hope o ʻehiku inseminations a me ʻekolu mau IVF i hāʻule ʻole, ua ʻōlelo ke kumu iā mākou e hoʻōki no ka mea, ʻoiai ʻo ia i haʻi mai iaʻu "diplomatically" ʻaʻohe mea e hāʻawi hou aku.
Ua huli mākou i ka hoʻokama ʻana a loaʻa iā mākou ka hauʻoli, ma hope o ʻehā mau makahiki o ke kali ʻana, e loaʻa iā mākou kahi keiki liʻiliʻi 3 mahina. ʻO ka haʻalulu nui koʻu loaʻa ʻana o koʻu manawa no 2 mau mahina a laila hoʻopau piha i hoʻokahi mahina… Eia naʻe, he ʻumikumamālima mahina ma hope o ka hiki ʻana mai o kaʻu keiki liʻiliʻi, ua hāpai au…! i kēia lā ua hoʻopiha ka makuahine i ʻelua mau keiki maikaʻi: kahi Brice liʻiliʻi o 34 mahina a me kahi Marie liʻiliʻi o 8 mahina a me 3 pule. Ua hana ʻo Brice iaʻu i makuahine a ʻo Marie i wahine. Ua pau ka pōʻai.
ʻAʻole he panacea nā LDC. He paʻakikī, luhi (ke kino a me ka noʻonoʻo) a nele pinepine nā hui lapaʻau i ka noʻonoʻo. No lākou hoʻi, he hemahema inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e kūleʻa a hana lākou iā ʻoe. No laila, i ka wā e hana ai, ʻōlelo mākou he mea maikaʻi loa, akā naʻe, ʻaʻole lawa kā mākou kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka chess! Eia hou, lilo koke ia e like me ka lāʻau lapaʻau: paʻakikī ke hoʻōki. Ua kamaʻilio wau i nā wahine ʻē aʻe i hele ma laila a ua like ko lākou manaʻo. Makemake mākou e hana maikaʻi ʻole a noʻonoʻo wale mākou.
ʻO wau iho, ua loaʻa iaʻu kahi manaʻo o ka hewa, ua manaʻo wau "ʻano ʻole". He mea paʻakikī ke hoʻomaopopo i ka poʻe, akā ua huhū au i kēia kino hana ʻole i kaʻu makemake. Manaʻo wau e nānā pono kākou i kēia pilikia, no ka mea, ke ʻike nei ka nui aʻe o ka nui o nā wahine i hānau ʻole ʻoiai ʻaʻohe o lākou physiologically. ʻO nā kauka e like me kā lākou mau maʻi e holo wikiwiki loa i ka over-medicalization. E pili ana i ke aloha i loaʻa i ke keiki a kekahi, ʻo ka hānai ʻana a i ʻole ka hānau ʻana he mea like nō ia. Noʻu e noho mau ʻo Brice KA MANAʻO.
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