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ʻO kahi hālāwai olakino e hoʻoponopono hou i kahi pilina fusion-reaction ma waena o ka makuahine a me kāna kaikamahine, i haʻi ʻia e Anne-Laure Benattar, psycho-body therapist, me Katia, he kaikamahine 7 makahiki.
Loaʻa iā Anne-Laure Benattar i kēia lā ʻo Katia a me kona makuahine. Mai ka hānau ʻana o ke kaikamahine liʻiliʻi, ua pili loa lāua, akā ua emi ko lāua pilina me ka hiki ʻana mai o kahi keiki lua. Hoʻopaʻapaʻa pinepine ʻo Katia i kona makuahine a ʻoliʻoli ma waena o nā manawa pili a me nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa ikaika.
Ka hihia maʻamau
ʻO Anne-Laure Benattar: Hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻi mai iaʻu i kou manaʻo ke noho ʻoe me kou makuahine?
Kino: I kekahi manawa aloha au iā ia ke hana pū māua i nā mea a heluhelu ʻo ia iaʻu i kekahi moʻolelo. A i kekahi manawa, inaina au iā ia ke mālama nui ʻo ia i koʻu kaikaina, no laila huhū wau!
A.-LB: ʻAʻole maʻalahi ka loaʻa ʻana o kou wahi me ka hiki ʻana mai o kahi kaikaina. Akā naʻe, nui ke aloha o kou makuahine iā ʻolua, ʻoiai ʻoi aku ka pono o kou kaikaina i kēia manawa. Makemake ʻoe e kaha kiʻi?
Kino: ʻAe, makemake au i ke kaha kiʻi! ʻO wau a me koʻu makuahine?
A.-LB: ʻAe, ʻo ia, hiki iā ʻoe ke kaha kiʻi iā ʻoe iho ma ka hana ʻana i ʻelua kiʻi lāʻau no ke kino a me nā lima a me ka pōʻai no ke poʻo. A laila, e kākau ʻoe i kou inoa mua a me ka mua o kou inoa ma lalo o kāu kaha kiʻi a me ko kou makuahine ma lalo o kāna.
Kino: Eia, ua hana ʻia a i kēia manawa, he aha kaʻu e hana ai?
A.-LB: Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻopuni i kēlā me kēia ʻano me kahi pōʻai māmā, a me kekahi pōʻai nui aʻe no ʻolua e hōʻike ana i ko ʻoukou aloha. A laila e kaha ʻoe i 7 mau loulou ma ke ʻano o nā laina ma waena o ʻoukou me nā penikala kala: mai ke kua lalo a i kona, a laila kekahi o kou puʻupaʻa i kona, a laila mai kou ʻōpū a i kona ʻōpū, mai kou puʻuwai a i kona puʻuwai, mai kou puʻu a hiki i kou ʻāʻī. kona, mai ka waena o kou lae a i kona, a mai ka piko o kou poo a i kona.
Kino: ʻAe, ʻo ia hoʻi ua nakinaki mākou? A me nā kala, pehea wau e hana ai?
A.-LB: ʻAe, ʻo ia, pili ia me kāu pili. No nā kala, hiki iā ʻoe ke hana e like me ke ānuenue, e hoʻomaka me ka ʻulaʻula ma lalo, a e hana i kou ala a hiki i ke poʻo me ka poni ma luna. A laila ʻoki ʻoe i ka pepa i ka hapalua me kahi ʻoki e wehe i nā loulou maikaʻi ʻole. Ua hoʻokuʻu ʻia ʻoe mai nā ʻāʻī, aia wale nō ke aloha!
HANA : Ke hoʻomau ka pilikia, hiki ke hana pū me ka makua hopohopo i loaʻa paha i kāna moʻolelo pilikino a i kona wā i hala me kāna keiki, nā mea e wehewehe ana i ke ʻano o kēia pilina. Inā pono, pono pinepine e hoʻoholo iā lākou i mea e loaʻa ai ka lokahi i ka pilina.
Hōʻike nā keiki i nā hōʻailona o nā pilikia pili i ka mōʻaukala o ko lākou mau mākua.
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MAKEMAKE NA KANAKA MAIKAI
ʻO kēia hoʻoikaika kino i manaʻo ʻia e Jacques Martel, Canadian psychotherapist, hiki ke hoʻokuʻu i nā mea ʻawaʻawa, ʻoiai e mālama ana i ka pilina o ke aloha. Hiki ke hana ʻia ma waena o ʻelua mau kaikunāne, a i ʻole kekahi duo ʻē aʻe me nā ʻāʻī nui.
MANAWA KIKAIKA
No ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi wahi hou, hana i nā manawa kikoʻī e kaʻana like me "ma mua", hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa ka manawa maikaʻi a hana i nā mea paʻa hou.
HOOKUU ANA I KA HUAOLELO
No ka paipai ʻana i ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i nā manaʻo a me ka wehewehe ʻana i nā kuhi hewa, paipai mākou i ka poʻe e haʻi waha i nā manaʻo i ka wā i pau ai ka manaʻo.
Ka wehewehe a ke kauka
Ke hoʻokumu ʻia kahi pilina hui me ka hānau ʻana o ke keiki mua, hiki i ka hiki ʻana mai o kahi keiki lua, a i ʻole ka ulu ʻana o kēia keiki i ke kūʻokoʻa ʻoi aʻe, hiki ke hoʻopau i ka pilina. A laila, lilo ka pilina i hui like ʻole.
I kēia hihia, pono ke keiki a me ka makuahine e ʻimi i kahi hou e pili ana i kekahi i kekahi, i mea e noho kokoke ai i ka ʻae ʻana i kēlā me kēia e neʻe i kahi kūʻokoʻa.