E pane i ka nīnau "ʻO wai wau?" Hoʻohana pinepine mākou i nā hoʻokolohua a me nā typologies. Hōʻike kēia ala i ka loli ʻole o ko mākou ʻano a hoʻoheheʻe ʻia i kekahi ʻano. Manaʻo ʻē aʻe ka manaʻo noʻonoʻo ʻo Brian Little: ma waho aʻe o ka "core" olaola paʻa, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā papa kelepona. ʻO ka hana pū me lākou ke kī i ka holomua.
Ke ulu nei mākou, ʻike mākou i ka honua a hoʻāʻo e hoʻomaopopo pehea e hiki ai iā mākou ke noho i loko - he aha ka mea e hana ai, ʻo wai e aloha ai, me wai e launa pū ai. Ke ho'āʻo nei mākou e hoʻomaopopo iā mākou iho i nā mea kākau moʻolelo a me nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni, e hahai i ka hiʻohiʻona o nā poʻe kaulana. ʻO nā typologies pilikino i hanaʻia e nā psychologists a me nā sociologists e maʻalahi i kā mākou hana: ināʻo kēlā me kēia o mākou i hoʻokahi o nāʻano heʻumikumamāono,ʻo ia wale nō keʻike iā mākou iho a hahai i nā "aʻo".
He aha ke ʻano o ka lilo ʻana iā ʻoe iho?
Wahi a ka psychologist ʻo Brian Little, ʻaʻole i noʻonoʻo kēia ala i ka dynamics pilikino. I ke ola holoʻokoʻa, ʻike mākou i nā pōpilikia, aʻo e lanakila i nā pilikia a me nā poho, hoʻololi i nā orientations a me nā mea nui. Ke maʻa mākou i ka hoʻopili ʻana i kekahi kūlana o ke ola me kekahi ʻano hana, hiki iā mākou ke nalowale i ka hiki ke hoʻoponopono i nā pilikia me ka noʻonoʻo a lilo i poʻe kauā na ka hana hoʻokahi.
Akā inā hiki iā mākou ke hoʻololi, a pehea ka nui? Manaʻo ʻo Brian Little e nānā i ke ʻano ma ke ʻano he hana multi-layered, i hoʻonohonoho ʻia e like me ke kumu "matryoshka".
ʻO ka papa mua, hohonu a me ka liʻiliʻi loa o ka mobile he biogenic. ʻO kēia kā mākou genetic framework, kahi e hoʻolohe ai nā mea ʻē aʻe. E ʻōlelo kākou inā maikaʻi ʻole ko mākou lolo i ka dopamine, pono mākou e hoʻoulu hou. No laila - hoʻomaha, make wai i ka mea hou a me ka pilikia.
I ke ola holoʻokoʻa, ʻike mākou i nā pōpilikia, aʻo e lanakila i nā pilikia a me nā poho, hoʻololi i nā orientations a me nā mea nui.
ʻO ka papa aʻe he sociogenic. Hoʻokumu ʻia e ka moʻomeheu a me ka hānai ʻana. ʻO nā poʻe likeʻole, ma nāʻano pilikanaka likeʻole, nā mea hahai o nāʻano hoʻomana likeʻole i ko lākou mau manaʻo pono'ī e pili ana i ka mea i makemakeʻia, e'āponoʻia a me kaʻaeʻole. Kōkua ka papa sociogenic iā mākou e hoʻokele i ke kaiapuni i kamaʻāina iā mākou, heluhelu i nā hōʻailona a pale i nā hewa.
ʻO ke kolu, ʻo ka papa waho, ʻo Brian Little ka inoa ideogenic. Loaʻa iā ia nā mea a pau e hoʻokaʻawale iā mākou - kēlā mau manaʻo, nā waiwai a me nā lula a mākou i hoʻonohonoho pono ai no mākou iho a mākou e mālama ai i ke ola.
Punawai no ka hoololi
ʻAʻole like nā pilina ma waena o kēia mau papa i nā manawa a pau (a ʻaʻole pono). I ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana, hiki i kēia ke alakaʻi i nā kūʻē i loko. "ʻO ka makemake olaola no ke alakaʻi a me ka paʻakikī hiki ke kū'ē i ka manaʻo pilikanaka o ka conformity a me ka mahalo i nā lunakahiko," wahi a Brian Little i kahi laʻana.
No laila, manaʻo paha ka hapa nui e pakele i ka mālama ʻohana. He manawa i kali lōʻihi ʻia e hoʻololi i ka superstructure sociogenic i ke kumu biogenic, e loaʻa ai ka pono o loko. A ʻo kēia kahi e kōkua ai kā mākou mea hana "I".
ʻAʻole pono mākou e ʻike iā mākou iho me kekahi ʻano pilikino, wahi a ka psychologist. Inā hoʻohana ʻoe i hoʻokahi matrix behavioral (no ka laʻana, introverted) no nā kūlana āpau, hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻemi i kāu kahua o nā mea hiki. E ʻōlelo paha ʻoe hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻole i ka haʻi ʻōlelo lehulehu no kou manaʻo "ʻaʻole ʻoe" a ʻoi aku ʻoe ma ka hana malū.
Hiki ke hoʻololi ʻia ko mākou ʻano ʻano
Hoʻopili i kā mākou ideogenic sphere, huli mākou i nā hiʻohiʻona pilikino hiki ke hoʻololi. ʻAe, inā he introvert ʻoe, ʻaʻole paha e like ka cascade o nā reactions i loko o kou lolo e like me ka extrovert ke hoʻoholo ʻoe e hana i nā hoaaloha i hiki i kahi pāʻina. Akā hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokō i kēia pahuhopu inā he mea nui ia iā ʻoe.
ʻOiaʻiʻo, pono mākou e noʻonoʻo i ko mākou mau palena. ʻO ka hana ka helu ʻana i kou ikaika i ʻole e hele hewa. Wahi a Brian Little, he mea nui ka hāʻawi ʻana iā ʻoe iho i manawa e hoʻomaha ai a hoʻomaha hou, ʻoiai ke hana nei ʻoe i kahi mea maʻamau iā ʻoe. Me ke kōkua o ia mau "pit stops" (hiki ke lilo i kakahiaka jog i ka leo, hoʻolohe i kāu mele punahele a kamaʻilio pū me kahi mea aloha), hāʻawi mākou iā mākou iho i kahi hoʻomaha a kūkulu i ka ikaika no nā mea hou.
Ma kahi o ka hoʻololi ʻana i ko mākou mau makemake i ke kūkulu paʻa ʻana o kā mākou «type», hiki iā mākou ke ʻimi i nā kumuwaiwai no kā lākou ʻike ʻana iā mākou iho.
Eʻike hou aʻe ma ʻepekema o mākou.