E hoʻomanaʻo i ke kiʻiʻoniʻoni "The Naked Truth" me Gerald Butler? Ma laila, ua aʻo ke kanaka koa i kona haku i nā ʻano hana hoʻowalewale. A ua lanakila loa ʻo ia ma kēia a ua aloha ʻo ia iā ia iho. ʻAʻole ia he mea kupanaha ua lilo ke kiʻi i mea paʻa maoli, no ka mea, he mea hoihoi ke kumuhana o ka pili ʻana i nā kāne a me nā wahine. A pela mau no.
A e pili ana i ka wā…
I kekahi mau makahiki i hala aku nei, ua maopopo iaʻu pehea e hālāwai ai me kahi kaikamahine. ʻAʻole, ʻaʻole, ʻaʻole au i hoʻāʻo noʻu iho, ua kōkua au i nā hoaaloha hoʻokahi e loaʻa ka hauʻoli. Eia, e ʻōlelo kākou, ua hoʻomaka kekahi o lākou e hoʻopiʻi e pili ana i ka pōʻino i ke aloha, lilo ʻo ia i mea liʻiliʻi e like me ka lole, no laila ua hōʻike koke wau i kaʻu ʻano super. Ua koho au i ke kaikamahine nani loa ma ka pāʻina a hoʻopaʻapaʻa me ke kanaka no ka ʻōmole champagne ʻaʻole ʻo ia e hele wale mai e hālāwai me ia iho, akā e noho i lalo i ka papaʻaina a waiho i kāna helu kelepona. A i kēlā me kēia manawa e pāʻani ai ke kanaka iaʻu i ka champagne.
A ua hana au penei: Ua hoʻokokoke au i ke kaikamahine a hoʻolauna iaʻu iho ma ke ʻano he kōkua pilikino i kahi mea hana kīwī mai ka papahana Weather Forecast. Ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia he kanaka hilahila loa ka mea hana, akā i ka ʻike ʻana i kēia manawa ke ʻimi nei mākou i kahi mea hōʻike hou, i ka ʻike ʻana i kahi nani, makemake ʻo ia e kono iā ia e hoʻolohe. Hiki iā ia ke noho i lalo i kā mākou papaʻaina a ʻōlelo i kekahi mau huaʻōlelo "A e pili ana i ka wā ..." i nānā ka mea hana i kona mau helehelena a me kāna ʻōlelo.
ʻAʻole pono ka ʻōlelo ʻana, ua lilo koke koʻu hoa ʻino i ke aliʻi moʻolelo moʻolelo i mua o nā maka o kēlā kaikamahine, holo wikiwiki ʻo ia iā ia, aneane uē me ka hauʻoli. Ua hana au i kēia hana hoʻopunipuni he kanalima manawa a ʻaʻohe kaikamahine i hōʻole!
ʻOiaʻiʻo, ua wahaheʻe wau a ʻaʻole hiki i kaʻu hoaaloha ke hilinaʻi i kekahi pilina koʻikoʻi ma hope o kēlā, akā ʻo kēlā me kēia kūlana i hōʻoia i kahi ʻoiaʻiʻo maʻalahi: i mea e huki ai i ka manaʻo, e kū i waho o ka nui hina o ke ʻano o nā malihini kipa cafe, pono ʻoe. uuku loa.
ʻO ka mea mele ʻo Madonna i kekahi manawa ua mare ʻo Guy Ritchie, no ka mea ua makaʻu ka hapa nui o nā kāne iā ia, a ʻo ia, me ka ʻokoʻa o ka makahiki a me kona kaulana, ʻaʻole makaʻu, hōʻike i ka hoʻomanawanui a pau i ke kuahu.
No ke koho ʻana i kahi ala maʻamau o ka launa ʻana, ka paʻakikī a me ke aloha ʻole - ʻo ia, ʻo ia wale nō ka mea e pono ai e lanakila ai ka puʻuwai o ka lede. Ma hope o ka lohe ʻana o ka wahine "E ʻike kāua" he iwakālua mau manawa, ma ka iwakāluakūmākahi e lanakila ʻo ia i kēia banality. A ʻo ka mea nāna e hoʻopau i kēia ʻano maʻamau e lanakila.
No ka wā e hiki mai ana mākou
ʻO kekahi o kaʻu mau hoaaloha i kēlā me kēia manawa e hōʻike iā ia iho he kanaka mai ka wā e hiki mai ana. Ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia: "ʻO wau kāu kāne i ka wā e hiki mai ana, ʻelua mau keiki a mākou, he hale nani ma Troekurov, he Lexus ʻeleʻele a ʻo ʻoe ka mea nona kāu hale nani ponoʻī ma Tsvetnoy Boulevard. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e manaʻoʻiʻo mai iaʻu, i kēia manawa, e kākau wau i kekahi mea ma ka napkin, a i koʻu haʻalele ʻana, e ʻoiaʻiʻo nō ia. Ma ka napkin, waiho pinepine ʻo ia i kāna helu kelepona a me kahi leka: “I ka pō ʻapōpō e kelepona mai ʻoe iaʻu a hele mākou i ke kofe." A e noʻonoʻo i kā lākou kāhea ʻana a hele wāwae! No ka mea, he ʻano wiwo ʻole ka hoa, ʻakaʻaka a ʻakaʻaka. ʻO kēia ka mea e pono ai mākou nā wahine.
ʻAʻole a hiki i nā makahiki ma hope mai ua aʻo au ua hoʻohana ʻole kekahi hoaaloha i ka ʻenehana NLP ikaika "Choice Without Choice" - inā ua hoʻoholo ʻia nā mea āpau no ke kanaka a pono lākou e ʻōlelo ʻae.
A ua hana ia! Ma ke ala, ua mare ka hoaaloha i kekahi o ka poʻe i kāhea iā ia. ʻAʻole ʻo ia i kūʻai aku iā ia i Lexus, ʻaʻole ʻo ia i hāʻawi iā ia i kahi salona nani, akā ua hoʻokō pono ʻo ia i ka ʻōlelo hoʻohiki e loaʻa i ʻelua keiki.
ʻAʻole pono ke akamai
'Ōlelo nā kānaka hoʻonaʻauao i nā'ōlelo akamai i ka wā e hui ai i ke ala. ʻO nā hana a ke kāne e hana mau ai i mea e leʻaleʻa ai ka wahine i ʻike ʻia he ʻano kūlohelohe a nāwaliwali. ʻOi aku ka makaʻu o ka hāʻule ʻana, ʻoi aku ka ikaika o kou makaʻu. Akā i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ma mua o ka hālāwai ʻana me ka mea hoʻokahi, ʻo ia wale nō, makemake ʻia e loaʻa i kahi ʻike maikaʻi ʻole. ʻO ia ka mea e kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo pono iā ʻoe iho a hoʻopau i ka haʻalulu hoʻopunipuni ma kou mau kuli.
I kekahi lā, ua noi mai kekahi hoa hana he 42 makahiki iaʻu e kākau i ʻelua mau huaʻōlelo aloha nona i nā kaikamahine ma kahi pūnaewele. I koʻu kahaha, ua pane maikaʻi nā kaikamahine i kahi hāʻawi e hele i kahi lā ma ka Zoo, nā hoʻomaikaʻi e like me "ʻO ʻoe kekahi o nā mea liʻiliʻi ma kēia pūnaewele i loaʻa ka naʻauao i kou mau maka," a me ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana ua hoʻolei ʻia kahi hoa hana e ia. hoa wahine. A no ka mea he ʻano aloha mākou nā wahine, makemake mākou i ka hoʻomaliʻi a me nā holoholona. ʻIke? He mea maʻalahi nā mea a pau.
ʻO kekahi o kā mākou ʻano meaʻai. Ua ʻōlelo mai kekahi kamaʻāina Kanada ua loaʻa iā lākou ka chic i kēia manawa - e kamaʻāina ma ka mākeke mahiʻai. Malia paha, makaʻu lākou e hele i nā hale pō a me nā hale kiʻiʻoniʻoni ʻeleʻele a i ʻole e mālama i nā tiketi. A i ʻole makemake paha lākou e nānā i kāna liʻiliʻi ʻana i ka meli i ka hoʻāʻo ʻana ... No laila, ʻoi aku ka lanakila o kēia poʻe pili i ke ola olakino, nā pā paʻi a me ka palaoa mauʻu. No ka mea hiki i kekahi ke kāhea aku i ka pā no ke kīʻaha waina, a i ka mākeke - ʻo ka mea olakino a me kēia manawa. Ma ka liʻiliʻi loa, manaʻoʻiʻo mākou iā ia.
No laila, e nā kāne aloha, e hōʻuluʻulu i kou mau manaʻo, e hana i kahi mea hou a kāhea iā mākou i nā lā i ka hikiwawe!