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Loaʻa iā mākou nā manaʻo huna ʻaʻole i hoʻopuka ʻia a hūnā ʻia: huāhuā i kā mākou hoaaloha maikaʻi loa, huhū i ko mākou mau mākua, makemake e paʻi i kahi hoa huakaʻi ma kahi kaʻa kaʻa kaʻa. I kekahi manawa, hūnā mākou iā lākou mai iā mākou iho. Manaʻo mākou ʻaʻole lākou. Akā, ke waiho nei lākou i kā lākou hōʻailona.
Me he mea lā hiki iā ʻoe ke noʻonoʻo i kahi mea hilahila a hana malū paha, a lohe ʻole a ʻike paha kekahi i kahi mea āu e makemake ʻole ai e ʻae, a ʻaʻole pili kēia mea liʻiliʻi i ke ola ma ke ʻano ākea. Akā,ʻo ia mau manaʻo e hōʻike ponoʻia ma nā hana, nā hana, nā pilina.
Hoʻopili ke keiki i kona mau maka me kona mau lima a ʻōlelo: "ʻAʻole wau ma ʻaneʻi." Manaʻo maoli ʻo ia ʻaʻole ʻo ia ma kahi āna i ʻike ʻole ai. Akā ʻaʻole pili kona kūpaʻa i ka ʻike o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e ʻike pono iā ia.
Ua like ia me nā manaʻo: ʻoiai ʻaʻole hiki ke ʻike ʻia, heluhelu ka hapa nui o ka poʻe i kā mākou hana ʻana iā lākou a me kā mākou ʻike iā mākou iho.
Ua ʻike ʻia nā mea huna a pau
ʻAʻole pono ka hoʻokumu ʻana i nā manaʻo i loko o nā huaʻōlelo i ʻike ʻia e nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Hoʻolaha maikaʻi ʻia kēia mau mea a pau i ka honua ma ka ʻōlelo ʻole: nā ʻano, nā ʻano, nā hiʻohiʻona maka, nā maka, a me ka waha: nā huaʻōlelo, ka leo, ka timbre a me nā hoʻomaha ma waena o nā huaʻōlelo. "Ke huli nei nā mea a pau i kēia ao, hoʻi mai iā mākou, e hoʻomaka ana i nā pōʻai ma luna o ka wai."
ʻO nā manaʻo, nā kānalua, nā hana huna, ka hoʻoholo a i ʻole ka manaʻo - waiho kēia i nā pōʻai ma luna o ka wai o ka ʻike ʻole, e hoʻokaʻawale nui ana, e hoʻopā mua i ka poʻe kokoke, a laila ka poʻe i kahi mamao. ʻOi aku ka lōʻihi o ko lākou noʻonoʻo ʻana i hoʻokahi ʻaoʻao, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka ākea a lākou e hoʻopā ai.
ʻO kēlā me kēia manaʻo, manaʻo, a ʻoi aku hoʻi i kahi hana, ʻo kahi mea huna, waiho i nā ʻano hiʻona i ka psyche, e hōʻike ana iā lākou iho i waho o ka honua a hōʻike ʻia i ka launa pū ʻana me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe a me ko lākou ʻano iā ʻoe.
No ke aha kēia hana? ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, aia ka manaʻo o ka poʻe ʻo nā mea a pau a lākou i hana ai a i manaʻo ai e noho malū me ka ʻole o ka mea hōʻike, a no laila, me he mea lā ʻaʻole i loaʻa kēia. ʻAʻohe mea i ʻike i ka ʻīlio hōʻeha, hao wale i ka puke a kekahi. ʻAʻohe mea i lohe i nā huaʻōlelo i hoʻolei ʻia i ka wā ma mua, ʻaʻole i ʻike i nā manaʻo lili.
Akā, aia mau ka mea hōʻike. Aia kekahi mea i ʻike, lohe, ʻike. A ʻo ʻoe kēlā kanaka. ʻO ka mea hana i nā mea i hilahila iā ia iho, ʻike mau ʻo ia i kāna hana. ʻO ka mea i piha i kona mau manaʻo i ka ʻino a me ka huhū, ʻike mau ʻo ia i kona manaʻo, i kāna mea i makemake ai a i makemake nui ai. A ua hoʻokumu ʻia ka manaʻo ʻike ʻole o ke kanaka e pili ana iā ia iho me ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i kēia mau mea i ʻike ʻole ʻia, huna ʻia.
ʻAʻole kōkua nā masks
Ua ʻike nā kānaka a pau iā ia iho ma kahi ʻaʻole ʻo ia i ʻoiaʻiʻo a ʻaʻole wiwo ʻole, kahi āna i makaʻuʻu ai, kahi āna i liʻiliʻi a lili. A me ka poe e hoopuni ia makou heluhelu i ko makou iho-kiʻi e like me ka mea, me ka censorship, a ua lilo maopopo ia lakou, nae unconsciously, ka mea e pili ana ia lakou.
ʻO ia ke kumu e hoʻokaʻawale ai mākou i nā poʻe i ka poʻe a mākou e makemake ai, e kamaʻilio, e hoaaloha, e aʻo, e ʻakaʻaka, a me ka poʻe a mākou e makemake ʻole ai e hoʻopā aku me ko mākou mau maka a i ʻole ma nā ʻoihana pūnaewele, ka mea e hoʻoulu ai i ka makaʻu a me ka makemake. kāʻalo. Hoʻokaʻawale mākou i nā poʻe i ka poʻe makemake e hilinaʻi i ka mea pili loa, a me ka poʻe hiki ʻole ke hilinaʻi ʻia me kahi mea liʻiliʻi.
Ma luna o ka poʻe a mākou e aloha ai, a me ka poʻe hoʻowahāwahā. ʻAe, hiki iā ʻoe ke lilo i mea keaka kiʻekiʻe a akamai i ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā masks, akā mai ʻoluʻolu ʻoe iā ʻoe iho. ʻAʻole hiki ke hoʻomaʻamaʻa piha i ka hana, i kekahi ala a i ʻole, akā e hāʻawi ke kino i kēlā mau ʻano a me nā manaʻo i hūnā ʻia ma lalo o ka mask. ʻOi aku ka liʻiliʻi liʻiliʻi, akā ʻike mau ʻia no ka ʻike ʻole o ka poʻe a puni ʻoe e calibrate a lepili iā ia e like me ia.
Loaʻa i nā Psychopaths kahi kiʻi ponoʻī ponoʻī ʻoiai ʻo ka nui o lākou.
ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻike ʻoe i ka poʻe i kahaha: no ke aha e hana ʻino mai ai nā kānaka iaʻu? No ke aha lā lākou i hilinaʻi ʻole ai iaʻu, no ka mea, he makaʻāinana koʻikoʻi a koʻikoʻi wau? No ke aha lā lākou e aloha ʻole ai, no ka mea, he uʻi wau, kūpono, ʻaʻahu nani a me ke akamai? No ke aha lākou i hoʻolimalima ʻole ai, no ka mea, loaʻa iaʻu kahi kōpili maikaʻi?
ʻO nā manaʻo huna, nā hewa āna i ʻike wale ai, ʻo ka kumakaia iā ia iho a i ʻole nā mea ʻē aʻe, ke waiho nei kēia mau mea āpau i ka manaʻo o ke kanaka iā ia iho - a ma muli o ka manaʻo o ka poʻe a puni iā ia. ʻOiaʻiʻo, hiki iā ʻoe ke lilo i psychopath narcissistic a hoʻōki i ka hilahila a me ka hewa no kekahi o kāu mau hana. He ʻakaʻaka kēia, akā aia kekahi ʻoiaʻiʻo.
ʻAʻole i hoʻokumu ʻia ke kiʻi kūloko o kēlā me kēia o mākou e nā manaʻo a me nā hana i loko o lākou iho, akā ma ko mākou ʻano iā lākou, kā mākou loiloi. Inā ʻae ka ʻōnaehana waiwai kūloko iā ʻoe e kīkē i kahi ʻīlio hele hewa a ʻaʻole i manaʻo ʻia he hana maikaʻi ʻole, a laila ʻaʻole e ʻeha ka ʻike ʻana iā ʻoe iho a me ke kiʻi o loko, e mau ana ka nani. No laila, no nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, e hoʻolaha ʻia ʻo ia ma ke ʻano he nani.
He mea kaumaha ia, akā he ʻoiaʻiʻo: hilahila ʻole, naʻau ʻole, malihini i ka moʻomeheu kanaka maʻamau, nani loa nā psychopaths no kēia kumu. ʻO ko lākou kiʻi i loko o lākou iho he mea kūpono ʻole, ʻaʻohe o nā hana ʻino a lākou e hana ai.
Pehea e hoʻololi ai i ke kiʻi o loko o ʻoe iho
Akā, lanakila mau ka mālamalama i ka pouli. Aia kahi ala e hoʻihoʻi mai i kahi kiʻi kūloko nani o ʻoe iho, ʻoiai inā ua ʻino loa ia. ʻO ka mea mua, pono ʻoe e ʻae i kou aka. He mea nui loa. Pono ia. Pono ʻoe e ʻae i kou aka i ʻole e ʻeke i ka hilahila no kou ʻano maoli.
No laila ʻaʻole e pale ka ʻeha hiki ʻole iā ʻoe mai ke alo ʻana i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo a ʻike i kou wahi i kēia manawa. A ua ʻike mua i ka hoʻomaka ʻana, ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ke kūkulu ʻana i kahi hoʻolālā no ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i ka pilikia. ʻO kahi kaulahao lōʻihi o nā kumu a me nā hopena e lawe mai iā mākou i kēia manawa kahi o kēlā me kēia o mākou i kēia manawa, a mai kēia kūlana e pono ai mākou e aʻo e hana i nā ala i waho - e hana i nā hana hou, e noʻonoʻo i nā manaʻo hou, manaʻo hou. manaʻo, hoʻoholo hou. E neʻe aku mai nā ʻano maʻamau.
Pono e hoʻoikaika i ka makemake e kūkulu hou a puka i waho o ke ʻano maʻamau.
ʻAʻole pili i ka weliweli o ka hana kūpono, ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻoponopono iā ia iho. Akā hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻololi i kou wā e hiki mai ana ma o nā ʻano hana hou: e ʻoi aku ma mua o nā mea kahiko me nā manaʻo hou, maikaʻi, kūpono, nani a me nā hana.
Me kēlā me kēia ʻano hou e komo i ka ʻike ʻole, ʻike ʻia nā ʻāpana hou a hoʻomaka ʻia nā pōʻai hou e lawe i kāu kiʻi hou i ka poʻe a puni ʻoe: nani, kūpono, ikaika. ʻAʻole kīnā ʻole, ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻaʻole, ʻaʻohe mea kūpono, akā ʻoi aku ka nani o kēia kiʻi hou, kūpono a ʻoi aku ka ikaika ma mua o ka wā i hala.
Akā, pono kēia i kahi hoʻoikaika o ka makemake e kūkulu hou a puka i waho o ke ʻano maʻamau. A i kekahi manawa he nui ka ikaika o ka inertia a nui ka hoʻowalewale e hoʻi i nā ala kahiko. Inā ʻaʻole lawa ka hoʻoikaika kūʻokoʻa, pono ʻoe e noi i ke kōkua mai nā ʻohana a i ʻole nā mea loea - a hoʻomau i ka hoʻololi ʻana i nā manaʻo, nā huaʻōlelo, nā hana i mea e hoʻokokoke ai i kahi kiʻi hou o ʻoe iho.