Aia kekahi moʻolelo i loko o kā mākou moʻomeheu e nalowale nā wahine i kā lākou hoʻopiʻi wahine ma hope o 40-45 a hoʻomaka i kahi noho mehameha, kaumaha me ke kāne ʻole. No ke aha ʻaʻole pēlā a no ke aha i ʻoi aku ka nani o ka wahine makua ma mua o kahi ʻōpio?
ʻO ka moʻomeheu o ka ʻōpio a me ka nani, i hoʻokomo ʻia i loko o mākou e ka ʻoihana o ke ʻano, cosmetology a me ke ʻano ola olakino, kuhikuhi pololei i kēlā ʻano ʻano. Akā e nānā a puni. ʻO nā wāhine ma hope o 40, he nani, ikaika, nani. A ʻo ka hapa nui o lākou he satellite ma kahi kokoke. ʻAʻole hoihoi ka wahine i ka moe kolohe. Inā ʻaʻole ʻo ka moekolohe i waena o kāna mau waiwai.
ʻO ka makahiki o ka emi ʻana o ka moekolohe wahine he 30-40 mau makahiki. Ke ulu wale nei ka libido o ka wahine me ka makahiki, akā aia i loko o kēia wā pilikanaka e hele mai ai nā hana ʻē aʻe i mua a ʻaʻole lawa ka ikaika no ke ola wahine piha. ʻOi aku ka nui o ka loaʻa ʻana o ka wahine e hana ana ma ke keʻena a i ʻole ma ke kahua pāʻani me kahi keiki ma mua o kahi moe me ke kāne. Akā ma hope o 40 hiki mai ka lua o ka lā.
No ke aha i ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā wahine makua
Ma 40-45, ua hoʻokō ka wahine i kāna mau hana waiwai a me ka pilikanaka, ua ʻike ʻo ia iā ia iho he wahine a me ka makuahine, a ke hoʻi mālie nei i ke ao o nā leʻaleʻa kino.
No nā wahine ʻōpio, ʻaʻohe waiwai o ka moekolohe iā ia iho. Ke ʻimi nei lākou i mea ʻoi aku ma mua o kahi hoa pili. Ke alo nei lakou i ka hana o ka mare ana, ka loaa ana o na keiki. Ua hoʻonohonoho lākou i nā manaʻo e pili ana i kā lākou hoa. Aʻo ka moekolohe maikaʻi ke kāohi pinepineʻia e nā manaʻo o ke kaikamahine e pili ana i ka mākaukau o ka hoa e mare iā ia, inā paha e hiki iā ia ke hoʻolako i kaʻohana.
Manaʻo ka wahine makua i ka moekolohe he waiwai iā ia iho. Pono ʻo ia i ka leʻaleʻa kino. ʻAʻohe mea ʻē aʻe. Ua male mua ʻo ia, ma ke ʻano he kānāwai. I ka hapanui o nā hihia, ua loaʻa iā ia nā keiki, ua kūkulu ʻia ke kumu waiwai, nā hoaaloha a me kahi ʻoihana e hoʻokō i nā pono ʻē aʻe. ʻAʻohe mea i manaʻo ʻia e hoʻokumu i ka ʻāʻī i loko o kahi pilina pili. No laila, hiki ke ola moe kolohe me ka piha piha, ke alo a me ka hāʻawi pio ʻana.
2. Ua ʻoi aku ka naʻau a me ka orgasmic
Me ka makahiki, e ulu ana ka moekolohe o ka wahine. Ua hōʻoia kēia e nā wahine a pau 45+ aʻu i nīnauele ai. ʻOi aku ka nui o ka ʻike pili i ka wahine, ʻoi aku ka kiʻekiʻe o kona naʻau, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka orgasmic. Pono ka wahine maikaʻi i ke alo piha i kēia manawa "ma ʻaneʻi a i kēia manawa", a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kēia no nā wahine makua ma muli o ka nele o nā manaʻo extraneous a me ka ʻeha.
Makaʻu nā wāhine i ka makahiki, no ka mea, pili ia i ka nalowale o ka nani o waho. Ua mae ka ʻili, nalowale ka leo o nā ʻiʻo, ʻike ʻia nā wrinkles ma ka maka, hina hina ka lauoho. Manaʻo lākou me ka lilo ʻana o ka nani e emi ana ka makemake.
Ke hopohopo nui nei nō hoʻi lākou i nā hanana i alakaʻi i ke ʻano o nā hemahema o waho - nā pōʻino, nā hana. A pinepine, no ka haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa, hōʻole lākou i ka moekolohe.
Hiki iā ia ke hoʻokalakupua, hoʻowalewale i ka waha a i ʻole ka waha ʻole, lawe i ka hana ma ka moekolohe
Makemake au e hōʻoiaʻiʻo iā ʻoe. ʻAʻole nā mea a pau "aloha me ko lākou mau maka." ʻO nā hiʻohiʻona wale nō. Aia kekahi mau kinesthetics e "aloha me ka ʻili", he mea nui nā manaʻo tactile no lākou. Aia kekahi poʻe auditory e "aloha me ko lākou mau pepeiao", a aia kekahi poʻe i hoʻokumu ʻia e ka honi.
ʻAʻole kēia mau kāne e hoʻohaʻahaʻa iā ʻoe ma muli o nā wrinkles a i ʻole cellulite. Manaʻo nui lākou i kou ʻala, pehea ʻoe e pane ai i ka hoʻopā ʻana a me ke kani ʻana o kou leo.
Inā hoʻoikaika ke kāne i nā manaʻo a pau, hiki iā ia ke mahalo nui i ka moekolohe o ka wahine makua. Akā ʻo ia nā kāne a mākou e kapa ai he sexy a makemake mākou e lilo i mau hoa.
3. Ua ʻoi aku ko lākou hoihoi, makemake a me ka manaʻo
He nui ka ʻike ola o ka wahine makua. Aia ʻo ia i nā kūlana like ʻole, hana hewa, hana i nā hopena. Ua hana nui ʻo ia i kāna mau paʻakikī a me nā palena. No laila, ʻoi aku ka nui o ke kūʻokoʻa a me ka emi ʻana o ka hilahila i loko o kāna moe kolohe. Hōʻike pololei ia i nā pono a me nā makemake. Hiki iā ia ke hoʻokalakupua, hoʻowalewale i ka waha a i ʻole ka waha ʻole, lawe i ka hana ma ka moekolohe. A ʻo kāna ʻano i ka pili ʻana i ka moekolohe ʻoi aku ka "holoholona", manuahi a kūlohelohe.
ʻO kahi hui nui o nā hiʻohiʻona o ka moe kolohe e hāʻawi iā ia i nā manawa hou aʻe e makemake ai a ʻike ʻia i ka moekolohe, a me ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi hoa moe kūpono no kahi pilina aloha a hauʻoli.
4. Ua ʻoi aku ko lākou kūʻokoʻa i ke koho ʻana i nā hoa.
ʻO ke kūʻokoʻa o loko a me waho, a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo aia ma ka piko o ka moekolohe, hiki i ka wahine 45+ ke noʻonoʻo i nā kāne mai 25 mau makahiki he mau hoa pili pili i ka makahiki i ka wā e paʻa ai ke kāne.
Hoʻokaʻawale pinepine nā kāne ma hope o ka hiki ʻana o nā kāne i ka makahiki o 40-45 mau makahiki. ʻO ke kumu maʻamau ka pilikia me ke ola wahine. I kekahi manawa hele nā kāne i nā wahine ʻōpio. ʻAʻole liʻiliʻi pinepine, hele nā wahine i nā kāne ʻōpio.
Ma ke ʻano he psychologist a psychotherapist, hoʻolohe au i nā moʻolelo o nā mea kūʻai aku a ʻike wau i nā hihia he 10-20 mau makahiki ʻoi aku ka wahine huna a ke kāne ma mua o kāna wahine a me ia iho. ʻO ke kumu i loko o nā pōʻai olaola o nā kāne a me nā wahine.
ʻO ka Sex kahi ala e hāʻawi ai ʻoe i kāu hoa i kou aloha a loaʻa iā ia. ʻO ka moekolohe ka neʻe o ke ola
ʻO ke kiʻekiʻe o ka moekolohe o ke kāne ma waena o 25 a 30 mau makahiki. ʻO ke kiʻekiʻe o ka moekolohe o ka wahine ma mua o ka menopause 45-55 mau makahiki. No laila, ho'ōki ka hoa hoa i kekahi manawa i ka hoʻomāʻona ʻana i ka wahine makua kāne, a loaʻa iā ia kahi hoa ʻōpio nona ka libido kiʻekiʻe e like me kāna.
Inā he mea koʻikoʻi ka nani o waho o ka wahine no ke kāne, ua nalowale ʻo ia i ka makemake moe kolohe i ka hoa o ka makahiki like me ka makahiki a loaʻa iā ia kahi wahine ʻōpio. Akā ma ka laulā, ʻoiai ua like ke kiʻekiʻe o ka moekolohe o ke kāne o 45-50 a me ka wahine o 25, ʻoi aku ka haʻahaʻa ma mua o ka wahine o 45-50 a me kāna hoa ʻōpio.
5. Ua oo ko lakou noonoo
Hoʻopili ʻia ka moekolohe me nā pilina ma ka laulā, me nā manaʻo o nā hoa. ʻO ka wahine o ka makahiki oʻo a me ka psychologically ʻoi aku ke oʻo, no laila, ma ke ʻano nui, hana i nā pilina ʻoi aku ka harmonious. Ua ʻoi aku kona ʻike, ʻae, kala ʻana, lokomaikaʻi, aloha. A he mea koʻikoʻi ke ʻano o ka manaʻo nui o ka pilina no ka wahine.
Aia nā palena a pau i ko mākou poʻo. 'Ōlelo kekahi mau wāhine: "Ma hea e loaʻa ai iaʻu kahi kāne maikaʻi? ʻAʻole lākou. Akā no ke kāne, ʻaʻole i emi iki ka waiwai o ka wahine ma mua o ka wahine. E hoʻolohe pinepine i ka nānā ʻana o nā kāne iā ʻoe, e pane i nā hoʻomaikaʻi, mai haʻalele koke i nā hoʻāʻo e ʻike kekahi i kekahi.
E nānā i ke kanaka i mua ou, e ʻike iā ia. Ke ʻimi nei nō hoʻi lākou i hoa moe kolohe kūpono a hauʻoli nō hoʻi inā loaʻa iā lākou kekahi.
"Inā loaʻa kahi coincidence, a laila hele ʻoe me he mea lā ua uhi ʻia ʻoe i ka hau kō," i haʻi mai iaʻu kahi hoaaloha, he wahine ma luna o 45 o ke ʻano maʻamau. ʻO ka coincidence i ka moekolohe ke kī i ka hauʻoli ma nā ʻano ʻē aʻe o ka pilina.
ʻAʻohe hilahila i ka hōʻike ʻana i kou moekolohe. ʻO ka Sex kahi ala e hāʻawi ai i kāu hoa i kou aloha a loaʻa i kāna aloha, kahi āu e hoʻololi ai i ka ikehu. ʻO ka moekolohe ka neʻe o ke ola.