Contents
- ʻO ka hoʻomohala ʻana o Psychosexual: i ka makahiki hea e nīnau ai ke keiki i nā nīnau?
- ʻIke pili i ka moe kolohe: No ka mea, ʻaʻole kūpono ke kula
- Pehea e kamaʻilio ai i nā keiki e pili ana i ka moekolohe: pono mākou e inoa e ola, nīnau a pale
- E aʻo e pili ana i ka moekolohe i nā keiki: ua ʻike mua lākou i kekahi mau mea, akā maikaʻi ʻole
- Pehea e wehewehe ai i ka moe kolohe i nā keiki: ka hoʻomālamalama ʻana me ka ʻole o ka paipai ʻana
Inā loaʻa kahi nīnau i maʻalahi ʻole e kamaʻilio ma ke ʻano he makua, me kāna keiki, ʻaʻole kānalua ia o ka moekolohe. Makaʻu ʻaʻole e kamaʻilio pono e pili ana iā ia, ʻaʻole kūpono no ia, no ka hoʻoulu ʻana iā ia, ʻoluʻolu ʻole i kēia mau nīnau pili ...
Nui nā kumu no ka ʻaʻa ʻole e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka moekolohe me kāu keiki. Akā ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hana ʻana iā ia iho e lanakila ai iā lākou, no ka mea, he kuleana ko ka makua i ka hoʻonaʻauao ʻana i ka manaʻo a me ka moekolohe o ke keiki, ʻo ia. hoʻohui i nā "poʻe loea", e hana mau ana ma ke kula.
E hoʻomanaʻo e kamaʻilio mākou ma ʻaneʻi me ka manawaleʻaka hoʻonaʻauao manaʻo a me ka moekolohe, no ka mea, pili kēia i nā mea he nui, e like me ka haʻahaʻa, ka manaʻo ponoʻī, ka mahalo i nā mea ʻē aʻe, ka ʻae ʻana, ka moekolohe, ke kiʻi kino, nā manaʻo, nā pilina pili aloha, ke ola male, etc. Eia kekahi mau kumu maikaʻi, i nā kikoʻī, e kūkākūkā ka makua i kēia mau kumuhana āpau me kāna keiki.
ʻO ka hoʻomohala ʻana o Psychosexual: i ka makahiki hea e nīnau ai ke keiki i nā nīnau?
No ke aha kēia, he aha kēia, he aha ke ʻano o kēia ... Aia kekahi mau makahiki, ma'amau ma waena o 2 a me 4 makahiki, i ka wā e ho'omaka ai ke keiki e nīnau. A ʻaʻole mālama ʻia ke kahua o ka moekolohe a me ka pilina! Mai "No ke aha ʻaʻole i loaʻa i nā kaikamāhine he penis?" ma "he aha ka homosexual?"Maalo ae"i koʻu wā nui e loaʻa iaʻu nā ū?”, ʻO nā nīnau a nā keiki e pili ana i ka moekolohe pinepine i nā mākua, hopohopo i ka ʻike ʻana iā lākou e noʻonoʻo nei i kēia ʻano mea.
A ʻo kēia makemake e ʻike, ʻo kēia ʻike i manaʻo ʻole ʻia, hoʻomau pinepine a hiki i ke kula waena a i ʻole ke kula kiʻekiʻe, ʻoiai inā ʻaʻole i loaʻa i ke keiki i lilo i ʻōpio nā pane i kāna mau nīnau.
ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi e hoʻāʻoe pane mai me na huaolelo kupono i ka makahiki o ke keiki, ma mua o ka waiho wale ʻana iā ia me kāna mau nīnau e hoʻoholo ai ʻo ia i ka "hilahila" a kapu, ʻoiai ʻaʻohe mea makemake e pane iā ia.
He kūpono kēia ʻimi pili pili a me ka moekolohe, ʻaʻole kūʻē i ka mahalo a i ʻole ka haʻahaʻa. Hiki iā mākou ke ʻimi a mahalo, ʻimi a haʻahaʻa, e kahakaha ana iā Maëlle Challan Belval, ke kākā'ōlelo male a me ka mea kākau o ka puke "Aa e kamailio no ia mea! ʻIke pehea e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ke aloha a me ka moekolohe me kāu mau keiki”, Hoʻopuka ʻia e Interéditions.
ʻIke pili i ka moe kolohe: No ka mea, ʻaʻole kūpono ke kula
Ma ke ʻano he makua ʻoluʻolu ʻole i kēia mau nīnau, hiki iā mākou ke hoʻowalewale ʻia e hōʻoluʻolu iā mākou iho ma ka haʻi ʻana iā mākou iho e hoʻopaʻa hope ke kula i ke kumuhana o ka moekolohe, a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o mākou. .
ʻO ka mea pōʻino, kakaʻikahi kēia. Inā he kuleana ko ke kula i ka hoʻonaʻauao ʻana i ka manaʻo a me ka moekolohe o ke keiki, ʻaʻole ia e pāʻani mau ana e like me ka manaʻo o kekahi. Ka nele o ka manawa, nā limahana kūpono a me ka manawaleʻa ʻO ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i kēia mau kumuhana, a i ʻole ka makemake ʻole o kekahi mau kumu, he mea keakea.
ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo ka hoʻonaʻauao ʻana i ka moekolohe ke kumuhana o ke kānāwai ma Farani mai 2001. Akā ʻo kēia i kaupalena pinepine ʻia i nā nīnau e pili ana i ka biology a me ke anatomy, ka hāpai ʻana, ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa ʻana a me nā maʻi i lawe ʻia e ka wahine (STI), HIV / AIDS i ke alakaʻi. A hiki hope loa i ke ola o ke keiki.
Ka hopena: Inā ʻo kēia wale nō ke kumu o ka ʻike no ka wā ʻōpio, e hana paha kēia mau haʻawina i ka moekolohe. hoʻopili i ka moekolohe me kahi mea haumia, weliweli, "pilikia". Eia kekahi, paʻakikī pinepine i kahi ʻōpio ʻōpio e nīnau i nā nīnau pili i mua o kāna mau hoa papa a pau no ka hopohopo o hoʻohenehene ʻia.
Pehea e kamaʻilio ai i nā keiki e pili ana i ka moekolohe: pono mākou e inoa e ola, nīnau a pale
Pua liʻiliʻi, zezette, kitty, kiki, pussy… Inā kēia huaʻōlelo "nani"Hiki, i ka pōʻai ʻohana, ke hoʻohana ʻia e koho i ka wahine wahine, ʻoiai naʻe mea nui e kapa i na mea e like me ia.
No ka mea, ʻaʻole wale ka inoa e hiki ai ke hoʻokaʻawale (ma ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i nā ʻāpana anatomical, ma mua o ka hoʻokomo ʻana i nā puʻupuʻu a me nā vulvae i ka hīnaʻi hoʻokahi), akā e ola pū kekahi.
ʻO kahi kaikamahine ʻōpio ʻaʻole i lohe i ka ʻōlelo maoli no kāna moe kolohe, ʻaʻole ia e hoʻohana i kekahi huaʻōlelo ma mua o ka hoʻoholo ʻana i ka huaʻōlelo keiki āna i hoʻohana ai a hiki i kēlā manawa, a ʻoi aku paha ka hewa, e hoʻohana i nā huaʻōlelo. nā huaʻōlelo ʻino mai nā huaʻōlelo o ke kulanui, ʻaʻole i mahalo nui ʻia ("pussy" ma ke ʻano). ʻO Ditto no kahi keikikāne, pono nō hoʻi e ʻike he penis maoli ka penis, ʻaʻole he "cock".
Eia kekahi, ʻo ka inoa o nā mea hiki no hoi ke hoomaopopo ia ke keiki, e nīnau i nā poʻe mākua e pili ana i kekahi mau hana, kekahi mau manaʻo pili a i ʻole kekahi mau ʻano hōʻino.
Ua haʻi ʻo Maëlle Challan Belval i ka hihia kaumaha o kahi kaikamahine i ʻike ʻole i ke ʻano o ke kūkulu ʻana i nā keikikāne, a haʻi ʻo ia, i kona ʻike ʻana, ʻo ia kona manaʻo i kona noho ʻana ma ka ʻūhā o ke kaʻa kaʻa. ʻAʻole maopopo ka hihia ma laila a pono ka mea hope e pane no kāna mau hana, ʻoiai ua pale ʻia ke keiki.
No laila he mea koʻikoʻi iae hoʻomaopopo i ke keiki i kekahi mau manawa ma ke kumuhana hoʻokahi e kūlike i ka makahiki o ke keiki, ka mea hiki iā ia ke hoʻomaopopo a me kāna mea e ʻike ai ma muli o kona mau makahiki. No laila pono ka ʻike i hāʻawi ʻia i ke keiki e pili ana i ka moekolohe hou, hoonui, hoonuiia i ka ulu ʻana o ke keiki, e like me ke kūʻai ʻana i nā lole hou nona.
E aʻo e pili ana i ka moekolohe i nā keiki: ua ʻike mua lākou i kekahi mau mea, akā maikaʻi ʻole
ʻO ke kīwī, ka loaʻa ʻana o ka pūnaewele a me nā kiʻi ponoʻī, nā puke, nā mea hoʻokalakupua, nā kahua pāʻani… Hiki i ka moekolohe ke komo i ke ola o ke keiki ma nā ʻano he nui. ʻO ka hopena, ʻike pinepine ʻia nā keiki ma mua o ka ʻike ʻana o nā mākua, hiki iā lākou ke ʻike iā lākou he "na kanaka hala ole”.
Ma ka ʻike ʻana i ka nui o ka ʻike o kāna keiki, hiki iā mākou ke haʻi iā mākou iho ua ʻike nui ʻo ia, ʻoi aku paha, a no laila, ʻaʻole pono mākou e hoʻohui hou.
ʻO ka mea pōʻino, e like me kā Maëlle Challan Belval i kuhikuhi ai, ʻaʻole manaʻo e hoʻolaha ʻia, a i ʻole maikaʻi loa ʻike. "ʻAʻole ʻike nā keiki no ka mea ua manaʻo mākou ua ʻike lākou”, Hōʻuluʻulu i ka loea i kāna puke ma ke kumuhana. emi iho e waiho i kā lāua keiki i mea aʻo e kūpono i ka inoa, a laila e kamaʻilio pū me ia inā makemake ʻo ia, ʻaʻole i loaʻa ka ʻike maoli, mahalo, piha a me ka hewa ʻole o ka moe kolohe ka nui o nā media e ʻike ʻia e ia. “ʻO ka varnish ponokala, kahi e hoʻonāwaliwali ai i nā mākua a i ʻole nā mea hoʻonaʻauao, he mea hūnā pinepine ia.”, Deplores Maëlle Challan Belval, nāna i kono i nā mākua ʻaʻole e hoʻonāwaliwali i ka hoʻolaha ʻana.
Pehea e wehewehe ai i ka moe kolohe i nā keiki: ka hoʻomālamalama ʻana me ka ʻole o ka paipai ʻana
Ma ke ʻano he makua, hopohopo paha ʻoe ʻo ke kamaʻilio ʻana e pili ana i ka moekolohe me kāu keiki e paipai iā lākou e hana,"hāʻawi i nā manaʻo".
Wahi a kahi noiʻi ʻAmelika mai Iune 2019 i paʻi ʻia ma ka "ʻO JAMA"A ma hope o ka hahai ʻana ma kahi o 12 mau ʻōpio mai 500 a 9, e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka moekolohe me kā lākou mau keiki. paipai i ka palekana maikaʻi, a ʻaʻole e hoʻonui i ka makahiki o ko lākou manawa mua. ʻO nā keiki i pōmaikaʻi mai nā kūkākūkā ākea, ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka condom a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo me ko lākou mau mākua e pili ana i kā lākou ʻike moe kolohe. Ua ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke kamaʻilio ʻana i ka wahine i ka wā i hana ʻia ai ma mua o ka makahiki 14, a i ka lōʻihi o 10 mau hola i ka nui.
Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, e loaʻa ka hopena o ka affective a me ka hoʻonaʻauao wahine e noʻonoʻo i ke keiki, e kōkua iā ia e koho, e hoʻonoho iā ia iho, e oʻo ... I ka pōkole, e lilo i kanaka makua kūʻokoʻa, kuleana a ʻike.
Nā kumu a me nā ʻike hou aku:
- "Aa e kamailio no ia mea! ʻIke pehea e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ke aloha a me ka moekolohe me kāu mau keiki”, Maëlle Challan Belval, Editions Interéditions