Pono ʻoe e haʻi mau i kāu hoa pili i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo?

Aia kekahi mau manawa he mea hiki ʻole ke haʻi i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo me ka ʻole o ka hakakā ʻana, ka hōʻeha ʻana iā ʻoe iho, a i ʻole ke kipaku ʻana iā ʻoe iho i kahi kihi. Hoʻopunipuni kekahi i kekahi i kekahi manawa: hoʻohaʻahaʻa a hoʻonui paha i kekahi mea, ʻoluʻolu a noho mālie. Akā, he mea pōʻino mau ka wahaheʻe?

Aia ma ka inoa o ke ano maikai

I kekahi manawa, no ka hoʻokō ʻana i nā lula o ke kamaʻilio, pono ʻoe e haʻi i ka hapalua ʻoiaʻiʻo. Inā nīnau ka wahine, "Pehea kou lā?", ʻaʻole paha ʻo ia i mākaukau e hoʻolohe i nā hoʻopiʻi e pili ana i nā hoa hana a me ka luna. ʻO kāna nīnau he hōʻike ia o ka politeness, kahi i maʻa ai nā hoa ʻelua. Ke ʻōlelo ʻoe, "Ua maikaʻi," ua like ia me ka wahaheʻe ʻole. ʻO ʻoe hoʻi, e hahai i nā lula i kākau ʻole ʻia o ke kamaʻilio.

ʻOi aku ka hewa o ka haʻi mau ʻana kekahi i kekahi i nā mea a pau e manaʻo ai. Hiki i ke kāne ke wehewehe i kāna wahine i ka maikaʻi o ke kākau ʻōlelo ʻōpio, akā ʻoi aku ka naʻauao o ka mālama ʻana iā ʻoe iho. ʻAʻole kūpono paha kekahi o kā mākou mau manaʻo, pono ʻole, a ʻoluʻolu paha. I kekahi manawa makemake ʻoe e haʻi i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, akā ke kaupaona nei mākou i nā pono a me nā pōʻino ma mua o ka hana ʻana pēlā.

ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo a i ʻole ka lokomaikaʻi?

Hana mākou e like me ke kūlana a ʻōlelo mākou i ka mea i kūpono i kekahi manawa. Hiki iā ʻoe, no ka laʻana, e huki i ka manaʻo o kahi mea hele a i ʻole kekahi hoa hana: "Ua wehe ʻia kāu pihi" - a i ʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke noho mālie.

Mai hoolei aku i na olelo pololei e like me "ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke kū i ke kiʻi o kou mau mākua āu i paʻi ai a hāʻawi mai iaʻu no koʻu lā hānau."

Aia kekahi mau kūlana i ka manawa kūpono ʻole e haʻi i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, akā pono ia, a pono ʻoe e koho i nā huaʻōlelo, intonation a me ka manawa. Hiki ke pane ʻia ka nīnau like me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, akā ma nā ʻano like ʻole.

Nīnau: "No ke aha ʻoe e kūʻē nei i kaʻu mau hālāwai me nā hoaaloha?"

Haʻina hewa: "No ka mea, he pupule lakou a pau, a aohe ou mana maluna o oe iho, hiki ia oe ke inu a hana i kekahi mea."

Pane kūpono: “Ke hopohopo nei au o inu paha ʻoe. Nui nā kāne hoʻokahi a puni, a nani ʻoe.

Nīnau: "E mare ʻoe iaʻu?"

Haʻina hewa: "ʻAʻole noʻu ka male."

Pane kūpono: "Makemake au i ka ulu ʻana o kā mākou pilina, akā ʻaʻole wau i mākaukau no ia kuleana."

Nīnau: "Ke nānā aku nei au i ka momona i kēia mau'ōmaʻomaʻo'ōmaʻomaʻo pōkole?"

Haʻina hewa: "Ma muli o kou momona wale nō kou nānā ʻana, ʻaʻole no kou ʻaʻahu."

Pane kūpono: "Manaʻo wau ua kūpono nā jeans iā ʻoe."

Aia ma hope o nā ʻōlelo ke kumu

Nui nā ʻano e ʻoiaʻiʻo a lokomaikaʻi i ka manawa like. Ke ʻike ʻole ʻoe i ka mea e ʻōlelo ai a makaʻu paha e haʻi i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi e noi i kahi manawa e noʻonoʻo ai.

No ka laʻana, ua kāhāhā ʻia ʻoe me ka nīnau "Aloha ʻoe iaʻu?". Mai hoʻopunipuni i ke kanaka a hoʻāʻo e hoʻololi i ke kamaʻilio ʻana i kahi kumuhana ʻē aʻe. I ka wā e pili ana i kahi mea nui, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka ʻōlelo pololei.

Pono ka ʻoiaʻiʻo i loko o ka pilina, akā ʻaʻole koi ʻia, e like me ka haʻi ʻana i kāu hoa pili i ko lākou honi ʻokoʻa ke aloha ʻoe.

Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ia mea - he aha ka hopena ke hoʻāʻo ʻoe e hūnā i kekahi mea? Makaʻu paha ʻoe inā ʻoe e haʻi i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, hiki mai kekahi mea ʻino? Makemake ʻoe e hoʻopaʻi i kekahi? ʻAʻole hiki ke maʻalahi? Ke hoʻāʻo nei ʻoe e pale iā ʻoe iho a i kāu hoa pili?

Inā ʻoe e noʻonoʻo i ke kumu o kou hoʻopunipuni, e pōmaikaʻi kāu pilina mai ia mea.

E pili ana i ka mea kākau: ʻO Jason Whiting he mea lapaʻau ʻohana a he kaukaʻi no ka psychology.