Ua hiki i kēia manaʻo ke keʻa i nā makahiki mai ka wā kahiko ʻo Greek Greece kahi a Plato e haʻi ai i ka moʻo o ka hānau ʻana o ke aloha i kāna puke Kaumaha :

« He kino poepoe nā kānaka, he poʻo me nā helehelena ʻelua, ʻehā mau lima a ʻehā mau wāwae, e hāʻawi ana iā lākou i ka mana e hiki ai iā lākou ke hoʻokūkū me nā akua. ʻO ka hope, ʻaʻole makemake e pilikia i ka lilo ʻana o ko lākou kūlana kiʻekiʻe, ua hoʻoholo, e hoʻonāwaliwali i kēia mau kānaka nui, e ʻokiʻoki iā lākou i ʻelua mau ʻāpana, hana ʻia kēlā me kēia me ke alo hoʻokahi, ʻelua mau lima a ʻelua mau wāwae. He aha i hana ʻia. Akā i ka manawa hoʻokahi i kaʻawale, hana wale nā ​​ʻāpana ʻelua i ka loaʻa ʻana o kā lākou hapa i nalowale i mea e hoʻoponopono ai i hoʻokahi mea: ʻo kēia ke kumu o ke aloha. ". Unuhi ʻia mai kā Yves-Alexandre Thalmann puke, e lilo ana i hoa ʻuhane.

No laila, ʻo nā kāne he hapalua wale nō ke kuleana no ka ʻimi ʻana i kā lākou hapalua ʻē aʻe i ka maikaʻi, ʻo ka mea ʻino ʻē aʻe i hapa, i mea e piha ai.

Loaʻa iā mākou i loko o kēia kaʻao nā ʻano 3 o ke kumumanaʻo o ka ʻuhane: ʻo ka piha i loaʻa, ka leka kūpono a me ka like o nā ʻāpana ʻelua.

ʻO ke kaulike, pili maikaʻi nā ʻuhane ʻelua: ʻaʻohe hakakā e hoʻohaunaele i kahi kūlike mau. Eia kekahi, ʻaʻohe mea like me ke kanaka ʻē aʻe ma mua o kāna ʻuhane: kaʻana like ka ʻelua i nā ʻono like, nā makemake like, nā waiwai like, nā manaʻo like o nā mea, ke ʻano like o ke ola ... Ma kahi pae kūpono, ʻike ka ikaika i ka ʻo ke ola o ka hoa ʻuhane ka mea nui kūlana. 

ʻO wai ka mea i ʻoi aku i nā māhoe like i hiki ke kūlike i ka kaao i haʻi ʻia e ke ʻano o Plato? Ke hele mai nei mai ka pūnana hua like, kaʻana like lākou i ka code gen. Akā naʻe, ʻaʻole kākoʻo nā noiʻi ʻana i kēia manaʻo, ʻoiai ua ʻike lāua i kahi pilina pili loa e hoʻopilikia pinepine nei i kekahi poʻe ʻē aʻe. Aia nā hakakā a me ka pilina ma waena o nā māhoe 2 mai kahi lōʻihi o kahi kahawai mālie. ʻAʻole like ka like me ka pae psychic a me ke kino no ka mea ʻaʻole e hōʻoia i ke kūlike o ka pilina. I nā huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe, ʻoiai inā ʻike mākou i kēia hoa ʻuhane, ua nalo i waena o nā piliona o nā kānaka ʻē aʻe, ʻo ka pilina e hiki ai iā mākou ke hoʻokumu me ia ke loaʻa ʻole ka manawa o ke kuikahi piha. 

Inā kū maoli kahi hoa ʻuhane, lahilahi nā manawa o ka hālāwai ʻana me ia.

ʻO ia kahi heluna kanaka o 7 biliona mau kānaka. Ma ka hoʻopau ʻana i nā keiki a me nā poʻe i huli i ke aloha (e like me nā ʻaoʻao haipule), aia nō he 3 biliona mau kānaka hiki.

Ke manaʻo nei aia kahi waihona pūnaewele e hōʻike nei i kēia mau kānaka 3 biliona, a ʻo ka helehelena wale nō ke ʻike i kahi hoa ʻuhane (ma ke kumu kūpono o ke aloha i ka ʻike mua ʻana) uku paneʻe o 380 mau hola i kēlā me kēia lā.

ʻO ke likelihood o kahi hoa ʻuhane ke kanaka mua i ʻike ʻia e hoʻokokoke i kēlā Ke lanakila nei i ka jackpot o kahi lotere aupuni.

I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, hui wale mākou ma waena o 1000 a me 10 mau poʻe: no laila liʻiliʻi ka likelika o ka hui ʻana i kāu ʻuhane, ʻoiai no ka mea pono nō hoʻi e hoʻomaopopo ʻia ke loli mau nei mākou. ʻAʻole paha he mea kōkua maikaʻi ke kanaka kūpono i ka makahiki o 000 iā mākou i ka makahiki 20. No laila he mea pono e mālama ʻia ka hui o ka hoa kāne ma kahi manawa maikaʻi loa a i ʻole e ulu pono ka ʻuhane i ka like like. ala a ma ka helu like me mākou. Ke ʻike ʻoe i ke koʻikoʻi o nā hopena o ke kaiapuni i nā loli o ke kino a me ka noʻonoʻo, he mea hiki ʻole loa ia ...

Eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻole pono ka "manaʻoʻiʻo" e "hiki" a i ʻole "ʻoiaʻiʻo" ke loaʻa nā maikaʻi maikaʻi i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Auē, ma laila hou, ke kumumanaʻo o "mau ʻuhane" me he mea lā e hōʻeha i ka poʻe i manaʻoʻiʻo iā ia: hāʻawi ia i loko o lākou i ka makemake obsessive e loaʻa iā ia, disenchantment, hōʻoluʻolu ʻole, kaohi i nā pilina aloha a, ʻo ka hope loa, mehameha.

ʻO Yves-Alexandre Thalmann, i loko o kahi puke i hoʻolaʻa ʻia i ke kumuhana e hāʻawi ʻia i nā lima āpau, pani ʻia ke kumuhana ma ke ala nani loa: " ʻAʻole moe ka manaʻolana maoli i ka hiki ke loaʻa i kahi hoa ʻuhane, akā i ka hilinaʻi ʻo kā mākou kūpaʻa, kā mākou hana a me ko mākou makemake maikaʻi, ke like ka lōʻihi, hiki iā lākou ke hana i kekahi pilina aloha e hoʻonui a ʻoluʻolu hoʻi i ka manawa. ".

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