ʻO ke ʻōpio ka manawa ke ʻike ke keikikāne (kaikamahine) i ka moekolohe. ʻO nā mea āna i makemake ai, nā ʻano o kona kino, a me ka masturbation kekahi o lākou. ʻO nā mākua e hele i loko o ko lākou lumi moe a i ʻole ka lumipine me ka kīkēkē ʻole e noʻonoʻo hou i kā lākou maʻamau, no ka mea, pono pilikino kēia mau ʻōpio. He mea maʻamau ia i kēia makahiki, noʻonoʻo lākou e pili ana i ia mea, hoʻāʻo lākou, a hoʻololi i ka ʻike e pili ana i ka moekolohe.

No nā kenekulia he nui, ua hana hewa ʻia ka masturbation e ka ʻike hoʻomana. ʻO nā mea e pili pololei a pololei ʻole paha i ka moekolohe, e like me ka masturbation, ua manaʻo ʻia he haumia a pāpā ʻia ma waho o ka male ʻana. He mea maikaʻi ka hana moekolohe no ka hānau ʻana, akā ʻaʻole ka huaʻōlelo leʻaleʻa i ʻāpana o ka manawa.

Ua hoʻokuʻu ʻia ka moekolohe o Mei 68 i nā kino a lilo hou ka hana kuʻuna i hana maʻamau, i ka loaʻa ʻana o ke kino a me ka moekolohe. No nā wahine a me nā kāne. He mea nui e hoʻomanaʻo i kēia no ka mea i nā makahiki i hala iho nei ua haʻalele ʻia ka leʻaleʻa wahine.

Hāʻawi nā papa aʻo moekolohe ma ke kula i ka ʻike pōkole loa. "Kamaʻilio mākou e pili ana i ka hānau ʻana, genitalia, anatomy, akā ʻoi aku ka nui o ka moekolohe" kikoʻī ʻo Andrea Cauchoix, kumu aʻo aloha. No laila ʻike nā ʻōpio i kā lākou hoʻololi ʻana i ka ʻike hūnā pinepine ʻia mai nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni kiʻi ʻole e hoʻoulu ai i ka leʻaleʻa, ke aloha, ka mahalo i kā lākou hoa.

"I nā makahiki āpau, ʻaʻole maʻalahi ke kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka moekolohe me kou mau mākua, ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi i ka ʻōpio". He kuleana ko nā mākua e hana mua ma mua mai ka wā kamaliʻi. Ke hoʻomaka ke keikikāne a kaikamahine paha e "hoʻopā" a ʻike ʻo ia (kekahi) ʻoi aku ka ʻoluʻolu o kekahi mau wahi ma mua o nā mea ʻē aʻe. “Ma mua o nā mea āpau, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hoʻokū iā lākou a haʻi iā lākou he haumia. Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, he hōʻoiaʻiʻo ia no ke olakino noʻonoʻo maikaʻi a me ka hoʻomohala ʻana. Ma 4/5 mau makahiki, hiki iā lākou ke hoʻomaopopo he pono e hana ia ke waiho wale lākou ”. Hiki i nā kamaliʻi ke noʻonoʻo koke i ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ma ke ʻano he mea i pāpā ʻia a maikaʻi ʻole inā e ʻōlelo hōʻino ʻia lākou.

"Me ka nui ʻole o ka pīhoihoi, hiki i nā mākua ke hōʻailona wale i ka ʻōpio inā loaʻa iā ia kahi nīnau a pilikia paha, aia lākou ma laila e kamaʻilio ai." Hiki i kēia ʻōlelo maʻalahi ke hoʻowahāwahā i ka masturbation a hōʻike ʻaʻole kapu kēia kumuhana.

ʻO nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni "ʻAmelika" kahi hiʻohiʻona maikaʻi o kahi makuakāne e hoʻāʻo e kamaʻilio me kāna ʻōpio nāna e hoʻohana i nā pai ʻāpala e masturbate. Hilahila loa ʻo ia i ka wā e hoʻopuka ai kona makuakāne i kēia kumuhana, akā ke nui ʻo ia ua ʻike ʻo ia i ka laki i loaʻa iā ia kahi makua kāne i hoʻolohe.

Ke kikokiko ʻoe i nā huaʻōlelo wahine kaikamahine masturbation ma nā ʻenekini huli, eia naʻe ʻike mua ʻia nā pūnaewele pono ʻole.

Eia naʻe, hāʻawi nā puke a nā keiki i nā hana hoihoi. No nā poʻe ʻōpio ma mua, ʻo "ke alakaʻi i ka zizi moekolohe" hoʻopuka hou na Hélène Bruller lāua ʻo Zep, ka mea hoʻolālā o ka "Titeuf" kaulana ke kuhikuhi, hoʻomākeʻaka a me ka naʻau. Akā aia kekahi "Sexperience" na IsabelleFILLIOZAT a me Margot FRIED-FILLIOZAT, Le Grand Livre de la puberty na Catherine SOLANO, ka moekolohe o nā kaikamahine i wehewehe ʻia e Dummies na Marie Golotte a me nā mea ʻē aʻe he nui.

ʻO kēia kapu e pili ana i ka masturbation wahine e hoʻomau i ka ʻike ʻole o nā kaikamahine ʻōpio e pili ana i ko lākou kino. Hoʻopili ia i ka leʻaleʻa i ka moekolohe me kahi hoa, a ʻike nā kaikamahine ʻōpio i ka leʻaleʻa ma o kēia wale nō. ʻO ka vulva, clitoris, anus, vagina, a me nā mea ʻē aʻe wale nō i ʻōlelo ʻia i ka wā, a i ʻole ke kūkākūkā ʻana me ke kauka wahine. Pehea e pili ana i ka leʻaleʻa me ka ʻole o kēlā mau mea?

He mea nui e ʻike i ka nui o nā wahine e masturbate. He maʻamau loa kēia a ʻaʻole ala iki.

Wahi a kahi loiloi IFOP, alakaʻi ʻia no ka makasina Wahine leʻaleʻa, me 913 mau wahine, he 18 a keu nā makahiki. 74% o ka poʻe i nīnau ʻia ma 2017 i ʻōlelo ua hana masturbate lākou.

I ka hoʻohālikelike ʻana, 19% wale nō ka mea i ʻōlelo i ka mea like i nā makahiki 70.

Ma ka ʻaoʻao o nā kāne, 73% o nā kāne i hoʻolaha i ka wā i hala ua hoʻopā lākou iā lākou iho e kūʻē iā 95% i kēia lā.

Ma kahi o 41% o nā wahine Palani i ʻōlelo ua masturbated lākou i hoʻokahi manawa i loko o ʻekolu mau mahina ma mua o ka ana. No 19%, ʻo ka manawa hope loa ma mua o hoʻokahi makahiki i hala a 25% e ʻōlelo nei ʻaʻole lākou i aloha iki i ko lākou ola.

ʻO kahi ana ʻike pinepine ʻole, e hōʻike ana i ka nui o ka ʻike i nā kaikamahine ʻōpio i mea e hāpai ai i ka kapu, aia nō naʻe, ma ka wahine hoʻowali.