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Jessica: Hapai, makuahine o Jules, 11, Elsa, 9, a me Roma, 3 a me ka hapa.
"Ua wehewehe au iā ia ʻaʻole hiki iā māua ke male."
“Aia kaʻu keiki i loko o ka hale paʻakikī o Oedipus! He ʻekolu a me ka hapa makahiki ʻo Roma. I kēlā me kēia lā, nānā ʻo ia iaʻu me ke aloha, lawe ʻo ia i koʻu mau maka ma kona mau lima a hana mai iaʻu i nā ʻōlelo ahi. ʻO wau ke aloha o kona ola! Hoʻolālā ʻo ia iā Machiavellian noʻu e male iā ia. Eia kekahi laʻana, i ka pule i hala aku nei au ma ka hale ʻaina me ia a me kona kaikuaʻana. Nānā akula ʻo ia i ka waitress (uʻi loa) no kekahi manawa a ʻōlelo ʻo ia: ” ʻŌ, nani ʻo ia. Hiki iā Pāpā ke male iā ia. E kaumaha ana ʻoe. Akā e like me kēlā, hiki iā kāua ke male ʻelua! "A i ʻole, ua ʻōlelo nui ʻo ia iaʻu:" Ua kamaʻilio wau me ka pāpā, ʻae ʻo ia e male pū kāua, ʻo ʻoe a me aʻu. "I ke ahiahi, i ka wā i hoʻi mai ai kaʻu kāne i ka hale, ua ʻōlelo ʻo Roma:" No ke aha ʻo ia e hoʻi mai nei i ka home? “. ʻOiai ʻoiaʻiʻo, aloha ʻo ia i kona makuakāne, pili loa ʻo ia iā ia! Akā he ʻoiaʻiʻo me aʻu, he mea kūikawā.
ʻOkoʻa kaʻu mau hiapo ʻelua
ʻAʻole au i ʻike like me kaʻu mau keiki mua ʻelua, he kaikamahine a he keikikāne. Loaʻa iā lākou nā ʻāpana "pili" iaʻu, ʻoi aku kaʻu kaikamahine ma mua o kaʻu keikikāne, akā ʻaʻole i ʻoi aku ma mua o kēlā. ʻO wau iho, ʻaʻole wau i hoʻomanaʻo i koʻu wā liʻiliʻi me koʻu makuakāne. A i ʻole me koʻu makuahine! Ke hoʻomanaʻo nei au ua manaʻo nui wau e kaʻawale mākou. Ua noi au iā ia e mare iaʻu i noho mau ai māua. Ke haʻi mai kaʻu keiki iaʻu makemake ʻo ia iaʻu i wahine nāna, a makemake ʻo ia i ka honi ma ka waha, manaʻo wau he nani loa. I kekahi manawa, pane aku au i kāna honi me ka ʻuʻuku liʻiliʻi, me ka wehewehe ʻana iā ia ʻaʻole hiki iā māua ke male. Ke haʻi aku nei au iā ia ʻo wau ka wahine a kona makuakāne. ʻAʻole hiki i nā makuahine ke mare i kā lākou mau keiki, e like me ka mele mai Peau dʻâne. Akā, ʻike wau e uhaʻi ana au i kona puʻuwai ma ka haʻi ʻana iā ia i kēlā. Paʻakikī!
He pēpē nui nō ʻo Roma!
Ke hui pū mākou ma ke ʻano he ʻohana a hāʻawi mai ʻo Roma iaʻu i kahi ʻōlelo hoihoi a honi paha wau iā ia, komo kaʻu kāne. Akā i ka hohonu, ʻike mākou ʻaʻole e mau. ʻO wau, ʻoiai, ʻaʻohe oʻu manaʻo. Ke kali nei au i kaʻu keiki ʻehā. Aia wau i ka mahina hope o koʻu hāpai ʻana. ʻAʻole maopopo iā mākou inā he keikikāne a he kaikamahine paha. ʻIke au i kēia ke kumu nui o ka hopohopo i nā keiki. ʻO kaʻu mea e ʻike ai, ke ulu maikaʻi nei kaʻu keiki: hele ʻo ia i ke kula, loaʻa nā hoaaloha he nui. He pae ia, ʻaʻole nā keiki a pau e hele i loko, akā noʻu, he pēpē nui nō! ” l
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Marina: Māmā o Juliana, 14, Tina, 10, Ethan, 8, a me Léane, 1.
" Me Ethan, hui koke mākou."
“Aia nō mākou i waena o Oedipus, i ka 8 makahiki o kaʻu keiki! I laila, hoʻi mai ʻo ia mai ka māla me ka pua a hāʻawi mai iaʻu, me ka ʻōlelo ʻana.E mare anei oe ia'u ?"I kēia manawa pane wau me ka ʻakaʻaka a maopopo iā ia ʻaʻole hiki. ʻAʻole naʻe kēia i nā manawa a pau! Ua hoʻomaka ka paʻakikī Oedipus ma kahi o 2 a me ka hapa makahiki a he ikaika maoli. I kona hiki ʻana ke kamaʻilio liʻiliʻi, ua haʻi mai kaʻu keiki ʻekolu (a me kaʻu keikikāne mua) ʻo Ethana i ke aloha iaʻu. Ua loaʻa iaʻu ke kuleana e "Mum, aloha wau iā ʻoe", a laila wikiwiki loa "Mum, ʻo ʻoe kaʻu wahine". Hāʻawi ʻo ia iaʻu i mau apo āna e ʻimi ai i loko o kaʻu mau mea nani e hōʻoia ai i kona aloha iaʻu. Ua huki ʻo ia i nā naʻau me nā mea a pau: kāna mash, jam… hele a hiki i ka ʻoki ʻana i nā pancakes i ke ʻano o nā puʻuwai āna i hāʻawi mai ai iaʻu. Ua ʻike au he nani loa ia i kona wā liʻiliʻi. He ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo kēia aloha nui aʻu i manaʻo ai iā ia, ʻaʻole au i ʻike i ka pōʻino. Ua haʻi aku au iā ia ua aloha au iā ia, akā ua male au i kona makuakāne. Pane ʻo ia "Ua maikaʻi e mama, hiki iaʻu ke kaʻana like".
Haʻi ʻo ia i kona makuakāne ʻo wau kāna wahine
Ua haʻi mau ʻo ʻEtana i kona mau kaikuahine a me kona makuakāne ʻo wau kāna wahine. Ua ʻakaʻaka kaʻu kāne nāna i ʻōlelo: "He ʻoiaʻiʻo, ua haʻi mua wau iā ʻoe me mama mai kou hānau ʻana, no laila hiki iā kāua ke hoʻomau!"A he ʻoiaʻiʻo, mai kona hānau ʻana, pili loa mākou. No ka mea, ua nalo ka'u keiki kane mua ma 6 mahina hapai? I koʻu ʻike ʻana e kali ana au i kahi keikikāne ma hope o kaʻu mau kaikamāhine ʻelua, ua hana au i ka ultrasound. Ua waiho au iā ia ma kahi o koʻu wahi moe a kamaʻilio pū me ia i kēlā me kēia lā. I kona hānau ʻana, hui koke mākou. Ua hānai au iā ia no 3 a me ka hapa makahiki a ua "codotated" mākou a hiki i kona 18 mau mahina. ʻAʻole ʻo ia e moe ana ma ka moena akā ma luna oʻu. ʻO wau kona moena! Ua hoʻopā ʻo Ethan i koʻu ʻōpū, koʻu mau umauma, makemake mau ʻo ia i ka pili kino e hōʻoluʻolu iā ia iho. Ua ʻoluʻolu loa kaʻu kāne, ʻike maopopo ʻo ia. Ua makemake ʻo ia e hiamoe ma ka noho o ka lumi noho i ka wā e noho ana ʻo Ethan ma ko mākou wahi moe. ʻO ka mea pōmaikaʻi, ua hiamoe hoʻokahi ʻo Ethan, hiki iaʻu ke hui pū me kaʻu kāne e loaʻa i kahi pō ma waena o nā mea aloha.
I ka makahiki i hala, he kaikamahine ka'u, phew!
Ua kūpono ʻo Ethana inā ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hele pū me aʻu i koʻu hele ʻana i waho. Ua ʻike koʻu poʻe hui ua paʻa loa ʻo ia, ʻaʻole maikaʻi no kona ulu ʻana. ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu. Ua ulu au i loko o ka ʻohana ʻeono me ʻelua mau kaikunāne, a hiki i kēia lā, pili pū me koʻu makuahine: noho kekahi me ia, ʻai pinepine kekahi ma laila, ʻoiai he mau ʻohana ko lākou! ʻIke wau ʻaʻole kōkua mau kēia aloha hui iā lākou. No laila ua wehewehe au iā ʻEtana e moe ana ʻo ia ma kona wahi moe mai kēia manawa aku. Ua haʻi aku hoʻi au iā ia aia ko papa ma kona wahi moe, me ka makuahine. Hoʻomaopopo koke ʻo ia a ola maikaʻi. I ke komo ʻana i ke kula, ua lilo ʻo ia i mea hiamoe a ʻimi mau i koʻu hele ʻana i ka pō. No laila, e hoʻihoʻi au iā ia i kona wahi moe a hoʻi ʻo ia e hiamoe. I ka makahiki i hala ua loaʻa iaʻu he kaikamahine. Ua hoʻomaha wau i ka loaʻa ʻole o kahi keikikāne. Ua ikaika loa me ka'u keiki! Hoʻomaka ʻo Ethana e noʻonoʻo e loaʻa kahi hoaaloha i kekahi lā. Akā, wehewehe pū ʻo ia e noho ʻo ia ma kahi kokoke iā mākou, no laila e mālama au i kāna mau keiki (he kahu hānai wau) a kuke wau na lākou! E like me ka mea, ʻaʻole i pau loa! ” l
ʻO Angélique: Māmā o Brayan, 5, a me Keyssie, 3.
"Ke pūliki mākou, hoʻokaʻawale nā keiki iā mākou."
“He ʻelua aʻu keiki, he kaikamahine a he keikikāne. A hana kela mea keia mea i kona Oedipus me ka makuakane a me au. ʻO kaʻu kaikamahine 3 makahiki ke kaikamahine liʻiliʻi a kona makuakāne. Noho wale ʻo ia ma kona ʻaoʻao ma ka papaʻaina. Hānai ʻo ia iā ia, i ʻole, ʻaʻole ʻo ia e moni i kekahi mea, e like me ka pēpē liʻiliʻi! 'Ōleloʻo iaʻo kona makuakāne kāna ipo. ʻOiai ʻo ia i loaʻa i ka migraine i kekahi manawa, hoʻomākaukau ʻo ia i nā mea inu liʻiliʻi me kāna ʻaina, e hoʻāʻo ana e mālama iā ia, a i ʻole e kau ʻo ia i kona mau lima liʻiliʻi ma kona lae… Nani loa!
ʻAʻole hopohopo iaʻu, ʻoiai ʻike wau ʻaʻole pono ia e mau!
Ua hana like ka'u keiki ia'u. Hoʻohana ʻo ia i kona manawa e hahai mai iaʻu: ma ka lumi kuke, hoʻomākaukau ʻo ia i ke kofe naʻu, hana ʻo ia i nā kīʻaha a kōkua paha iaʻu e hoʻomākaukau i ka meaʻai. I kēlā me kēia 5 mau minuke, haʻi ʻo ia iaʻu he aloha ʻo ia iaʻu a pono wau e pane "ʻo wau hoʻi", i ʻole e huhū ʻo ia! I kekahi lā, haʻi pololei mai ʻo ia iaʻu: “ʻAʻole ʻoe ka wahine a ka makuakāne, ʻo kaʻu wahine ʻoe!” Pili loa māua ʻelua. I koʻu noho ʻana i loko o ka hale hānai no ka hānau ʻana i kona kaikaina liʻiliʻi, ua ʻino loa wau i ka haʻalele ʻana iā ia. ʻO kēia ka manawa mua a mākou i kaʻawale ai no ka lōʻihi: 5 lā! Ua maʻi wau i ia mea! ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kā mākou mau keiki e pili pono ana iā mākou a me ke aloha, ʻoliʻoli mākou me koʻu hoa. Lawe mākou he mea hoʻohenehene a hele mākou ma ke ala o nā keiki. ʻAʻole hopohopo iaʻu, ʻoiai ʻike wau ʻaʻole pono ia e mau. ʻO ka hope, ʻaʻohe oʻu manaʻo no ka mea ua like ia me koʻu makuakāne i koʻu wā liʻiliʻi. ʻO wau ke aliʻi wahine liʻiliʻi a kona makuakāne. Hele koʻu makuakāne i ke kai no ʻelua pule ma ke kahawai ʻEnelani. I kēia manawa, moe au me koʻu makuahine. I kona hoʻi ʻana mai, haʻalele koʻu makuahine i ka moena no ka mea makemake wau e moe me ia! Ma hope mai ua hemo lāua a ua loaʻa i koʻu makuakāne koʻu mālama. Ua ʻoi aku koʻu hui pū ʻana me ia. Ma mua o koʻu hālāwai ʻana me ka makua kāne o kaʻu mau keiki, hele au i ka Pōʻalima me koʻu makuakāne. He hale ʻaina a he hale kiʻiʻoniʻoni paha kā mākou. I kekahi manawa, lawe nā kānaka iā mākou i kāne a wahine. Ua ʻakaʻaka mākou.
Ua hoʻopau mākou i ke kālele ʻana i kahi moena 2 mika
I ka pō, no ka manawa lōʻihi, ua moe kā mākou keiki me mākou. ʻOiai he wahi moe liʻiliʻi ko mākou, e hiamoe maikaʻi ai, hele koʻu hoa i ka sofa. A laila ua hoʻopau mākou i ke kālele ʻana i kahi moena pālua o ʻelua mau mika. Ua moe pinepine ka'u kaikamahine me makou. Puliki ʻo ia i kona makuakāne. I ka lā, i ko mākou pūliki ʻana me ko lākou makuakāne, ke komo nei kā mākou mau keiki e hoʻokaʻawale iā mākou! Lawe ka'u kaikamahine i ko'u hoa a lawe mai ka'u keiki ia'u. ʻAʻole hiki iā lākou ke kū! Eia nō naʻe, he mau mea aloha liʻiliʻi lāua ma ke kula, akā he mea ʻē aʻe ka makuahine a me ka makuakāne. E like me aʻu me koʻu makuakāne! He mea kūikawā! I kekahi manawa, makemake au e emi kēia pili ikaika, e hanu iki a hiki ke hana i nā mea me kaʻu hoa, e ʻike i ko mākou ola ma ke ʻano he kāne. ” l
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na Alix Leduc, Leduc.s Editions Opinions mai specialists i ka wā kamaliʻi psychometrician, psychologist, pediatrician, psychotherapist, therapist, mea hoʻonaʻauao - e hoʻomaopopo i ka mea i pili, mai ka hānau ʻana a hiki i ka wā ʻōpio o kāna keiki.