ʻO ka umauma / pacifier "huihui", ʻaʻole ia he ʻōnaehana!
He aha ka makuahine i lohe ʻole inā e hānai ʻo ia, ʻo ka hoʻokomo ʻana i ka ʻōmole e alakaʻi i ka huikau o ka umauma / nipple e hōʻailona ai i ka pau ʻana o kāna hānai? Hoʻomaha mākou. Inā pono mākou e haʻalele no 1 hola no ka laʻana, ʻaʻole ia he keaka. A ʻaʻohe mea e hewa ai. "ʻO kēia moʻolelo moʻolelo o ka huikau umauma / pacifier hiki ʻole ke hōʻeha i nā makuahine," ʻōlelo aʻo ʻo Marie Ruffier Bourdet. A hiki i ka 4 a hiki i ka 6 pule, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka noho ʻana o ka makuahine hānai me kāna pēpē e like me ka hiki, no ka hoʻomaka maikaʻi ʻana o ka lactation, akā hiki iā ia ke haʻalele no kahi manawa liʻiliʻi. ʻAʻole wale, ʻaʻole e pau ka waiū i ka pēpē no ka mea hiki ke hāʻawi iā ia e inu me kahi ipu ʻē aʻe (pune, kīʻaha…) a i ʻole he ʻōmole. A ma luna o nā mea a pau, ʻaʻole ia e hōʻole i ka umauma ma hope. "ʻO ka hoʻokomo ʻana i kahi ʻōmole i ke kakahiaka nui hiki ke pilikia no ka hapa liʻiliʻi o nā pēpē e hōʻike ana i kahi predisposition organik a i ʻole hana i ka hopena i ka omo ʻana e like me ka frenulum alelo a i ʻole gastroesophageal reflux maʻi (GERD). Ma ka ʻike ʻana i ka ʻōmole e maʻalahi ai ka loaʻa ʻana o ka waiū i hoʻohālikelike ʻia me ka hānai ʻana e pono ai ka hoʻoikaika ʻana, hiki iā lākou ke hana i "koho o ka makemake ma ke koho ʻana i ka ʻōmole i ka pōʻino o ka umauma", ʻōlelo ʻo ia.
ʻAʻole pono ka hānai ʻana i ka ʻōmole
Hoʻomaka paha ke kamaliʻi e hōʻole i ka ʻōmole a i ʻole ma hope o ka ʻoki ʻana, ʻaʻole makemake hou ʻo ia e lawe i ka ʻōmole. "Ua hōʻoiaʻiʻo mākou, ʻaʻole pono ka inu ʻana i ka hue i ka hoʻomohala ʻana o ke keiki, ʻōlelo ʻo Marie Ruffier Bourdet. Eia kekahi, nalo ka reflex omo ma waena o 4 a me 6 makahiki. »Pehea ʻoe e kōkua ai i ke pēpē e inu mau i kāna waiū? Nui nā koho e like me, no ka laʻana, ka mauʻu. "Hiki i kahi pēpē mai 5 mahina ke hoʻomaopopo i ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka mauʻu," wehewehe ʻo ia. Aia kekahi mau kīʻaha mauʻu kūikawā e hiki ai i ka mauʻu ke noho i loko o ke aniani i ka wā e hili ai ke pēpē i ke kīʻaha. ʻO kekahi hopena: nā kīʻaha pēpē, nā aniani liʻiliʻi i hoʻopili ʻia i ka waha o nā kamaliʻi i hiki iā lākou ke ʻohi i ka waiū. Hoʻohana ʻia kēia mau aniani i kekahi manawa i nā keʻena neonatal inā ʻaʻole hiki i nā pēpē i hānau mua ʻia ke hānai umauma. Aia pū nā kīʻaha 360 i loaʻa kahi poʻi āu e kaomi ai e inu. "ʻO ka hope, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka pale ʻana i nā kīʻaha spouted no ka mea e koi lākou i ka pēpē e hana kūʻē i ka mea a kekahi e inu ai e like me ka ʻai ʻana i ka waha hāmama a i ʻole ka hoʻonui ʻana i ke poʻo i hope," wahi āna.
Hiki i ka pēpē hānai ke ʻai i nā ʻāpana!
"Ke manaʻo nei ka nui o nā makuahine ma kahi o 8 mau mahina, pono ʻoe e hoʻōki i ka hānai ʻana ma mua o ka hele ʻana i nā ʻāpana, akā hewa maoli kēlā!" Hoʻolaha ʻo Marie Ruffier Bourdet. Mai ka 6 mahina, hoihoi ke keiki ʻōpio i nā meaʻai a kona mau mākua e ʻai ai a ʻike i ka omo a ʻai ʻana i nā ʻāpana, ua kapa ʻia kēia ʻo ka ʻai ʻana a i ʻole ka ʻai ʻana.
I ka 2 a me ka hapa, ʻaʻole ʻo ia ʻike i ka ʻai ʻana iā ia iho
Ke wikiwiki nei mākou i kā mākou keiki e ʻai ma kāna iho akā noi pinepine mākou i kahi liʻiliʻi, wikiwiki loa. "I kēlā me kēia hihia, i ka makahiki 2 a me ka hapa, ke aʻo nei kahi keiki liʻiliʻi i nā wahi he nui, e like me ka hoʻohana ʻana i kāna mea ʻokiʻoki," wahi a Marie Ruffier Bourdet. ʻO ka ʻai ʻana i ka meaʻai wale nō kahi marathon nui e lawe nui i ka ikehu. A i ka hoʻomaka ʻana, ʻaʻole hiki ke mālama wale i ka ʻai holoʻokoʻa ". ʻAʻohe wikiwiki a laila. I mea hoʻomanaʻo: ʻo ka mea maʻamau, ma kahi o 3 mau makahiki, hoʻomaka ke keiki e aʻo maikaʻi i kāna ʻoki ʻoki. Ma waena o 4 a me 6 mau makahiki, loaʻa iā ia ka ikaika e ʻai i ka ʻai āpau me ke kōkua ʻole. Ma kahi o 8 mau makahiki, ʻike ʻo ia i ka mālama ʻana i kāna pahi me ke kūʻokoʻa. "No ke kōkua ʻana iā ia i kāna aʻo ʻana, hāʻawi paha ʻoe iā ia i nā mea hana maikaʻi," ʻōlelo ʻo ia. Mai ka 2 makahiki, hiki ke hele i ka cutlery me ka piko hao. No ka paʻa maikaʻi, pono e pōkole a ākea ka lima. “
Ma ka wikiō: Ka manaʻo o ka mea akamai: i ka manawa hea e hāʻawi ai i kaʻu mau ʻāpana pēpē? Ua wehewehe mai ʻo Marie Ruffier, ka mea lapaʻau hana pediatric iā mākou.
Ke neʻe nei i nā ʻāpana, ʻaʻole mākou e kali i ke ʻano o nā niho a i ʻole kahi makahiki kikoʻī
Manaʻo pinepine ʻia no ka hāʻawi ʻana i nā ʻāpana, pono ʻoe e kali a hiki i ka nui o nā niho o ka pēpē. A i ʻole he 8 mahina. "Akā ʻaʻole loa," wahi a Marie Ruffier Bourdet. Hiki i ke pēpē ke paʻi i ka meaʻai palupalu me ka ʻāʻī no ka mea he ikaika loa nā ʻiʻo iwiā. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ka mahalo ʻana i kekahi mau kūlana i ka wā e hoʻomaka ai ʻoe e hāʻawi iā ia i nā ʻāpana (a ʻaʻole pili kēia i ka makahiki akā i ka mākaukau o kēlā me kēia pēpē): paʻa loa ʻo ia i kona noho ʻana a ʻaʻole wale inā ʻo ia. i kākoʻo ʻia me kahi puʻu. Hiki iā ia ke hoʻohuli i kona poʻo i ka ʻākau a i ka hema me ka huli ʻole o kona kino holoʻokoʻa, ʻo ia wale nō ka lawe ʻana i nā mea a me nā meaʻai i kona waha a ʻoiaʻiʻo hoʻi ua huki ʻia ʻo ia e nā ʻāpana, ʻo ka pōkole, inā makemake ʻo ia e hele mai. a nahu i kāu pā. » ʻO ka hope, koho mākou i nā ʻano ʻano ʻāʻī-hoʻoheheʻe a palupalu paha i hiki ke maʻalahi iā lākou (nā mea kanu maikaʻi i hoʻomoʻa maikaʻi ʻia, nā huaʻai pala, pasta hiki ke ʻoki ʻia ma ka palaka, ka palaoa e like me ka Berena Pua, etc.). He mea nui hoʻi ka nui o nā ʻāpana: ʻo ka nui o nā ʻāpana e hiki ke maʻalahi i ka hopu ʻana, ʻo ia hoʻi e hāʻawi i ka manaʻo e puka mai ana mai kona lima (e like me ka nui o ka manamana lima o ke kanaka makua).
Ua ʻae mākou iā ia e hoʻopā i ka meaʻai
E hoʻopā ke keiki liʻiliʻi i ka meaʻai, e ʻoki ʻia ma waena o kona mau manamana lima, e hohola ma luna o ka papaʻaina, ma luna ona… ʻO ka pōkole, he manawa hoʻokolohua ia e paipai ʻia inā ʻo ia e waiho ana ma nā wahi āpau! "Ke lawelawe ʻo ia i kahi meaʻai, hoʻopaʻa ʻo ia i nā ʻike he nui e pili ana i ke ʻano (maʻemaʻe, palupalu, paʻakikī) a kōkua kēia iā ia e hoʻomaopopo he pono ʻo ia e nahu no ka manawa lōʻihi a pōkole paha," wahi a Marie Ruffier Bourdet. A, pono ke keiki e hoʻopā i ka meaʻai hou ma mua o ka ʻono ʻana. No ka mea, inā hoʻokomo ʻo ia i kekahi mea i loko o kona waha i ʻike ʻole ʻia, he mea weliweli ia.
He aha ka mea lapaʻau hana? He ʻoihana ʻo ia e hele pū me nā keiki a me nā mākua i nā hana a ke pēpē (hoʻololi, pāʻani, neʻe, ʻai, hiamoe, etc.). A e hoʻomālamalama i nā mākau sensorimotor o ke keiki liʻiliʻi i mea e kōkua ai i nā mākua a me nā keiki ma ke ala e ulu pono ai.
ʻO ka ʻokoʻa maʻamau: hiki i ke keiki ke kūʻokoʻa pū kekahi!
Aia kekahi ʻano kūlana kiʻekiʻe ma ka ʻaoʻao o ke keiki-alakaʻi diversification (DME) ma ke ʻano o ka ʻokoʻa pēpē. E ʻoi aku ka autonomous i DME (koho ʻo ia i kāna mea e hoʻokomo ai i ka waha, i ka nui, a me nā mea ʻē aʻe) i hoʻohālikelike ʻia i ka diversification maʻamau (me nā purees) i hoʻohālikelike ʻia me ka hānai ikaika. "He wahaheʻe kēia, ʻōlelo ʻo Marie Ruffier Bourdet, no ka mea, i ka hoʻohālikelike ʻana, hiki i kahi pēpē ke komo maikaʻi i ka ʻai, lawe mai i ka mash a i ʻole compote i kona waha, hoʻopā me kona mau manamana lima ..." Aia kekahi mau puna kikoʻī e "hopu" ʻO ka meaʻai e maʻalahi i ka hoʻohana ʻana o ke keiki a ʻaʻole koi i nā neʻe paʻakikī o ka pulima e like me nā mea o ka brand Num Num. A ke makemake hou ʻole ʻo ia e ʻai, ua ʻike maopopo ʻo ia i ke ʻano o ka hōʻailona ʻana ma ka pani ʻana i kona waha a i ʻole ka huli ʻana i kona poʻo! ʻIke loa, ʻaʻohe ala hewa a pololei paha e hana ai, ʻo ka mea nui ka mahalo i kāu keiki a me kona hoihoi i ka meaʻai.
Ka pale ʻana i ka pilikia o ka ʻūhā: DME me ka hoʻohālikelike kuʻuna, he aha ka hopena maikaʻi loa?
"Aia ka manaʻo kuhihewa e hoʻomau nei ʻo ka pēpē e hele ana i ka mash e ʻoi aku ka maʻi i ka wā e ʻai ai ʻo ia i nā ʻāpana. ʻAʻole pololei kēia!, hōʻoiaʻiʻo ʻo ia. No ka mea, ʻo kēlā me kēia ʻano o ka ʻano meaʻai, loaʻa i kahi pēpē nā mākau e mālama i nā ʻāpana. »E hiki iā ia ke kuha i kahi ʻāpana hiki ʻole iā ia ke mālama no ka mea nui loa, no ka laʻana. A, aia kekahi reflex i kapa ʻia ʻo "timing gag" i kumu nui loa a ʻaʻole nau i lawa ka puʻupuʻu e kipaku ʻia mai ka waha. I kēlā me kēia hihia, e nalowale kēia reflex inā hāʻawi mākou i nā purees. Akā, i mea e pale aku ai i nā pōʻino, pono e mālama ʻia i ka hoʻomaka ʻana, e like me ka hāʻawi ʻana i nā ʻāpana palupalu a palupalu a pale aku i kekahi mau meaʻai e like me ka berena sandwich, compact brioche a i ʻole salad.
Paʻa ʻai: hāʻawi i nā mea āpau i ka manawa like, he manaʻo maikaʻi loa!
“E ʻai ana ʻo ia i kāna mea ʻai a ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia i ke koena”, “hoʻohu i kāna mau palai i loko o kāna ʻaila kokoleka, ʻaʻole hiki ke hana ʻia”… i kekahi manawa e kūʻē i ka ʻai o ka mea e ʻike ai ke keiki, "wahi a Marie Ruffier Bourdet. ʻOiai e hāʻawi ana i ka mea hoʻomaka, ʻo ka papa nui a me ka mea ʻai i ka manawa like he manaʻo maikaʻi loa e ʻike i nā meaʻai. ʻAʻole mākou e kānalua i ka hoʻohana ʻana i kahi pā me nā keʻena. E kōkua kēia i ke keiki e ʻike maʻalahi i ka hoʻomaka a me ka hopena o ka ʻai. Hiki iā ia ke helu i ka lōʻihi o ka ʻai ma ka ʻike ʻana i ka nui o ka meaʻai. A ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole mākou e kau i kahi kauoha. Hiki iā ia ke hoʻomaka me ka mea ʻai, hoʻi i kāna kīʻaha, a hoʻopaʻa i ka pasta i loko o kāna yogurt! ʻO ka ʻai ʻana he manawa kūpono e hana ai i nā hoʻokolohua sensory he nui!
Hoʻololi mākou i nā meaʻai i ke kūlana o ka luhi o kā mākou keiki
Ke hōʻole ke keiki 3-4 makahiki i ka ʻai ʻana, hiki iā ʻoe ke noʻonoʻo koke he mea ʻino ia. Akā ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka hoʻoikaika ʻana mai iā ia. “ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole i oʻo ka mākau nau ʻana a hiki i ka 4-6 mau makahiki! A i kēia makahiki wale nō ʻaʻole pono ka ʻai ʻana i ka nui o ka ikehu, "e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ai ʻo Marie Ruffier Bourdet. Inā luhi a maʻi paha ʻo ia, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hāʻawi ʻana iā ia i nā mea maʻalahi e like me ka soup a i ʻole ka ʻuala mashed. ʻAʻole kēia he ʻanuʻu i hope akā he hopena hoʻokahi wale nō. Pēlā nō inā ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia e ʻai hoʻokahi i kāna hana maʻamau. Pono paha ʻo ia i ke kōkua i hoʻokahi manawa. No laila, hāʻawi mākou iā ia i kahi kōkua iki.