“Ke manaʻo nei au e ovulating ana au. Nana aku la au ia Cécile, ka'u wahine, me ka hilinai ole. Ua hoʻi mākou mai ke keʻena ma ke kahua mokulele ʻo Madrid, 4 mau hola ma hope o kona hoʻomoe ʻana. Ua ʻike maopopo ʻo ia iā ia iho a manaʻo wau he maikaʻi. Ua pololei ʻo ia. Ua hana ka insemination i ka manawa mua. Ua lōʻihi ka hele ʻana iā mākou, pilikino a ma ke ʻano he kāne, a hiki i laila.
Ua hui au iā Cécile he ʻumikumamākahi makahiki aku nei. He ʻeono makahiki ʻo ia ma mua oʻu. Ua noho pū māua no ʻelua pule, ua nīnau ʻo ia iaʻu inā makemake wau i nā keiki. Ua pane koke aku au. Ua hoʻokuʻu mākou i kekahi mau makahiki, a i koʻu kokoke ʻana i koʻu kanahā, ua manaʻo wau i ka wikiwiki e hana pēlā. ʻO ka wikiwiki loa, ua ala mai ka nīnau o ka "makuakane". Manaʻo mākou, i hiki i kā mākou keiki ke komo ma hope i kona kumu, e hana i ka "artisanal *" insemination me kahi mea hāʻawi i ʻike ʻia. Akā, i ko mākou hālāwai ʻana me nā mea hāʻawi manawaleʻa, ʻike mākou ʻaʻole pono mākou e komo i kahi ʻaoʻao ʻekolu.
Ma hope o kēlā, ʻaʻole mākou i kamaʻilio no hoʻokahi makahiki a me ka hapa. A i kekahi kakahiaka, ma mua o ka haʻalele ʻana i ka hana, i loko o ka lumi ʻauʻau, haʻi mai ʻo Cécile iaʻu: “Makemake au e loaʻa kahi keiki a makemake wau e amo… Pane aku au: “Maikaʻi, makemake au i keiki e like me ʻoe. Ua hoʻomaka ʻia ka papahana. Akā ma hea kahi e hele ai? ʻAʻole ʻae ʻo Farani no nā kāne kāne. Ma nā ʻāina o ka ʻĀkau kahi i ʻike ʻole ʻia ai ka poʻe hāʻawi, he kakaikahi ka poʻe i ʻae e hālāwai maoli me nā keiki i loaʻa mai kā lākou hāʻawi. Ua haʻalele mākou ma kahi hāʻawi inoa ʻole. Ua koho mākou iā Sepania. Ma hope o ka manawa Skype mua, pono mākou e hana i nā hoʻokolohua, akā ua hōʻole kaʻu kauka maʻi i kēlā manawa e hahai iā mākou. Loaʻa iā mākou kekahi, lokomaikaʻi nui, i ʻae e hele pū me mākou.
I koʻu hōʻea ʻana i Madrid, manaʻo wau aia wau i kahi kiʻiʻoniʻoni Almodóvar: ʻo nā limahana mālama āpau, aloha loa, ʻōlelo Farani me ka leo Paniolo a kamaʻilio pū me ʻoe. ʻO ka hoʻāʻo hāpai mua, 12 mau lā ma hope, ʻaʻole maikaʻi. Akā, ʻōlelo mākou iā mākou iho: e hana hou mākou i ka lā ʻapōpō. A i kekahi lā aʻe, i ko mākou ʻike ʻana i ka puka ʻana o nā kaola ʻelua, ua mālie mākou. Ua ʻike mākou mai ka hoʻomaka ʻana ua hana. I ka hā o ka mahina o ka hāpai ʻana, i kaʻu ʻōlelo ʻana ʻaʻohe oʻu makemake, i koʻu ʻike ʻana he kaikamahine liʻiliʻi ia, ua huhū iaʻu. Ua hoʻoholo ʻia ke kānāwai no ka male ʻana no nā makahiki ʻelua. No laila, ʻekolu pule ma mua o ka hānau ʻana, ua male au iā Cécile ma ke keʻena kūlanakauhale o ka arrondissement 18, i mua o ko mākou ʻohana a me nā hoaaloha. Ua hele maikaʻi loa ka lawe ʻana. Ua nani ʻo Cléo, mai kona hānau ʻana mai, a ua like kona ʻano me kona makuahine. I ka manawa o ka ʻauʻau mua, he 12 mau hola ma hope, i ka nīnau ʻana mai o ke kahu iā mākou inā makemake mākou i kahi ʻauʻau hou, ʻōlelo wau: “ʻAʻole! "A ʻo Cécile, i ka manawa like, ʻoiai ʻo kāna episiotomy a me kona waimaka, ʻōlelo ʻo ia:" ʻAe, ʻoiaʻiʻo! “.
He kaua lōʻihi. Nui kaʻu mau hoʻopaʻapaʻa. Ua manaʻo wau ua ʻelemakule loa wau, ua kokoke au e piha i 45. A ʻo ka pilikia o kaʻu wahine, makemake ʻo ia i ʻelua keiki, ua hoʻoholo wau e ʻae iā ia. Ua hoʻi mākou i Sepania, a hana hou i ka manawa mua. Eia hou, ua hiki iā mākou ke hoʻohana i ka mea hāʻawi like, kahi i mālama ai mākou i kahi laʻana. I ko mākou ʻike ʻana he keiki liʻiliʻi, ua hauʻoli loa mākou. ʻO ka hope he kanaka liʻiliʻi e hoʻopiha i kā mākou ʻohana wahine! A hāʻawi mākou iā ia i ka inoa mua ʻo Nino, a mākou i noʻonoʻo ai mai kinohi mai no kahi keiki liʻiliʻi.
ʻO ka PMA no nā mea a pau e hiki ai ke puka i waho o ka hoʻokamani o kēia manawa, a e hāʻawi hoʻi i nā manawa like i kēlā me kēia kanaka. I kēia lā, pono e loaʻa i nā wahine hoʻokahi a i ʻole homosexual makemake i ke keiki ke kālā e hana ai. ʻO ka mea pōmaikaʻi, ke holomua nei nā mea, ʻoiai ʻaʻole koke, e hōʻike ʻia ka bila e pili ana i ka hoʻonui ʻia ʻana o ka ART i nā wahine a pau i mua o ka Hale Ahaolelo. ʻO kēia ka mea e hiki ai ke hōʻoia i ka makemake i nā keiki o nā kāne male a me nā wahine hoʻokahi i ka maka o ka lehulehu. Eia kekahi, e like me kā mākou ʻike, ke kau ʻia ke kānāwai, ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻopaʻapaʻa. He ala kēia e hakakā ai i nā pilikia o ka hoʻokuʻu ʻia a me nā pilikia o nā keiki e pili ana i ka ʻae ʻana i kā lākou ʻokoʻa. “
* Hoʻokomo pololei ʻia ka sperm o ka mea hāʻawi e kahi syringe (me ka ʻole o ka nila) i loko o ka ʻōpū i ka manawa o ka ovulation.
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