PSYchology

ʻO ka pinepine, ʻokoʻa nā manaʻo o ka makana maikaʻi no ka mea hāʻawi a me ka mea loaʻa - ua hoʻohuli ʻia kēia e nā makemake a me nā manaʻo i ke ola o kēlā me kēia. Ua wehewehe kekahi kanaka psychologist i kā mākou hana hewa ke koho mākou i makana no kahi hanana kūikawā.

Kūʻai pinepine mākou i nā makana no nā lā hoʻomaha i ka wikiwiki, luhi i ka wikiwiki o ka hana a me nā kaʻa kaʻa, akā makemake mākou e hāʻawi i kā mākou mea aloha i kahi mea kūikawā. He mea maikaʻi loa ke kakali ʻana i ka manawa e wehe ai kahi hoaaloha i kahi pahu i hoʻonani ʻia me ke kakaka a hāhā. Ke uē ke kaikamahine me ka hauʻoli, i ka loaʻa ʻana o kāna mea i moeʻuhane lōʻihi ai, a e hauʻoli kekahi hoa hana me kahi mea hoʻomanaʻo liʻiliʻi i koho ʻia me kahi ʻuhane. Eia naʻe, ʻaʻole i kūlike nā manaʻo e pili ana i nā makana maikaʻi no nā mea hāʻawi a me nā mea e loaʻa.

ʻO ka hewa nui, ʻo ia kā mākou hoʻopili nui ʻana i ka manawa e wehe ai ka mea loaʻa i ka makana. Manaʻo mākou e kāhāhā iā ia me ke kumu a i ʻole ka waiwai, ke manaʻo nei mākou i kahi ahi o nā manaʻo. Akā ʻo kahi makana ʻālohilohi a kumu maoli, i koho ʻia e ka mea hāʻawi a hoʻopaʻa ʻia no ka manawa lōʻihi, hiki ke hōʻeha i kekahi kanaka.

ʻAʻole ia he mea maʻalahi a kūʻai aku paha nā mea loaʻa. Makemake lākou i ka nānā a me ka mālama, makemake lākou i nā makana pīhoihoi, akā hoʻāʻo koke lākou e noʻonoʻo pehea e hoʻohana ai lākou. Hoʻololi lākou i ka makana ma ke ʻano o ka pono, ka maʻalahi a me ka lōʻihi.

I mea e leʻaleʻa maoli ai kāu makana i ka mea loaʻa, e hoʻomanaʻo i kāu e kamaʻilio nei i kēia mau lā, i kāna mea i mahalo ai, nā makana āna i hauʻoli ai. E noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka mea āu i koho ai e pono a i koi ʻia no ka manawa lōʻihi. A e hahai i nā loina 7 no ke koho ʻana i kahi makana maikaʻi:

1. ʻOi aku ka waiwai o nā manaʻo ma mua o nā mea

Koho pinepine ka poʻe hāʻawi i kahi mea pono: nā hāmeʻa hana, nā mea hana. Akā ʻoi aku ka hauʻoli o ka poʻe e loaʻa ana i kahi makana ʻike: kahi palapala hōʻoia no ka ʻaina ahiahi ma kahi hale ʻaina ʻokoʻa a i ʻole kahi tikiki no kahi hoʻomaka.

2. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o nā makana "Long-playing" ma mua o nā makana "no ka lā hoʻokahi"

Ke koho pinepine nei mākou i ka mea e hauʻoli koke ai, akā pono ke koho i nā mea e hāʻawi ai i nā manaʻo no ka lā hoʻokahi. ʻOi aku ka ʻoluʻolu o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi pua o nā ʻōpuʻu unblown, no ka mea e ʻoluʻolu ka maka no ka manawa lōʻihi, a e maloʻo nā pua pua i ka lā ʻapōpō.

3. Mai noʻonoʻo lōʻihi i ka makana

Ua ʻae ʻia ʻo ka nui o ka manaʻo o ke kanaka i ka mea e hāʻawi ai, ʻoi aku ka waiwai o ka makana. Eia nō naʻe, ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole hiki i ka mea loaʻa ke manaʻo inā manaʻo nui a liʻiliʻi paha ka mea hāʻawi iā ia i kona koho ʻana i kahi kī kī a i ʻole ka lole wili.

4. Inā ua hana ka mea loaʻa i ka papa inoa o nā makana, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke koho ʻana i kekahi o nā mea

Inā ʻaʻole ia he makana aloha no ka mea aloha, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hāʻawi ʻana i kahi mea e pono ai. ʻAʻole paha e ʻoluʻolu iā ʻoe iho kahi ʻāpana ʻokiʻoki, akā ʻo ia ka mea e pono ai ka mea loaʻa.

5. Mai nānā wale i ke kumu kūʻai o kahi makana

ʻAʻole maikaʻi ka makana makamae. ʻAʻole ana ka hapa nui o nā mea loaʻa i nā pilina ma nā rubles a i ʻole kālā.

6. Mai Hāʻawi i nā makana paʻakikī a hiki ʻole ke hoʻohana

Makemake ka hapanui i nā mea maʻalahi e hoʻohana, no laila ʻohi pinepine nā mea paʻakikī a me nā mea hana i ka lepo ma nā papa.

7. Mai hōʻike i kou ʻike i ka ʻono o ka mea loaʻa.

Ke kūʻai ʻana i palapala hōʻoia no ka hale kūʻai punahele o kāu hoaaloha, kaupalena ʻoe i kāna koho ma mua o ka hana ʻana i kahi hana maikaʻi. ʻO kahi kāleka hōʻaiʻē makana he makana maʻalahi.

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