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Ma hope o ke kula: kaʻu keiki, kāna kumu a me kāna mau hoaaloha
ʻAʻole makemake ʻo ia i kāna haku wahine, ʻaʻohe hoaaloha, i ka pōkole, paʻakikī ka hoʻomaka. ʻO kahi ahonui a me kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e kōkua i kāu keiki.
ʻAʻole aloha kaʻu keiki i kona haku wahine
Inā haʻi ʻo ia iā ʻoe ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia iā ia, mai hōʻalo ʻoe i ka pilikia o "aka maikaʻi loa ʻo ia i kou haku wahine!" », ʻAʻole ia e hoʻonā i kekahi mea. ʻO ka mea ʻē aʻe, ʻaʻohe nīnau o ka nui o kona manaʻo. O ka mea mua loa, e nīnau iā ia i kāna mau kumu. I kekahi manawa e kahaha ʻoe i kāna pane ʻana: "No ka mea he ʻulaʻula kona lauoho ...".
Inā ʻike ʻo ia iā ia he "mean", ʻo ia ka hihia maʻamau, ʻike ʻoe ua uhi kēia hoʻopaʻapaʻa i nā mea like ʻole, ʻo ka haku wahine e lawelawe nei ma ke ʻano he catalyst:
- I ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka makahiki, kau ʻo ia i nā lula o ke ola, i kekahi manawa hele ʻole me ka hoʻoponopono ʻole. E haʻi aku i kāu keiki he hana paʻa kāna a ʻaʻole ia kula he kula kindergarten a mālama kula: aia ʻo ia ma laila e aʻo ai a ʻo ke kuleana o ke kumu ke kōkua iā ia e hoʻomaka i kahi hoʻomaka maikaʻi;
- Hiki paha i kāu keiki ke kānalua maoli a pono ka manawa e maʻa ai i kahi kanaka hou;
- ʻAʻole ʻo ia Ua ʻike ʻo ia i kona ʻano ma ke kula, a no laila ʻaʻole hiki ke aloha i ka mea nāna ia e pani.
Inā mau ka pilikia, e nīnau e hālāwai me ia i mua o kāu keiki : e kōkua maoli kēia hālāwai e hoʻomaha i ke kūlana a hōʻoluʻolu pū kekahi iā ʻoe. E hōʻike pū i nā limahana kula ʻē aʻe, me ATSEM.
He haku kaʻu keiki ma mua o ka haku wahine
I ka hui pū ʻole ʻana, ʻo ke kula kahi kahua i mālama ʻia no nā wahine. ʻO ia ke kumu puiwa iki na keiki i ka ike ana i ka haku i ko lakou papa. ʻO kēia ka wehewehe ʻana, haʻaheo pinepine lākou iā ia, no ka mea, ʻike maikaʻi lākou i ka ʻokoʻa! Ua loaʻa i nā kumu kāne nā pilina maikaʻi loa me nā kamaliʻi : ʻike nā keikikāne iā ia he kumu hoʻohālike a makemake nā kaikamahine e mare iā ia! E wehewehe pū i kāu keiki he nui nā hana i hana maikaʻi ʻia e nā kāne a me nā wahine.
ʻElua kumu hapa manawa kaʻu keiki
Eia hou, hopohopo kēia kūlana i nā mākua ma mua o nā keiki, ʻo wai maʻalahi e hoʻololi. No kekahi mau keiki, ʻo ka loaʻa ʻana o nā kumu ʻelua he mau mea maikaʻi: ʻo ke aʻo ʻana i kūkulu ʻia, ʻoi aku ka wikiwiki o nā kuhikuhi i ka manawa (ke kumu ma ka Pōʻakahi a me ka Pōʻalua, ʻo kekahi ma ka Pōʻalima a me ka Pōʻalima *) a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o ka launa pū ʻana me hoʻokahi o nā mea ʻelua. . Inā pilikia kāu keiki i ka hoʻokele ʻana iā ia, hiki iā ʻoe e hana i kalena pule ma ka hale me nā kiʻi o nā kumu ʻelua.
ʻAʻohe hoa o kaʻu keiki i ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka makahiki kula
I ka makahiki 3, egocentric pinepine mākou a ma ka māhele liʻiliʻi, pāʻani hoʻokahi wale nā haumāna. Loaʻa ka manawa no kekahi, koe wale nō ka poʻe i noho pū i loko o ka nursery a pau i ke kula. Ma keʻano laulā, ʻaʻohe mea i waiho wale ʻia ma mua o hoʻokahi mahina a pau i ka launa pu ana. A ʻo nā mea hou e like me nā mea ʻē aʻe: ke hōʻea lākou i ka waena o ka makahiki i kahi papa i hoʻokumu ʻia, he mea hoihoi lākou no nā mea ʻē aʻe!
Hoʻouka ʻia kaʻu keiki e kekahi
Ma ka pā, hiki i nā keiki ke hoʻopōʻino i ka hana ʻino a nā haumāna ʻē aʻe ke huli kua nā mākua. Inā ʻōlelo ʻoe iā ʻoe, pono ʻoe e komo koke me ke kumu. Pono kāu keiki e noʻonoʻo i ka hoʻolohe ʻana a me ka palekana a ʻike ʻoe e noʻonoʻo nui i kēia kūlana. Inā makaʻu ʻo ia i ka hoʻopaʻi ʻana, e haʻi aku iā ia e noi aku ʻoe i ka haku e noho ma kahi huna akā ʻo ke ao ʻana, e oi aku kona makaala ia ia. E haʻi aku hoʻi iā lākou e haʻalele i kā lākou mea hoʻomāinoino a e hoʻokokoke aku i nā hoa ʻē aʻe.