"Ua ulu ʻo ia me ka pilikia ʻole, aneane ʻaʻole mākou i ʻike" haʻi iā Emmanuelle (makuahine o nā keiki ʻekolu), e kamaʻilio ana no Fred, ka muli loa o nā kaikunāne ʻekolu. Hōʻike kēia i nā haʻawina ʻAmelika, e like me ia, ʻo ka ʻōpio ka mea i hāʻawi ʻia i ka manawa liʻiliʻi a me ka nānā. "Ua ʻōlelo pinepine ʻia ʻo ia ka wahi paʻakikī loa" ʻoiai ke manaʻo nei ʻo Françoise Peille. I ka wā mua loa, hiki i ke keiki ke noi i ke kōkua liʻiliʻi inā pono, a ma muli o ke kūʻokoʻa. A laila aʻo ʻo ia e hoʻokele: "ʻAʻole hiki iā ia ke hilinaʻi mau i kāna keiki hiapo a i ʻole ke noi ʻana i ke kōkua mai kona mau mākua, ʻoi aku ka loaʻa ʻana o nā keiki hope. No laila ua huli ʻo ia i kona mau hoa », wahi a Michael Grose.
He "hewa" pono!
"Ua haehae ʻia ma waena o nā ʻōpio a me nā ʻōpio, ma ke ʻano nui, hoʻopiʻi ke keiki waena i kahi kūlana ʻoluʻolu ʻole. ʻAʻole ʻo ia i ʻike e ʻae ʻo ia iā ia ma hope e lilo i kanaka makua conciliatory, wehe ʻia e hoʻololi! “ wehewehe ʻo Françoise Peille. Akā e makaʻala, no ka mea hiki iā ia ke pani e like me ka oyster e pale aku i nā hakakā a mālama i kahi ʻoluʻolu i aloha ʻia e ia ...
Inā makemake ke keiki waena i ka "hoʻopono", no ka mea, ʻike ʻo ia, mai ka wā ʻōpiopio, ʻaʻole pono ke ola iā ia: ʻoi aku ka nui o nā pono o ka hiapo a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hope. . Hoʻohana koke ʻo ia i ke kūpaʻa, hoʻopiʻi liʻiliʻi, akā hoʻohuli koke iā ia iho a hiki i ke ʻano o ka paʻakikī loa i kekahi manawa ... Inā ʻoluʻolu ʻo ia, mahalo ʻia i kona hiki ke hoʻololi, inā i nā ʻano pilikino a i ʻole nā ʻano makahiki o kona mau kaikuaʻana a puni. iā ia.