"Hiki i ka mea kākau ke kapa i ka puke "ʻO ka Dalai Lama koʻu hero," wahi a ka psychotherapist Leonid Krol. "He puke mālie kēia, noʻonoʻo a naʻaupō i piha i nā hiʻohiʻona kupaianaha."
I kekahi manawa aia kekahi kanaka, ua hānau ʻia ʻo ia i loko o kahi ʻohana mahiʻai, akā ua ʻike ʻia ʻo ia ka reincarnation o ka Dalai Lama mua. Ua mahuka ʻo ia mai Tibet, kaʻahele i ka honua, kamaʻilio me nā kānaka, noʻonoʻo a lilo i mea hauʻoli kamahaʻo, no laila hiki iā ia ke lawe i kēia hauʻoli i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, a ʻo ia iho ʻaʻole ʻike i kāna hana ʻana. No nā ʻaoʻao he nui, kamaʻilio ka mea kākau i ka meʻe me ka ʻole o nā pane mākaukau, mahalo iā ia a me ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i kona maʻalahi a me kekahi ʻano maʻalahi a me ka sociability kūikawā. Me he mea lā e lele mai ana nā lā mai ona aku, e hōʻike ana ʻo ia i nā mea maikaʻi loa āna i hālāwai ai, a hoʻohui pū i ka māmā a me ka hohonu i nā mea āpau.
ʻO ka Dalai Lama ka mea maʻalahi a ʻoi aku ke kanaka, ʻakaʻaka, kāhāhā, ʻaʻole ia e kulou i kāna laina, akā e unuhi i ka manaʻoʻiʻo i manaʻo ʻole ʻia a me ka manaʻo maikaʻi e pili ana i nā hana liʻiliʻi mai nā mea āna e hālāwai ai. Mai kahi e ulu nui ai. ʻAʻole ʻo ia e hoʻonaʻauao i kekahi, ʻaʻole ʻo ia e hōʻoiaʻiʻo, akā ʻike ʻo ia i ka hāʻawi ʻana i ke ʻano i manaʻo ʻole ʻia i nā mea maʻalahi. Nā mea pāʻani ma ka lāʻau Kalikimaka, lulu lima, ʻakaʻaka, hoʻolālā - lilo nā mea āpau a hoʻomaka e ʻoluʻolu.
He aha ke ʻano o kēia puke? E pili ana i ka naʻauao naʻau, e pili ana i ka Buddhism pono o kēlā me kēia lā, e pili ana i ka hāʻawi (a ʻaʻole lawe) maikaʻi ... ʻAe, ʻaʻole wale. Ua kākau ʻo Daniel Goleman e pili ana i nā ʻano kamaʻilio like ʻole a me ke kamaʻilio ʻoiaʻiʻo. ʻO ka ʻelemakule me ka poʻe ʻōpio, ʻo ka hanohano me ka pōʻino, ʻo ka ʻepekema me ka manaʻo, ka mea koʻikoʻi me ka naʻaupō, ka mea kūʻai aku me ka altruism, ka maʻalea me ka naʻaupō. Akā ʻo ka mea nui loa, ʻo kēia puke e pili ana i ke ʻano o ka noho ʻana ʻaʻole ʻoluʻolu, e komo i kāu ponoʻī a me kāu ponoʻī wale nō.. Ua haʻi ʻia kēia i kahi psychologist a me kahi mea kākau moʻolelo kaulana e ke keiki a kahi wahine mahiʻai, he mea mahuka, he Nobel laureate, he hoaaloha o nā poʻe koʻikoʻi he nui. A kamaʻilio lāua. Me kēlā ʻano makaʻala, ʻakaʻaka a me ka lele ʻana i hiki ʻole iā ʻoe ke noʻonoʻo pono.
Unuhi mai ka ʻōlelo Pelekania e Irina Evstigneeva
Alpina Publisher, 296 p.