E aʻo nā keiki he lokoʻino a kūpono ʻole ka honua ke hele lākou i ka pā. ʻO ka hoʻāʻo mua ma ke ala o ke keiki kahi kahua pāʻani, kahi o nā keiki ʻē aʻe. ʻOiai e ʻoliʻoli hauʻoli ana ʻo māmā me kāna mau hoaaloha, e kūkākūkā ana me ka lauoho lauoho hou o Yulia Baranovskaya, ua piʻi aʻe nā kuko koʻikoʻi ma waena o nā keiki. Hoʻopau pinepine nā pāʻani Sandbox i kahi kaua koʻikoʻi no ka ʻeke a me kahi pākeke.
I loko o ke keʻena, manaʻo mau ka pēpē i ka pale ʻana. A i kēia manawa ua hele kēia keiki i loko o ka lole hao a me nā kakaka nui i waho o ka pā. ʻAʻole hakahaka, ʻoiaʻiʻo. Hoʻopili maikaʻi ʻia nā mea pāʻani maikaʻi loa i loko o ka ʻūlū nani. Ma ʻaneʻi ʻoe e ʻike ai i nā moʻo hou no ke one, kāu pēpē punahele me ka lauoho ʻulaʻula, a me kahi bear teddy - kahi makana na kou kupunawahine. Ma hope o 30 mau minuke, ua waimaka ke kaikamahine. Ua hoʻolei ke keikikāne hoanoho i nā moʻo i loko o ka nāhelehele, ua nahaehae ka lole o ka pēpē, a waiho ʻia ka bea me ka ʻole o ka wāwae. Hoʻoweliweli ʻo Māmā e lawe i ke kolohe i ka mākaʻi, hoʻohiki ʻo kupuna wahine e kūʻai i kahi mea pāʻani hou. I hoʻokahi pule ma hope, ua like ka moʻolelo like. No ke aha e lele ai nā kuko keiki i loko o ka pahu one? Pehea e hana ai nā mākua ke lawe ʻia nā mea pāʻani mai kā lākou keiki aloha? Aia kekahi mau makuahine i mākaukau e holo wikiwiki e pale i ke keiki i ke kāhea mua, hōʻike kekahi i ka nānā ʻole i nā hōʻike hōʻikeʻike a nā keiki, a aia kekahi e ʻōlelo nei: “Hana me ʻoe iho. Kāohi i ke kaniʻuhū! ”ʻO wai ka pono?
- Loaʻa i nā keiki i kā lākou ʻike kamaʻilio mua ma ka pahu one. Pehea ka ʻoluʻolu o ke keiki i ka wā makua e hilinaʻi nui ai i nā pāʻani waho. Hana nā keiki a ʻano ʻokoʻa i ka papa pāʻani. He kuleana nui ko nā mākua ma aneʻi, ko lākou ʻano pilikino, nā ʻōnaehana waiwai a me nā mākau i hiki iā lākou ke hoʻoili i kā lākou keiki kāne a kaikamahine paha. Eia kekahi, ʻaʻole hiki ke hōʻemi ʻia nā ʻano makahiki o nā keiki.
Inā ʻoe e nānā i nā keiki e pāʻani ana i ka pahu one, e ʻike ʻoe i ka pinepine o nā keiki e huki i nā mea pāʻani a pau e hoihoi iā lākou, ʻaʻole e hoʻokaʻawale iā lākou i kā lākou a i ʻole nā mea ʻē aʻe. Kūlike kēia hiʻohiʻona, ma ke ʻano he rula, no nā keiki mai 1,5 a 2,5 makahiki.
ʻO ka ʻiʻini i nā mea pāʻani hou, keu hoʻi ka hoalauna one, ikaika loa i nā keiki o kēia au. Hoʻomaʻo nui nā kamaliʻi i ka hoʻopā ʻana, a hiki ke hoʻāla ʻia kā lākou hoihoi i nā ʻelua e kā lākou punahele punahele spatula me kahi bakeke, a me nā keiki ʻē aʻe. A hōʻike ʻole ʻia kēia ʻaʻole palekana mau. He mea nui e hoʻomaopopo i kēia makahiki, ke keiki, ma ke ʻano he kānāwai, ʻaʻole i hiki i ka mana ke hoʻokaʻawale ma waena o kāna mau mea a me nā mea ʻē aʻe. A ʻo ka hana a nā mākua e mālama me ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i nā mea like ʻole o kēia au.
Pono e aʻo i ke keiki e launa pū me nā keiki ʻē aʻe, e aʻo ana i nā lula o ke kamaʻilio. Eia nā pāʻani hui e hoʻopakele. E ʻōlelo mākou i ke kūkulu ʻana i hale kākela one nani e koi ai i nā mōlina no ka pā holoʻokoʻa. I nā hihia kahi e hoihoi nui ai ke keiki i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, e hōʻino iā lākou, a laila ma mua o ka hele ʻana i waho i ka honua e pono ai i kahi pēpē e aʻo i nā ʻano maikaʻi ma ka home me nā mākua. Inā loaʻa nā ʻohana holoholona i ka ʻohana, pono ʻoe e nānā pono i ka pēpē o hōʻeha ʻo ia i kāna hoa aloha ʻehā i kāna hoʻāʻo ʻana e hoʻopaʻa. Pono pono e hōʻike i ke keiki pehea e hoʻopā ai i ka holoholona, pehea e pāʻani ai me ia.
ʻO nā keiki a hiki i ʻekolu mau makahiki he maʻalahi loa (kinesthetic). I ka manawa like, ma muli o nā peculiarities o ko lākou mau makahiki, ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻokele pono i ko lākou naʻau a me nā mākau kaʻa. A he ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e hoʻomaka i ke aʻo ʻana e hoʻopā i ka wā hiki loa, ma ka home, ma mua o ka haʻalele ʻana o ke keiki i ka pahu one. Aia i loko o ka ʻohana i loaʻa i ke keiki ʻōpio nā manaʻo maʻamau e pili ana i ka honua a puni ʻo ia.
I ka piha ʻana o nā makahiki he ʻekolu, he manaʻo ko ke keiki i kāna mau mea pāʻani ponoʻī. Hoʻomaka ke keiki e pale i kāna mau pono i ka pahu one. I kēia makahiki, he mea nui e aʻo i ke keiki e mahalo delicately i kā lākou pono a me nā palena o haʻi. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e koi ʻia e kaʻana like i nā mea pāʻani inā ʻaʻole makemake kāu keiki. Hiki i nā keiki ke kau nui i nā mea pilikino. Me he mea lā he hoa aloha maoli kahi bea teddy maʻamau i haʻi ʻia e ka pēpē i nā mea huna pili loa.
I ka manawa like, kōkua ke aʻo i ke keiki e kaʻana like i nā mea pāʻani a aʻo iā lākou e pāʻani pū me nā keiki ʻē aʻe. ʻO kahi laʻana, i ka pāʻani ʻana i kāna kaʻa ponoʻī, ua hoihoi ʻia kāu keiki e nā kaʻa ʻōlinolino o nā keikikāne ʻē aʻe. Ke ʻike nei i kēia, kaukaʻi i ke kūlana, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻōlelo i ke keiki e hoʻokokoke i nā keiki ʻē aʻe a kono iā lākou e hoʻololi i nā mea pāʻani no kekahi manawa a pāʻani pū paha.
I nā hihia kahi e noi ai kāu keiki i kahi mea pāʻani hou, a ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia e kaʻana like ia, maikaʻi ke hōʻike aku he pāʻani kēia na kekahi keiki a he mea nui ia e mālama pono i nā makemake o haʻi. A i ʻole ʻōlelo, "I kekahi manawa makemake nā keiki ʻē aʻe e makemake e pāʻani me kā lākou mea pāʻani." Hiki iā ʻoe ke kono i kāu keiki e noi iā ia e pāʻani me ka mea pāʻani i makemake ʻia ma hope, ke lawa ka mea nona ia. A i ʻole hoʻokomo i nā keiki i kahi pāʻani kahi e hoihoi ai nā mea ʻelua. ʻO ka mea nui ka hopena o nā mea āpau i kahi ʻano leʻaleʻa a me ka hakakā ʻole. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kū ma aneʻi me ka ʻole o nā mākua.
He mea pono e noʻonoʻo i nā hiʻohiʻona o ke kahua pāʻani. ʻOkoʻa nā keiki āpau, a ʻokoʻa ke ʻano i nā mea pāʻani. Ua aʻo ʻia kekahi o nā keiki e mālama pono iā lākou, ʻaʻole kekahi. A no nā kamaliʻi liʻiliʻi ʻaʻole nui ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o kā lākou mea pāʻani a me nā mea pāʻani a haʻi. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e lawe i kāu pēpē punahele i ka pahu one. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi e ʻohi i nā mea pāʻani hoihoi āu e noʻonoʻo ʻole ai e kaʻana.
E hoʻopili paha mākou i nā hakakā a nā keiki, e ʻae mākou i nā keiki e kū iā lākou iho? A inā ʻoe e hoʻopilikia, a laila i ka nui a i nā ʻano hanana. Nui nā manaʻo hakakā i kēia mau pilikia, nā mākua a me nā loea e hana nei me nā keiki.
ʻO Boris Sednev manaʻo ʻo ia nā mākua e hāʻawi i ka ʻike kūpono e pono ai. ʻO ka mea nui ma o nā mākua, aʻo ke keiki pehea e hana ai i kēlā me kēia kūlana ma ke kahua pāʻani. ʻO kekahi o nā hana a nā mākuahine a me nā makuakāne e hoʻokomo i nā waiwai kūpono no ke ola. Akā he mea pono keakea i nā hana a ke keiki ma ke kahua pāʻani ma ke ʻano he koho hope loa. ʻAʻohe pono e kaohi i kēlā me kēia ʻanuʻu o nā ʻāpana. E nānā pono ʻoe i ka pāʻani a ka pēpē, a inā he pono, e hoʻoikaika iā ia pehea e hana pono ai. I ka manawa like, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hoʻoikaika ʻana e hoʻonā mālie i nā hakakā like ʻole. ʻO kou ʻano i nā kūlana e lilo i mea pono kūpono e kōkua i kāu keiki i ka wā e hiki mai ana.
ʻO ka psychologist psychologist Elena Nikolaeva aʻoaʻo i nā mākua e komo i nā hakakā ma waena o nā keiki, a ʻaʻole e noho ma ka ʻaoʻao. "ʻO ka mea mua, pono ʻoe e kākoʻo i kāu pēpē ma ka haʻi ʻana i kona mau manaʻo:" Makemake ʻoe e pāʻani me ke kaʻa pāʻani iā ʻoe iho a makemake ʻoe e noho pū me ʻoe? ”Wahi a Elena. - Eia hou, hiki iā ʻoe ke wehewehe i ka makemake o kekahi keiki i kāna mea pāʻani, a kono i nā keiki e hoʻololi iā lākou no kekahi manawa. Inā ʻaʻole ʻae ke keiki, ʻoiai nā hana āpau, mai hoʻoikaika, no ka mea, ʻo kēia kona kuleana! Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻōlelo i kahi keiki ʻē aʻe: "E kala mai, akā makemake ʻo Vanechka e pāʻani me kāna kaʻa pāʻani iā ia iho." Inā ʻaʻole kōkua kēia, e hoʻāʻo e hoʻopaʻa iā lākou me kekahi pāʻani ʻē aʻe a hoʻokaʻawale paha iā lākou i nā ʻaoʻao ʻokoʻa. I ke kūlana kahi kokoke o ka makuahine o kahi keiki ʻē aʻe a ʻaʻole ia e hoʻopilikia i nā mea e hana nei, nānā ʻole, hana like, me ke komo ʻole i kahi kamaʻilio me ia. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, ke hana nei nā mākua i ka hānai ʻana, a ma kāu mau hana kōkua ʻoe i kāu keiki, me ka ʻole e uhaʻi i nā kuleana o haʻi. “