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ʻAʻole ʻoluʻolu ka ʻike ʻana ua kumakaia ʻoe. He mea nui ka ʻike pehea e hana ai i kēia mau hihia. 

Kumakaia, noho mālie a ʻaʻole hoʻoholo i ka huhū

ʻO ka kumakaia (hōʻike huna, hoʻomaloka ...) mai kahi hoa hana, he hoaaloha, kāna kāne, ʻo ka pane mua i ka ʻike ʻana he huhū pinepine ia me ke kaumaha. Kumakaia, hiki i kekahi ke noʻonoʻo i ka hoʻopaʻi, ma lalo o ka mana o ka huhū. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ka noho mālie, e lawe i ka manawa e nānā i ke kūlana a ʻaʻole e lawe wikiwiki i ka hoʻoholo hoʻoholo (kahi oki, hoʻoholo ʻaʻole e ʻike hou i kahi hoaaloha…) i ka manawa e mihi ai. Hiki ke hoʻopōʻino iā ʻoe ke pane wikiwiki ʻana. No ka laʻana, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻōlelo i nā mea āu i manaʻo ʻole ai. 

I kēia manawa, pono e hōʻoia i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo (i hōʻike ʻia paha iā ʻoe e ke kolu o ke kanaka) a e ʻike inā ʻaʻole ia he kuhihewa maʻalahi. 

ʻO ke kumakaia, e kamaʻilio e pili ana iā ia me kahi āu e hilinaʻi ai

Inā he kumakaia ʻoe, ʻo ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kahi mea āu e hilinaʻi ai e emi iho ka paʻakikī. Hiki iā ʻoe ke kaʻana like i kou mau manaʻo (e hōʻoluʻolu iā ʻoe a hiki iā ʻoe ke wehewehe i kou manaʻo) a loaʻa pū kekahi manaʻo o waho i ke kūlana. 

E kumakaia, e alo i ka mea nana oe i kumakaia

Makemake paha ʻoe e ʻike i ke kumu o ka mea nāna ʻoe i kumakaia. Makemake paha ʻoe e lohe i kahi kalahala mai iā ia. Ma mua o ka hoʻolālā ʻana i kahi kūkākūkā me ka mea nāna ʻoe i kumakaia, pono e hoʻomākaukau no kēia nīnauele. ʻO ka manaʻo e hiki ke kūkākūkā maikaʻi. 

No ka maikaʻi o kēia hoʻololi ʻana, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā ʻenehana kamaʻilio non-violent a me ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka "I a ʻaʻole ʻo" ʻoe "a i ʻole" ʻoe ". ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hoʻomaka ʻana ma ka waiho ʻana i nā ʻoiaʻiʻo a laila ma ka hōʻike ʻana i ka hopena o kēia kumakaia iā ʻoe a hoʻopau i ka mea āu e manaʻo ai mai kēia hoʻololi ʻana (wehewehe, kalahala, ʻano hana ʻē aʻe i ka wā e hiki mai ana ...)

Ma hope o kahi kumakaia, e hana i kahi hana ma luna o ʻoe iho

ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i ke kumakaia hiki ke lilo i manawa kūpono e nīnau ai iā ʻoe iho, e aʻo mai ia mea: he aha kaʻu e aʻo ai mai ia mea he ʻike no ka wā e hiki mai ana, pehea wau e hana maikaʻi ai inā hiki iaʻu, e hana wau i kēia wahi o ka hilinaʻi…?

Hiki i ke kumakaia ke kōkua iā mākou e hoʻoholo i kā mākou mea nui i ke ola. I ka pōkole, i ka wā e kū ai me kahi kumakaia, pono ʻoe e hoʻāʻo e ʻike i nā mea maikaʻi. ʻO ke kumakaia he mea ʻike, ʻoiaʻiʻo he ʻeha. 

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