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Ua lōʻihi ka pau ʻana o ka moe kolohe i ka manaʻo he perversion a i ʻole ka nui o nā mea aloha i hoʻokaʻawale ʻia. No nā kāne he nui, he ala kēia e hoʻohui i nā ʻano like ʻole i ka pilina pili. He aha ka maikaʻi o Wirth a no ke aha ʻoe e haʻalele ʻole ai?
ʻAʻole e pau ke kumuhana o ka moekolohe iā mākou. ʻAʻole makemake mākou e hana wale me ia: makemake mākou i ke ʻano o ka "hoʻonohonoho", he aha ka hopena o kona ʻano, he aha nā ʻano i ke kahua o ke ola pili.
Loaʻa iā mākou nā kumu ʻike he nui: nā ʻatikala ma ka Pūnaewele, nā puke, nā aʻo wikiō. Inā makemake ʻoe e aʻo hou a hoʻonui i ka repertoire moena, nui nā manawa kūpono.
ʻO kekahi o nā ala kaulana e hoʻonani ai i kahi pilina pili pili i ka moe kolohe, a i ʻole "virt." He ʻano kamaʻilio kēia e hoʻololi ai ka poʻe i loko o ke kikowaena virtual i nā leka pāʻani, nā kiʻi, nā wikiō a me nā faila leo i mea e hāʻawi ai iā lākou iho a me kā lākou hoa pili i ka leʻaleʻa.
No ke aha e pale ai nā kānaka i ka moe kolohe?
Ke hāʻawi nei kekahi hoa e hoʻāʻo i kahi mea hou, aʻo kekahi e hilahila a makaʻu. ʻOiaʻiʻo, hiki ke hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻia nā ʻano moe a pau me ka ʻae like ʻana. Akā ʻo ke kumu o ka hōʻole ʻana ʻaʻole paha ka makemake ʻole e hana, no ka laʻana, "wirth". Aia paha ka manaʻo i ka pili ʻana i ka moekolohe o nā kānaka ʻelua, a me ka pili pili ʻana i ka manaʻo.
Ke hele pinepine nei nā kāne i kahi loea me kahi noi moe kolohe, a hoʻomaka ka hana me ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i kā lākou pilina pili. A laila hiki iā ʻoe ke neʻe e kūkākūkā i ka pili kino.
No ke aha e makaʻala ai kekahi i ka moe kolohe? Loaʻa kēia ma muli o ka hilinaʻi ʻole. Makaʻu ka poʻe i hiki i ka hoa o kēia lā ke kau i kahi leka a i ʻole wikiō pili i ka pūnaewele i ka lā ʻapōpō, e kaʻana like me nā hoaaloha (i kekahi manawa hiki maoli kēia). ʻO ka ʻae ʻana i kahi hoa ʻaʻole ʻoe i hilinaʻi iā ia he paʻakikī loa. No laila, ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ke kanaka e ʻōlelo ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia i ka moekolohe ma kahi mamao, a i ʻole he naʻaupō kēia, he pani.
ʻAʻole makemake kekahi e hana i kahi leka pāʻani no ka mea ma kahi mamao e hoʻomaha ana ʻo ia mai kahi hoa. Makemake ʻo ia i ka noho mehameha, ʻaʻole i ka virtual, akā pili mau.
He aha ka maikaʻi o nā hoa peni?
ʻOiaʻiʻo, hiki ke hoʻomaʻamaʻa wale ʻia ka moe kolohe me kahi mea āu e hilinaʻi nui ai. A ʻaʻole pono e hoʻokumu ʻia kēia hilinaʻi ma luna o "Ke manaʻoʻiʻo nei au no ka mea ua aloha wau", akā ma luna o nā hōʻike i loaʻa i ka pono o ke kanaka.
Inā hoʻoholo ʻia ka pilikia hilinaʻi, a laila hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻolohe iā ʻoe iho - he aha ke ʻano o nā manaʻo e pale aku iā ʻoe mai ka hoʻāʻo ʻana i kēia ʻano wahine. Pono wau e ʻōlelo he nui nā pono o Wirth.
Ka moe kolohe…
- ʻO kahi mea nui e mālama ai i ka pilina no kēlā mau kāne i koi ʻia e kaʻawale kekahi i kekahi no ka manawa lōʻihi.
- Kōkua ia i ka hoʻokuʻu - pinepine no ka mea hilahila ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ke kākau ʻana i kahi mea pāʻani ma mua o ka ʻōlelo ʻana. A ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ke kamaʻilio ʻana ma ke kelepona ma mua o ke ola.
- Kōkua ia i ka hoʻoikaika ʻana i ka ʻohana, ka mālama ʻana i nā hoa mai ka kumakaia ʻana a me ka puka ʻana mai o ka addiction porn (ʻo ia ka mea maʻamau i nā kāne).
- Kōkua i ka hoʻoulu hou ʻana i nā pilina. Ma hope o ka hāʻawi ʻia ʻana o nā haʻawina home no hoʻokahi pule e kamaʻilio i kēlā me kēia lā ma o nā leka moe kolohe, hōʻike nā mea kūʻai aku ua piʻi nui ko lākou hoihoi i kekahi i kekahi.
- Palekana physiologically. I loko o ia mea, ʻaʻole hiki ke hāpai a hopu paha i nā STD (maʻi i lawe ʻia e ke kāne), hiki ke hana ʻia i ka wā menstruation.
Pehea e hiki ai i ka ʻaelike
Ua hiki mai i kekahi hoa kākoʻo i ka hoʻokomo 'ana i ka moe kolohe innovations, me ka hoʻohana 'ana i ka «wirth», a me ka lua e koi aku i kekahi hou huahana, a oi aku ka moe kolohe ma kahi mamao. He aha ka hana ma kēia hihia?
- I ka hoʻomaka ʻana, pono nā hoa e haʻi pololei i kā lākou mau manaʻo e like me ka hiki. He mea nui e hoʻomaopopo nā mea a pau i ke kumu e makemake ai ka hoa a i ʻole, ʻaʻole makemake e hana i kekahi mea. Hana ʻia kēia ma ka ʻōnaehana ʻohana: ʻōlelo pinepine nā pilikia ma kahi wahi o uXNUMXbuXNUMXbrelationships i nā pilikia i kekahi. E like me kā mākou i haʻi mua ai, ma kēia hihia, ʻo ke kumu paha ʻo ka pau ʻole o ka hilinaʻi i kahi hoa a i ʻole kekahi ʻano ʻano hūnā huna ma muli o kahi pilikia ʻohana, a i kekahi manawa nā pilikia kālā. A i ʻole ka kānalua ponoʻī o kekahi o nā hoa.
- A laila pono ke ʻike pehea e hoʻopau ʻia ai kēia mau ʻokoʻa.
- E kōkua mau ka ʻohana psychologist a me sexologist i nā kāne e ʻimi i nā ala maikaʻi loa e hoʻoponopono ai i nā ʻokoʻa pili i ka moekolohe a hoʻomaikaʻi i ka maikaʻi o ke ola pili.