ʻO ka poʻe e hoʻopunipuni i kā lākou mau hoa e hāʻawi pinepine iā lākou iho ma ke ʻano hoʻohenehene. ʻO kekahi o kēia mau moʻolelo i haʻi ʻia e ka mea hoʻohana TikTok ʻo Anna - e like me ke kaikamahine, ua ʻike ʻo ia e pili ana i ka hoʻopunipuni o kāna mea aloha i ka wā i ʻike ai ʻo ia i kahi wikiō i paʻi ʻia e kona haku wahine ma ka noi.
Ua hoʻopuka ka mea hoʻohana TikTok ʻo Anna i kahi wikiō ma ka ʻoihana pūnaewele kahi āna i haʻi ai pehea ʻo ia i hoʻokō ai i kāna kāne hoʻopaʻi.
Ua hele ke kaikamahine i kahi huakaʻi ʻoihana a i kona manawa kaʻawale ua hoʻoholo e nānā ma o TikTok. ʻO ka wikiō mua i hopu i kona manaʻo.
ʻO ka mea ʻoiaʻiʻo, ua hōʻike ʻia ke kiʻi i kahi kaʻa i hoʻokū ʻia ma kahi hale kānalua. I ka nana pono ana, ua ike ka wahine: o kona home ponoi keia. No ka mea nona ka mooolelo ke kaa, he kaikamahine opio.
“He ʻakaʻaka nō ia, no ka mea ʻaʻole au i kau inoa iā ia, a laila ʻike koke wau i kēia wikiō. Nānā wau iā ia TikTok a ʻike wau ua noho ʻo ia me kaʻu kāne i ka hopena pule holoʻokoʻa, "wahi a Anna.
Ua ʻōlelo hou ʻo ia, no ka manawa lōʻihi ʻaʻole i holo maikaʻi ko lāua pilina me kāna kāne, a ua manaʻo ʻo ia he kipi ʻo ia. Akā ʻaʻole hiki ke hopu i ke kanaka me ka ʻulaʻula, a hōʻole ʻo ia i nā mea āpau. "Ua hakakā mākou ma mua o hoʻokahi mahina, akā i koʻu ʻike ʻana he ʻano ʻē kāna hana, ʻōlelo wale ʻo ia he pupule wau," wahi a ka mea hoʻohana.
I keia manawa, aole i loaa i ke kane ka hoopaapaa. Pono ʻo ia e ʻae: ʻo ke kaʻa ma lalo o ko lākou hale, i ʻike ʻole ʻia e kāna wahine ma ke wikiō, no kāna haku wahine.
Ua ʻike ʻia ke wikiō e ʻoi aku ma mua o ʻelua miliona mau kānaka. Ma ka hoʻoholo ʻana i nā manaʻo, ua hoʻopūhoihoi nā mea hoʻohana i kēlā moʻolelo. ʻAe, a ua ʻae ʻo Anna iā ia iho a hiki i ka hope ʻaʻole ʻo ia i manaʻoʻiʻo he hiki ke maʻalahi a me ka wikiwiki e ʻike e pili ana i ke kumakaia ʻana o kāna kāne.
Ma mua, ua ʻōlelo kekahi mea hoʻohana TikTok, ʻo Amy Addison, ua aʻo ʻo ia e pili ana i ka ʻohana lua o kāna kāne mai kahi nūpepa kūloko.
ʻOiai ʻo ia e noho ana i ka hana, ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia, ua ʻike ʻo ia i kahi ʻāpana me nā hoʻolaha o ka hānau ʻana o nā keiki ma ko lākou kūlanakauhale liʻiliʻi: ua helu ʻia nā inoa o nā mākua, ke kāne o ke keiki, ka lā hānau a me ka helu o ka haukapila.
Ke nānā nei ʻo Addison ma ka papa inoa, ua hālāwai ʻo Addison i ka inoa o kāna kāne (ma ke ala, kakaikahi loa), a ma hope ona ka inoa o kahi wahine kamaʻāina ʻole.
A laila hele ke kaikamahine i ka pūnaewele o ka haukapila, kahi i ʻike ai i ke kiʻi o kahi keikikāne hānau hou. Ua hoʻokomo ʻo ia i ka inoa o kona mau mākua ma ka ʻimi ʻimi a ʻike ʻo ia i hoʻokahi makahiki a me ka hapa ma mua, ua loaʻa i kāna kāne a me kahi wahine ʻike ʻole he keiki hou. "Pēlā koʻu ʻike ʻana ua hoʻopunipuni kaʻu kāne iaʻu," wahi a Amy.
Ma nā wikiō ma hope mai, ua hōʻike ka mea hoʻohana pūnaewele i kona ola ma hope o ka hōʻike ʻana i ka mea huna o kāna kāne: haʻalele ka wahine, lawe i ʻekolu keiki a neʻe aku e noho i kahi hōkele. Ma hope o kekahi manawa, hui ʻo Addison me kekahi kāne ʻē aʻe, a ma hope ua male lāua.