ʻO nā kāne a me nā wahine maikaʻi i waho, ʻoi aku ka naʻauao, ʻoi aku ka nani a me ka kūleʻa, ʻoiai inā ʻaʻohe o lākou mea e kaena ai koe wale nō ka nani. Ua ʻike ʻia kēlā mau makemake i nā keiki hoʻokahi makahiki a hoʻonui wale i ka makahiki.
'Ōlelo pinepineʻia mākou: "mai hoʻokolokolo ma ka helehelena", "mai hānau nani", "mai inu wai mai kou alo". Akā hōʻike nā haʻawina e hoʻomaka mākou e loiloi inā hiki ke hilinaʻi ʻia ke kanaka ma mua o 0,05 kekona ma hope o ka ʻike ʻana i kona mau maka. I ka manawa like, manaʻo ka hapa nui o ka poʻe e pili ana i nā helehelena like me ka hilinaʻi - nani. ʻOiai e pili ana i ka poʻe o ka lāhui ʻē aʻe, ʻano like ka manaʻo e pili ana i ko lākou nani kino.
E ho'āʻo i ka hana a nā keiki i nā malihini ma muli o ko lākou hoihoi, psychologists mai ka Science a me Technology University o Hangzhou (Kina) i hana hoʻokolohua i 138 keiki makahiki 8, 10 a me 12 makahiki, a me (no ka hoohalike ana) 37 haumāna.1.
Ma ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka polokalamu kamepiula, ua hana nā ʻepekema i nā kiʻi o 200 mau maka kāne (nā ʻōlelo kūʻokoʻa, kuhikuhi pololei ka nānā ʻana i mua) a noi i nā mea noiʻi e loiloi inā ʻoiaʻiʻo kēia mau helehelena. I hoʻokahi mahina ma hope mai, i ka wā i hiki ai i nā kumuhana ke hoʻopoina i nā helehelena i hōʻike ʻia iā lākou, ua kono hou ʻia lākou i ka hale hana, hōʻike ʻia nā kiʻi like, a noi ʻia e helu i ka nani kino o kēia poʻe like.
Ua ʻike nā keiki ʻewalu makahiki i nā helehelena nani a hilinaʻi hoʻi.
Ua ʻike ʻia nā keiki, ʻoiai i ka makahiki 8, i manaʻo i nā helehelena like he nani a hilinaʻi. Eia naʻe, i kēia makahiki, hiki ke ʻokoʻa ka hoʻoholo ʻana e pili ana i ka nani. ʻO ka nui o nā keiki, ʻoi aku ka nui o ko lākou manaʻo e pili ana i ka mea nani a ʻaʻole hoʻi, i hui pū me nā manaʻo o nā hoa a me nā pākeke ʻē aʻe. Manaʻo ka poʻe noiʻi e pili ana ka like ʻole o nā loiloi o nā keiki liʻiliʻi me ka oʻo ʻole o ko lākou lolo - ʻoi aku ka mea i kapa ʻia ʻo amygdala, e kōkua ana i ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i ka ʻike pili.
Eia naʻe, i ka pili ʻana i ka uʻi, ʻoi aku ka like o ka helu ʻana o nā keiki me ko nā mākua. ʻIke ʻia, aʻo mākou e hoʻomaopopo i ka mea nani a ʻaʻole hoʻi, mai ka wā kamaliʻi.
Eia kekahi, hoʻoholo pinepine nā keiki i ke kanaka i kūpono i ka hilinaʻi, e like me kā lākou ponoʻī, nā koina kūikawā (no ka laʻana, ma ke ʻano o waho i ko lākou alo a i ʻole ka maka o kahi pili pili).
1 F. Ma et al. "Nā Manaʻo Pono Pono o nā keiki: ʻaelike a me ka pilina me ka helehelena maka", Frontiers in Psychology, ʻApelila 2016.