PSYchology

He nui nā mākua e aʻo mai i kā lākou mau keiki, ʻo ka mea aʻoaʻo ʻoihana ʻo Nina Zvereva. ʻOi aku ka ʻelemakule, ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī o ka ʻike ʻana i ka mea hou. A poina pinepine mākou he mau mea kōkua nui mākou i ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i ka ʻike hou - kā mākou mau keiki. ʻO ka mea nui ʻaʻole e nalowale ka pilina a makemake i ko lākou ola.

He kumu nui nā keiki. ʻIke lākou i ka lawe ʻana iā mākou i kā mākou ʻōlelo, no laila pono ʻoe e noʻonoʻo pono ma mua o ka hoʻohiki ʻana i kekahi mea. ʻIke lākou i ke noi ʻana e hana i kahi mea a mākou i hana ʻole ai ma mua.

Ke hoʻomanaʻo nei au i ko māua ʻoki ʻana a me kaʻu kāne i ka pō i nā puke puke liʻiliʻi no nā pēpē a Katya no kona lā hānau. ʻAʻole ʻo ia i nīnau. Ua makemake nui ʻo ia i kēlā mau kikoʻī liʻiliʻi, makemake ʻo ia e pāʻani me nā pēpē i ka "ola makua". ʻO ia kā mākou i hoʻāʻo ai. ʻO kā mākou puʻupuʻu liʻiliʻi me nā puke pēpē pēpē ua lilo i makana maikaʻi loa ma ka honua!

Noʻu he hoʻāʻo. ʻOi aku ka maʻalahi o ka haku mele ma mua o ka hao ʻana i ke kapa o ke keiki me nā ʻili. He hoʻopaʻi maoli ka hana ʻana i nā hau hau no nā lā hoʻomaha ma ke kula kindergarten - ʻaʻole au i aʻo pehea e hana ai. Akā ua hana wau i kahi herbarium o nā lau ʻauʻau me ka hauʻoli!

Ua aʻo au i ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe ʻana i nā puka makani nui i loko o ka lumi papa, ʻoiai ua kokoke au e hāʻule mai ka papahele ʻehā, e makaʻu ana i ka hui makua holoʻokoʻa. A laila, hoʻouna hanohano ʻia wau e holoi i nā pākaukau mai nā ʻōlelo aloha like ʻole a me nā huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe i makemake ʻole e nalowale.

Ua ulu nā keiki. Ua ho'ōki koke lākou i ka makemake i nā meaʻai momona, a ua aʻo wau pehea e kuke ai i ka meaʻai meaʻai. Ua ʻōlelo pū lākou i ka ʻōlelo Pelekania maikaʻi loa, a pono wau e hana ikaika e hoʻomanaʻo i nā ʻōlelo kahiko a pau o ka ʻōlelo Pelekane a aʻo i kahi mea hou. Ma ke ala, no ka manawa lōʻihi, ua hilahila wau i ka ʻōlelo Pelekania me kaʻu mau keiki ponoʻī. Akā ua kākoʻo maikaʻi lākou iaʻu, mahalo nui iaʻu a hoʻololi wale i kekahi manawa i nā huaʻōlelo kūpono ʻole i nā huaʻōlelo i ʻoi aku ka pololei.

"Mama," haʻi mai kaʻu kaikamahine hiapo iaʻu, "ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hoʻohana i ka "makemake wau", ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka ʻōlelo ʻana "makemake wau". Ua hoʻāʻo wau i kaʻu mea maikaʻi loa, a i kēia manawa ua maikaʻi kaʻu ʻōlelo Pelekania. A mahalo nui i nā keiki. Ua male ʻo Nelya i kahi Hindu, a me ka ʻole o ka ʻōlelo Pelekane, ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke kamaʻilio me kā mākou Pranab aloha.

ʻAʻole aʻo pololei nā keiki i nā mākua, paipai nā keiki i nā mākua e aʻo. Inā ʻaʻole lākou makemake iā mākou. A ʻaʻole hiki ke lilo i mea hopohopo wale nō, ʻaʻole wau makemake. No laila, pono e heluhelu i nā puke a lākou e kamaʻilio nei, e nānā i nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni a lākou e hoʻomaikaʻi ai. ʻO ka hapa nui o ka manawa he ʻike maikaʻi, akā ʻaʻole mau.

He mau hanauna like ʻole mākou me lākou, he mea nui kēia. Ma ke ala, ua haʻi mai ʻo Katya iaʻu e pili ana i kēia, ua hoʻolohe ʻo ia i kahi haʻiʻōlelo hohonu hoihoi e pili ana i nā maʻamau a me nā maʻamau o ka poʻe 20-40-60. A ʻakaʻaka mākou, no ka mea, ʻike ʻia ʻo wau me kaʻu kāne ka hanauna "pono", ʻo kā mākou mau keiki ka hanauna "hiki", a ʻo kā mākou moʻopuna ka hanauna "makemake wau" - aia kekahi "ʻAʻole wau makemake" i waena. lakou.

ʻAʻole lākou e ʻae iā mākou e ʻelemakule, nā keiki a mākou. Hoʻopiha lākou i ke ola me ka hauʻoli a me ka makani hou o nā manaʻo hou a me nā makemake.

ʻO kaʻu mau kikokikona a pau - nā kolamu a me nā puke - hoʻouna wau i nā keiki no ka loiloi, a ma mua o ka paʻi ʻana. Laki wau: ʻaʻole lākou i heluhelu pono i nā manuscripts, akā kākau pū kekahi i nā loiloi kikoʻī me nā manaʻo ma nā ʻaoʻao. ʻO kaʻu puke hope loa, "Makemake lākou e kamaʻilio me aʻu," i hoʻolaʻa ʻia i kā mākou mau keiki ʻekolu, no ka mea, ma hope o nā loiloi i loaʻa iaʻu, ua hoʻololi loa au i ke ʻano a me ka manaʻo o ka puke, a lilo ia i hoʻokahi haneli mau manawa i ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi a ʻoi aku ka hou ma muli o keia.

ʻAʻole lākou e ʻae iā mākou e ʻelemakule, nā keiki a mākou. Hoʻopiha lākou i ke ola me ka hauʻoli a me ka makani hou o nā manaʻo hou a me nā makemake. Manaʻo wau i kēlā me kēia makahiki e lilo lākou i pūʻulu kākoʻo koʻikoʻi nui, hiki iā ʻoe ke hilinaʻi mau.

Aia kekahi poʻe mākua a me nā moʻopuna ʻōpio. A ʻoi aku ko lākou naʻauao a ʻoi aku ka naʻauao ma mua o ko mākou mau makahiki. I kēia makahiki ma ka dacha, e aʻo mai kaʻu moʻopuna hiapo iaʻu i ka kuke ʻana i nā kīʻaha gourmet, ke kakali nei au i kēia mau haʻawina. ʻO ke mele e hiki iaʻu ke hoʻoiho iaʻu e hoʻokani, aʻo kaʻu keiki iaʻu. A i ke ahiahi e pāʻani wau i ka Candy Crash, he pāʻani uila paʻakikī a hoihoi i ʻike ʻia e kaʻu moʻopuna India ʻo Piali iaʻu i ʻekolu makahiki aku nei.

'Ōlelo lākou, he hewa ke kumu i nalowale i ka haumāna iā ia iho. Me kaʻu hui kākoʻo, manaʻolana wau ʻaʻole wau i ka pilikia.

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