"ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke loaʻa koʻu wahi!"
“I ka hānau ʻana o kā mākou kaikamahine, ua ʻike ʻo Céline i nā mea āpau ma mua o kaʻu: mālama, ʻauʻau… Ua hana hewa wau i nā mea āpau! Aia ʻo ia i ka hypercontrol. Ua paʻa wau i nā kīʻaha, i ke kūʻai ʻana. I kekahi ahiahi, ma hope o hoʻokahi makahiki, ʻaʻole au i kuke i nā huaʻai “pono” a ua uē hou ʻia. Ua kūkākūkā au me Celine, me ka haʻi aku iā ia ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke loaʻa koʻu wahi makua kāne. Pono ʻo ia e hoʻokuʻu iki. Ua hoʻokō ʻo Céline, hope loa! A laila ua akahele loa ʻo ia, a liʻiliʻi a hiki iaʻu ke hoʻokau iaʻu iho. No ka lua, he kanaka liʻiliʻi, ua ʻoi aku koʻu hilinaʻi. ”
Bruno, makua kāne o 2 keiki
“He ʻano pupule ia.”
"Ma ka hui ʻana o ka makuahine-pepe, ke ʻae nei au ua nānā au me ka makaʻu hopohopo. I kēlā manawa, pūʻiwa wau, ʻaʻole wau i ʻike hou i kaʻu wahine. ʻO ia kekahi me kā mākou pēpē. Ua like ia me ke ano pupule. Ma kekahi ʻaoʻao, ʻike wau he super heroic. E hānai i ka u ma ke koi, e ʻeha i ka hānau ʻana, a i ʻole e ala ʻumi i ka pō e hānai i ka umauma… Ua kūpono kēia hui ʻana iaʻu: ʻoiai inā wau no ka kaʻana like ʻana i nā hana, ʻaʻole wau i manaʻo ua hiki iaʻu ke hana i kahi hoʻololi. he aha kāna i hana ai no kā māua keiki! ”
Richard, makua kāne o kahi keiki
"He kaulike kā kāua kāne."
"Mai ka hānau ʻana, ʻoiaʻiʻo, aia kahi ʻano fusion. Akā, manaʻo wau ma koʻu wahi, pili mai ka wā hāpai. Hoʻopuka koʻu hoa pili i ka "instinctively", hoʻolohe ʻo ia i kā mākou kaikamahine 2 mahina. Ke nānā nei au i ka ʻokoʻa: ʻike ikaika nā maka o Ysé i ka hōʻea ʻana mai o kona makuahine! Akā me aʻu, hana ʻo ia i nā mea ʻē aʻe: ʻauʻau wau, ʻaʻahu wau iā ia, a i kekahi manawa e hiamoe ʻo ia iaʻu. Ua kaulike maikaʻi kā mākou mau kāne: ua haʻalele kaʻu hoa iaʻu i nā manawa a pau e mālama i kā mākou kaikamahine. ”
ʻO Laurent, ka makua kāne o kahi keiki
Ka manaʻo o ka mea akamai
“Ma hope o ka hānau ʻana, aia ka hoʻowalewale i ka makuahine e noho 'hoʻokahi' me ka pēpē.Ma waena o kēia mau hōʻikeʻikeʻekolu, hoʻopuka kekahi o nā makuakāne i ka "huhū" o kāna wahine. ʻO ia ka hihia. ʻO kēia pilina fusion he mea maʻamau, makemake ʻia e ka hāpai ʻana a me ka mālama ʻana i nā pēpē. Pono kākou e mālama iā ia. Hiki i ka makuahine ke manaʻoʻiʻo ʻo ia wale nō ka mea hiki a pono e hana i nā mea āpau no kāna pēpē. ʻAʻole pono e hoʻokumu ʻia kēia mana mana i ka manawa. No kekahi mau wahine, paʻakikī loa ka hele ʻana mai hoʻokahi a ʻelua. ʻO ke kuleana o ka makua kāne ke hana ma ke ʻano he kolu, a e mālama i ka makuahine e kōkua iā ia e lilo hou i wahine. Akā no kēlā, pono ka wahine e ʻae e hāʻawi iā ia i wahi. ʻO ia ka mea e ʻae ʻaʻole ʻo ia ka mea āpau no kāna pēpē. ʻAʻole wale ʻo Bruno ʻaʻohe wahi, akā ua hoʻopau ʻia ʻo ia. Ua pilikia ia. Ua hōʻoia piha ʻo Richard i kēia hui ʻana. He hedonist ʻo ia, a kūpono kēlā iā ia! E makaʻala i ka mea e hiki mai ana ke ulu ke keiki! A aia ʻo Laurent ma kahi kūpono. ʻO ke kolu ʻo ia me ka makuahine ʻole ʻelua; lawe mai ia i kekahi mea i ke keiki a me kana wahine. He ʻokoʻa maoli nō. ”
Philippe Duverger Kumu psychiatrist keiki, Ke poʻo o ka 'Oihana Psychiatry a me
o ka ʻōpio ma ka Halemai o ke Kulanui o Angers, ke kaukaʻi kulanui.