PSYchology

ʻO ka hoʻāʻo Cobley e ana i nā hiʻohiʻona kikoʻī o ka ʻano hana hoʻomohala instinctive. Ua ʻike ʻo Cathy Colby ʻo ka instinct ke kumu o ka hoʻomohala kanaka a ua hana ʻo ia i kahi ʻano hana no kāu ʻano hana hoʻomohala. E haʻi ka hoʻāʻo iā ʻoe pehea e hōʻike ai iā ʻoe iho.

Ua ʻōlelo ʻo JK Rowling, me kāna mau puke Harry Potter, inā ʻaʻole ʻo ia i hoʻomaka e kākau - i waena o ka nele i ka hana a me kahi keiki i loko o kona mau lima, me ke kāne ʻole - inā ua hele pupule ʻo ia, a ʻo ka mea nui āna i hoʻomaopopo ai. ʻaʻole ʻoi aku kēlā me kēia o mākou ma mua o kona ʻano. Hāʻule mākou i ke ola inā hoʻāʻo mākou e lilo i mea ʻē aʻe ma mua o mākou iho. He hemahema ʻo ia a hiki i kona hoʻomaka ʻana e hana i kekahi mea āna i hauʻoli nui ai. Hoʻomaopopo ʻia ʻo Instincts e Colby ma ke ʻano he ala no ka ikehu subconscious, ʻo ia ke kumu e hoʻoikaika ai kekahi mau hana iā mākou a hoʻohauʻoli nui iā mākou i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.

ʻAʻole hiki i ka mea pāʻani ke hoʻokele i ke keʻena. ʻAʻole hiki i ka mea kākau ke kālepa. E ʻeha ka mea ʻoihana i ka hana secretarial, a ʻaʻole hiki i ke kākau ʻōlelo ke lilo i mea hoʻokele anti-crisis. Etc.

4 NA ANO HANA (ka hoʻomaka ʻana, pēlā e ʻōlelo ai) i hōʻike ʻia e Colby no kahi kanaka:

  1. KA HILI MAKEMAKE - ma kēia ʻano hana mākou e like me: pragmatist, noiʻi, arbiter, practitioner, judge or realist.
  2. HOPE IKAIKA - ma kēia ʻano, hana mākou ma ke ʻano: mea hoʻolālā, mea hoʻolālā, mea papahana, theorist, classifier, mea hana i ke kiʻi.
  3. HOOMAKA WIWAI - ma kēia ʻano, wikiwiki mākou i nā mea, generalize, improvise, enterprising, hoʻolaha, hana e like me ka impressionist.
  4. HOIKE - ma kēia ʻano, hana mākou, hoʻolei, kūkulu, ulana, hōʻike i ka dexterity manual, ulu.

Hoʻokumu ʻia kēia mau ʻano hana i nā instincts:

  • noiʻi hohonu,
  • wehewehe hoʻolālā,
  • ka pilina intuitive me ka maopopo ʻole (pilikia),
  • ka hoohuli ana i na manao i mea kino.

Hōʻike ʻia kēlā me kēia instinct me kahi ikaika a i ka nui a i ʻole ka liʻiliʻi. Hiki iā ia ke alakaʻi ikaika iā mākou, a laila hoʻoikaika ka hana e pili ana iā mākou - a he kahua hana nui kēia no mākou. ʻO ia hoʻi, inā makemake mākou a ʻaʻole paha, kuhikuhi mākou i ko mākou ikaika i ke ala e wehewehe ai mākou i ka wikiwiki, a i ʻole, he hōʻole wikiwiki. I kekahi manawa, ʻo ka manaʻo o ke kanaka ke koi ʻole e hana i kekahi mea. No ka laʻana, hōʻole ʻo JK Rowling i ke kūkulu ʻana i nā hale kākela ʻē aʻe ma waho o nā hale kākela ea. Wahi a Colby, he kālena nō hoʻi kēia! A ua ʻike mākou i ka hana.

ʻO kahi hiʻohiʻona ʻokoʻa o ka ikaika o kā mākou mau ʻano kū i waho. ʻO ke koena o ka ikehu e hāʻule i nā ʻano hana i koe, kahi e hoʻoikaika ai mākou e mālama i ka ikehu ma ka pale ʻana i nā pilikia e pili ana i kēia hana, a i ʻole e hoʻololi i kā mākou mau hana i kekahi ʻano ma kēia ala. No laila, ʻike ʻia ka ikaika o kēlā me kēia instinct iā ia iho i ʻekolu mau ala - ka wahi o ka wikiwiki, kūʻē a hoʻololi paha.

Hoʻohui nā mea a pau i kāu hui kūʻokoʻa, kahi e hiki ai ke huki i nā hopena lōʻihi e pili ana i ka holomua ma nā hana, ma ke kamaʻilio ʻana, ma ke aʻo ʻana.

Hoʻopau maʻalahi ʻia ke koʻikoʻi - inā ʻoe e hoʻomau i kekahi ʻano - e hana. Inā ʻaʻole, mai hana ʻoe. Mai hoʻoikaika iā ʻoe iho. Ma hope aku. Hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa ka manaʻo maʻalahi loa o ka mea a mākou e kamaʻilio nei ma ka nānā ʻana i ka hoʻāʻo ʻo Colby no nā keiki - i kēlā me kēia nīnau, hōʻike wale nā ​​pane i nā hōʻike o kekahi o nā instincts ʻehā, a me ka nānā ʻana i nā papa 1 a me 2. (Papa. Hōʻike ʻo 2 i ke ʻano Operandi (Mode of Action) ma muli o ke ʻano o ka wikiwiki - kū'ē, noho ʻana, a i ʻole (lalo) wikiwiki no kahi instinct i hāʻawi ʻia).

1 Pūnaewele

ʻO nā ʻano o ke aʻo ʻana mai kēia manaʻo a me kekahi mau hiʻohiʻona ʻē aʻe o ka poʻe, e hilinaʻi ana i ke kuhikuhi o ko lākou makana:

Ua paʻi ʻia ma ka puke a R. Kiyosaki "Rich Kid, Smart Kid"

2 Pūnaewele

Hōʻike i ka Modus Operandi (Mode of Action) e pili ana i ka wahi o ka wikiwiki - kū'ē, noho, a i ʻole (lalo) wikiwiki no kēia ʻano.

Nā kūmole

  • Index (hōʻoia) Colby

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