PSYchology

He aha ka mea e hele wale ai nā kānaka i nā hui kūikawā kahi i hoʻoweliweli ʻia ai lākou? Ke ʻimi nei ka mea nona kahi hālāwai huna i nā kumu kumu o ka sadomasochism no nā makahiki he nui. A eia kāna i ʻike ai.

Ua heluhelu paha ʻoe i kahi puke ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke waiho i lalo a hoʻomau i ka ʻai ʻana i ka ʻaoʻao ma hope o ka ʻaoʻao ma ke kaʻaahi, a laila ma ka escalator, a laila ma kāu pākaukau? A i ʻole ua hoʻonohonoho lākou i kahi "marathon serial" no lākou iho i kekahi o nā hopena pule, e nānā ana i nā moʻolelo ma hope o ke kaʻina me ke keakea ʻole?

Pēlā nō i ka wā o ke kau. ʻO ka manaʻo i kēia manawa e ola ana ʻoe, ke hana nei kou mau naʻau a pau a me nā manaʻo āpau a me kou noʻonoʻo e hāʻawi piha ʻia i ka ʻike o ka manaʻolana hopohopo.

He aha ka mea e hana mai ana?

ʻAʻole ʻike ka subordinate i kēia, ua hāʻawi piha ʻo ia i ka mana i ka hoa mana.

ʻAʻole pono ʻo ia e noʻonoʻo i kekahi mea a ʻaʻole pono e hana i nā hoʻoholo paʻakikī.

ʻAʻole pono ʻo ia e hana i kekahi mea. He mea kupanaha paha, hele mai ka poʻe i kaʻu hui e like me ka yoga a i ʻole ka noʻonoʻo ʻana.

Mālama lākou iā ia, mālama iā ia. Loaʻa iā ia kahi kanaka ʻaʻole ia e makaʻala ...

I kēia manawa, e ʻike iā ia me kēlā me kēia cell o kou kino. ʻIke nā mea hoʻokani pila a me nā mea pāʻani i kēia i ka manawa o ka manaʻo nui i ka wā o ka hana, ke pau ka honua holoʻokoʻa a aia wale nō ka mea a lākou e ʻike nei i kēia manawa, ʻelua ma ke kekona.

Ua koho lākou i ke ala paʻakikī no kēia, hele i ke aʻo ʻana a me ka hemahema. Ua koho ka masochist i kāna ʻano hana ponoʻī, ʻoiai ʻo ia wale nō ka mea hiki.

ʻO kēia kā lākou e hoʻi mai nei. ʻO nā mea a pau āu e hana ai, ʻo ka hoʻolohe a "e hahai i ke kahe."

Ma ka pae noʻonoʻo, hilinaʻi loa ka masochist i ka mana i ka hoa mana a ʻoluʻolu loa iā ia i ka wā e "mālama" ʻo ia i nā kaula ma luna ona.

Hoʻolohe ʻo ia i kāna ʻōlelo ʻana iā ia ʻaʻole e hanu, me he mea lā aia ʻo ia i ka wā kamaliʻi a ʻai ʻo ia i ka lāʻau pilau.

Mālama lākou iā ia, mālama iā ia. He kanaka mālama iā ia. A ʻike kēia kanaka i kāna makemake.

ʻIke paha ka masochist i kēia? Me he mea lā ua maopopo ka pane.

ʻO ka hana a ka Dominatrix ʻo ia ka hoʻohana ʻana i kāna mau hana e hoʻoheheʻe i kahi kanaka ma lalo ona i kahi mokuʻāina kahi e puka mai ai kāna mau moemoeā hohonu, ʻaʻole ʻo ia i haʻi aku i kekahi e pili ana iā ia.

No ka hana ʻana i kēia, ʻoliʻoli kāna ʻōnaehana aloha aloha ma o nā hana kuʻuna. ʻO nā paʻi a me nā kāʻei, ka ʻōlelo hōʻino (a, no laila, nā noi no ke aloha) he ʻāpana pono ia o ke kau, i ka wā e hoʻomaka ai ʻo ia e nānā i mua.

I ka wā o ke kau, loaʻa i ka masochist ke ʻano o ka pōʻino. Ma kahi pae physiological, ʻo ia ke ʻano o ka hana ʻana o ka adrenaline i ka adrenaline i ka nui.

A laila, i kona ʻike ʻana ua hala ka pōʻino, hoʻokuʻu ʻia nā endorphins. ʻO kēia nā analgesics kūlohelohe, kahi mea hōʻeha ʻeha, ka mea e hāʻawi iā mākou i nā opioids, e lawe mai i kahi manaʻo o ka mālie, hoʻomaha, hoʻomaha piha.

"He nui nā mea kūʻai e haʻi mai iaʻu," wahi a Morgese, he loea Dominatrix ma 55, "ma hope o ka pau ʻana o ke kau, manaʻo lākou euphoric, ecstatic."

He manaʻo ʻālohilohi a ikaika loa ia i ko lākou manaʻo e lana ana lākou ma luna o ka honua.

ʻO ke kūlana o ka euphoria ma hope o ke kau ʻana hiki ke mau no nā hola a i ʻole he mau pule. Ma hope o ka piʻi mua ʻana o ka euphoria, ua hoʻololi ʻia e kahi manawa i ʻike ai ka mea haʻahaʻa i ka emi ʻana o nā manaʻo, hiki ke hāʻule nui kona mahana ma hope o ka pau ʻana o ka hoʻokō.

Hoʻololi ʻia nā manaʻo hauʻoli e ka hiamoe a me ka hoʻomaha hohonu. He manaʻo pili ka mea haʻahaʻa, aloha hohonu, pono ʻo ia, a he mea ʻē ke kani ʻana, aloha.

Hoʻokumu ʻia kahi paʻa kūikawā ma waena o ka hoa mana a me kāna poʻe ma lalo, ʻoiai lākou e ʻike pū ai i kēlā mau manaʻo maopopo a pāpā ʻole i ʻike ʻia e kekahi wale nō. Ua ʻike lākou i kēlā mau ʻano o ke ola o kēlā me kēia i ʻike ʻole ʻia e kekahi.


E pili ana i ka loea: ʻO Sandra La Morgese he blogger a me ka mea kākau o nā ʻanuʻu 5 no ka kamaʻilio maikaʻi, ka wahine a me ka hauʻoli.

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