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ʻO ka hanana i loko o ka moeʻuhane o kekahi poʻe he mea maʻamau. ʻO ka pinepine, moeʻuhane mākou i ka poʻe kamaʻāina - ʻo ia hoʻi, manaʻo nui mākou i kekahi o lākou, a i ʻole hewa paha mākou i mua o lākou. Akā i kekahi manawa komo nā kiʻi ʻike ʻole i kā mākou moeʻuhane. Eia kekahi laʻana, hiki iāʻoe keʻike ma ka moeʻuhane i kahi keiki, he keikikāne, e pāʻani ana i loko o kahi lumi a iʻole e holo ana i loko o ka nahele, e uē aʻakaʻaka paha. Inā makemakeʻoe eʻike i ke kumu e moeʻuhane ai ke keiki, he keikikāne, a he aha nā mea e hoʻololi ai i ke ola e like me ka moeʻuhane,ʻo ia kona kūlana, a me keʻano o ke pēpē pono'ī, ponoʻoe e hoʻolohe. ʻO lākou ka mea nui no ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i ka hōʻailona e makemake ai ka subconscious a i ʻole ka hopena e hāʻawi iā ʻoe.
Ma ke ala, ʻo ka hapa nui, ʻae nā unuhi ʻōlelo ʻo ke keiki, ke keiki i ʻike ʻia i ka nui o kāu moeʻuhane, he wānana maikaʻi ia, he hōʻailona maikaʻi, he hōʻailona o ka kūleʻa a me nā loli maikaʻi.
No ke aha i moeʻuhane ai ke keiki i kahi keikikāne no nā wāhine a me nā kaikamāhine?
Huli pinepine ka poʻe moeʻuhane i nā puke moe e ʻimi i kahi pane e pili ana i ke kumu i ʻike ʻia ai kahi keikikāne iā lākou ma ka moeʻuhane, he aha ke ʻano o kēia? ʻO ka mea mua, ma o ia moeʻuhane, hiki i ka noʻonoʻo subconscious ke hoʻopili i kahi wahine: inā ʻike ka wahine male ʻole i kahi keiki hānau hou a kahi keikikāne e uē ana i loko o kahi kaʻa kaʻa, ʻōlelo kēia i kāna mau moeʻuhane no ka male ʻana, e hūnā paha iā ia iho a i ʻole. e hoʻi i hope, me ka manaʻo ʻaʻole i hiki mai ka manawa. Akā ʻo ia moeʻuhane e ʻōlelo nei ua ikaika loa ka makemake subconscious a ua kū mai ka hakakā o nā koi kūloko a me waho. No laila, ʻo ka manawa kēia e ʻimi ai i ka hoa kūpono.
Pono ke kaikamahine e makaʻala inā ma ka moeʻuhane e ʻimi ana ʻo ia i ke keiki a ke keikikāne nalowale. Hoʻomaopopo kēia moeʻuhane i nā pilikia e hiki mai ana, a e hāʻule ke kaikamahine i loko o ia mau mea ma muli o kona palaka a hoʻopunipuni paha. I kēia hihia, hōʻike ka moeʻuhane e pono ʻoe e noʻonoʻo nui i nā hoʻoholo āu e hana ai a ʻaʻole hilinaʻi i ka poʻe e hoʻokau iā ʻoe i nā hana ʻokoʻa no kou ʻano.
Ke keiki kāne ma ka puke moe a Longo
Manaʻo ka mea unuhi ʻōlelo i ka moeʻuhane o kahi keikikāne he harbinger o ka waiwai nui, e hāʻule ʻole ʻia ma luna ou a e ʻoluʻolu nui iā ʻoe me kēia. Ke moeʻuhane nei ke keiki akamai a me ka uʻi i ke ola hauʻoli a lōʻihi. Akā inā uē ke keiki i loko o kāu moeʻuhane a ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻomaha, a laila pono ʻoe e hāʻawi koke i ka manawa i kāu ʻoihana, e hoʻāʻo nei e haʻalele i kekahi mea nui. ʻO ka mālama ʻole ʻana i kēia ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo o ke ao holoʻokoʻa hiki ke alakaʻi i nā poho kālā nui. ʻAʻole kahi hōʻailona maikaʻi loa a me ka ʻike ʻana i kāu moeʻuhane o kahi keikikāne hoʻoweliweli e holo wikiwiki nei i kahi hakakā. ʻO kāu subconscious, ma ke ʻano o ka mea hoʻoweliweli, hōʻike i kou ʻano i loko, e hōʻike ana i nā pilikia a me nā paio ke kali iā ʻoe. Eia kekahi, ʻo ka poʻe āu i manaʻo ai he mau hoaaloha pili paha ka hewa no lākou.
Ke keiki kāne ma ka puke moe a Miller
ʻO ka mea unuhi'ōlelo e nānā nui i ka hana a ke keiki, ke keikikāne i kāu moeʻuhane. Wahi a ka mea kākau o ka puke moe, ua maʻalahi nā wehewehe ʻana ma aneʻi. ʻO ka mea nui, inā i loko o ka moeʻuhane e uwē ana kahi keiki, a laila, ʻoiaʻiʻo, e kali ana kekahi mau pilikia, nā poho, nā maʻi a me nā lono kaumaha. Inā ʻaʻole, ʻakaʻaka a hauʻoli ka malihini o kāu moeʻuhane, ua hoʻohiki ʻia ʻoe i nā manaʻo ikaika, aloha, nā manaʻo hou. No nā mea kākau, nā mea hoʻokani, nā haku mele, nā mea hoʻolālā a me nā ʻelele o nā ʻoihana hoʻomohala ʻē aʻe, ʻo ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kahi keikikāne e hoʻohiki i kahi kipa wikiwiki mai ka muse. He mea maikaʻi inā ʻoluʻolu a nani ke keiki āu i moeʻuhane ai – i kēia hihia, e kali ana ka waiwai a me ka hauʻoli iā ʻoe. Inā hāʻawi ka pēpē iā ʻoe i kahi mea ma ka moeʻuhane, he hōʻailona ʻoiaʻiʻo kēia e hāʻule wale ka maikaʻi kālā a me ke kālā iā ʻoe mai ke kaupaku.
ʻO nā moeʻuhane e pili ana i kahi keiki kāne he mea koʻikoʻi ia no nā kaikamahine. No ka wahine maikaʻi, ʻo ia mau moeʻuhane ke hōʻike nei ʻo ia ka manawa e mālama ai i kou inoa ponoʻī, e nānā pono i kou puni a mahalo i ka poʻe āna i hilinaʻi ai. ʻO ka nani i mareʻoleʻia iʻike iā ia iho i ka moeʻuhane me kahi keiki ma kona mau lima e makaʻu i nā kānaka alohaʻole i kaʻoiaʻiʻo -ʻoi aku paha, e kumakaiaʻiaʻo ia e kekahi mea kokoke iā ia. ʻO ka makeʻana o kāna pēpē pono'ī no ka wahine ma ka moeʻuhane,ʻo ia wale nō ka makaʻu i kekahi mea maoli,ʻaʻole maopopo i kona wā e hiki mai ana. Akā inā pili ka moeʻuhane i kahi keiki kamaʻāina ʻole, āu i kapa ai i kāu keiki, e makaʻala i ka pilina - hiki i kahi mea aloha ke kumakaia iā ʻoe.
Ke keiki kāne ma ka puke moe a Tsvetkov
No ka poʻe i moeʻuhane i kahi keiki kāne, ʻōlelo ka unuhi ʻōlelo e hoʻolohe i ke ʻano o kā lākou hana ʻana me ka pēpē ma ka moeʻuhane. Aloha ʻoe i ka hihiʻo āu i pāʻani ai me ke keiki i ʻike ʻia iā ʻoe ma hope o nā maka paʻa. ʻO kēlā moeʻuhane he hōʻailona ia o kahi manawa maikaʻi o ke ola, kahi kūlana kūleʻa, e lōʻihi loa. Laki ʻoe ma ke aloha, ma ka ʻoihana, a ma nā mea kālā.
Ke keiki kāne ma ka puke moe a Vanga
'Ōlelo nā mea unuhi'ōlelo i kahi keikikāne iʻikeʻoleʻia ma ka moeʻuhane āu i hālāwai ai ma ke alanui he hōʻike ia o ka kānalua pono'ī, nā hopohopo e pili ana i kou wā e hiki mai ana. Noʻonoʻo nui ʻoe i ka lā ʻapōpō, ʻaʻole ʻoe i ʻike i ka mea e manaʻo ai mai ia mea, malia paha ʻo ia mau kānalua a me ka hoʻolei ʻana e pale iā ʻoe mai ka noho ʻana a me ka ulu maʻamau, a hiki i kēia moeʻuhane ke koi iā ʻoe e hoʻoholo e nīnau i kahi psychologist. Mai hilahila i kēia, no ka mea, i kēia hihia, ʻaʻole makehewa ka subconscious e hoʻāʻo e huki i kou manaʻo i ka pilikia, ʻo kāna hoʻonā e ʻae iā ʻoe e hoʻokō i nā kiʻekiʻe kiʻekiʻe.
ʻAʻole ia ka hōʻailona maikaʻi loa e ʻike i kahi pēpē ʻōlohelohe loa i ka moeʻuhane, he keiki kāne. Hōʻike kēia i kahi kūlana kālā paʻakikī ke kali nei iā ʻoe, a he liʻiliʻi e hilinaʻi iā ʻoe. E ho'āʻo e noʻonoʻo nui i ke kālā, e pale aku i ka pau ʻole a me nā hana hoʻokipa. Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi hāʻawi kālā maikaʻi, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hōʻole - ʻaʻole like nā mea āpau e like me ka mea i kēia manawa.
Hoʻomaopopo ka moeʻuhane i nā hemahema āu e paʻa ai i ke pēpē me nā lima lepo. Akā inā ʻakaʻaka ka pēpē, hiamoe maikaʻi ma kou mau lima, hōʻike i nā hōʻailona o ke aloha - e manaʻo i ka holomua a ʻike ʻoe e kūleʻa ana ʻoe i kāu mea i manaʻo ai.
ʻO ka ʻōlelo a ke kanaka hoʻonaʻauao
Maria Khomyakova, psychologist, hoʻoponopono kiʻi, hoʻoponopono moʻolelo moʻolelo:
He nui nā ʻano o kēia kiʻi. ʻO kahi keiki ma ka umauma o ka makuahine e hōʻailona ana i ka hoʻomaka o kahi ola hou, nā hana. Hiki i ke keikikāne ke hana ma ke ʻano he kiʻi o ke keiki akua nona ka mana nui no ka loli a nāna e hoʻohālikelike i ka lokahi o nā mea kū'ē. ʻO ka hōʻailona o ka pono o ke kanaka a me ka noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ke kiʻi o kahi keikikāne i ka moeʻuhane.
Hiki nō hoʻi ma o ia moeʻuhane e kāhea aku kāu keiki i loko iā ʻoe, ʻo ia ka mea nui e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kāna mau makemake a me kona pono. No ka loheʻana iā ia, eʻike i kou hiki, e ho'āʻo e hoʻomanaʻo i nā mea a ke keiki moeʻuhane i hana ai, i kāna mea e kamaʻilio nei, no ke aha i hele mai ai?