ʻO nā mea a nā kāne e kamaʻilio ʻole ai ma hope o ka haʻihaʻi ʻana: ʻelua ʻae

"ʻAʻole mākou i hoʻokaʻawale ma ke ʻano he mau hoaaloha e hui ai no ke kīʻaha kofe a hoʻololi i nā nūhou"

ʻO Ilya, 34 mau makahiki

Me he mea lā e noho mau ana māua ʻo Katya, ʻaʻohe mea i hana ʻia. ʻAʻole au i noʻonoʻo e nalowale ana iaʻu. Ua hoʻomaka ia me ke aloha ikaika, ʻaʻole wau i ʻike i kekahi mea like me kēia no kekahi i koʻu mau makahiki 30.

Ma mua koke o ko mākou hālāwai ʻana, ua make koʻu makuahine, a ʻo Katya, ma kona ʻano hiʻohiʻona, ua kōkua mai iaʻu e ola hou ma hope o ka nalowale. Akā naʻe, ua hoʻomaka koke wau e hoʻomaopopo i ka nalowale ʻana o koʻu makuahine, ua nalowale hoʻi au i koʻu makuakāne. Ma hope o kona make ʻana, hoʻomaka ʻo ia e inu. Ua hopohopo wau, akā ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke hana i kekahi mea a hōʻike wale i ka huhū a me ka huhū.

Ua hele hewa nā mea i ka ʻoihana. He hui kūkulu hale kā māua me koʻu hoa, ua oki mākou i ka loaʻa ʻana o nā ʻaelike. Manaʻo wau ʻaʻole liʻiliʻi no ka mea ʻaʻohe oʻu ikaika no kekahi mea. Ua ho'āʻoʻo Katya e kamaʻilio me aʻu, ua hele mai me nā huakaʻi i manaʻoʻoleʻia. Ua hōʻike ʻo ia i nā hana mana o ka mālie a me ka hoʻomanawanui. Ua hele au i loko o kahi lumi pouli a pani i ka puka ma hope oʻu.

Ua makemake mau ʻo Katya a me ka hele wāwae a puni ke kūlanakauhale, e hele i ke ʻano. Akā i kēia manawa ua hoʻomau lākou i ka hana ʻana me ka hāmau loa. ʻAʻole wau i ʻōlelo a ʻōlelo ʻino paha iā ia. Hiki i nā mea liʻiliʻi ke lawe. ʻAʻole noi i kala ʻia. A hāmau ʻo ia i kāna pane ʻana.

ʻAʻole au i hoʻolohe i ka hoʻonui ʻana o kona noho ʻana i ka pō me kona makuahine a, ma lalo o kekahi kumu, hoʻolilo ʻo ia i kona manawa kaʻawale me kāna mau hoaaloha. ʻAʻole wau i manaʻo ua hoʻopunipuni ʻo ia iaʻu. I kēia manawa ua maopopo iaʻu ʻo ka noho pū ʻana me aʻu he mea hiki ʻole ke hoʻomanawanui iā ia.

I kona haʻi ʻana mai iaʻu e haʻalele ana ʻo ia, ʻaʻole wau i hoʻomaopopo mua. Me he mea lā hiki ʻole. ʻO ia ka manawa aʻu i ala ai no ka manawa mua, noi aku iā ia ʻaʻole e hana i kēia, e hāʻawi iā mākou i kahi manawa lua. A ʻo ka mea kupanaha, ua ʻae ʻo ia. Ua lilo kēia i mea hoʻoikaika aʻu e pono ai. Me he mea lā ua ʻike wau i ke ola i nā kala maoli a ʻike i ka nui o kaʻu Katya i aloha iaʻu.

Ua kamaʻilio nui mākou, uē ʻo ia a no ka manawa lōʻihi i haʻi mai iaʻu e pili ana i kona mau manaʻo. A ua hoʻolohe wau iā ia. Manaʻo wau ʻo ka hoʻomaka kēia o kahi pae hou - e mare mākou, e loaʻa iā mākou kahi keiki. Ua nīnau au iā ia inā makemake ʻo ia i keikikāne a kaikamahine paha…

Akā i hoʻokahi mahina ma hope mai, ua ʻōlelo mālie ʻo ia ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke hui pū. Ua hala kona mau manaʻo a makemake ʻo ia e ʻoiaʻiʻo iaʻu. Mai kona nānā ʻana, ʻike wau ua hoʻoholo ʻo ia i nā mea āpau a he mea ʻole ke kamaʻilio ʻana no ia mea. ʻAʻole au i ʻike hou iā ia.

ʻAʻole mākou i hoʻokaʻawale ma ke ʻano he mau hoaaloha e hui ai no ke kofe a haʻi kekahi i kekahi e pili ana i ka nūhou - he mea ʻeha loa ia. I kona haʻalele ʻana, ua ʻike wau he koho kaʻu: e hoʻomau i ka poho i lalo a i ʻole e hana i kekahi mea me koʻu ola. Ua hoʻoholo wau e pono iaʻu ke kōkua. A hele i ka lāʻau lapaʻau.

Pono wau e wehe i nā kuʻekuʻe he nui i loko oʻu iho, a hoʻokahi makahiki ma hope mai ua maopopo iaʻu ka nui. Ua hiki iaʻu ke ʻōlelo aloha i koʻu makuahine, ua kala wau i koʻu makuakāne. A hoʻokuʻu iā Katya e hele.

I kekahi manawa, minamina nui au i koʻu hālāwai ʻana me ia, me he mea lā, i ka manawa kūpono ʻole. Inā hiki i kēia manawa, ʻokoʻa koʻu ʻano a, ʻaʻole paha e luku i kekahi mea. Akā, he mea ʻole ka noho ʻana i nā moʻo moemoeā o ka wā i hala. Ua maopopo iaʻu kēia ma hope o ko mākou kaʻawale ʻana, e uku ana i ke kumu kūʻai nui no kēia haʻawina.

"ʻO nā mea a pau i pepehi ʻole e hoʻoikaika iā ʻoe" ʻaʻole pili iā mākou

Oleg, 32 makahiki

Ua male māua ʻo Lena ma hope o ka puka ʻana a ua hoʻoholo koke wau e wehe i kā mākou ʻoihana ponoʻī - kahi hui logistics a kūkulu hale. Ua holo maikaʻi nā mea a pau, ua hoʻonui mākou i kā mākou hui. Me he mea lā ua pale aku nā pilikia i loaʻa i nā kāne e hana pū ana - ua hiki iā mākou ke kaʻana like i ka hana a me nā pilina.

ʻO ka pilikia kālā i hana ʻia he hōʻike ikaika no ko mākou ʻohana. Pono e pani kahi laina o ka ʻoihana. Ua loaʻa mālie mākou iā mākou iho i ka ʻaiʻē, ʻaʻole i ka helu ʻana i ko mākou ikaika. Ua hoʻomaka nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo i kekahi i kekahi. Ua hōʻaiʻē malū au i kaʻu wahine. Manaʻolana wau e kōkua kēia, akā ua huikau wale i kā mākou mau hana.

I ka hōʻike ʻia ʻana o nā mea a pau, ua huhū ʻo Lena. Ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia he kumakaia, hoʻopaʻa i kāna mau mea a haʻalele. Ua manaʻo wau ʻo kāna hana kumakaia. Ua ho'ōki mākou i ke kamaʻilio ʻana, a ʻaʻole koke, ma o nā hoaaloha, ua ʻike koke wau ua loaʻa iā ia kekahi.

ʻO ka mea maʻamau, ʻo kēia, ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole hiki ke kapa ʻia he kipi - ʻaʻole mākou i hui pū. Akā ua hopohopo nui au, ua hoʻomaka wau e inu. A laila ʻike wau - ʻaʻole kēia he koho. Lawe wau iaʻu iho ma ka lima. Hoʻomaka mākou e hui me Lena - pono e hoʻoholo i kā mākou ʻoihana. Ua alakaʻi nā hālāwai i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ua hoʻāʻo mākou e hoʻihoʻi i ka pilina, akā ma hope o hoʻokahi mahina ua ʻike ʻia ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻopili ʻia kēia "kiʻaha".

Ua ʻae kaʻu wahine ma hope o ka moʻolelo me ka hōʻaiʻē ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hilinaʻi iaʻu. A ʻaʻole au i kala iā ia no ka maʻalahi o kona haʻalele ʻana a hoʻomaka i ka launa pū me kekahi. Ma hope o ka ho'āʻo hope loa i ke ola pū, ua hoʻoholo mākou e haʻalele.

Ua paʻakikī iaʻu no ka manawa lōʻihi. Akā ua kōkua ka ʻike - ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke ola me he mea lā ʻaʻohe mea i hana ma hope o ka mea i hana ʻia. E mau ana ka paulele a me ka inaina ma waena o kāua. ʻO ka paio liʻiliʻi - a ʻā nā mea āpau me ka ikaika hou. "ʻO ka mea pepehi ʻole iā mākou e ikaika ai mākou" - ʻaʻole pili kēia mau ʻōlelo iā mākou. Eia nō naʻe, he mea nui ka pale ʻana i ka pilina a ʻaʻole hiki i kahi o ka hoʻi ʻole.