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ʻEhia mau manawa āu i lohe ai a heluhelu paha i kēia ʻōlelo aʻo? A pehea ka hana pinepine ʻana i kahi kūlana paʻakikī, i ka wā ʻino maoli ʻoe? Me he mea lā ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hoʻokumu ʻana mai ka psychology kaulana i ka haʻaheo o ke kākāʻōlelo ma mua o ke kōkua ʻana i ka mea i pilikia. No ke aha mai? ʻŌlelo kā mākou loea.
No hea mai ia?
Nui nā hana i ke ola, maikaʻi a maikaʻi ʻole. ʻOiaʻiʻo, makemake mākou a pau i ka mea mua a me ka liʻiliʻi o ka lua, a ʻo ka mea maikaʻi loa, e kūpono nā mea āpau ma ka laulā. Akā hiki ʻole kēia.
Hiki mai nā pilikia me ka manaʻo ʻole, hoʻoulu i ka hopohopo. A no ka manawa lōʻihi e hoʻāʻo nei ka poʻe e ʻimi i nā wehewehe hōʻoluʻolu no nā hanana like ʻole, mai ko mākou manaʻo.
Ua wehewehe kekahi i nā pōʻino a me nā poho ma muli o ka makemake o ke akua a i ʻole ke akua, a laila pono e ʻae ʻia kēia ma ke ʻano he hoʻopaʻi a i ʻole he ʻano hana hoʻonaʻauao. ʻO nā mea'ē aʻe - nā kānāwai o ka karma, a lailaʻo ia, "ka ukuʻana i nā aie" no nā hewa i nā ola i hala. Hoʻomohala kekahi i nā ʻano manaʻo esoteric a me pseudo-scientific.
Aia kekahi ʻano like: "Hiki nā mea maikaʻi - hauʻoli, hiki mai nā mea ʻino - e ʻae me ka mahalo i ʻike." Akā hiki anei i kēia ʻōlelo aʻo ke hōʻoluʻolu, hōʻoluʻolu a wehewehe paha i kekahi mea? A i ʻole, ʻoi aku ka pōʻino?
"Hōʻoia" efficacy?
ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo kaumaha, ʻaʻole pono kēia ʻōlelo aʻo i ka hana. ʻOi loa ke hāʻawi ʻia e kekahi kanaka, mai waho. Akā kaulana loa ka ʻōlelo. A i ko mākou manaʻo ua "hōʻoia" kona pono e ka ʻike pinepine ʻana i nā puke, i nā ʻōlelo a nā poʻe koʻikoʻi, nā alakaʻi manaʻo.
E ʻae kākou: ʻaʻole hiki i kēlā me kēia kanaka a ʻaʻole i nā kūlana ke ʻōlelo ʻoiaʻiʻo ua pono ʻo ia i kēia a i ʻole kēlā ʻike maikaʻi ʻole, inā ʻaʻole ʻo ia e hoʻokele i ke ola ma kekahi ʻano a mākaukau paha e ʻōlelo aku i ke aloha no ka ʻeha i ʻike ʻia.
manaʻo pilikino
ʻOiaʻiʻo, inā ʻo ia ka manaʻo o loko o ke kanaka a manaʻoʻiʻo ʻo ia pēlā, he mea ʻokoʻa loa kēia. No laila, i kekahi lā, ma ka hoʻoholo 'aha hoʻokolokolo, ua hele ikaika ʻo Tatyana N. ma kahi o ka hale paʻahao no ka hoʻohui i ka lāʻau.
Ua haʻi mai ʻo ia iaʻu ua hauʻoli ʻo ia i kēia ʻike maikaʻi ʻole - ka hoʻāʻo a me ka koi ʻana i ka mālama ʻana. No ka mea, ʻaʻole ʻo ia e hele i kahi e lapaʻau ai, a ma kāna ʻōlelo ponoʻī, i kekahi lā e make hoʻokahi ʻo ia. A, e hoʻoholo ana i ke kūlana o kona kino, hiki koke mai kēia "lā".
ʻO ia wale nō ka hana o kēia manaʻo. No ka mea ua ʻike mua ʻia a ʻae ʻia ka ʻike pilikino, kahi e huki ai ke kanaka i nā hopena.
olelo hookamani
Akā, ke hāʻawi ʻia ka ʻōlelo aʻo i ke kanaka e hele ana i kahi kūlana paʻakikī "mai luna a lalo", ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka haʻaheo o ke kākāʻōlelo. A no ka mea pilikia, ua like ia me ka emi ʻana o kāna mau ʻike paʻakikī.
Ua kamaʻilio hou wau me kahi hoaaloha e kamaʻilio nui ana e pili ana i ka philanthropy a manaʻo iā ia iho he kanaka lokomaikaʻi. Ua kono au iā ia e komo (ma nā mea a i ʻole nā mea) i ke ola o kahi wahine hāpai hoʻokahi. Ma muli o nā kūlana, ua waiho wale ʻia ʻo ia me ka hana ʻole a me ke kākoʻo ʻole, ʻaʻohe mea e loaʻa ai ka pono. A ma mua o nā hana a me nā lilo e pili ana i ka hānau ʻana o ka pēpē, ʻoiai ʻo ia i hoʻoholo ai e haʻalele a hānau.
"ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke kōkua," wahi a koʻu hoaaloha iaʻu. "No laila pono ʻo ia i kēia ʻike maikaʻi ʻole." "A he aha ka ʻike o ka ʻai ʻole no ka wahine hāpai e kokoke ana e hānau keiki - a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi? Hiki iā ʻoe ke kōkua iā ia: no ka laʻana, hānai a hāʻawi i nā lole i makemake ʻole ʻia, "wahi aʻu. "ʻIke ʻoe, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kōkua, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke keʻakeʻa, pono ʻo ia e ʻae i kēia," kūʻē ʻo ia iaʻu me ka manaʻoʻiʻo.
Liʻiliʻi nā ʻōlelo, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā hana
No laila, i koʻu lohe ʻana i kēia ʻōlelo a ʻike i ke ʻano o ko lākou ʻoki ʻana i ko lākou poʻohiwi i nā lole makamae, ke kaumaha a me ka ʻawaʻawa. ʻAʻohe mea pale i ke kaumaha a me nā pilikia. A hiki i ka mea aʻoaʻo o nehinei ke lohe i ka huaʻōlelo like i kahi kūlana paʻakikī: "E ʻae me ka mahalo ma ke ʻano he ʻike." Ma ʻaneʻi wale nō "ma kēlā ʻaoʻao" hiki ke ʻike ʻia kēia mau ʻōlelo ma ke ʻano he ʻōlelo hoʻohenehene. No laila inā ʻaʻohe kumu a i ʻole makemake e kōkua, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hoʻoluliluli i ka lewa ma ka haʻi ʻana i nā huaʻōlelo maʻamau.
Akā, ke manaʻoʻiʻo nei au he mea nui a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kekahi kumukānāwai i ko mākou ola. Ma kahi o ka "akamai" hua'ōlelo - aloha aloha, kākoʻo a me ke kōkua. E hoʻomanaʻo i ka ʻōlelo ʻana o kahi ʻelemakule akamai i kāna keiki: "E hana maikaʻi a hoʻolei i loko o ka wai"?
ʻO ka mua, hoʻihoʻi ʻia kēlā ʻano lokomaikaʻi me ka mahalo i ka wā i manaʻo ʻole ʻia ai. ʻO ka lua, hiki iā mākou ke ʻike i loko o mākou iho i kēlā mau talena a me nā mākaukau ʻaʻole mākou i kānalua a hiki i ko mākou hoʻoholo ʻana e komo i ke ola o kekahi. A ʻo ke kolu, e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o mākou - no ka mea e hāʻawi mākou i kekahi me ke kōkua maoli.