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ʻAʻole pono e hoʻomākaukau hou ʻia ka lā makuahine ma nā kula
Goodbye noodle lei, goodbye camembert boxes turned into jewelry box, ʻaʻole pono e hana hou nā keiki i nā mea kupanaha no ka lā makuahine. I kekahi manawa ma kekahi mau papa Hoʻolauleʻa ʻia ka "La makua" me kahi mele, e pale aku i ka hōʻeha ʻana i nā keiki ʻaʻohe makuahine. Eia naʻe, ke nīnau ʻia, pili loa nā makuahine i kēia kuʻuna. ʻO nā mea ʻē aʻe, ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, hoʻomaopopo ʻaʻole i hana ʻia me ka ʻōnaehana. Nā hōʻike.
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ʻO kēia mau kula kahi a mākou e hoʻolauleʻa ʻole ai i nā makuahine…
Ma kekahi mau kula, ua hoʻoholo nā kumu e hoʻomākaukau hou no ka lā makuahine me nā keiki. Hoʻopuka pinepine lākou i nā kūlana ʻohana paʻakikī a ʻeha paha. ʻO nā makuahine make, nā keiki i hoʻonoho ʻia i kahi hānai, o ka oki mare e hoonele ana i ke keiki o kekahi makua, ʻaʻole paha e ulu hou kekahi mau kamaliʻi me ko lākou makuahine ma ka home. ʻO kēia ka hihia ma ke kula o ke keiki kāne a Zina, he makuahine e hōʻike ana ma nā pūnaewele kaiapuni: "Ma ke kula kokoke i koʻu home, e pale aku i ka hoʻohilahila ʻana i nā keiki nona ka ʻohana ʻaʻole kuʻuna kuʻuna, ua hoʻonohonoho ʻia kahi "La Mākua" kahi i Hāʻawi nā keiki i nā makana i hana ʻia i ka makahiki ”. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole maʻalahi i ke kumu ke hoʻonohonoho i kahi "pāʻina" aʻo kekahi mau keiki e ʻike i nā manawa koʻikoʻi ma ka home. Ua hōʻoia mai kahi kumu iā mākou: "Mai ka ʻike, hāʻawi i kahi hana i kahi keiki 5 makahiki e pane mai iā ʻoe" Aia koʻu makuahine i loko o ka hale paʻahao, aia wau i kahi ʻohana hānai ", ʻaʻole maʻalahi. No laila ke kūʻē nei au i ka hoʻolauleʻa ʻana ma ke kula, inā ʻo ka Easter, Kalikimaka a me nā lā hoʻomaha o nā ʻano a pau… He secularism hoʻi kēia ”. Ua hōʻoia kekahi makuahine: "Ma ka papa o kaʻu keikikāne, aia kekahi kaikamahine liʻiliʻi ua make kona makuahine. No laila ʻaʻole mākou e hoʻolauleʻa i ka lā makuahine, i ʻole e hōʻeha iā ia. “
ʻO ka lā makuahine, he hanana honua
Hoʻolauleʻa ʻia ka lā makuahine no ka hanohano o nā makuahine a puni kahonua. ʻOkoʻa ka lā o kēia hanana mai ʻāina i ʻāina. Ma Farani, ʻo ia ka Lāpule hope loa o Mei. ʻO ka lā makuahine mua mai ka lā 28 o Mei, 1906, i kapa ʻia i ka manawa “Festival under the patronage of all French mothers”. Ma hope o ke Kaua Honua ʻElua, ʻo ke kānāwai o Mei 24, 1950 e koi i ka Lepupalika Farani e hoʻohanohano i kēlā me kēia makahiki i nā makuahine Farani, i ka lā i hoʻolaʻa ʻia no ka hoʻolauleʻa ʻana i ka "La Mother".
ʻO ka lā i hoʻopaʻa ʻia no ka Lāpule hope o Mei, ke ʻole ia e hui pū me ka Penetekota, a laila hoʻopanee ʻia i ka Lāpule mua o Iune. Ua hoʻokomo ʻia kēia mau mea i loko o ke Code of Social Action and Families i ka wā i hoʻokumu ʻia ai i ka makahiki 1956, a me ka hui ʻana o ka pāʻina i hāʻawi ʻia i ke Kuhina no ka ʻohana mai 2004. Ma kēia manawa, ʻōlelo ʻia nā kuʻuna e hōʻailona nā keiki i ka manawa me kahi makana. a i ʻole he mele no ko lākou makuahine. ʻO ka pinepine, ua hana ʻia kēia mau mea liʻiliʻi ma ke kula, ma kahi huna, e kāhāhā i nā makuahine. Ke loli nei naʻe ka manawa, i kēia lā me he mea lā ua nalowale kēia kuʻuna…
ʻO kahi koho: "ka ʻahaʻaina a ka poʻe a mākou e aloha ai"
Wahi a kekahi kumu, ʻo Vanessa, e hana ana ma kahi kula ma ka ʻāina ʻo Paris: "I nā makahiki i hala iho nei, ua ʻike mākou he nui a nui nā keiki i hoʻokahi wale nō makua ma ka home. Ua lawe mākou i ka hoʻoholo, i loko o ka ʻaha kūkā o nā haku, e hoʻolauleʻa i ka "ʻahaʻaina o ka poʻe a mākou e aloha ai". Hōʻike ʻo Vanessa e hiki i ke keiki ke hana i kahi kāleka me kahi mele a i ʻole kahi leka nani no kāna mea i koho ai. "Ua hoʻolālā ʻia no kahi lā ma waena o nā lā hoʻomaha ʻelua, nā makuahine a me nā makuakāne, no laila ʻaʻohe pilikia," wahi a ke kumu. No kekahi mau keiki, ʻo ia hoʻi, i kā lākou moʻomeheu kumu, ʻaʻohe lā o ka makuahine. “Ke wehewehe nei au i ka papa he hoʻolauleʻa kuʻuna ia, koho mākou i ka mea a mākou e aloha ai e hoʻouna aku i kahi leka. Hoʻomaopopo maʻalahi nā keiki. ʻAʻole pono nā nīnau ". Ua ʻōlelo pū ʻo Vanessa no nā keiki nona nā mākua ʻelua, “ua maikaʻi nō hoʻi. Maopopo iā lākou." ʻO ka hope, hauʻoli nā mākua ʻē aʻe no ka mea he kāleka mele kā lākou. “Hōʻike ke keiki i kona aloha i ka makua, ʻo ia ka mea e manaʻo ai nā ʻohana. ʻO kēia hoʻi ka manaʻo o kekahi makuahine: "Ma ka papa o kaʻu keiki, ʻo ia ka" ʻahaʻaina a ka poʻe a mākou e aloha ai ". ʻIke wau he nani a hoʻonaʻauao loa mai ka manaʻo kanaka ".
Hoʻokuʻu ʻia ka lā makuahine, pane nā makuahine
ʻAʻole hauʻoli nā kānaka a pau i ka hoʻolauleʻa ʻole ʻana i ka lā makuahine. He nui nā makuahine i pane maoli ma nā pūnaewele kaiapili. ʻO kēia ka hihia o Jessica: "ʻAʻole wau i ʻike i kēlā maʻamau. He makuahine ka hapa nui o na keiki, no ka nele o ke keiki i ka makuahine, aole ia he mea pono e hoonele ia na keiki e ae o ka papa. He mau keiki me ka makua ole a me ka makua ole. No ke aha e hoʻololi ai kēia? ʻAʻole pono e hoʻololi ka hopena o kekahi i nā mea ʻē aʻe ". A no nā makuahine solo, ʻo ia ka manawa e loaʻa ai kahi makana. ʻO kēia ka hihia o ka makuahine nāna i wehewehe: “No nā mākua hemo, he pahi kaua ʻelua: ʻo ka makuahine hoʻokahi wale nō ka makana o ke kula. ʻAʻole loaʻa i kahi keiki kindergarten ka mana kūʻokoʻa e hana iā ia wale nō ”. Ua hilahila kekahi makuahine: “Ma ke kula o kaʻu keiki, ʻaʻole lākou e hāʻawi makana, ʻike wau i ke kaumaha. ʻOiai inā kaʻawale nā mākua, e noho pū nā keiki me ka makua pili i kekahi manawa. ʻO kekahi makuahine, ma kekahi ʻaoʻao, ua hoʻomaopopo piha: “ʻAʻole ia e hoʻopuʻihaʻi iaʻu i ka loaʻa ʻole o kekahi mea, no ka mea, ke noʻonoʻo nei au i nā keiki i loaʻa ʻole a ʻaʻohe makuahine ma ko lākou ʻaoʻao. Hiki i kēlā me kēia keiki ke hana i kekahi mea no ko lākou makuahine ma waho o ke kula ”.