ʻO nā huaʻōlelo "frankness" a me "ʻoiaʻiʻo" i kā mākou ʻōlelo he manaʻo maikaʻi loa. Ke haʻi mai nei ka ʻike iā mākou i kekahi manawa ʻaʻole pono e haʻi i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo holoʻokoʻa a me ka hoʻokau ʻana i ka ʻōlelo pololei ʻole.
ʻAʻole kēia he maʻalea, ʻaʻole hoʻopunipuni, ka mea a ka ʻōpio e hōʻino mai ai iā mākou me ka kānalua ʻole, akā ke kanaka, a me nā lula o kahi hale hoʻokipa.
I ka wā ʻōpio, ke ola nei mākou ma ka pae nui a me ka nānā ʻole ʻana i hope, ʻaʻole naʻe i ʻike ʻaʻole pono nā kānaka. I ka lā, ʻoi aku ma mua o hoʻokahi manawa, ua hoʻololi ʻia ka midget complex e ka Gulliver complex. ʻO ka hoʻomāinoino ʻole a me ka huhū i hōʻuluʻulu ʻia i loko ona; lokoino, aka, pololei. ʻIke pū ʻo ia i ka manaʻo o ka huāhuā a me ka huhū e like me ka leo o ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. A ʻo ka nānā ʻana i ka manawa like e hōʻoia i kona pololei.
I koʻu hui ʻōpio, ua ala mai kahi kuʻuna kamaʻilio pololei (i ka makahiki ʻehā o ke kamaʻilio). ʻO nā kumu hanohano, nā ʻōlelo maʻemaʻe, ʻo mākou ka mea maikaʻi loa. A lilo ia i moeʻuhane. Ua hoʻomaka ka hoʻomāinoino ʻana o nā pilina, ua hāʻule nā hoaaloha he nui, a me nā uniona aloha i hoʻolālā ʻia.
"No ka mea aia kekahi ʻoiaʻiʻo i loko o kekahi" ʻōpū ʻoiaʻiʻo ", lawe mai ia i ke kaumaha nui, a i kekahi manawa pilikia"
Loaʻa ka poʻe makemake e ʻoki i ka ʻōpū ʻoiaʻiʻo i kēlā me kēia makahiki a i kēlā me kēia hui. Hāʻawi ʻo Frankness iā lākou i ka manawa wale nō e huki ai i ka manaʻo iā lākou iho, a i ka manawa like e helu pū me ka poʻe, i ko lākou manaʻo, piʻi i luna. No ka mea aia kekahi ʻoiaʻiʻo i loko o kēlā me kēia "opu ʻoiaʻiʻo", lawe mai ia i ke kaumaha nui, a i kekahi manawa pilikia. Akā i ka wā ʻōpio, ʻaʻole i kuhikuhi ʻia kēlā ʻano pololei e nā complexes (ʻoiai ʻaʻole me ka ʻole). He kūlana kiʻekiʻe, kuhikuhi wale ʻia e ka manaʻo o ka pono a me ka hilinaʻi. Eia kekahi, pinepine ʻoiaʻiʻo kēia ʻaʻole e pili ana i kahi ʻē aʻe, akā e pili ana iā ʻoe iho: ʻaʻole i kāohi ʻia, naʻau nāwaliwali.
Pono e wehewehe i nā ʻōpio (ʻoiai he paʻakikī kēia) ʻo nā kikoʻī i haʻi ʻia i nā manawa o ka frankness hiki ke hoʻohuli ʻia ma hope aku i ka mea nāna i wehe. ʻAʻole pono e hilinaʻi ʻia kāu mau ʻike a pau me nā huaʻōlelo. Ma ka haʻiʻana,ʻaʻole mākou e hōʻike wale i ka hilinaʻi i ke kanaka, akā ke kaumaha nei iā ia me ke kuleana no kona mau pilikia pono'ī.
ʻO ka manaʻo noʻonoʻo kahi e ulu ai kaʻike aloha i loko o ka hakakā a me ka inaina i hōʻikeʻia ma ka moʻolelo Leo Tolstoy "Youth", ma ka mokuna "Friendship with Nekhlyudov". Ua ʻae ka hero ua pale ʻo ia iā lākou mai ka haʻalele ʻana me kahi hoaaloha i ka wā i maʻalili ai ka pilina: "...ua paʻa mākou i ko mākou ʻano ʻokoʻa. Ma hope o ka hoʻopuehu ʻana, makaʻu loa mākou e waiho i ka mana o kekahi i kekahi i hilinaʻi ʻia, hilahila no mākou iho, nā mea huna pono. Eia naʻe, ʻaʻole hiki ke ʻalo ʻia ka hakahaka, a ua ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī ma mua o ka mea i hiki ke hiki: "No laila ʻo kā mākou lula i alakaʻi ai i ka haʻi ʻana i kekahi i kekahi i nā mea āpau a mākou i manaʻo ai ... , kumakaia, i ko kakou hilahila , manao, moeuhane no ka makemake a me ka manao… «
No laila, mai haʻaheo i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. ʻAʻole pololei nā huaʻōlelo, ʻaʻole hiki ke haʻi ʻia nā mea huna pili loa, a ua palupalu a loli mākou. ʻO ka pinepine, ʻaʻole e kōkua kā mākou ʻōlelo i kekahi, akā e hōʻeha ʻeha iā ia a, ʻoi loa paha, e hoʻonāukiuki iā ia. ʻO ia, e like me mākou, he lunamanaʻo, ʻoi aku ka pololei o ka hana, a ʻo ka mea nui loa, me ka ʻole o ke keakea ʻana o waho.