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No ke aha hiki ʻole iā ʻoe ke wili i nā wahine hāpai a me nā keiki
Holo ka lima! E like me kou makemake e lele iā lākou, ʻalo a ʻakaʻaka, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke kali ʻana me ka leʻaleʻa exuberant.
ʻO ka mea mua, e hoʻomaopopo kākou i ke ʻano o ka tickling. ʻ saylelo nā kauka, ʻo ka ʻakaʻaka i ka pane ʻana i kaʻoiaʻiʻo ua hahau ʻoe i ke kanaka i nā kuʻekuʻe wāwae a i ʻole nā ʻaoʻao kahi hopena ʻike ʻole o ke kino i loaʻa iā mākou mai nā kūpuna mamao loa a no kekahi kumu ʻaʻole i nalo i ke kaʻina o ka evolution. He hopena lolo maʻamau ia, e like me ka honi ʻana ke ihilohi kou ihu. Me he mea lā ʻaʻole hewa. Akā no ke aha he mea waiwai ʻole ke ʻōlepe ʻana i kahi pēpē? ʻAʻole hiki ke pale aku, he uchi-way ʻo ia, pehea ka momona!
ʻO ke kumu 1: ka makaʻu subconscious
E ʻakaʻaka ke kanaka me ka nānā ʻole i ke kāne, ka makahiki a me ke kūlana kaiaulu. He hopena hiki ʻole ke kāohi ʻia i ka pane ʻana i kahi hana a kā mākou kino e ʻike ai ma ke ʻano he hoʻoweliweli. Akā i ka manawa like, ʻakaʻaka mākou, ʻoiai inā ʻaʻole makemake nā ʻano o ka tickling iā mākou. No nā pēpē, ʻeha mau ka ʻaki ʻana. Ka ʻeha a me ka makaʻu - he aha ka maikaʻi ma laila?
Kumu 2: makaʻu i ka pili kino
I kekahi manawa ua hoʻohana ʻia ka tickling ma ke ʻano he hoʻomāinoino - kahi mōʻaukala. Serious, makemake ʻoe i kahi mea kokoke e ʻike i kēia mau ʻano ʻoluʻolu ʻole āpau? Inā alualu mau ʻoe i ka pēpē me kāu ʻōniu mau ʻana, aia kahi makaʻu nui e makaʻu ʻo ia i ka hoʻopā. He aha inā e hūnā wale ʻoe ma hope o ka makemake āu e kōkua e kau i ka pālule a i ʻole maloʻo ma hope o ka ʻauʻau ʻana, akā ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo e ʻīkī ana ʻoe? No laila e lele i luna ke hoʻopā kekahi iā ia.
ʻO ke kumu 3: ʻo nā pēpē i hānau ʻole ʻia ʻaʻole makemake i ka tickling
ʻAʻole makemake nā pēpē i loko o ka ʻōpū i nā mea he nui: ka meaʻai nīoi, e laʻa, a i ka wā e kaumaha ana ka makuahine. ʻAʻole makemake lākou ia ke ʻakaʻaka nui ʻo māmā. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, ʻike ʻia ka haʻalulu o kā lākou "keʻena", e like me ke ōlaʻi. ʻO ke koʻikoʻi koʻikoʻi, a ʻaʻohe mea ʻoluʻolu. A inā mākou e hoʻomanaʻo i ka manawa like manaʻo koʻu makuahine me ka hoʻomāinoino medieval, a laila ma ka laulā, weliweli.
ʻAe, ʻaʻole hiki i ke keiki ke kaomi iā ia iho "lawa". A ʻaʻole mākou e hoʻolohe mau, no ka mea leʻaleʻa loa mākou ke ʻakaʻaka ka pēpē! Akā ʻaneʻane aneane he uē kēia ʻakaʻaka. Ua luhi koke ke keiki i kēlā leʻaleʻa hoʻoliʻiliʻi ikaika. A mai kahaha ʻoe inā, ma hope o 5-10 mau minuke o ka ʻakaʻaka, kuʻi kāu keiki i ka papahele i nā hysterics, ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻomaha ʻia e kekahi mea, e uē ʻo ia a hiamoe ʻo ia.
Kumu 5: ka ʻike ʻole o ka mana kūʻokoʻa i ke kino
Aia kahi hilinaʻi psychological: ke hoʻāʻo nei ke keiki e holo ʻē, noi iā ʻoe e kū, akā ʻaʻohe hopena. Ke hoʻomau nei ka ʻilihu. Hāpai kēia i ka manaʻo i loko o ka pēpē āu, he kanaka makua, he kuleana e hana i nā mea āu e makemake ai me ia, ʻoiai inā kūʻēʻē nui ʻo ia. ʻAʻole pili kēia i ka tickling wale nō, akā i ka hoʻopaʻi corporal: ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kuʻi i kekahi, akā hiki iā ʻoe, ke kamaliʻi. Akā i ko mākou honua i kēia manawa he mea nui e aʻo aku i ka pēpē ʻaʻohe kuleana o kekahi e hoʻopā iā ia inā ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia. Inā ʻole, i kona wā makua, ʻaʻole e ʻike ke keiki i ka mea e hana ai i kahi hanana ke komo kekahi i kāna palena e like me kēia, ma ke kino.
Ma ka laulā, ʻaʻohe mea hewa i ka ʻōkuhi ʻana. Makemake nā kānaka he nui e kaomi ʻia. ʻO ka mea nui e ʻike i ka wā e kū a hoʻolohe ai i kahi kanaka, ʻo kahi mea liʻiliʻi paha. Inā noi ʻo ia iā ʻoe e kū, kū. Inā liʻiliʻi loa ka pēpē a hiki ʻole ke haʻi iā ʻoe i kekahi mea, a laila ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hāʻawi ʻana iā ia i ka lomilomi. A hana i ka wahine hāpai pū kekahi, makemake ʻo ia iā ia.
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