Hoʻoikaika ka wahine

1. Kane, na keiki, ia'u iho. Pehea ʻoe e mālama ai i ka manawa no nā mea a pau a mālama iā ʻoe iho? A ʻo wai ka mea mua iā ʻoe?

Makemake wau e manaʻoʻiʻo ua lanakila wau, hoʻāʻo nui wau. ʻO ka ʻohana ka mea mua iaʻu - ʻo kaʻu kāne kēia, kaʻu keiki a ʻo wau iho. Hoʻokahi mākou holoʻokoʻa, a no laila, i koʻu hoʻomaopopo ʻana, ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻokaʻawale ʻia ma nā ʻano āpau.

2. Inā ʻaʻole lawa kou manawa a me kou ikaika, ʻo wai ʻoe e hele ai no ke kōkua?

Ke manaʻoʻiʻo nei au inā e hoʻonohonoho pono ʻoe i ka mea mua a e hoʻolohe mua i ka mea nui a pono, a laila e hāʻule koke nā mea āpau i kahi. Akā he mea maʻamau nō hoʻi ke noi ʻana i ke kōkua, no ka mea, e kōkua mau ka poʻe kokoke a kākoʻo i kēlā me kēia kūlana. ʻO ka mea nui e mālama i nā palena i nā mea a pau.

3. Kauoha ma ka hoʻonaʻauao # 1 – he aha kāu e aʻo mua ai i kāu keiki?

ʻO ka mea mua, ke aʻo nei mākou i ke keiki e kamaʻilio, i ʻole ʻo ia e ulu a hoʻoluhi, ʻaʻole makaʻu i nā kānaka, a lilo i kanaka sociable. Ua maʻa ʻo ia i kēia mai ka makahiki ʻekolu mahina, aia ʻo ia i nā hui nui, aloha nui ʻo ia i nā kānaka. A, ʻoiaʻiʻo, ke aʻo aku nei mākou iā ia e aloha i kona hoalauna.

4. ʻO ke keiki he capricious, ʻaʻole hoʻolohe, hoʻopunipuni - pehea ʻoe e hoʻokō ai i kēia?

ʻAe, ua hiki wawe ka wahaheʻe iā ia, a inā ʻaʻole ʻo ia e hoʻolohe, a laila hoʻāʻo mākou e hoʻohuli iā ia me kahi pāʻani, e hana i kekahi mea ʻē aʻe. Ke hana ʻino ʻo ia, haʻi mākou iā ia "ah-ah-ay", maopopo iā ia he aha ia. ʻIke ʻo ia i ka huaʻōlelo "maʻemaʻe", ʻo ia hoʻi, i ka wā e pono ai ke hana me ka akahele. Inā ʻaʻole hiki ke hana ʻia kekahi mea, a laila ʻōlelo mākou penei: hiki ʻole. A i ka maikaʻi, paʻi mākou i ko mākou mau lima a hoʻōho "Bravo, Lyova!", makemake nui ʻo ia. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, he kolohe wale ʻo Lev ke maʻi ʻo ia, no laila inā he kolohe ʻo ia, a laila mālama mākou iā ia. Ke paʻakikīʻo ia, ho'āʻo mākou e kūkākūkā i kahi pāʻani me ia, ma o ke kamaʻilioʻana, e like me nā mākua.

5. He aha ka manaʻo e hāʻawi mau ai i ka ikaika a me ke ahonui?

ʻO ka manaʻo, mahalo ke Akua, ke noho nei mākou me ka maluhia a me ke aloha, hoʻomaha.

6. He aha ka mea kapu iā ʻoe i ka hanai ʻana, a he aha ke ʻano hoʻomana?

ʻAʻole i lohe ʻo Lyova i kahi hoʻokūkū. ʻAʻole mākou e hoʻōho, mai hoʻohiki i mua o kahi keiki, a ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole mākou e paʻi iā ia. He kapu keia. ʻO ka mea pōʻino, nānā au i ka nui o nā makuahine a me nā makuakāne e huki ana i kā lākou mau keiki i kekahi manawa. He ʻike weliweli kēia. ʻAʻohe lā e hele ʻole me ka pūliki ʻole a me ka honi ʻana. Pono ia.

7. Ua ʻike ʻia ʻoe he mom blogger. Pehea ʻoe i hiki ai i kēia? He hana a i ʻole he puka waho paha ka ʻoihana pūnaewele no ʻoe?

Pehea lākou i hiki ai i kēia ... i ka wā mua he mea leʻaleʻa wale nō. No ke aha e kiʻi ʻole ai i kahi kiʻi me kahi keiki .. a me ke keiki ʻole. Nui kaʻu mau wikiō like ʻole. ʻAe, a laila makemake au iā ia ma kekahi pae ʻoihana. Manaʻo wau e like me ke alakaʻi, hoʻomohala maoli i ka noʻonoʻo, ka noʻonoʻo a pēlā aku. Ua hauʻoli nō hoʻi au iā Leva, a he mea hoʻomanaʻo ia, aia kekahi mea e ʻike ma hope.

8. E haʻi mai iā mākou e pili ana i kāu hana hoʻokani pila, pehea ʻoe i hele mai ai, kāu mea e hana nei a me kāu mea mele.

Me ke mele, ua hoʻomaka koke ia noʻu, akā ʻoiaʻiʻo, ua noho mau ia i loko oʻu. Ua hīmeni au i nā lā hoʻomaha a pau, nā hanana kula, ma karaoke, i nā lā hānau, a mahalo nui ʻia nā mea a pau, no laila i loko o koʻu puʻuwai ua moeʻuhane wau e hana ʻoihana, akā he mea weliweli. I kēia manawa, i ka lanakila ʻana i ka paepae nui, manaʻo wau ʻo ka mea nui ke aloha nā kānaka i kaʻu hana e like me aʻu. Hoʻopiha ʻia kaʻu mau mele (i kēia manawa he 12) me ka maikaʻi loa. Hiki i ka moʻolelo ex-boyfriend ke maikaʻi. Ua hoʻokuʻu mua wau i ʻelua wikiō a me hoʻokahi wikiō lyric. Hana ʻia lākou a pau me ka ʻakaʻaka a me ke aloha. Me he mea lā iaʻu ua kokoke nā kānaka i kēia, nele ka poʻe i kēia i waena o nā mea ʻino o ke ola.

I kēia manawa, ʻoiai ke kakali nei mākou i ka lua o ka pēpē, ke holo nei kā mākou hana, a piha wau i ka ikaika. ʻOiai ka ikaika pālua i mea e hīmeni ai, e hele mai me kahi mea hou. E paʻi koke paha kāua i kahi wikiō e loaʻa ai iaʻu ka ʻōpū. ʻAʻole au e hūnā i kekahi mea mai kekahi, hauʻoli wau e kamaʻilio me kaʻu poʻe kākau inoa a mahalo wau iā lākou no ko lākou ʻano ʻoluʻolu iaʻu.

1. Kane - nā keiki - iaʻu iho. Pehea ʻoe e mālama ai i ka manawa no nā mea a pau a mālama iā ʻoe iho? A ʻo wai ka mea mua iā ʻoe?

I koʻu hoʻomaopopoʻana,ʻo nā mākua a me ko lākou mau pilina ke kikowaena o kaʻohana, aʻo nā keiki he mea hoʻohui nui i ko lākou hui hauʻoli, nā lālā piha o kaʻohana. No laila, e pane au, ʻo ka pilina pilikino kuʻikahi ke kumu o ka ʻohana.

2. Inā ʻaʻole lawa kou manawa no nā mea a pau i ka manawa hoʻokahi, iā wai ʻoe e hele ai no ke kōkua?

ʻAʻole au i ho'āʻo e hana i nā mea a pau no ka manawa lōʻihi, no ka mea: a) hikiʻole, b) ke ala pololei i ka neurosis. Akā, hahai wau i nā lula maʻalahi:

• hana mua;
• ʻAe, ke hāʻawi aku nei au a manaʻo wau he mea maʻamau. Māmā. I kaʻu kāne. Nanny. ʻO nā keiki liʻiliʻi. Hoʻohana au i nā kumuwaiwai i ka nui loa. ʻAʻole wau i ʻike i ke kumu o ka pani ʻana i nā mea āpau iaʻu iho, ʻo wai ka mea e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi mai kēia? Pono nā keiki i ka makuahine mālie, kūpono, ʻaʻole ka lio hoʻokele.

3. Kauoha ma ka hoʻonaʻauao # 1 – he aha kāu e aʻo mua ai i kāu keiki?

ʻO ke aloha, ke aloha, ke kōkua like.

4. ʻO ke keiki he capricious, ʻaʻole hoʻolohe, hoʻopunipuni - pehea ʻoe e hoʻokō ai i kēia?

ʻOiaʻiʻo, hiki mai nā whims. ʻO kā mākou ʻelemakule ʻo Christina e hōʻike pinepine i ke ʻano. I loko o ko mākou ʻohana, aia kahi lula: hoʻohuli mākou i nā keiki ma o ka hoʻonele ʻana i nā mea maikaʻi, ma mua o ka hana ʻana i nā mea ʻino ("nā lumi pouli", "nā kihi", etc.). A ʻo ka "paʻi" a me ka "paʻi ʻana i ke poʻo" ʻaʻole ia kā mākou hana, he kapu kā mākou. Hiki iā mākou ke kiʻi i kā mākou mau mea pāʻani punahele, ʻaʻole hōʻike i nā kiʻi paʻi kiʻi, etc. ʻO ka ʻōlelo nui: inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoʻolohe i kou mau mākua a hoʻokō i kā mākou noi, a laila ʻaʻole mākou e hoʻokō i kāu. E koho. Ua hōʻoia ʻia kēia ʻano hana i ko mākou ʻohana.

5. He aha ka manaʻo e hāʻawi mau ai i ka ikaika a me ke ahonui?

Manaʻo: like nā mea a pau, ulu lākou a pau i kekahi lā. Hoʻohenehene (ʻakaʻaka). ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo ka hale haʻuki i ʻelua mau manawa o ka pule a i ʻole nā ​​​​hui ahiahi me kāu kāne ma luna o ke kīʻaha waina a me nā kamaʻilio pilikino maikaʻi loa i ka hoʻomaha a hoʻihoʻi i ka lokahi o loko.

6. He aha ka mea kapu iā ʻoe i ka hanai ʻana, a he aha ke ʻano hoʻomana?

ʻO Taboo, e like me kaʻu i ʻōlelo ai, ka hopena o ke kino - ʻo ka paʻi ʻana, kāʻei, a me nā mea ʻē aʻe. 'A'ole mālama i kāu hana. ” Nā ʻōlelo i hiki ke unuhi ʻia e ke keiki ma ke ʻano he ʻōlelo i kona hōʻole ʻana. Rituals – ʻAʻole au i ʻike, ʻaʻole like ko mākou mau lā a pau. Malia paha kekahi ʻano mea hoʻomalu: holoi, palaki i kou niho, kiʻi paʻi kiʻi, kahi mea ʻono ma hope o ka ʻaina kakahiaka. ʻAe, a me nā pūliki a me nā haʻi like ʻole o ke aloha - me ka ʻole o kēia, ʻaʻole e hala ka lā.

7. Ua ʻike ʻia ʻoe he mom blogger. Pehea ʻoe i hiki ai i kēia? He hana a i ʻole he puka waho paha ka ʻoihana pūnaewele no ʻoe?

ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, i koʻu ola, he kanaka paʻa wau, a i ka hoʻomaka ʻana ua hoʻolaʻa ʻia kaʻu moʻokāki Instagram i kaʻu ʻoihana liʻiliʻi - kahi mea i hoʻopaʻa ʻia - nā ʻaoʻao pale e pale ai i nā pēpē mai ka hāʻule ʻana mai ka moena. ʻAʻole au i hoʻouka i nā kiʻi pilikino. A laila ua loaʻa iaʻu kahi māhoe ʻelua, ua hoʻoponopono koke wau i ka regimen a me ka hiamoe ʻana i nā pēpē, hāʻawi ʻia i koʻu ʻike waiwai i hala me nā māhoe mua, a ua ʻōlelo mai kekahi mau hoaaloha iaʻu e hoʻomaka e kākau e pili ana i koʻu ʻike ma nā ʻoihana pūnaewele (e nānā ana i mua. , E ʻōlelo wau ʻo kaʻu hana ikaika ma ke kākau ʻana i nā pou e pili ana i ka hiamoe a me ka regimen, a me ka nui o nā manaʻo maikaʻi mai nā makuahine e moeʻuhane nei e lawa ka hiamoe, alakaʻi i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo e ʻike koke ʻia kahi polokalamu kelepona me kaʻu mau pou āpau ma kēia kumuhana. ). Ma keʻano laulā, no ka manawa lōʻihi ʻaʻole wau i ʻae i ka manaʻo o kahi moʻokāki pilikino, akā i kekahi lā ua hoʻoholo wau i koʻu manaʻo. A… ʻōhumu i loko! Noʻu, ʻo ia paha ke ʻano o ka hōʻike ʻana iā ia iho, no ka mea, i loko o ke ola he kanaka ʻeleu loa wau, a me ka hoʻohuli ʻana mai ke ola o kēlā me kēia lā a me nā hopohopo o kēlā me kēia lā!

1. Kane, na keiki, ia'u iho. Pehea ʻoe e mālama ai i ka manawa no nā mea a pau a mālama iā ʻoe iho? A ʻo wai ka mea mua iā ʻoe?

Malia paha e manaʻoʻiʻo wau, akā manaʻo wau e aloha ka wahine iā ia iho ma mua o nā mea āpau! ʻO kēia kahi kahi e hoʻomaka ai, nā kaikamahine hilinaʻi a hoʻokō ponoʻī iā lākou iho e huki i nā kāne maikaʻi. Hānau ʻia ke aloha a hana ʻia ka ʻohana. ʻO ka mea nui me ka hiki ʻana mai o nā keiki, nā mauna o nā diapers lepo a me ka hiamoe ʻole, mai poina e pili ana i kēia aloha. He mea paʻakikī paha ke hoʻopau i kēia huli ʻana i ka pilina i ka wā i hoʻololi ʻia ai ke kuleana o ke kāne / wahine i makua kāne / makuahine. I kēlā me kēia manawa, ua ho'āʻo wau e hāʻawi i kaʻu kāne i ka manawa: pono e kuke i ka ʻaina ahiahi, kahi kamaʻilio pōkole e pili ana i ka nūhou ma ka hana a me ka honi wikiwiki. E loaʻa mau ana ka manawa no kēia, no ka mea, ʻo koʻu kāne koʻu kākoʻo, a inā ʻaʻole ʻo ia ʻaʻole au e loaʻa nā keiki maikaʻi loa. A ʻokoʻa ke aloha iā lākou, aia ma mua o ka wahi mua a i ʻole ka lua!

2. Inā ʻaʻole lawa kou manawa a me kou ikaika, ʻo wai ʻoe e hele ai no ke kōkua?

Nui koʻu mahalo no ka loaʻa ʻana o koʻu ʻohana nui a aloha. Kū mau nā kōkua ma ka laina no mākou: ma waho aʻe o ko mākou mau kūpuna aloha a pilikia ʻole (no lākou e pono ai mākou e pule), he mau ʻanakala, ʻanakē, kaikuahine a me nā kaikunāne. I ka wā mua, ʻaʻole au i noi aku i ke kōkua, ʻaʻole wau i kelepona i koʻu mau makuahine. Ua noʻonoʻo wau: "He aha wau, he makuahine maikaʻi ʻole, a ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke hoʻokō i koʻu iho, he manaʻo makuahine koʻu a aia nā mākaukau o ka hānai ʻana i kahi keiki i loko o koʻu koko, a he encyclopedia nui" ʻO nā mea āpau e pili ana i nā keiki mai 0 a 3 "Ua hoʻouka ʻia i loko o koʻu lolo! Akā, ma hope o kekahi manawa, me ka luhi, ua nalowale hoʻi ka haʻaheo. Ua ʻike wau ʻaʻohe hewa o kēia, e kāhea wale a noi i ke kōkua, no ka mea, ʻaʻole kēia he hōʻike o ka nāwaliwali, akā he manawa kūpono e hāʻawi manawa iā ʻoe iho, kāu ʻoihana a me kāu kāne. ʻOi loa inā loaʻa kahi manawa kūpono a noho kokoke nā ʻohana. No laila, loaʻa pinepine wau i ka hale piha o nā malihini a me nā peni manuahi e mākaukau e hoʻokipa i kaʻu hui.

3. Kauoha ma ka hoʻonaʻauao # 1 – he aha kāu e aʻo mua ai i kāu keiki?

E mālama i nā kānaka e like me kou makemake e hana mai lākou iā ʻoe. Me he mea lā iaʻu kahi e hoʻomaka ai. ʻAʻohe mea makemake e kamaʻilio me nā mea wahaheʻe? No laila, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e wahaheʻe iā ʻoe iho. ʻAe, a i ʻole no ka mahalo: koi pinepine mākou i nā keiki e mahalo a hoʻolohe i nā mākua, a ʻaʻole mākou e noʻonoʻo i ka makemake o ke keiki ponoʻī, no ka mea pono mākou e hoʻolohe i kona manaʻo - ʻo ia kahi e hōʻike ʻia ai ko mākou mahalo i nā keiki.

4. ʻO ke keiki he capricious, ʻaʻole hoʻolohe, hoʻopunipuni - pehea ʻoe e hoʻokō ai i kēia?

ʻOiai he liʻiliʻi kaʻu mau keiki, ua ʻike mua lākou i ka hōʻike ʻana i ke ʻano. Akā, inā maopopo iaʻu ʻaʻole pilikia kaʻu keiki i ka niho, ka ʻōpū a ua hiamoe ʻo ia, a no kekahi kumu e kuha ai me ka pāpaʻi, e kala mai iaʻu, e nā mea aloha, akā pono wau e ʻai. No laila, ʻaʻole mākou e hāʻawi i kahi nāwaliwali a kū paʻa iā mākou iho! Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ʻo ka makuahine (heluhelu i ka "boss") ʻo ʻoe!

5. He aha ka manaʻo e hāʻawi mau ai i ka ikaika a me ke ahonui?

ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o kēlā me kēia pane, he hōʻailona ia o kahi hanana i koʻu ola, ʻaʻole au e poina a aʻo nui iaʻu.

Ke ho'āʻo nei māua me kaʻu kāne e hana i nā hana ahiahi a pau o ka ʻauʻau ʻana, ka hānai ʻana a me ka moe pū ʻana, akā hoʻokahi wale nō kanaka e noho nei ma luna. A laila, ma hope o ka hoʻi ʻana mai i kahi huakaʻi lōʻihi i waho me nā keiki, ua hoʻoholo kaʻu kāne e hele i ka hale haʻuki, ʻoiaʻiʻo, hoʻokuʻu wau iā ia. I kona haʻalele ʻana, nānā ʻo ia iaʻu me ke ʻano ʻē a nīnau: "E hoʻokō ʻoe i kēia? ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke waiho iā ʻoukou ʻekolu? ” Pīhoihoi au i kēia nīnau, akā hoʻopau wau i ia nīnau a ʻōlelo aku, "ʻOiaʻiʻo, hele! ʻAʻole ka manawa mua. ” I kona haʻalele ʻana i ka paepae, ua lanakila au i nā kānalua, akā e pono anei nā mea a pau? Hiki iaʻu ke hana wale? Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ʻōlelo paha mākou, aia hou i kahi hou! Pehea wau e ʻauʻau ai iā lākou? A hānai? Me he mea lā ua manaʻo nā keiki, a ma hope o ʻelima mau minuke, ua hoʻomaka ka leo hihiu ma nā leo ʻelua. Pīhoihoi au, ʻaʻole i loaʻa kēia, no laila ua uē lāua ʻelua a i ka manawa like no ka noi ʻana i nā peni. ʻAʻole wau e wehewehe i kēia mau minuke 40, e mālama wau i kou mau aʻalolo, akā i ka hoʻi ʻana mai ke aʻo ʻana, ua loaʻa i kaʻu kāne ʻekolu keiki i loko o ka lumi moe - huikau, hopohopo a uē! Hāpai koke ʻo ia i hoʻokahi keiki, hoʻouna ʻo ia iaʻu i ka lumi ʻauʻau e hoʻomaʻemaʻe i ka waiū i kahe. He ʻelima mau minuke kaʻu e hanu ai a hoʻomaha. A ʻo nā keiki, i ko lākou ʻike ʻana i ka maluhia o ko lākou makua kāne, hoʻōki koke lākou i ka uē ʻana a hiamoe. Ma hope o ia mea, ʻike wau i hoʻokahi mea: i ka wā e makaʻu ai ka makuahine, ʻo nā keiki, e like me ka barometer, manaʻo iā ia a kāpae i kona kūlana. A ʻo ke kauoha ʻo ia: "Ka makuahine mālie - nā keiki mālie."

6. He aha ka mea kapu ia oe i ka hanai ana?

E pane wau ma ke ʻano he makuahine o nā māhoe, ʻo ka mea nui ʻaʻole e hoʻohālikelike i nā keiki me kekahi. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻōlelo: “E ʻai wikiwiki! ʻIke ʻoe i ka ʻai ʻana o ke kaikunāne i ka pāpaʻi a pau! He kanaka maikaʻi! He mea hiki ke hoʻomaopopo i ka hiki ʻana o kekahi i kekahi a ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻokūkū, akā ma kēia ala hiki iā lākou ke hoʻomohala i kahi paʻakikī "Ma kekahi ʻano, akā ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o ke kaikuahine." Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ʻokoʻa nā keiki, a lanakila nā mea a pau i kahi mea ʻokoʻa: e lilo kekahi i haku o nā haʻuki, a e puka kekahi mai ke kula me ka mekala gula.

He aha ka hoʻomana obligatory?

Mai ka wā kamaliʻi, hoʻomanaʻo wau ua hoʻomaikaʻi mau koʻu makuahine iaʻu, kokoke i kēlā me kēia lā. Ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia ʻo wau kāna kaikamahine ʻoi loa, nani a naʻauao loa. ʻOiai ʻaʻole wau i ʻae like me ia, makemake nui wau e hālāwai me kāna mau manaʻo. Pēlā paha i hana ai ka hoʻoikaika ʻana! No laila, mahalo pinepine au i kaʻu mau keiki, a ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke noʻonoʻo i kaʻu e ʻōlelo aku ai i kaʻu keiki: "ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻoponopono i ka pilikia. ʻAe, he ʻano naʻaupō ʻoe. "Malia paha e ʻōlelo wau: "ʻAe, mai hopohopo, ʻo ʻoe kaʻu keiki akamai, i kēia manawa e aʻo mākou i nā lula, hoʻomaʻamaʻa me nā hiʻohiʻona, a ʻapōpō e lanakila ʻoe iā ia!"

7. Ua ʻike ʻia ʻoe he mom blogger. Pehea ʻoe i hiki ai i kēia? He hana a i ʻole he puka waho paha ka ʻoihana pūnaewele no ʻoe?

Ua hoʻomaka ʻia i hoʻokahi makahiki i hala ma ka pō o ka Makahiki Hou. I koʻu hoʻomanaʻo ʻana i kēia manawa, ua hoʻokō wau i kekahi o kaʻu mau moeʻuhane kahiko a kauoha i kahi kumulāʻau Kalikimaka ola: Ua kāhiko wau i koʻu nani ʻekolu mika no ka aneane hoʻokahi pule, ʻelua hele i ka hale kūʻai e kūʻai i nā mea pāʻani a piʻi a piʻi i lalo i ka papaʻaina 500 mau manawa! Ua ʻāhewa nui ke kāne, ʻōlelo lākou, e oki i ka lele, noho a hoʻomaha. Akā, ʻaʻole, he pahuhopu koʻu, a ʻo koʻu ʻōpū nui i kēlā manawa ʻaʻole ia he mea keakea no kēia. ʻOiaʻiʻo, makemake wau e kiʻi i kahi kiʻi hoʻomanaʻo, ua hoʻomāinoino loa wau i kaʻu mea aloha, akā naʻe ua lawe ʻo ia i kahi kiʻi "i ʻole wau e momona". ʻElua mau hola o ka hoʻohuli ʻana me kahi noi e kau iā ia ma ka pūnaewele, ʻoiai ʻaʻohe mea ʻē aʻe o ko mākou ʻohana a me nā hoaaloha pili loa i ʻike e pili ana i koʻu kūlana, a i kēia manawa ua "hoʻouka ʻia" ka pou i kali lōʻihi ʻia i ka inst me ka hashtag #instamama # i ka manaʻo. o ka hana mana. Me kahi hana mana, ua hiki mai nā mea makemake a me nā mea kākau inoa. Ua hoʻomaikaʻi ʻia wau ʻaʻole wale e kaʻu mau hoaaloha, akā e nā malihini pū kekahi! Ua ʻoluʻolu loa ia ʻano manaʻo iaʻu ... Ua hoihoi nā kānaka a pau i koʻu mālama ʻana i koʻu kiʻi, kākau wau i kahi liʻiliʻi a haʻi i koʻu ʻike me nā kaikamahine. ʻO ka hopena, ʻoiai makemake kaʻu kāne i ka ʻakaʻaka, inā loaʻa kekahi mea, hiki iā mākou ke hoʻonoho i nā makuahine ma mua o hoʻokahi haneli tausani ma luna o kā mākou mau lawehala!

1. Kane, na keiki, ia'u iho. Pehea ʻoe e mālama ai i ka manawa no nā mea a pau a mālama iā ʻoe iho? A ʻo wai ka mea mua iā ʻoe?

ʻO ka ʻohana kaʻu mea nui a nui loa. ʻAʻole wau i hoʻomaopopo i nā wahine e hoʻōki i ka nānā ʻana i kā lākou kāne ma hope o ka hānau ʻana o kahi keiki. Ke ulu nei nā keiki, a ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻopili hou ʻia ka pilina. Pono nā kānaka a pau e kū i ko lākou wahi. He keiki ke keiki, he kane ke kane, he hua ka ohana. ʻAʻohe aʻu kahu hānai, akā kōkua koʻu mau mākua i 2 lā o ka pule. He pilina koʻu me kaʻu kāne, kākoʻo mākou kekahi i kekahi. ʻO ka mālama ponoʻī he ʻāpana koʻikoʻi o koʻu ola. ʻIke nā kāne iā mākou he nani a hoʻomaʻemaʻe maikaʻi ʻia, no laila, i ka wā e noho pū ai, he mea nui e noho aliʻi, ʻaʻole e lilo i rana. ʻAʻole wau hilahila i ka hele ʻana i ka manicure me kaʻu kaikamahine a i ʻole e hele pū i kahi kūʻai. No ka mālama ʻana iā ʻoe iho, ʻo ka mea mua, pono ʻoe i ka makemake, ʻaʻole ka nui o ke kālā. No ka nani, 20 mau minuke i ke kakahiaka ua lawa iaʻu. Pono ʻoe e hana i lula e hāʻawi iā ʻoe iho i kēia manawa i ke kakahiaka a ʻaʻole e hoʻopiʻi i nā mea āpau i nā kūlana. A laila hiki iā ʻoe ke kuke i ka ʻaina kakahiaka, holoi, hoʻomaʻemaʻe, hoʻonaʻauao, a me nā mea ʻē aʻe. Loaʻa iā mākou nā kuʻuna ʻohana - no ka laʻana, hele pū mākou, ʻai i ka ʻaina ahiahi, hoʻopau i nā ʻoihana pūnaewele i ke ahiahi, hoʻoponopono i nā manawa he nui. ʻO ka noho mau ʻana o ka huaʻōlelo "hui" i loko o ko mākou ola e hui pū ana. Ke manaʻoʻiʻo nei au he pono ʻoe e hoʻohauʻoli i kāu kāne, keiki, nā mea aloha, e hāʻawi i ka honua i ka maikaʻi a me ka maikaʻi, a e hoʻi mai ka pane maikaʻi i ko mākou ʻaoʻao.

2. Inā ʻaʻole lawa kou manawa a me kou ikaika, ʻo wai ʻoe e hele ai no ke kōkua?

Hiki iaʻu ke noi i koʻu mau mākua no ke kōkua. ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu ke kumu e noʻonoʻo ai i ka nāwaliwali a i ʻole ka ikaika. No ke aha e noi ʻole ai i ke kōkua inā, no ka laʻana, ʻaʻole lawa kaʻu hiamoe no hoʻokahi mahina? ʻAʻole au makemake e hoʻohua i ka pseudo-hero. Makemake au e lilo i wahine hauʻoli, makuahine, wahine. ʻO nā poʻohiwi o nā wahine he palupalu wale nō, akā ʻaʻole i ko lākou ikaika maoli, pono lākou i ke kākoʻo. ʻOiaʻiʻo, hiki ke helu ʻia ma koʻu mau manamana lima ka poʻe hiki iaʻu ke huli, akā ʻo lākou ka mea hiki iaʻu ke hilinaʻi, a hiki i kēia poʻe ke loaʻa i kaʻu kākoʻo.

3. Kauoha ma ka hoʻonaʻauao # 1 – he aha kāu e aʻo mua ai i kāu keiki?

Aʻo mākou i ke keiki e mahalo a mahalo i kekahi. No ka laʻana, ʻo Alexa lāua ʻo Nika (Spitz) he mau hoaaloha maikaʻi loa. Mahalo iā Nika, ua ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi a me ka maʻemaʻe o Alexa. Ua ulu pū lāua, a ua aʻo ke keiki i ka hana pono ʻole: kaʻana like, hāʻawi. ʻIke maʻalahi ʻo ia i ke aloha a me ka hauʻoli. Ma ka laulā, manaʻo wau ua kau ʻia ke kumu ma mua o 3 mau makahiki. Eia kekahi, pehea e holo ai nā mea a pau, ua hilinaʻi ʻia iā ia. ʻO ka hiki ke launa pū me ka honua o waho kekahi o nā mākau koʻikoʻi no ke ola holomua o ke kaiāulu.

4. ʻO ke keiki he capricious, ʻaʻole hoʻolohe, hoʻopunipuni - pehea ʻoe e hoʻokō ai i kēia?

He kiʻi aniani nā keiki o ko lākou mau mākua. ʻAʻole mākou i ʻike nui ma hope o mākou iho, a lawe nā pēpē i ka ʻike e like me ka sponge.

Rula helu 1 - ʻaʻohe hoʻopaʻapaʻa, hoʻomāinoino a wehewehe me ke keiki.

Rule # 2 - hoʻololi i ka nānā a hāʻawi i kahi koho. Inā paʻakikī ʻo Alexa, hoʻohuli wau i ka hana aʻu i makemake ai i pāʻani. No ka laʻana, hoʻopuehu ʻo ia i nā mea a ʻaʻole makemake e ʻohi. Hoʻopio wau iā ia, loaʻa i kahi hīnaʻi liʻiliʻi nani no kāna mau mea liʻiliʻi, a hele mākou i waho a hōʻiliʻili i nā mea āpau. A inā makemake ʻo ia e lawe i kekahi mea, hāʻawi koke wau iā ia i kahi mea ʻē aʻe a haʻi aku iā ia, e hōʻike iā ia. ʻO ia hoʻi, ʻaʻole wau e paheʻe wale ana i kahi mea ʻē aʻe, akā ke hoʻohauʻoli nei au iā ia. Inā makemake wau i kekahi mea a ʻaʻole paha, ʻike ka pēpē ma ka hopena.

Ke ho'āʻo nei au e hoʻokaʻawale i waena o ka leo a me ke ʻano i hiki iā ia ke nānā pono i kaʻu mau ʻano. ʻO ia hoʻi, ʻaʻohe mea like - "ah-ah-ah, hee-hee-hee" - no ka mea hiki ke huikau ke keiki, ʻaʻole paha au makemake ia, a i ʻole he ʻakaʻaka wau. Manaʻo mau wau inā ʻaʻole ʻo ia i ke ʻano, hoʻāʻo wau e hoʻoponopono a hāʻawi iā ia i kahi mea hoihoi. Hiki iā mākou ke hoʻohuli iā mākou iho ma ka ʻauʻau ʻana, ke kaha kiʻi ʻana, ka hele ʻana, ke kāhea ʻana i ko mākou ʻohana ma Skype a ʻoi aku. E pili ana i nā manaʻo.

5. He aha ka manaʻo e hāʻawi mau ai i ka ikaika a me ke ahonui?

Aia ka ikaika a me ke ahonui. I kekahi manawa aia ka luhi, i kēlā mau manawa huli wale ka lolo, a haʻalele wau i nā mea āpau, e noʻonoʻo i nā mea āpau, ʻike wau, akā ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo he zero ka hopena. Ke hiki mai kēia, hoʻomaopopo koke ka mea aloha i nā mea āpau a ʻōlelo: hele e hoʻomaha. Akā, ʻaʻohe huhū, huhū, a me ka luhi kino, no laila ʻo ka haʻuki, ka hiamoe maikaʻi, a i kekahi manawa kūʻai aku e hoʻomaha i ka luhi. Hiki iaʻu ke noho me nā hoaaloha i loko o ka hale ʻaina, akā kakaikahi kēia.

6. He aha ka mea kapu iā ʻoe i ka hanai ʻana, a he aha ke ʻano hoʻomana?

ʻO ka kapu iaʻu ʻo ka ʻōlelo hoʻohiki a me ka hakakā i mua o nā keiki. E ho'āʻo wau e hana i ka mea hiki me ka hoʻopaʻi kino ʻole, ʻoiai ʻaʻole wau i manaʻo iā lākou he kumu hoʻohālike kūleʻa. ʻAe, ma kahi kūlana maikaʻi ʻole, e haʻalele wau i nā ʻōlelo. I kēlā me kēia lā, hoʻohui au i ko mākou pilina ʻohana me ka ʻaina kakahiaka, ka ʻaina ahiahi, ka hele wāwae. Hoʻopau mākou i ka hopena pule me ko mākou ʻohana. Makemake au i ke keiki e hoʻomanaʻo a hui pū me ka ʻohana i ka wā e hui pū ai nā mea a pau.

7. Ua ʻike ʻia ʻoe he mom blogger. Pehea ʻoe i hiki ai i kēia? He hana a i ʻole he puka waho paha ka ʻoihana pūnaewele no ʻoe?

Ua ʻike au he mea hoihoi koʻu ʻike i nā kānaka. Inā mākou a pau i kaʻana like i kekahi mea pono, ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hele i mua a ua hana wau. ʻElua aʻu moʻokāki @youryani a me @yani_care. ʻO ka mea nui kaʻu blog e pili ana i ke ola a me ka hana. A ʻo ka lua ka mālama ponoʻī. ʻAʻohe hoʻolaha hoʻolaha hoʻokahi i loko - ʻo kēia koʻu kūlana kumu. Akā ʻaʻole maʻalahi ke komo ʻana iā @youryani. ʻO nā mea a pau aʻu e kamaʻilio nei, ʻo ia koʻu ʻike a hoʻāʻo maoli wau i nā mea āpau iaʻu iho. Hoole nui au. ʻOi aku koʻu makemake e ʻoiaʻiʻo me kaʻu poʻe heluhelu a mālama i kaʻu mau mea hoʻolohe. He ʻoluʻolu a maikaʻi ʻo ia. E like me kā lākou e ʻōlelo nei, e ʻimi i kahi hana e like me kou makemake – a ʻaʻole ʻoe e hana i hoʻokahi lā i kou ola. Ma kēia ʻano, pili maoli ka blog ʻana iaʻu. ʻO kahi puʻupuʻu e lawe mai i ka loaʻa kālā a me ka pūʻulu o nā manaʻo maikaʻi mai ka poʻe heluhelu mahalo!

1. Kane, na keiki, ia'u iho. Pehea ʻoe e mālama ai i ka manawa no nā mea a pau a mālama iā ʻoe iho? A ʻo wai ka mea mua iā ʻoe?

Manawa! I nā mahina i hala iho nei, ua kūpono kēia huaʻōlelo i ke kaumaha o ke gula iaʻu. Ua nele mau ʻo ia i nā mea a pau, akā i nā makahiki, lilo kēlā me kēia lā i heihei. No ke kāne a me nā keiki, ʻaʻole au e hūnā i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻo ke kāne ke hele mua. ʻO ia koʻu mau ʻēheu. Inā hoʻomaka kā mākou pilina e hoʻopili, a laila e hāʻule nā ​​​​mea āpau e like me ka hale o nā kāleka. No laila, ʻo ka lokahi ke kī i ka hauʻoli, ke olakino a me ka maikaʻi o ko mākou ʻohana a me kā mākou mau kaikamahine. ʻO ia koʻu hoaaloha. ʻO ke kanaka wale nō ma ka honua holoʻokoʻa me ka mea i loko o waho me ka hapa ʻole. E like me ka mea. A ʻo ia ke kumu i waiwai ai kā mākou pilina. I kēia makahiki he ʻumi mau makahiki mai ko mākou hele ʻana i ke ola me ka paʻa lima, a ʻo kēia "hele" e pili ana i ka maikaʻi o nā pilina, ʻaʻole e pili ana i "ka liʻiliʻi loa, a hiki i ka male gula."

2. Inā ʻaʻole lawa kou manawa a me kou ikaika, ʻo wai ʻoe e hele ai no ke kōkua?

He paʻakikī loa ka noi ʻana i ke kōkua, ʻoiai, no laila ʻaʻole wau e hoʻoholo i kahi kahu hānai! ʻAʻole wau makemake iki i ka nīnau. I kekahi manawa, ua wehewehe ka ʻōlelo a Bulgakov "The Master and Margarita" i koʻu ʻano: "Mai noi i kekahi mea! ʻAʻole loa a ʻaʻohe mea, a me ka poʻe i ʻoi aku ka ikaika ma mua o ʻoe. Na lākou iho e hāʻawi a na lākou iho e hāʻawi i nā mea āpau ". ʻO kēia ke ʻano o ko mākou noho ʻana, ʻoiaʻiʻo, e huli ana i ke kōkua o nā kupuna wahine. Akā ʻo kā mākou mau keiki a me mākou pono e aloha iā lākou iho. E like me kou "aloha", pela ma hope e loaʻa iā ʻoe ka uku.

3. Kauoha ma ka hoʻonaʻauao # 1 – he aha kāu e aʻo mua ai i kāu keiki?

Manaʻo wau ua maopopo ka pane: pono ʻoe e aloha iā ia. Mai kinohi mai, ʻaʻole ʻo ia i kamaliʻi, akā ʻelua ʻāpana ma ka palaoa. Paʻa loa ka pilina me nā mākua. Me ka makuahine - pau ʻole. ʻOiai i koʻu ʻāhewa ʻana i kaʻu hiapo, ʻōlelo mau wau no koʻu makuahine ʻo ia ka mea i aloha nui ʻia, ʻaʻohe mea. A ʻo wau wale nō ka ʻōlelo ʻino no koʻu makemake a makemake e aʻo i kekahi mea. Ke mālama ʻole ke kanaka, ʻaʻohe ona manaʻo… He mea weliweli kēia!

4. ʻO ke keiki he capricious, ʻaʻole hoʻolohe, hoʻopunipuni - pehea ʻoe e hoʻokō ai i kēia?

Manaʻo wau i kaʻu mau kaikamahine me ka intuitively, ʻike wau pehea e hoʻoikaika ai a hoʻokomo paha i kahi i kahi maka. ʻAʻohe "kōkua" hiki ke hana i kēia. ʻO ka pōʻino a i ʻole ka pōmaikaʻi, e haʻi ka manawa!

5. He aha ka manaʻo e hāʻawi mau ai i ka ikaika a me ke ahonui?

ʻOiai kaʻu hana koʻikoʻi ma ka pāpaho pūnaewele, makemake wau i ka noho hoʻokahi. Hoʻokahi wale nō me ʻoe iho. ʻOiai inā he "hoʻokahi" i loko o ke kaʻa i waena o nā kaʻa kaʻa. ʻO nā manaʻo, ʻaʻole lākou i hōʻoluʻolu iaʻu. ʻO kaʻu kāne wale nō ka mea hiki ke lawe mai iaʻu i ka hoʻomaha kino a me ke kino. Ua hoʻomaka ko mākou pilina me nā kamaʻilio lōʻihi e pili ana i nā mea a pau. Hoʻopili lākou iaʻu i kēlā manawa. ʻO wau, i koʻu wā kamaliʻi, ua ʻōwili wau iaʻu iho i loko o kēia mau kamaʻilio ʻana a ʻike wau me ia wale nō ka hiki, a ke hoʻomau nei kēia a hiki i kēia lā. Aloha ka wahine me kona mau pepeiao a ʻaʻole i hoʻonele ʻia koʻu mau pepeiao.

6. He aha ka mea kapu iā ʻoe i ka hanai ʻana, a he aha ke ʻano hoʻomana?

Mai noho ma laila i ka wā e pono ai kāu keiki. ʻAʻole mākou e kūkākūkā i ke kāʻei a me ka hoʻopaʻi kino i kēia manawa, ʻeā? ʻAʻole ʻae ʻia kēia iaʻu. Akā ʻo ka hōʻuluʻulu manaʻo he kapu. ʻIke wau ʻaʻohe mea ʻē aʻe e ʻike i nā huaʻōlelo kūpono no ke kākoʻo. Ma kahi e pono ai ʻoe e hoʻokiʻekiʻe i kou leo, ma kahi e paʻi a hoʻoikaika, ma kahi e puliki a ʻōlelo "hiki iā mākou ke mālama i nā mea āpau! hui pū!” A hiki i ka makuahine wale nō ke hoʻomaopopo i ka wā a me ka mea hana e hoʻohana ai.

7. Ua ʻike ʻia ʻoe he mom blogger. Pehea ʻoe i hiki ai i kēia? He hana a i ʻole he puka waho paha ka ʻoihana pūnaewele no ʻoe?

No kekahi kumu ʻaʻole wau makemake i kēia huaʻōlelo – blogger, he mea ola ʻole ia. I kekahi manawa, mālama au i kahi diary pūnaewele a hoʻomaikaʻi iā ia ua loaʻa iaʻu he mau hoaaloha maoli. Ua ʻike mākou a pau kekahi i kekahi, a he mau hoaaloha kā mākou mau keiki mai ia manawa mai… A laila ʻaʻohe Facebook a me Instagram, a ma ke ʻano maʻamau, ʻike liʻiliʻi mākou i ke kumu o kēia mau mea a pau. Ua kākau wale wau i koʻu mau manaʻo a me koʻu mau manaʻo i kēlā me kēia lā. ʻAʻole wau i mālama i ka poʻe kākau inoa ma ke ʻano he lehulehu, ʻike wau kokoke i nā mea kākau a pau, hoʻāʻo wau e pane. ʻO ke ola kaiaulu noʻu ka hana iaʻu iho. Hoʻolilo ia iā ʻoe i "wikiwiki, kiʻekiʻe, ikaika." ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke kākau e pili ana i koʻu luhi, me ka ʻike ʻana he mau haneli makuahine koʻu poʻe kākau inoa e huki i ka ikaika a me ka ikaika mai kaʻu mau kikokikona, pono lākou i ka mālamalama ma ka hope o ka tunnel, a loaʻa mau iaʻu kahi kukui uila i loko o kaʻu ʻeke. e lilo i mau ʻōhua i kā lākou ʻōlelo a me ka mahalo.

1. Kane, na keiki, ia'u iho. Pehea ʻoe e mālama ai i ka manawa no nā mea a pau a mālama iā ʻoe iho? A ʻo wai ka mea mua iā ʻoe?

ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻo ke kumu hoʻohālike ʻohana maikaʻi loa - hele mua māua me kaʻu kāne, hele mai nā keiki i ka lua. ʻO ia ʻohana e lokahi a hauʻoli nā keiki. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, e ʻike lākou ʻo ka makuahine a me ka makuakāne e hui mau a aloha kekahi i kekahi. Ke hoʻoikaika nei au no kēlā ʻano hoʻohālike. ʻO kaʻu kāne koʻu hoa ʻuhane, a mahalo wale iā ia i hānau ʻia nā keiki maikaʻi loa. Ke ho'āʻo nei mākou e hoʻolimalima manawa. Ma hope o ka haʻalele ʻana o nā keiki, hiki mai ko mākou manawa. ʻOiaʻiʻo, i kekahi manawa e hiamoe nui lākou, a he liʻiliʻi ka manawa.

2. Inā ʻaʻole lawa kou manawa a me kou ikaika, ʻo wai ʻoe e hele ai no ke kōkua?

Manaʻo wau he mea pono e ʻimi i nā mea kōkua a hāʻawi i kekahi o ka hana. ʻAʻole hiki ke lilo i wahine maikaʻi, he makuahine mālama, ʻoiai he wahine hale maikaʻi a he kaikamahine i kāhiko maikaʻi ʻia. ʻO ka mea huna a pau, ʻo ia ka hoʻokomo pono ʻana i nā mea kōkua a hoʻonohonoho pono i kou lā. He au pair kaʻu, hoʻokahi manawa i ka pule e hoʻomaʻemaʻe ai ka mea hale a hao a kuke i hoʻokahi manawa. Ua hoʻokuʻu kaʻu kāne iaʻu mai ka hapa nui o nā hana hale. Mālama wau iaʻu iho, nā keiki, kākau i nā kikokikona a mālama i kahi blog. Me he mea lā iaʻu inā loaʻa kahi manawa, pono e noi i nā kupuna wahine no ke kōkua, e hoʻolimalima i kahi kahu hānai no ka liʻiliʻi o kekahi mau hola o ka pule a i ʻole au pair. A laila e loaʻa i ka makuahine ka manawa kūpono e mālama iā ia iho, kāna kāne, i ke ola hauʻoli, hauʻoli a ʻoluʻolu. A inā hauʻoli ka makuahine, hauʻoli nā keiki.

3. Kauoha ma ka hoʻonaʻauao # 1 – he aha kāu e aʻo mua ai i kāu keiki?

Aʻo wau iā lākou e aloha, hilinaʻi. Ke aʻo aku nei au ʻo ka ʻohana kahi i manaʻo mau ʻia, mālama ʻia, aloha mau a hāʻawi i ke kākoʻo. Ke aʻo aku nei au i nā keiki e hoʻopono iā lākou iho, e hoʻolohe iā lākou iho, i ko lākou mau manaʻo a me nā makemake. No ka pane ʻana i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, pono ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo mua iā ʻoe iho.

4. ʻO ke keiki he capricious, ʻaʻole hoʻolohe, hoʻopunipuni - pehea ʻoe e hoʻokō ai i kēia?

He liʻiliʻi nō kaʻu mau keiki, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, ʻaʻole ʻike lākou i ka wahaheʻe. Akā, loaʻa pinepine ʻo Max i ka makemake. Manaʻo wau he pae maʻamau kēia o ka hoʻomohala ʻana. Ke ulu nei ʻo ia, aia kāna mau makemake ponoʻī, koi. A maikaʻi kēia. Hoʻomau loa ʻo ia, noʻonoʻo, loaʻa i kona ala. ʻO kēia mau hiʻohiʻona o ke ola e kōkua nui iā ia. ʻOiaʻiʻo, i kekahi manawa hoʻāʻo wale ʻo ia i koʻu ahonui, ʻaʻole maʻalahi iaʻu. Hoʻohana au i nā ʻano hana like ʻole e pili ana i ke kūlana - i kekahi manawa kōkua ʻo "hoʻolohe hoʻolohe", i kekahi manawa pono ʻoe e ʻapo a mihi, i kekahi manawa e nānā ʻole a ʻōlelo paʻa.

5. He aha ka manaʻo e hāʻawi mau ai i ka ikaika a me ke ahonui?

ʻO ka mea maʻamau, hoʻopiʻi au i kaʻu kāne, a laila ʻae ʻo ia iaʻu e hele i ka ʻauʻau wale nō. ʻO ke kūpono, makemake wau e hoʻolimalima i kekahi manawa me ka ʻole o nā keiki, hoʻololi i nā hana, hoʻololi. I kēia manawa ʻaʻole hiki ke loaʻa kēia, ʻoiai he liʻiliʻi ʻo Zlata. Akā i kekahi lā ua ʻae kaʻu kāne iaʻu e hele i ka spa a ʻo ia ka hoʻomaha maikaʻi loa iaʻu.

6. He aha ka mea kapu iā ʻoe i ka hanai ʻana, a he aha ke ʻano hoʻomana?

ʻO ka kapu ka hoʻopaʻi kino a me kēlā ʻano ʻano ʻino. Makemake au e hānai i nā keiki hauʻoli a hilinaʻi iā lākou iho. Makemake mākou i ka honi, pūliki, naʻaupō a ʻakaʻaka. ʻAʻohe lā e hala me ka ʻole o kēia. A ʻōlelo pinepine mākou i kekahi i kekahi "Aloha au iā ʻoe" a hoʻolohe i ka makemake o kekahi. A he hana koʻikoʻi kā mākou ma mua o ka moe - heluhelu i ka puke, honi a ʻōlelo maikaʻi i ka pō.

7. Ua ʻike ʻia ʻoe he mom blogger. Pehea ʻoe i hiki ai i kēia? He hana a i ʻole he puka waho paha ka ʻoihana pūnaewele no ʻoe?

Ua loaʻa iaʻu ʻo Instagram no nā makahiki he nui, akā ma ke ʻano he blog wau i hoʻomaka ai e mālama iā ia ma kahi o hoʻokahi makahiki i hala. ʻO kēia koʻu honua liʻiliʻi, kahi mea nui a hoihoi loa o koʻu ola. Aloha au i kaʻu blog a me kaʻu mea kākau inoa! He kumu kēia o ka hoʻoikaika, ka ikaika a me ka hoʻoikaika iaʻu. Ua loaʻa iaʻu nā hoaaloha hou a me nā poʻe like like. He hana nui ka blogging e like me kēia, akā nui nō hoʻi ka hoʻihoʻi ʻana o ka naʻau. A makemake loa au ia!

1. Kane, na keiki, ia'u iho. Pehea ʻoe e mālama ai i ka manawa no nā mea a pau a mālama iā ʻoe iho? A ʻo wai ka mea mua iā ʻoe?

ʻAʻole hiki ke loaʻa nā wahi mua a me ka lua i loko o ka ʻohana, aloha nui wau i kaʻu kāne a me kaʻu kaikamahine, akā ʻelua mau "aloha" ʻokoʻa. Hiki ke hoʻohālikelike i ke aloha i ke kāne a me ka makuahine? ʻEkolu mākou kokoke i nā manawa a pau, no laila ʻaʻole pono mākou e hoʻokaʻawale i ka manawa ma waena o lākou: kuke pū mākou, a hele mākou, a holo mākou ma kahi paheʻe. Akā hoʻokahi manawa i ka hebedoma e ho'āʻo mākou e hele pū me kaʻu kāne, me he mea lā iaʻu kekahi o nā kumu nui o ka pilina maikaʻi.

2. Inā ʻaʻole lawa kou manawa a me kou ikaika, ʻo wai ʻoe e hele ai no ke kōkua?

ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, i koʻu hānau ʻana i kaʻu kaikamahine, ʻaʻole hiki ke hāʻawi i ka pēpē i koʻu kupuna wahine, naʻu ke keiki, ʻo ia hoʻi, pono ʻo ia e hoʻokō iā ia iho. I kēia manawa he ʻokoʻa loa ia, hauʻoli ka mea liʻiliʻi e hele i kona kupuna wahine no kekahi mau hola, a hoʻokele mālie wau e hele i waho a hāʻawi manawa iaʻu iho. E like me ka ʻōlelo ʻana o koʻu makuahine: "ʻO wai ka mea e pono ai kāu heroism?" ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hoʻomaha maoli no ʻelua mau hola, a laila piha hou i ka ikehu no ka pāʻani ʻana i ka hopu hopu a me ka heluhelu ʻana iā "Kolobok" no ka ʻumi o ka manawa i ka lālani.

3. Kauoha ma ka hoʻonaʻauao # 1 – he aha kāu e aʻo mua ai i kāu keiki?

Aloha kau ole! ʻO ka mea mua loa e ʻike ai ke keiki he aloha ʻia ʻo ia. Makemake lākou i kāna hana maikaʻi, a ʻoi aku ko lākou makemake i kāna hana ʻino. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ke kamaʻilio ʻana i ke keiki, a ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka hoʻoulu ʻana i nā ʻano maikaʻi i loko ona.

4. ʻO ke keiki he capricious, ʻaʻole hoʻolohe, hoʻopunipuni - pehea ʻoe e hoʻokō ai i kēia?

Aloha nui kā mākou kaikamahine i ka hooliganism, no laila, ua hoʻokumu ʻia ke ʻano o ka mea i ʻae ʻia i loko o ko mākou ʻohana. ʻAʻohe mea like ʻole i ʻae ʻia e papa, no ka laʻana, ʻaʻole i ʻae ʻia e hohola i ka porridge ma ka papaʻaina, ʻaʻole manaʻo ʻo mama. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ke hoʻāʻo nei ʻo Nika e hoʻokō i kāna pahuhopu me ka waimaka a lohe ʻole mai iaʻu. A laila, ʻōlelo wau: "E ke pēpē, ke ʻoluʻolu ʻoe a mākaukau e kamaʻilio, e hele mai i oʻu nei, e ʻoluʻolu, aloha nui wau iā ʻoe a ke kali nei au iā ʻoe." ʻElima mau minuke ma hope mai, holo maila ʻo ia me he mea lā ʻaʻohe mea i hana. ʻAʻole mākou e hahai i nā ʻano hana aʻoaʻo kūikawā, ma hope o nā mea a pau, ʻo nā keiki, ʻo ka mea mua, he hōʻailona o ko lākou mau mākua, no laila ke hoʻāʻo nei mākou e hoʻonaʻauao iā mākou iho.

5. He aha ka manaʻo e hāʻawi mau ai i ka ikaika a me ke ahonui?

ʻAʻole wau he makuahine maikaʻi loa. A ʻolokaʻa pinepine ka luhi, ʻaʻole lawa ka hoʻomanawanui no nā mea āpau, aia kekahi mau lā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke pane mālie i ke ʻano maikaʻi ʻole o ke keiki, manaʻo ʻoe ua kokoke ʻoe e haʻihaʻi a uē no kekahi hewa ʻē aʻe ... I kēlā mau manawa ke hoʻomanaʻo nei au i kahi ʻatikala aʻu i heluhelu ai i hoʻokahi makahiki i hala ma ka Pūnaewele, a ma kahi o ka uē ʻana, makemake ʻoe e noho i lalo a apo i kāu pēpē i ka hiki. Me kou ʻae, e hoʻokomo wau i kahi ʻāpana liʻiliʻi mai ia mea:

“Ua ʻike anei ʻoe i ka hopena o ke keiki ke ʻuā a hoʻopaʻi kino paha ʻoe iā ia? E noʻonoʻo ʻoe ua pau kāu kāne a wahine paha i ka hoʻomanawanui a hoʻomaka ʻo ia e ʻuā iā ʻoe. I kēia manawa, e noʻonoʻo ʻoe ʻekolu mau manawa o kou nui. E noʻonoʻo ʻoe ua hilinaʻi piha ʻoe i kēia kanaka no ka meaʻai, ka hale, ka palekana a me ka palekana. E noʻonoʻo ʻoe ʻo lākou wale nō kāu kumu o ke aloha, ka hilinaʻi iā ʻoe iho a me ka ʻike e pili ana i ka honua, ʻaʻohe āu e hele ai. I kēia manawa e hoʻonui i kēia mau manaʻo 1000 manawa. ʻO kēia ka manaʻo o kāu keiki liʻiliʻi ke huhū ʻoe iā ia ”(Confidence site).

6. He aha ka mea kapu iā ʻoe i ka hanai ʻana, a he aha ke ʻano hoʻomana?

kapu? ʻO ka hoʻouka kaua a me ka manaʻo o ia mea. ʻO ka mea wale nō e hōʻike ai ka mea hiki ke hahau i ke keiki, ʻo ia ka nāwaliwali! ʻAʻole loa au e haʻi aku i kaʻu kaikamahine ʻaʻole wau i aloha a hoʻōki paha i ke aloha iā ia, pono e ʻike ke keiki e aloha mau ʻia ʻo ia a ma lalo o nā kūlana. He aha ka lā ʻole? ʻAʻohe palaualelo. He hack ola makua pololei kēia. I kekahi manawa pono ʻoe e palaualelo! No ka palaualelo e hānai puna, e waiho i nā mea pāʻani no ke keiki, a i ʻole e ʻaʻahu i nā lole moe. A i kēia manawa hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa i ke kīʻaha kofe me ka holoi ʻana i kāu keiki i ka papaʻaina ma hope ona.

7. Ua ʻike ʻia ʻoe he mom blogger. Pehea ʻoe i hiki ai i kēia? He hana a i ʻole he puka waho paha ka ʻoihana pūnaewele no ʻoe?

ʻO kahi puka, kahi e hiki ai iaʻu ke kaʻana like i nā kūleʻa a me nā hemahema, a i ʻole e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka hele ʻana o koʻu lā. ʻAʻole au i ʻike e pili ana i nā mea ʻē aʻe, akā ua laki au i ka poʻe kākau inoa, ʻoiai ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke kāhea aku i kaʻu mau kaikamahine, noʻu he mea ʻoi aku lākou ma mua o kahi huaʻōlelo maloʻo "mea kākau". Ua hoaaloha mākou me kekahi o kēia mau kaikamahine no kekahi mau makahiki i kēia manawa, a ke mahalo nei au iā Instagram no ka hui pū ʻana iaʻu me nā poʻe maikaʻi loa.