I koʻu hemo ʻana, ua ʻōlelo maikaʻi au i kekahi mau hana pili. ʻOiaʻiʻo, pono ka manawa e ʻimi ai i ka puʻupuʻu kūpono me nā keiki, e kūkulu hou i kahi ola kaiaulu a noʻonoʻo iā ʻoe iho! No laila inā ʻaʻole maʻalahi ia, ʻo ka lilo ʻana i makuahine kaʻawale hiki ke maikaʻi ...
1- E hauʻoli i nā kakahiaka me ke keiki ʻole e lawe i kou manawa a hoʻomaikaʻi iā ʻoe iho ...
2- ʻAʻole wehe hou i nā leka panakō, no ka mea, ua ʻike mua mākou aia mākou ma ke ākea i ka hopena o ka mahina ...
3- Ke nānā nei i ka hopena pule "keiki ʻole". e kono i nā hoaaloha a nānā i nā moʻolelo i nā manawa a pau ...
4- No ka lilo ʻana i makuahine kīpē nui : nā haʻawina home, nā ʻeha liʻiliʻi, nā ʻano DIY āpau, pono e ʻike ka makuahine solo i ka hana ʻana i nā mea āpau!
5- E kau i ka pō no ka mea pono mākou e hoʻomaʻemaʻe i ka hale a pau ma hope o ka ʻaina ahiahi…
6- E noʻonoʻo hiki iā mākou ke hoʻolilo i hoʻokahi i ʻelua Kalikimaka i kahi lole ʻauʻau, ma luna o kahi noho, ka makahiki i loaʻa ʻole kā mākou keiki…
7- E noʻonoʻo pāʻani, kāna ipo hou i hūnā ʻia i loko o ka lumi, ʻoiai mākou e holo e hoʻokuʻu i nā keiki i ke kula i ke kakahiaka ...
8- E hoalohaloha me na makuahine a pau o ka ahahui o na makua e hōʻoia ʻaʻole mākou e poina i kekahi ʻike koʻikoʻi mai ke kula…
9- E apo hou aku i kana mau keiki, i kēlā me kēia pō, i maopopo iā lākou ke aloha nui nei mākou iā lākou, ʻoiai inā ʻaʻole mākou me ko lākou makuakāne ...
10 E ho'ōki i ka manaʻo hewa inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i hoʻolālā i kekahi mea kūikawā ma ka hopena pule me kana mau keiki. He maikaʻi nō hoʻi kahi lā pajama e hui pū ai…
11 Ke hui pū ʻana i nā hoaaloha i ka hoʻomaha me kāu mau keiki a pau e pale aku i ka hoʻolālā i loko o kahi hui, hoʻokahi, me kāna mau keiki a me nā maka o nā kāne hauʻoli ...
12 Hoʻopau i ka male ʻana i kāna mea panakō, ʻo ia, ma ke kāhea ʻana iā mākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kā mākou overdraft, aloha i kā mākou kumu punahele: "no ka hauʻoli o kaʻu mau keiki, makemake wau ʻaʻole lākou e poina i kekahi mea" ...