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ʻO kēia ʻOkakopa 13, 13 mau makahiki ma hope o kahi kaikamahine… kaʻu keiki kāne!
Wahi a kekahi, ʻo ka helu 13 ke lawe mai i ka pōʻino. No Jean-François, ua like ia me ka hauʻoli. He ʻumikumamākolu mau makahiki ma hope o ka hānau ʻana o kāna kaikamahine ʻo Chloé, ma ʻOkakopa 13, ua hoʻokipa ʻo ia i kahi Sorel liʻiliʻi. Hoʻi hou ka makuakāne ʻōpio i kēia ʻano like ʻole ...
Inā kākau ʻo Alexandre Dumas i kahi "Iwakalua makahiki ma hope", eia wau i hoʻomaka i ka hoʻolālā ʻana o kahi ʻumikumamākolu mau makahiki ma hope o kekahi mau lā i hala. ʻI he ʻaho 13 ʻo ʻOkatopa ko ʻení, ko e taʻu ʻe 13 hili ʻa e fanauʻi ʻe ha kiʻi finemui ʻi … ʻOkatopa 13, naʻe fanauʻi ai ʻeku foha.
ʻO kā kāua keiki, no ka mea, ʻo kēia mau mea, lohe kāua i nā pēpē, ʻaʻole i hana ʻia e ia wale nō, kūʻē i ka mea hiki i kekahi ke mele i kona hīmeni ʻana. He mea ʻakaʻaka akā maikaʻi loa ka mea e ʻike koke ai nā mea a pau i ka ʻaoʻao kūpono: ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi o ka poina i nā lā o kēia hihia. He mea maopopo loa keia no na makua, ina paha makou e manao nei, me ka lewa, e malama lakou e hoomanao ia mea, aka, he oiaio no hoi no ka ohana, na makuahonowai, na hoaaloha a me na kamaaina, e pili ana i keia microcosm ohana hou. nui a me kēia hōʻea hou i ka honua honua.
ʻAʻole hiki ke poina i nā reflexes maikaʻi
ʻO ka nīnau a nā mea a pau e nīnau ai iā lākou iho i ka heluhelu ʻana i kēia mau laina mua, ʻo ia ka mea ma lalo. ʻAʻole "ua lawe ʻo ia i kekahi mea ma mua o ke kākau ʻana?" », Aka, oi loa aku «o ka malama ana i ke keiki, ua like ia me ka ike i ka holo kaa? ʻAʻole hiki ke poina? “. Pono e ʻae ʻia no nā makahiki 13, ʻaʻole i loaʻa iaʻu ka manawa e hoʻololi ai i nā diaper he nui a ʻo ia ka mea e hoʻokomo i koʻu mau lima i ka momona a liʻiliʻi paha i kahi mea ʻē aʻe ...
ʻO JF, makua kāne ʻōpio i ka makahiki 2010
ʻAʻohe mea, ʻo kēlā me kēia hānau ʻana he hanana kūʻokoʻa. He mea kūʻokoʻa e pili ana i kahi pōʻaiapili, kahi moʻolelo pilikino, nā manaʻo… ʻAʻole pono ka makuakāne o kēia lā i ka 13 mau makahiki i hala aku nei i ʻaʻa ʻole e mālama i ka pēpē no ka makaʻu o haki iā ia. Hiki i kekahi ke noʻonoʻo e ʻike i ke ʻano o Gaston Lagaff i pīhoihoi i mua o kāna kīʻaha a me ka pōlele.
Mai kēia manawa, ʻoi aku ka hilinaʻi i nā hana, emi ʻole ka hopohopo i ke alo o ka uē ʻana, ka uē ʻana, ka liʻiliʻi o ka panicked gestures a hiki i kekahi mau manaʻo huikau i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo no ka hoʻohana ʻana iā Baby me ka makuahine e noho nei no kāna ʻaoʻao mua. ʻAʻohe nīnau no ka hāʻawi ʻana i nā ʻōlelo aʻo a i ʻole nā haʻawina ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi. Ma luna o nā mea a pau, pono ʻoe e hana e like me kou manaʻo, he ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻike wale i ka optimizing i kekahi mau kūlana. ʻAʻole ia he nīnau no ka hoʻopuka hou ʻana i kahi kūlana i hala akā no ka ola ʻana i ka mea hou a piha.
ʻAe, hiki iaʻu!
No laila ʻae, pono ka ʻike, akā no ka mea e hana maikaʻi ana nā mea a pau, ʻike ʻia a ʻaʻole paha, ʻike pū mākou he superfluous. He paradox ia. ʻO kēia hilinaʻi hou i loaʻa i ka manawa e hiki ai ke ola ikaika loa i ka wā mua? ʻO kēia ʻoiai inā hoʻololi ka diaper a i ʻole nā ʻauʻau mua i hoʻopau ʻia me ka panic piha ʻaʻole hoʻi i nele i ka ikaika i ka papa inoa o nā manaʻo.
ʻO Jean-François 'ike no kona makua kāne
Ma hope o 13 makahiki o ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i ke kumuhana, ma ka makua kāne, e nānā me ka haʻaheo maoli e ulu kaʻu kaikamahine a pēlā e loaʻa ai, mahalo iā ia, i kona lilo ʻana, kēia hilinaʻi hou, hoʻololi ka maka. ʻO ka hala ʻana o ka manawa e hana i kahi prisma hou e nānā ai i ka makua kāne.
No laila ʻoiaʻiʻo, e mahalo ʻia kēia paternity, 13 mau makahiki ma hope, ma ke ʻano ʻokoʻa. Akā ʻo ke keiki e pili pū ana. ʻAʻole maikaʻi, ʻaʻohe ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, ʻokoʻa wale nō, maikaʻi mau loa, i kēlā me kēia lā a hiki i kou helu ʻana i kēlā me kēia makahiki. No ka mea i ka hopena, ʻike mākou e hoʻomanaʻo wale mākou i nā manawa maikaʻi mai ko mākou makuakāne. Inā mākou e hoʻomanaʻo e like me ko mākou ʻike ʻana i nā pō hiamoe mua, ka luaʻi ma kahi moe ma 2am pono e hoʻomaʻemaʻe ʻia, ke kūlana o nā diaper i ka manawa e ulu ai nā niho ... hope”.
Hoʻomanaʻo hoʻomanaʻo…
Eia naʻe, ke nānā ʻoe i hope, ʻike ʻoe i nā manawa maikaʻi ʻole o kēia mau manawa hou o ka makua kāne he mau hoʻomanaʻo maikaʻi loa. Eia naʻe: ʻaʻole ia he mea leʻaleʻa ka hele wāwae me ke pēpē no nā hola i hiki ai iā ia ke hiamoe, ʻaʻole, ʻaʻole leʻaleʻa ke kaʻa a puni ʻo Paris i makemake ʻo ia. pani ʻia, ʻaʻole naʻe i hoʻōho nui iaʻu me ka ʻakaʻaka (ʻoiai) i ka wā i pena hou ai kaʻu kaikamahine i nā paia o ke keʻena moe me nā peni manaʻo.
ʻOiai nā mea a pau, hoʻomaka hou mākou. Me ka maopopo o ka hopena e like me ka maikaʻi. Ma hope o 13 mau makahiki, ua paʻa mau kēia mau hoʻomanaʻo a ke hoʻomanawanui nei mākou i ke kūkulu ʻana i nā mea hou, e hana i nā kūlana e hiki ai i kēia mau kiʻi ke mālama ʻia no ka manawa lōʻihi, a no ka manawa pōkole e lawe aku iā mākou mai ka triviality o ka honua a me nā mea ʻē aʻe.
ʻOiaʻiʻo, inā hiki iā mākou i kēia manawa ʻaʻole e lawe i ke koho "Hoʻonani hou wau i ka lumi o Papa-Mum me nā kaha nui o nā māka", hiki nō hoʻi a maikaʻi loa!