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Ke hele nei ka manawa, a ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaopopo i ka pae hea kāu pilina? ʻAʻole nalo loa ke kanaka mai ka radar, akā kakaʻikahi ke kelepona a kākau? Me he mea lā kokoke ʻo ia - hoʻouna ʻo ia i nā selfies, haʻi i nā mea e hana nei i kona ola - akā ʻaʻole ia e ʻae iā ia e hoʻokokoke iā ia? Inā ʻike ʻia kēia iā ʻoe, ʻo ia paha ka manawa e haʻi aku ai i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo kaumaha i ka manaʻo o kekahi poʻe iā ʻoe ma ke ʻano he "field airfield".
Manaʻo mākou ma ke ʻano he fallback kekahi e hoʻowalewale iā mākou i ke aloha a me ka moekolohe. ʻAʻohe o mākou pilina i kēia manawa, akā ʻo wai ka mea hiki iā mākou ke hoʻomaka i kahi pilina inā ʻaʻole hiki ke koho maikaʻi. ʻAʻole paha mākou e hōʻoiaʻiʻo iā mākou iho, akā ke manaʻo mau nei mākou me ka maopopo o ke ʻano o kā mākou hana ʻana i ke kanaka.
Akā, pehea ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo ai i kēia manawa ʻo ʻoe iho "ma luna o ka noho"?
1. Ua kamaʻilio pinepine ʻo ia me ʻoe, ʻaʻole i kēlā me kēia lā.
ʻEkolu a ʻehā mau leka i ka pule, mau kelepona i hoʻokahi mahina, mau memo selfie, ʻelua mau kono kope - ʻaʻole e nalowale kēlā kanaka mai ka laina o ka ʻike, hoʻopaʻa mau, akā ʻike ʻia i kēlā me kēia manawa.
Me he mea lā e mālama ʻo ia iā mākou ma kahi lei - a ma ka manawa like e mālama i kahi mamao; hoʻolimalima manawa me mākou ma kahi ala kūpono iā ia, akā ʻaʻole e lawe i ka hana aʻe.
Pehea e hana ai? Inā luhi ʻoe i ia mau pāʻani, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻōki i ka pane ʻana i nā kelepona a me nā leka no ka liʻiliʻi o kekahi mau lā, a i ʻole, hoʻomaka e kākau a kelepona i kēlā me kēia lā. A ʻike i ka hopena. Hāʻawi kēia iā ʻoe i ka mālamalama a kōkua i ka hoʻopau ʻana i nā manaʻo noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ke kumu o kāna hana ʻano ʻē a puni ʻoe.
2. Hoʻopili ʻo ia akā ʻaʻole hoʻihoʻi i kāu mau holomua.
Hoʻomaikaʻi a ʻōlelo paha kekahi hoaaloha i ke ʻano moe kolohe, akā inā ʻoe e hoʻihoʻi like, hoʻololi wale ʻo ia i ke kumuhana a nalowale paha. E pili ana i ka hoʻomalu ʻana i ke kūlana - he mea nui i ka interlocutor e mālama iā ia i loko o ko lākou mau lima a ʻaʻole e ʻae i ka mea e hana nei ma waena o ʻoukou e hele i kahi pae aʻe, e lilo i mea koʻikoʻi ma mua o kahi pilina aloha.
Pehea e hana ai? I ka manawa aʻe e nānā ʻole ai ke kanaka i kāu hoʻāʻo ʻana i ka pāʻani, e hōʻike iā lākou ua ʻike ʻoe i kēia hana a nīnau pololei iā lākou e pili ana i nā mea e hana nei, no ke aha lākou e hana ai, a me ke ʻano o ia mea no kāu pilina.
3. Ke hele mau nei kāu mau hālāwai.
Hūnā ʻo ia a makemake e hui, akā kekahi mea e hoʻopilikia mau i nā lā - ke anu, ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i ka hana, kahi papa hana, a i ʻole nā kūlana force majeure.
Pehea e hana ai? ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole ʻoe mākaukau e hoʻomau i ka palena ʻana i nā leka a me nā kelepona. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, pono nā hoaaloha a me nā pilina aloha i ka kamaʻilio maka-a-maka i ka nui o nā hihia.
4. ʻAʻole pono ka manawa o ʻolua.
Ke hoʻopilikia mau nei kekahi mea ʻaʻole wale i kāu mau hālāwai, akā me ka hoʻololi ʻana o nā pilina i kahi pae hou. A i ʻole "ʻaʻole i mākaukau" ke kanaka, a i ʻole he "mea pono e hoʻoponopono ʻia", a i ʻole "ua hana ʻia ʻoe a me aʻu no kekahi i kekahi, akā ʻaʻole kēia ka manawa kūpono." He mea hoihoi ia no nā mea ʻē aʻe - hoʻololi i nā hana, neʻe, hoʻomaha - ʻo ka manawa kūpono loa.
Pehea e hana ai? ʻO ka manawa ko mākou waiwai nui, a ʻaʻohe kuleana o kekahi e hoʻolei wale aku. Inā ʻaʻole mākaukau ka mea āu e makemake ai e hoʻomaka i ka launa pū me ʻoe i kēia manawa, a laila hiki iā ʻoe ke neʻe maluhia.
5. Ua pili mua ʻo ia me kekahi
Me he mea lā ʻaʻole kēia he bele weliweli wale nō, akā he bele maoli nō naʻe, i ka wā e makemake nui ai mākou i kekahi, e huli makapō mākou i nā "mea liʻiliʻi" e like me ka hiki ʻana o kahi hoa pili i ka hapa ʻelua - ʻoi aku ka ʻoi aku o ka pilina me he mea lā " ma ke ʻano o ka haki."
ʻO kahi koho ʻē aʻe ke kūʻokoʻa ke kanaka a hōʻoiaʻiʻo iā ʻoe he hemolele ʻoe, ʻo ia wale nō "ʻaʻole ʻo ia i neʻe loa mai ka pilina mua" a i ʻole "ʻaʻole pono" iā ʻoe. Ma keʻano he kūlana,ʻaʻole kēia e pale iā ia mai ka hālāwaiʻana me nā mea'ē aʻe -ʻo ia mau hālāwai "meaʻole" iā ia.
Pehea e hana ai? He pōkole loa ke ola e hoʻopau i ka poʻe i mākaukau ʻole no ka pilina me ʻoe. E kamaʻilio pololei e pili ana i nā mea āpau a, inā ʻaʻole kēia e alakaʻi i kekahi mea, e ʻoluʻolu e hoʻopau i ke kamaʻilio.
Pono ʻoe e noho pū me kekahi mea hoihoi maoli iā ʻoe a ke hana nei i nā hana paʻa e hoʻomaka i ka launa pū ʻana me ʻoe, ma mua o ka pāʻani ʻana i nā pāʻani, e pili ana iā ʻoe ma ke ʻano he «alternate airfield».