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Manaʻo hewa ka poʻe paʻahana he pilikia ka makuahine i nā kaʻina hana: pehea inā e hele hou ka limahana i ka haʻalele makuahine a i ʻole hoʻomaha maʻi no ke keiki. No laila, hoʻohaʻahaʻa pinepine ʻia nā wahine me nā keiki ma ke ʻano he limahana. ʻOiai i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo he mau pono koʻikoʻi lākou.
Hoʻonohonoho i nā kaʻina hana
ʻO ka hoʻolālā a me ka hiki ke hāʻawi aku he mau ʻano maikaʻi loa ia e mahalo ʻia e nā mea hana. Ma muli o ka nele o ka manawa e ho'āʻo ai mākou e nā makuahine e hoʻohana i ka lā hana e like me ka hiki, no ka mea, pono mākou e hoʻopau i nā hana a pau a holo ma hope o ke keiki i ka kindergarten a kiʻi paha iā ia mai ke kula.
A hiki i kēlā me kēia makuahine ke hoʻopaʻa inoa i ka hoʻolālā, nā mākau hoʻokele manawa, a me ka multitasking i waena o kāna mau ikaika ma kāna hoʻomaka. A inā hānai wale ka wahine i kāna keiki, a laila i kona hele ʻana i ka hana, e hōʻike ʻo ia iā ia iho he limahana kuleana.
Kūkākūkā me nā kānaka paʻakikī
Nui ka poʻe i ʻike i ka poʻe "paʻakikī" ma ke ala. ʻO kahi laʻana, he hoa hana ʻaʻole hana maikaʻi, a i ʻole he luna nona ka manaʻo ʻaʻole hiki ke huki ʻia ma kekahi ʻano. Pela no na keiki ma na makahiki like ole. A loaʻa i kēlā me kēia makuahine kona mau ala ponoʻī e loaʻa ai ka pane kūpono mai iā lākou.
No laila, ʻike nā makuahine me nā keiki ma lalo o ʻehiku mau makahiki e ʻike nui ke keiki i ka ʻike ma o ka pāʻani. ʻO wai ka mea e ʻohi wikiwiki aʻe i nā mea pāʻani mai ka papahele, ʻo ʻoe a i ʻole makuahine? ʻO wai ka mea makemake e ʻaʻahu i ka pantyhose i loko o ka māla, ʻo ʻoe a i kāu hoaaloha paha? Hiki i kēia ʻenehana ke kōkua i ka hana. Eia kekahi laʻana, hiki ke hoʻohanaʻia e hoʻoikaika i nā limahana ma o ka hoʻokomoʻana iā lākou i ka hoʻokūkū no ke poʻo inoa o "Employee of the Month".
Mālama nā Māmā i ka diplomatic i nā wā pilikia. ʻO ka pilikia o ka wā kamaliʻi ʻekolu makahiki e aʻo mai iā mākou e kūkākūkā me ka poʻe, no ke kumu ʻole, hiki ke moe i ka asphalt a uē. A inā hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻimi i kahi ala i kahi keiki naʻauao ʻole, no ke aha e hoʻāʻo ʻole ai e hoʻoponopono i nā pilikia me kahi hoa hana maʻalahi ma ke ʻano like?
Ka hiki ke hoihoi
Pono nā mea hoʻomaka, nā mea nona nā ʻoihana, a me nā mea kūʻai aku e huki i nā mea hoʻopukapuka a me nā mea kūʻai aku. Hoʻokahi ka pahuhopu - e hoihoi i ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe inā ʻaʻole maikaʻi kā mākou noi iā ia i ka wā mua. Me nā keiki, hiki i kēlā me kēia hola: ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia e heluhelu, a laila ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia e hana i kāna haʻawina home, a ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia e hoʻomaʻemaʻe.
Ma kahi kūlana me kahi keiki a me kahi mea hoʻopukapuka kālā, he mea nui e hōʻike e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi a me ka pono e hāʻawi mai iā mākou. Ua hoʻomohala nā makuahine i ka empathy, ʻike pinepine lākou i ke ʻano o ka mea kamaʻilio, a ʻike pū lākou i ka pāʻani ʻana i nā hana like ʻole. Pono ʻoe e hele i ka hana hoʻopunipuni ma ke ʻano o ka hoʻololi ʻana i ka leo me ke keiki a me ka mea kūʻai aku i mea e huki ai i ka manaʻo a hoʻāla i ka hoihoi. Hiki i nā makuahine, e like me nā limahana ʻē aʻe, ke hoʻokaʻawale i nā koho like ʻole a loaʻa iā lākou ka mea kūpono.
Hoʻomaopopo i nā pono o ka mea kūʻai aku
No nā kūlana o nā mea kūʻai aku, nā luna moʻokāki, nā mea kūʻai aku e hana pū me nā keiki a i ʻole nā mākua, hauʻoli nā mea hana e lawe i nā wahine i loaʻa ka ʻike i ka makuahine. Inā ʻike ka wahine iā ia iho ma ke ʻano he mea kūʻai aku a mea kūʻai aku paha i ka pilikia, a laila e maʻalahi iā ia ke kamaʻilio i ka ʻōlelo like me ka mea kūʻai aku a mea kūʻai paha. ʻAʻole pili kēia i ke kūʻai wale ʻana.
ʻOi aku ka maʻalahi o ke kumu me kahi keiki ʻōpio ke hoʻomaopopo i kāna mau haumāna, i ka makahiki like me kāna kaikamahine a keiki paha. Ua ʻike maopopo ka poʻe Pediatrics i ka hauʻoli o ka maʻi o kā lākou keiki ponoʻī. Hōʻike ʻia ke aloha i loko o nā makuahine i kā lākou hana.
ʻO ka manaʻo naʻauao i nā hewa
ʻAʻole hiki ke hoʻonui i ka ʻike o nā makuahine āpau, akā me ka hiʻohiʻona a me ka hānai ʻana o nā keiki, hoʻoikaika pinepine nā wahine i nā mākau e like me ka hoʻomanawanui a me ka ʻike. Ma ka hoʻohālikelike me ka hānai ʻana i nā keiki, hiki i ka wahine ke maʻalahi i nā mea, kala i nā hewa a hoʻomaikaʻi i ka lewa i ka hui.
Ke ulu aʻe ke keiki, hana pinepine ʻo ia i nā hewa a pēlā e aʻo ai, launa pū. Ke "ulu" ka mea hana ma ka hana, hana ʻo ia i nā hewa ʻoihana he nui. A inā he mau keiki kā mākou, ʻaʻole poina iā mākou he mea maʻamau ka haʻalele ʻana o nā mea a pau mai ke ala pololei. Mahalo i ka ʻike makuahine, alakaʻi ʻia nā wahine ʻaʻole wale e kā lākou iho a me nā hopena ʻē aʻe i ka hana, akā e hōʻoia pū i ka lewa holoʻokoʻa i ka hui.