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Hoʻokaʻawale ʻia nā monkey Bonobo e ko lākou maluhia. I ka manawa like, ʻaʻole hiki ke kapa ʻia kā lākou mau maʻamau he maʻemaʻe: ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka moe kolohe iā lākou e like me kā mākou aloha. Akā, ʻaʻole ia he mea maʻamau iā lākou ka lili, hakakā a loaʻa ke aloha me ke kōkua o ka ikaika.
Kaulana kēia mau chimpanzees pygmy no ka hakakā ʻole, a ua hoʻopau ʻia ko lākou mau pilikia āpau ... me ke kōkua o ka wahine. A inā he ʻōlelo ko ka bonobos, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi e like me kēia - aloha, ʻaʻole kaua.
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ʻOi aku ka moekolohe - emi ka hakakā
ʻO ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa, ka hoʻoweliweli, a me ka pepehi kanaka hoʻi - aia nā chimpanzees i nā hōʻike o ka huhū ma ke ʻano o nā mea. ʻAʻohe mea like me kēia ma bonobos: i ka wā e kū mai ai kahi paio ma waena o ʻelua mau kānaka, e hoʻāʻo maoli kekahi kanaka e hoʻopau me ke kōkua o ke aloha. "Hoʻohana ʻo Chimps i ka hana ʻino no ka loaʻa ʻana o ka moekolohe, ʻoiai nā bonobos e hoʻohana i ka moekolohe e pale aku i ka hana ʻino," wahi a Frans de Waal, ka mea loea primatologist. A ʻo ka neuropsychologist ʻo James Prescott, ma hope o ka nānā ʻana i ka ʻikepili o nā haʻawina he nui, ua hana ʻo ia i kahi hopena hoihoi: ʻo ka liʻiliʻi o ka moe kolohe a me nā kapu i loko o ka hui, ʻo ka liʻiliʻi o nā paio i loko. He ʻoiaʻiʻo kēia no nā kaiāulu kanaka kekahi.1.
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He maikaʻi ka wahine no kēlā me kēia kanaka
Ma ke kaiāulu bonobo, ʻaʻohe patriarchy i kamaʻāina i ka hapa nui o nā ʻano ʻano ʻē aʻe: ua māhele ʻia ka mana ma waena o nā kāne a me nā wahine. Aia nā wahine alpha i loko o ka hui, e kū nei i ko lākou ʻano kūʻokoʻa, ʻaʻole hiki i kekahi ke hoʻohālikelike i kēia.
ʻAʻohe ʻano makua ʻo Bonobos: ʻaʻole ʻāhewa ʻia nā keiki, ʻoiai inā he kolohe lākou a hoʻāʻo e huki i kahi ʻāpana mai ka waha o ke kanaka makua. Aia kahi pilina kūikawā ma waena o nā makuahine a me nā keikikāne, a ʻo ke kūlana o ke kāne ma ka hierarchy e pili ana i ka ikaika o kona makuahine.
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ʻO ka lokahi ka ikaika
He kakaikahi ka moe kolohe i loko o nā bonobos. ʻO ka nui ma muli o ka hoʻokō ʻana o nā wahine i ke kūʻē ʻana i ka hoʻomāinoino ʻana mai nā kāne, e ʻākoakoa ana i nā hui pili pili. "Inā hōʻike nā wāhine i ka lōkahi a hana ma ke kumu o" hoʻokahi no nā mea a pau a me nā mea a pau no ka mea hoʻokahi, "ʻaʻole iʻaeʻia ka huhū kāne," wahi a Christopher Ryan, ka mea kākau o Sex at Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality, Harper, 2010) .
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ʻAʻole pono ka wahine maikaʻi i kahi orgasm.
ʻO ka hapa nui o ka pilina pili bonobo i kaupalena ʻia i ka hoʻopā ʻana, ka hamo ʻana i nā maʻi, a komo koke i ke kino o kekahi (ua kapa ʻia ʻo ia ʻo ka "bonobo handshake"). I ka manawa like, no lākou, ʻo mākou hoʻi, he mea nui ke aloha: honi lākou, paʻa i nā lima (a me nā wāwae!) A nānā i nā maka o kekahi i ka wā moe.
Makemake ʻo Bonobos e hoʻolauleʻa i nā hanana leʻaleʻa ma o ka moekolohe ʻana.
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ʻAʻole pili ka lili
ʻO ke aloha ke ʻano o ka loaʻa? ʻAʻole wale no nā bonobos. ʻOiai ua ʻike lākou i ka manaʻo o ka hilinaʻi a me ke kūpaʻa, ʻaʻole lākou e ʻimi e hoʻomalu i ke ola moekolohe o nā hoa. Ke hele pū nā pāʻani sex a me nā pāʻani erotic kokoke i kēlā me kēia kamaʻilio ʻana, ʻaʻole hiki i kekahi ke hoʻolei i kahi hōʻino i kahi hoa hoʻoholo e hoʻopā me kahi hoalauna.
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ʻAʻole hōʻailona ke aloha manuahi
Hiki ke wehewehe i ko lākou kūlana kiʻekiʻe o ka hoʻomohala kaiaulu. Ma ka liʻiliʻi loa, mālama ʻia ko lākou wehe, sociability a me ke kaumaha haʻahaʻa ma kēia. Ma nā kūlana a mākou e hoʻopaʻapaʻa nei a e ʻimi ana i ka ʻāina maʻamau, ʻoi aku ka makemake o nā bonobos e hele i loko o ka nahele a loaʻa i kahi somersault maikaʻi. ʻAʻole ka koho maikaʻi loa inā noʻonoʻo ʻoe.
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I loko o ke ola he wahi mau no ka leʻaleʻa
ʻAʻole e haʻalele ʻo Bonobos i kahi manawa e hōʻoluʻolu iā lākou iho a me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Ke loaʻa iā lākou kahi meaʻai, hiki iā lākou ke hoʻolauleʻa koke i kēia hanana - ʻoiaʻiʻo, ka moe kolohe. Ma hope o kēlā, noho lākou i ka pōʻai, e hauʻoli pū lākou i ka ʻaina awakea maikaʻi. A ʻaʻohe hakakā no ka tidbit - ʻaʻole kēia he chimpanzee!
1 ʻO J. Prescott "Kōnaʻi ʻoluʻolu a me nā kumu o ka hana ʻino", The Bulletin of the Atomic Scientists, Nowemapa 1975.