He pēpē ma hope o 40

He aha ka mea e loli ai ka makuahine ma 40?

Laki iki, hoomanawanui

ʻO ka pilikia mua: ka hāpai ʻana. I ka 40, ʻoi aku ka lōʻihi o ka hāpai ʻana, ma kahi o hoʻokahi makahiki. Mai kēia makahiki i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, he 10% ka manawa o ka wahine e hoʻomoʻi ʻia, ʻekolu mau manawa ma lalo o 25 mau makahiki. Akā, he mau awelika wale nō kēia. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻehia ka nui o nā wahine o 40 a i ʻole 42 i hāpai ma lalo o ʻeono mahina ma hope o ka hoʻōki ʻana i kā lākou contraception?

ʻO ka pilikia ʻelua: e hele i ka hopena o ka trimester mua. I kēia makahiki, ʻoi aku ka pinepine o ka hāʻule ʻana o ka hānau mua (nā pilikia i ka ulu ʻana o ka hua ma mua o ka lā o ka menstruation). No laila ma hope o 40 mau makahiki, 30% o ka hāpai ʻana ʻaʻole i hele ma mua o ka lua o ka mahina. I ka nīnau ʻana, ʻo ka ʻelemakule o nā oocytes i mālama ʻia i loko o nā ovaries mai ka mahina ʻehā o ke ola o ka embryo! A ʻelima a ʻumi paha makahiki, ʻo ia ka helu, i loko o nā oocytes pū kekahi.

Ke hala nei nā makahiki, pehea?

He mea maʻamau ka hāpai ʻana i ka wā ʻelemakule. ʻOi aku ka nui o nā hānau ma hope o 40 ma mua o ka ʻekolu i ka XNUMX i hala mau makahiki! Ma 15% o nā hihia, he mea mua loa ia, akā ʻo ka hapa nui o ka manawa, ʻo ia ka ʻohana e ulu. ” Ma Farani, nui aʻe nā kāne e hoʻoholo e hana i ke kolu a i ʻole ka ʻehā, ʻaʻole e haʻi i nā ʻohana i haku hou ʻia! ", Evokes Professor Michel Tournaire, ke poʻo o ka maternity ward o ka halemai Saint-Vincent-de-Paul, ka mea kākau o The Happiness of being a mother - Pregnancy after 35 makahiki. A laila, maʻalahi, ke neʻe nei nā makahiki! ʻO ka hānau mua a hiki i ka 30 makahiki i nā wahine, no laila, e puka mai ana ka hope ma hope iki aku e like me kekahi mau makahiki i hala. 

ʻO ka hānau ʻana, he ʻano maʻamau!

Ua hānau ʻo Madonna iā Lourdes i ka makahiki 39 a ʻo kāna keiki ʻo Rocco ma 41. ʻO Isabelle Adjani kāna keikikāne hope loa, ʻo Gabriel-Kane, ma 40 mau makahiki. Ua hānau ʻo Lio i kāna mau māhoe ʻo Garance lāua ʻo Léa i ka makahiki 37, a ua hānau kāna pēpē Diego i 41. Ke alakaʻi ʻoe i ke ola o kahi hōkū ... hiki mai nā pēpē ma hope! ʻOiai ua maʻa mau lākou i kēia mau lā, ʻaʻole pono e noʻonoʻo ʻia kēia mau hāpai hope loa! Pono lākou i ka nānā kūikawā a me nā wahine e noʻonoʻo nei e nīnau iā lākou iho i nā nīnau kūpono ma mua o ka hoʻomaka ʻana. : "Pehea ka hana a ka poe e puni ana ia'u? "," E paʻa anei au i ke kino? »,« Hiki iaʻu ke lawe i ka ʻokoʻa o ka makahiki ma waena o kaʻu keiki a me aʻu? “…

ʻAe ʻia ka ʻae ʻana i kou hāpai ʻana 

I na lunakahiko. Hiki iā lākou ke hūnā i ko lākou hauʻoli ke ʻike lākou ua hāpai ʻoe. Pehea ka manao o na hoa? A laila, liʻiliʻi ma ka home, walaʻau! Mai hopohopo, i ka manawa i hānau ʻia ai ke kaikaina a i ʻole ke kaikuahine, makemake lākou e hoʻomaʻamaʻa iā ia ...

He hui keiki. “Ua poina ʻo ia i nā pilikia āna e lawe ai! "," He mea kānalua ʻole ia ... "… ʻO ka hopohopo o kekahi, ka hoʻoholo ʻana o nā mea ʻē aʻe ... ʻaʻole maʻalahi i ka makuahine e hiki mai ana ke alo i kekahi mau ʻano. E noʻonoʻo nui i kou ola maikaʻi a me ko ke pēpē!

ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi pēpē ma hope, he aha nā pōmaikaʻi?

Ua hoʻokomo maikaʻi ʻia mākou. ʻO ka mua ma kāna pilina, akā i kā mākou hana a no laila, ma ka home! "ʻO kēia mau makuahine i ka wā e hiki mai ana he kūlana socio-economic ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi. ʻOi aku ka maʻalahi o ka hoʻokipa ʻana i kahi mea liʻiliʻi "i ʻōlelo ai ʻo Prof Tournaire.

ʻOi aku ka naʻauao. "I ka 40, mālama maikaʻi ʻoe i kou hāpai ʻana. ʻOi aku ka mālama ʻana o nā wāhine he 40 makahiki ma mua o nā makuahine ʻōpio… ma muli paha o ko lākou ʻike i ke koʻikoʻi o ia mea a ua ʻoi aku ka ʻike! ” 

Lawe mākou i kona luhi me ka ʻakaʻaka! “I koʻu ʻike ʻana iā lākou e hōʻea ana i koʻu keʻena, ua palahalaha lākou! Ua ʻeha lākou i ko lākou ala ʻana, i ko lākou hele ʻana i kahi moe, akā hāʻawi lākou i ka minoʻaka nui i kēia mau ʻeha. Ua ʻoi aku ka ikaika o lākou, malia paha… "

ʻO kekahi pōmaikaʻi hou o ka makahiki: ma hope o 35 mau makahiki, ua liʻiliʻi mākou i nā kiko kikoʻī, no ka mea, ʻoi aku ka oʻo o ka ʻili! (He nūhou maikaʻi kēlā e lawe ai!)