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ʻO ka pēpē, ka mea nui e hoʻokani hou i ke ola o kēlā me kēia lā
ʻOiai ʻo ia e hoʻi ana i ka home me kona makuahine, ua haʻalele ʻo Lorine, 2 a me ka hapa, i kāna pēpē ma luna o kahi noho ma ka pā. "I koʻu hele ʻana i koʻu mau wāwae e kiʻi i ka mea pāʻani, ua komo kaʻu kaikamahine. Lālau akula ʻo ia i ka pepeke, hoʻihoʻi i luna o ka noho a hoʻōho ikaika: – ʻO ia wale nō! Me he mea lā he mea nui iā ia. Ua hana ʻia ke ʻano i ka lā ma mua. No ka pale ʻana i ka pilikia o ka waimaka aʻu i manaʻo ai e puka mai ana, ua hoʻāʻo wau e ʻike hou aku. Ua haʻi ʻo Lorine iaʻu: - ʻO ia wale nō, e like me Tata. "Ua hoʻomaka kēia hanana iā Erika a me kāna kāne i ka makaʻala, a ʻike lākou i ka mea hiki ʻole iā lākou ke noʻonoʻo: i ka lā, ʻO ka mea nāna i mālama i kā lāua kaikamahine no kekahi mau mahina ma ko lāua home, ua haʻalele mau ʻo ia iā ia, ka manawa o ka heihei a me ke kofe. ʻO kahi hōʻike e hōʻike ana ʻaʻole makehewa ka pāʻani ʻana me nā pēpē.
Mai hoʻopau i kāna pāʻani!
No ke keiki, ʻaʻole mākaukau ka pāʻani ʻana me nā pēpē no kāna hana e hiki mai ana ma ke ʻano he makuahine a makua paha. ʻO kēia ka manawa kūpono e hoʻokani hou i nā hiʻohiʻona mai kona ola i kēlā me kēia lā e hoʻomaopopo maikaʻi iā lākou, nīnau iā lākou, hoʻokaʻawale iā lākou, hoʻokalakupua iā lākou. Eia naʻe, mai lawe i nā mea a pau ma ke kēkelē mua: mai hopohopo inā hoʻoinu kāu keiki i kāna ʻauʻau i ke kīʻaha ke kopa ʻo ia i loko o kona ʻauʻau aiʻole inā lawe ʻo ia i ka mea lulu paʻakai mai kāna lumi kuke liʻiliʻi e kuha i kona ʻāʻī. ʻAʻole manuahi ka pāʻani, ʻaʻohe ʻano ʻino nā hana i kekahi manawa, a ke aliʻi nei ka noʻonoʻo inā ʻo ia ka mea i hoʻoulu ʻia e ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. ʻOiai e noʻonoʻo ana i kāu keiki, e pāʻani ʻo ia e like me kona makemake i hōʻike ʻo ia i kāna makemake. E hoʻohuli ʻo ia i ka paipu hoʻopunipuni o ke ketchup i ʻōpala hoʻopunipuni o ka liniment, mai keʻakeʻa a hoʻopili wale inā noi ʻo ia iā ʻoe. ʻO ka pāʻani pāʻani hōʻailona he ʻoihana koʻikoʻi e koi ai i ka noʻonoʻo, ka hana a me ka pilikino. I nā manawa he nui i kēia mau manawa, pono kāu keiki liʻiliʻi e ʻike ʻaʻole ʻoe i kahi mamao, a e hālāwai me kou mau maka i kekahi manawa e hōʻoluʻolu a "ʻae ʻia" e pāʻani. ʻOi aku ka koʻikoʻi o kou noho makaʻala inā pono ʻo ia e hoʻokuʻu iā ia iho i ka manaʻo ma o ka hoʻokau ʻana i nā manaʻo o ka huhū, ka makaʻu, ka lili a i ʻole ka ʻehaʻeha āna i ʻike ai a i ʻike ai paha: "ʻAʻole ʻoe he pēpē maikaʻi, ua huhū wau. Huhu nui loa! ” I ka hoʻolohe ʻana iā ia, loaʻa iā ʻoe ka manaʻo he ʻumi ka nui o kona uē ʻana ma mua o ʻoe ke lawe ʻia ʻoe? Kiola ʻo ia i kāna pēpē i ka honua inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i hana pēlā me ia? ʻO kou manaʻo ma ke ʻano he kanaka makua a me kou ʻike ma ke ʻano he kamaliʻi ʻelua mau mea ʻokoʻa. E nīnau iā ʻoe iho inā ʻike ʻoe iā ia he pono, akā, mai nīnau i kāna mea e pono ai e hoʻopuka a haʻi. Mai noi iā ia e hoʻōki. Mai haʻi aku iā ia he hoʻonui. ʻOi aku ka liʻiliʻi o kona ʻano ʻino. He kuleana wale nō ʻo ia. Inā hoʻomaopopo ʻo ia he ʻano hoʻopiʻi ʻole ʻia ʻo ia me kāna pēpē, e alakaʻi ʻoe i kekahi o kāna mau hana, manaʻo ʻo ia i ke komo ʻole a ʻae ʻole paha, e kaupalena ʻia kāna pāʻani a haʻalele ʻo ia iā ia. No laila e mahalo wale i kāu keiki a hilinaʻi iā ia: ma ka unuhi hou ʻana i nā mea ma kona ʻano ponoʻī ma ke ʻano o ka pāʻani, hoʻoponopono ʻo ia i kekahi mau manaʻo, hoʻihoʻi i hope, i kekahi manawa hele ma mua o nā kūlana a hiki i ia manawa, hiki ke hoʻopilikia iā ia.. ʻO ke keiki pāʻani me nā pēpē he mea liʻiliʻi ia e oʻo a ulu, hana a hana.
Mai ka mea nānā i ke keiki keaka
ʻO ka nele o ke kūʻokoʻa, ka huhū a me ka hāʻawi ʻana i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a me ke ʻano o ke ola o ka poʻe mākua e hōʻailona i ke ola o kēlā me kēia lā o kahi kamaliʻi. Inā ola ʻo ia i kou mana a maikaʻi ʻole paha, hilinaʻi ʻo ia iā ʻoe no nā mea āpau. I loko o kēia pōʻaiapili, ʻo ka pāʻani ʻana me nā pēpē, ʻo ia hoʻi ka lawe ʻana i kahi mana liʻiliʻi, e waiho ana i ka nānā ʻana a i ʻole ka passivity e komo piha i nā mea āpau i mālama ʻia no nā pākeke a i ʻole nā mea ʻoi aku iā ʻoe iho. No laila, ʻo kahi pitchoun he 18 mahina ʻaʻole i puliki i kona kaikaina, e hauʻoli ia i ka lawe ʻana i kāna ʻauʻau i nā kihi ʻehā o ka hale a i ʻole e hoʻohālike e hānai iā ia. ʻO kahi keiki 2 makahiki e waiho mau ana ma ka papa hoʻololi i ʻelima a ʻeono paha manawa o ka lā e hauʻoli nui i ka hoʻohuli ʻana i nā hana a hāʻawi i kāna pēpē i kahi diaper maʻemaʻe: “Ua pipi ʻoe? E hele! ” ʻO ka haku ʻana a i ʻole ka manaʻo o ka haku ʻana i ka pani ʻana o ka diaper, ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka ʻaila no ka ʻāʻī a me ke mele e hele pū ana me ia, he hauʻoli no kahi kamaliʻi. Ma kahi o 3 a 4 mau makahiki paha, ma ke kula mai kakahiaka a pō, e hauʻoli ʻo ia e hana hou i kekahi hapa o ka papa ma ka home a hoʻomanaʻo i kāna mau haumāna liʻiliʻi i nā lula o ka noho pū ʻana. ʻO ia hoʻi, a ma luna o nā mea a pau, he mea paʻakikī iā ia ke hoʻohui iā ia iho: “E paʻa lima e hele i ka hale ʻaina; Mai hahau i kou mau hoa; Mai haehae i kā Kevin kaha kiʻi! ” No laila e hoʻololi ʻia nā hiʻohiʻona e like me ka makahiki, ka honua a me ke oʻo.
ʻAʻole kaumaha a ʻakaʻaka hoʻi
Mai ka 15-18 mahina, i hiki i kāu keiki ke ulu kūʻokoʻa i kēia ʻano pāʻani, e hoʻokomo i kahi pēpē ma kona lima. ʻAʻole i ka hohonu o kāna pahu mea pāʻani (pono e hiki iā ia ke loaʻa me ka maʻalahi), ʻaʻole pololei i kona mau lima: ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia, ʻaʻole pono koke, ʻaʻole i nā manawa āpau. ʻO ke kiʻi o ke pēpē maikaʻi a i ʻole ka pepeke no ka liʻiliʻi ma lalo o 5-6 mau makahiki: he "pepe" a i ʻole ke keiki liʻiliʻi e like me ia, ʻaʻole māmā a kaumaha loa, ʻaʻole liʻiliʻi a nui ʻole, maʻalahi ke lawe a paʻa. ʻO ia hoʻi, ʻaʻohe pepeli nunui e hiki ke hoʻohauʻoli iā ia a i ʻole e pilikia ʻo ia i ka lawe ʻana hoʻokahi. ʻaʻohe heeled Barbie, One Piece a i ʻole Ever After High kiʻi hana kiʻekiʻe, e waiho i nā Monster Highs i manaʻo ʻia no nā ʻōpio. ʻAʻole pono i ke keiki pēpē maikaʻi a i ʻole ka pepeke ke ʻike i nā hiʻohiʻona maka: ʻaʻole pono ʻo ia e kaumaha a ʻakaʻaka paha, i hiki ai i ke keiki ke hoʻopuka iā ia i nā manaʻo a me nā manaʻo o kāna koho. A e like me ke alakaʻi ʻole ʻana o ke kanaka makua i ka pāʻani o ke keiki, ʻaʻole pono ke kīpē i ke keiki liʻiliʻi: “E hāʻawi mai iaʻu i ka puliki; hāʻawi mai iaʻu i ʻōmole; Ua hiamoe au, auhea ko'u wahi moe? ” E hoʻopōkole ʻia ka manawa pāʻani a ilihune. E koho i nā waiwai palekana e like me nā pēpē Waldorf e hana iā ʻoe iho a kūʻai paha ma ke kaomi ʻana i ka fabrique-moi-une-poupee.com, www.demoisellenature.fr, www.happytoseeyou.fr. Mai ka papa inoa o nā hōʻailona hoʻolaha ākea e like me Corolle, koho i nā hiʻohiʻona maʻalahi e like me Bébé Câlin a me kāna lole hoʻokele hoʻoilo me Velcro (mai 18 mahina) a i ʻole kaʻu pēpē maʻamau (mai 3 mau makahiki), ʻaʻole maopopo kēia papa inoa.
ʻO nā lole a me nā mea hana i kūpono i kona hiki
Mai 15 mau mahina a no nā makahiki lōʻihi loa, e koho pū i nā hiʻohiʻona e like me Rubens Babies mai ka brand Rubens Barn me ka pani ʻana o ko lākou mau maka, ʻaʻohe mea e waiho ʻole ʻia me ko lākou ihu piʻi, nā wāwae arched a me nā ʻūhā momona. Mahalo iā lākou a inaina paha iā lākou ma ka hale kūʻai pūnaewele o Oxybul, kahi i hana mua ai lākou i ka hopena o 2014. Ma waena o nā mea liʻiliʻi, ua lanakila lākou i nā balota āpau: 45 cm ke kiʻekiʻe no ka liʻiliʻi o 700 g, nā diapers e ʻoki ʻia a ʻeha ʻole me ka pilikia ʻole e nā lima liʻiliʻi o nā keiki a me kahi ʻahuʻula ʻauʻau kahi e uhi ai i ka pēpē lole i ka maka o ka maka, i ka wā e hoʻomau ai nā ʻoihana ʻē aʻe i ke kūʻai aku i nā lole i humuhumu ʻia i ke kino o nā mea pāʻani a paʻakikī paha ke kau. na ka muli loa. Pono e hoʻololi ʻia nā lole i ka hiki o ke keiki i ʻole e loaʻa iā ia kahi pilikia nui i ka wā e pāʻani ai, a no laila hiki iā ia ke hāʻawi piha iā ia iho i ka pāʻani "hoʻohālike". Pono nā cardigans he ʻumi i ka dexterity nui, ʻo ia ka mea ma hope. No nā mea hoʻohui, ʻo ka mea like: a hiki i 3-4 mau makahiki, pono nā keiki i nā mea maʻamau ʻaʻole i liʻiliʻi loa. ʻO ka liʻiliʻi o ke kiʻi a me ka maʻalahi, ʻoi aku ka waiwai o ka pāʻani a me ka noʻonoʻo e hoʻopuka ai! ʻAʻole pono e hoʻolilo i ka waiwai: ʻo kahi kīʻaha plastik i kūʻai ʻia ma ka hale kūʻai nui e kūpono no ka ʻauʻau. ʻO kahi moena maoli no ka bassinet a i ʻole ka moena i kau ʻia ma ka papahele e kūpono i ke keiki ʻōpio e hiamoe i kāna pēpē me ka pilikia ʻole. Loaʻa iā ʻoe: ʻaʻole pono ka pāʻani pēpē pēpē i hoʻāʻo hiki ʻole ke hoʻokō ʻia i nā mākau kaʻa maikaʻi, e waiho wale i kahi haʻawina hana a i ʻole ka papa mālama keiki. He wahi kūʻokoʻa wale nō e hoʻokani hou i ke ola o kēlā me kēia lā, hana i nā mea hiki a hele mau.
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