ʻO kahi ʻano wahine hou: ʻo Casanovas i nā ʻaʻahu

He mau makahiki i hala aku nei, ka mea hana keaka a me ka mea hōʻike TV Vera Sotnikova 'Ōleloʻo ia e pili ana iā ia iho ma kahi hālāwai ninaninau: "ʻO wauʻo Casanova i kahi kapaʻaʻahu." I kēlā mau lā, ua lanakila ka waiwai o ka ʻohana ma waena o nā wahine, a ʻo ke ʻano o ke ʻano o ke ʻano he mea ʻokoʻa loa, pīhoihoi a me ke kāne. Akā ua loli nā mea a pau.

ʻO nā mea paʻakikī o kēia lā e koi pinepine i nā ʻano kāne kāne mai nā wahine. Ua pōwehiwehi nā palena ma waena o nā kāne, ua kokoke mai nā hiʻohiʻona wahine a me nā kāne i ka pilina. Eia kekahi, ke ulu nei nā pilina ma kahi ākea, mamao, a ke ulu nei ka makaʻu i ka wehe, kokoke, a me ka nāwaliwali. Makaʻu nā wāhine a me nā kāne i nā manaʻo ikaika i hikiʻole ke pale i nā pilina pili. Pehea ka ʻokoʻa o nā Casanova mai nā mea ʻē aʻe?

1. Hoopunipuni akamai lakou

ʻO nā wahine Casanova he mea hoʻowalewale loa. I kekahi manawa hoʻohana lākou i nā ʻano hana «kāne», akā he kakaikahi kēia: ʻoi aku ka pinepine o ka wahine e hoʻowalewale e like me ka wahine - maʻalahi, aloha a me ka ʻike ʻole. E hoʻonanea ʻo ia iā ʻoe me ka ʻala o ka mea ʻala, nā ʻaʻahu rustle, nā maka liʻiliʻi.

ʻAʻole ʻoe e ʻike i ka hopu a hāʻule i ke aloha. E lawe ʻoe iā ia i wahine makemake e mare, a no kekahi manawa e manaʻo ʻoe ua ʻoi aku kona hoihoi iā ʻoe ma mua o kāna makemake maoli a hilinaʻi iā ʻoe. E mālama ʻoe iā ia, e hoʻolilo kālā iā ia. Malia paha e hoʻomaka ʻoe e hana i nā hoʻolālā no ka wā e hiki mai ana. Akā ma hope o ka manawa, e hōʻike ʻo ia i kona helehelena maoli.

2. ʻAʻole lākou makemake e male. Makemake lākou i ka moekolohe wale nō

Ma keʻano he kūlana, ua lilo nā wāhine i hoʻokō i kā lākou "papahana liʻiliʻi liʻiliʻi" i Casanova: ua male lākou, ua loaʻa iā lākou nā keiki, a i kēia manawa ua kūʻokoʻa lākou e noho i ke ala a lākou e makemake ai. ʻAʻole pono kēlā wahine e ola me ʻoe a make i ka lā hoʻokahi. ʻO ia wale nō ka hoihoi i kou mana, naʻau, ka moe kolohe, ka leʻaleʻa āu e hāʻawi ai iā ia.

"Makemake wau i ka moekolohe i kēia manawa. Lot. Maikaʻi a ʻokoʻa hoʻi, "wahi a Yuliya, 39. "Eia, he pilina maikaʻi ka moekolohe. Akā, hele mai ka moekolohe me ka pilina, he mea kaumaha iaʻu. Pehea e loaʻa ai ka moekolohe wale nō, me ka ʻole o ka pilina pili? "- Inna, 42, hoʻokani iā ​​​​ia.

ʻAʻole liʻiliʻi loa, ʻo nā kaikamahine ʻōpio i ʻike i ka hōʻeha ikaika i ke aloha aloha e lilo i Casanova me ka ʻole. No ka mea he mask wale kēia, aia ka manaʻolana e hoʻohuli i kēlā kaikamahine i wahine kūpaʻa.

3. Kuokoa mai na kuleana. Inā male, a laila civil

Ma hope o kekahi manawa i loko o ka pilina me ka wahine Casanova, ʻike ke kāne i ke ʻano o ke ʻano o ka hoa kāne, e uhaʻi ana i nā stereotypes maʻamau o ka ʻano wahine. ʻAʻoleʻo ia e ho'āʻo e hoʻokumu i kahi ola hui,ʻaʻole e noi i nā makana,ʻaʻoleʻo ia e kāhea i ke kanaka ma ka hanaʻelima manawa i ka lā,ʻaʻole makemake nui e hele i nā hale kiʻiʻoniʻoni a me nā haleʻaina, e pale i ka hālāwaiʻana me kona mau hoaaloha a me kona mau hoahānau. Akā, pane mau ʻo ia me ka hoihoi i ka hāʻawi ʻana i ka wahine - hele mālie nā pilina āpau iā ia.

I kēia mau lā, ua loaʻa iaʻu nā ʻatikala he nui e pili ana i ka male kīwila, kahi i hōʻike ʻia ai ka wahine ma kahi ʻaoʻao. Hōʻike nā mea kākau iā ia ma ke ʻano he kanaka i hoʻohana ʻia iā ia. ʻAʻole loa au e ʻae i kēia. Nui nā wāhine e koho i ka male kīwila ma ke ʻano he ʻano ʻoluʻolu o ka pilina no lākou iho. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole lākou a pau ʻo Casanovas: ʻo ka hapa nui o ka male kīwila ke kūkulu nei i kahi pilina koʻikoʻi.

ʻO ka mea nui, e pale aku ka wahine Casanova i kekahi hint o ka noho mau ʻana, akā inā ʻae ʻo ia i ka male ʻana, a laila ʻoi aku ka nui o ka male kīwila: hōʻoiaʻiʻo ia i ka wahine palekana, akā hoʻokuʻu ʻia mai nā kuleana pili ʻē aʻe i ʻike ʻia e kēlā wahine he mea pono ʻole.

4. "Ale a haʻalele"

ʻO ia ʻano hiʻohiʻona o ka hana ua pau ka pono o ka hapalua ikaika o ke kanaka. Hiki i ka wahine ke haʻalele mālie i ke kāne i hoʻōki i ka hoʻomāʻona iā ia i ka moekolohe, a i ʻole e hoʻololi iā ia me kahi hoa kūpono - e like me ka haʻalele ʻana o nā kāne i nā wahine ma muli o ka ʻoluʻolu ʻole o ka moekolohe a i ʻole ka hui ʻana i kahi mea e hoʻohauʻoli nui iā lākou.

No ke aha i maikaʻi ai nā wahine Casanova?

Ua heluhelu paha na kanaka a ua weliweli. Eia naʻe, hoʻohiki ka pilina me ia mau wahine i ka nui o nā bonus, no ka mea:

• ʻAʻole lākou e manaʻo i kekahi mea mai iā ʻoe, ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻolilo iā ʻoe i kuleana no kou wā e hiki mai ana;
• mai "kūpono" iā ʻoe, e hōʻeha iā ʻoe me ka lili a me ka mana;
• mai koi i kou wahi pilikino: ʻaʻole noʻonoʻo a kino paha;
• mai hoʻokumu i ka pilina, kahi kokoke i ka ʻeha, ʻaʻohe mea pilikino, ʻo ka wahine wale nō;
• ʻike, naʻau, maikaʻi i ka moekolohe, ua hoʻomohala lākou i ka moemoeā moe kolohe, me lākou hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa i nā manaʻo hoʻohiwahiwa a me nā manaʻo;
• e pale mau lākou iā lākou iho i ka moekolohe, a no laila ʻoe;
• nani, nani, nani.

No laila e nīnau iā ʻoe iho i ka nīnau: "He aha ke ʻano o ka pilina e pono ai iaʻu iho?" A pane pololei. No ka poʻe makemake wale i ka moekolohe, ʻo ka wahine Casanova ka hoa kūpono. He mea maʻalahi loa ka pilina me ia: ka wahine wale nō, maikaʻi a ʻano like ʻole. He ʻahaʻaina naʻau, nā manaʻo. ʻO kēia paha kāu mea e pono ai?

Mai aloha wale.