"Hiki i ka nawaliwali kanaka maʻalahi ke hana ma mua o ke kiʻi kūpono"

ʻO kahi kiʻi calibrated akahele i kekahi manawa e lohi iā mākou i ka hoʻomohala ʻana, ʻoi aku hoʻi i kahi kūlana alakaʻi i ka ʻoihana. No ke aha ka manawa kūpono e hōʻike ai i kou nāwaliwali i ke ala o ka poʻe ikaika a kūleʻa?

"Ua manaʻo wau e holo maikaʻi ana kaʻu wā aʻo me ka hui a haʻalele koke ka CEO i ka lumi. Aia mākou i waenakonu o kahi kaʻina hana a ke hoʻomaka nei nā poʻe e wehe… "wahi a ke kākāʻōlelo hoʻololi ʻo Gustavo Rosetti. Kōkua ia i ka poʻe i komo i nā hālāwai hana e noʻonoʻo i nā hana a hoʻoponopono pono iā lākou, kōkua i ka hoʻokumu ʻana i kahi lewa ʻoluʻolu a me ka ʻike like ʻana ma waena o nā kānaka.

Hoʻomanaʻo mākou i kekahi i kekahi

Ua hōʻike ka noiʻi e hōʻike ana ko mākou lolo i ka manaʻo a me ka hana a kekahi. ʻAʻole paha mākou e ʻike i nā hōʻailona e heluhelu ana ka lolo, akā ke pane nei ke kino. ʻO ia ke kumu e ʻakaʻaka ai mākou i ka pane ʻana i ka minoʻaka, wehewehe ʻo Rosetti. A inā ʻakaʻaka mākou me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻole, e hōʻoluʻolu paha mākou. No laila, ma ka hui pū ʻana, e like me ke kamaʻilio ʻana, he mea nui ka ʻoiaʻiʻo.

ʻO kekahi o ka poʻe i komo i ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa, ka Luna Nui o ka hui, ua ʻike ʻaʻole ʻo ia i mākaukau hou e "maikaʻi no nā mea āpau." Ua hoʻohana ka poʻe a puni iā ​​ia i ko lākou pono. ʻAʻohe ona manaʻo e haʻalele i ka hui, akā mai kēia manawa, lilo kāna mau pahuhopu a me kāna mau manaʻo i mea nui. Ua hana ʻia kēia ma hope o kāna kākau ʻana, ma ka manaʻo o Rosetti, i kāna palapala make ponoʻī.

Hiki i ka wehe ʻana ke hoʻāla i ka manaʻo. He mana nui keia, a e pili ana i ka hoomaopopo ana. Kōkua ia iā mākou e ʻike i ka ʻokoʻa o kekahi

Ua wehe mālie ʻo ia a me kāna mau hoa hana i kekahi i kekahi. "E ʻike ʻia mākou e nā poʻe ʻē aʻe," wahi a ka mea hoʻokele. Ke hoʻopau kekahi mea kokoke iā mākou i ko lākou mau manaʻo, ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke ʻike iā lākou a hoʻoholo i ke kanaka, no ka laʻana, huhū a huhū paha. Akā i ka manawa like, inā manaʻoʻiʻo mākou i nā hopena o ka noiʻi, hiki i kona huhū ke hoʻonui i ko mākou koko koko.

Hiki i ka wehe ʻana ke hoʻāla i ka manaʻo. He mana nui kēia, ʻaʻole no ke aloha, akā no ka hoʻomaopopo. Kōkua ia iā mākou e ʻike i ke ʻano o kekahi kanaka, e mahalo i kona mau manaʻo, manaʻo a me kona ʻike. A e ʻimi i nā ala e kamaʻilio ai.

ʻO ka wehe a me ka nāwaliwali

Akā, pono ka wiwo ʻole e wehe. Hele mai ka wehe ʻana me ka nāwaliwali. He mea weliweli paha e like me ka manao o kekahi poe?

Aʻo pinepine ʻia nā alakaʻi e mālama i ko lākou mamao a hana i kahi kiʻi kūpono. E nānā pono ʻole, e hoʻomalu i nā mea ʻē aʻe a hana me ka hilinaʻi. ʻO ka hōʻike ʻana i kahi palupalu i kahi hui i manaʻo ʻia he hōʻailona o ka nāwaliwali. ʻAʻole i haʻalele ka luna o ka hui, ka mea i aʻo pū me Rosetti, no ka mea ʻaʻole ʻoluʻolu ʻo ia i kāna hui. ʻAʻole ʻo ia i ʻoluʻolu hou i kona ʻili ponoʻī. Ua hiki i kāna mau limahana ke wehe, akā ʻaʻole. I kona hoʻāʻo ʻana, ua ʻike ʻia ʻo ia he ʻōlohelohe a holo.

ʻO kahi hui, e like me ka ʻohana, kahi ʻōnaehana o nā mea pili. Hoʻomaka ka hoʻololi pūnaewele me ka hoʻololi pilikino. ʻO nā "revolutionaries" i ka honua ʻoihana ke ʻano o ka poʻe kipi e ʻaʻa e lilo i mea palupalu a ʻae iā lākou iho e hana hewa. Ma ke kuhikuhi ʻana iā Steve Jobs ma ke ʻano he laʻana, kākau ʻo Rosetti: "Nīnau lākou i nā nīnau ʻaʻohe mea ʻē aʻe. Nānā lākou i ka pilikia mai nā manaʻo like ʻole. ʻAʻole lākou e hoʻohuoi i ka ʻike i nā pane a pau. Mai makaʻu ʻoe i ka naʻaupō a i ʻole ka hina.

Ma ka ʻae ʻana i ko mākou hemahema, ua wehe mākou i nā manaʻo hou a me ka ulu ʻana. ʻAʻole mākou e uhaki ma lalo o ke kaomi o nā pilikia i manaʻo ʻole ʻia

Ua uhaki kēia poʻe i nā lula, akā ma ke ʻano maikaʻi a me ka huahua. ʻAʻole lākou i hānau - hiki i nā mea a pau ke lilo i "kipi" a me kahi paionia, e hoʻolei i nā kuʻina o ke kiʻi a hāʻawi iā lākou iho i ka wehe a me ka nāwaliwali. Pono kēia i ka ikaika.

ʻElua pule ma hope mai, ua kāhea ka Luna Nui iā Rosetti. Ua loaʻa iā ia ka ikaika e wehe i kāna hui a haʻi i ka mea i hoʻoikaika iā ia e haʻalele i ke aʻo ʻana. Kaʻana like i kou mau manaʻo a me kou mau manaʻo. ʻO kāna hāmama i hoʻāla i ka pane a me ke aloha pilikino. ʻO ka hopena, ua hui pū ka hui a hoʻoponopono pono i nā pilikia ʻoihana.

ʻOi aku ka ikaika o ka ʻohe ʻōmaʻomaʻo i ka makani ma mua o ka ʻoka nui i haki ʻia e ka ʻino. ʻAʻole nāwaliwali ka nāwaliwali, akā ʻo ka ʻae ʻana i nā hemahema a me nā nāwaliwali. Ma ka ʻae ʻana i ko mākou hemahema, ua wehe mākou i nā manaʻo hou a me ka ulu ʻana. ʻAʻole mākou e uhaʻi ma lalo o ke kaomi o nā pilikia i manaʻo ʻole ʻia a me nā kūlana hou, akā hiki ke hoʻololi iā lākou. Hoʻokuʻu mākou i ka hana hou i loko o ko mākou ola, ʻike i ka hiki ke hana a hoʻoikaika i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.

"Ke kali nei mākou a pau i kā mākou mau alakaʻi, nā hoa hana a i ʻole ka ʻohana e hana i kahi mea hou aʻe. Akā, pehea mākou iho? Kākau ʻo Rosetti. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo a me ka empathy nā kumu hoʻololi. Hiki i ka nawaliwali kanaka maʻalahi ke hana ma mua o ke kiʻi kūpono.


No ka mea kākau: ʻO Gustavo Rosetti kahi mea aʻoaʻo hoʻololi.

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