ʻO ke ʻōpio: nā palena makahiki, ka mea e hana ai

Ma mua o kou hoʻomaka ʻana e hoʻolei iaʻu i nā pōhaku. ʻO Natalya koʻu inoa, a ʻo wau - ʻaʻole, ʻaʻole i ka mea ʻona. ʻO wau ka makuahine o kahi kaikamahine ʻōpio. Ua huli 16 kuʻu nani Alexandra.

Kupanaha makahiki, ʻeā? ʻO ke aloha, ka pōmaikaʻi, ka ʻōpio - nā mea āpau a mākou i waiho ai i ka wā i hala e uhi pinepine ʻia me kahi aloha. Akā ʻo nā mākua e noho mau ana i nā kamaliʻi e noʻonoʻo me ka weliweli e lilo ana kā lākou pēpē i ʻōpio i kekahi lā.

“ʻO kēia nā kaua hormonal, nā ʻimi, nā haunaele - e nānā i ke ʻano o ka ʻōpio o kēia lā. Pehea e loaʻa ai iā ia kahi peʻa? A i ʻole he tunnel ma ka pepeiao? A i ʻole e hoʻomaka ʻo ia e puhi, inu, moe mua, hoʻopaʻa ʻana ... "He nui nā kumu e hoʻopunipuni ai iā ʻoe iho. Akā, pono anei ia?

ʻO kēia mau haunaele a me nā kūʻē i makaʻu ai nā mākua o kēia au (a ʻo mākou a makaʻu pū kekahi ʻoe), makemake wale lākou e hōʻike i ko lākou wā makua. E hoʻomanaʻo iā ʻoe iho - ma hope o nā mea āpau, ʻo mākou kekahi, i ʻike ʻia no mākou iho nā ʻano hewa a me nā hauʻoli o ke kino. Akā ʻaʻole kēia mau hoʻokolohua āpau i hopena i kahi ʻino o nā kuko liʻiliʻi, ʻeā?

A iā wai mākou i hōʻike ai i ko mākou kiʻekiʻe a me ko mākou makua? ʻO nā hoa - ʻae. Akā manaʻoʻiʻo wau e hōʻoia mua nei lākou i nā mea āpau no ka mea ʻo nā mākua, a hiki i kēia manawa he kiʻi no mākou a, i ka laulā, nā mea āpau, nā mea āpau, nā mea āpau, mākou ʻōpio, ʻaʻole i manaʻo iā lākou he kaulike. Akā, makehewa. ʻOiaʻiʻo, nele i ka poʻe ʻōpio ka ʻike. ʻO ka mea, ʻo kā lākou mau hoʻoholo he aloha nui a mahele. Akā ua hoʻomohala maikaʻi ʻia ka ʻike ma kēia makahiki, a ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻopaʻapaʻa me kēlā. A inā hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokomo i ke keiki i ka hiki ke hoʻoholo iā ia iho, a laila ʻoi aku ka nui o ka manawa e hoʻōki i ka mālama ʻana iā ia e like me ke keiki kūpono ʻole.

Paʻakikī? ʻAʻole, ʻaʻole paʻakikī.

Ma ke ala, a e hōʻoia iā ʻoe iho i ka pōʻai o nā hoa ʻae ʻia i kēia manawa ʻaʻole ʻae ʻia e nā hoʻokolohua me ka helehelena a me ka waiʻona ʻōpio (ʻoiai lākou pū), akā na ka lolo. Huhu nā Botanist i kēia mau lā.

Mai ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i ka ʻike. No kekahi kumu, ʻaʻole wau makaʻu i ke au hoʻololi. ʻOiai ʻo ia nō kahi makana - discos, mau keikikāne, ua hoʻāʻo wau e puhipaka i ka papa 9, a he 10 mau makahiki wale nō i hala. Ma lalo o ka mana o kaʻu kaikamahine, e ke ala, nona ka mahalo a nui iā ia.

"Ugh, he ʻaʻala maikaʻi ʻole," ua wili kuʻu wahine ʻeono makahiki i kona ihu. A ʻo ia wale nō. Pehea e ʻoki ai.

Akā ʻo Sasha - maikaʻi nā mea āpau me ia. Maopopo anei iā 'oe? Aʻo ʻo ia, hele i loko no nā haʻuki, hoihoi i ke kākau polokalamu no Android. I ka manawa like, ʻaʻole huhū ʻo ia i nā minamina o nā keikikāne. Nani ke kaikamahine (E hoʻomaopopo wau me ka haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa ʻole). Nui nā hoaaloha, me ko mākou hale.

Nā hoʻokolohua ʻōpio me ka helehelena? ʻĀ, ʻaʻole me ka ʻole o ia. ʻElima mau puka i loko o kona mau pepeiao ʻo Sasha, a ua kala ʻia nā lauoho pupule i kona mau lauoho. Akā hōʻoia wau ʻaʻole wau e ʻike i kekahi mea hewa me kēlā. Ua hana ʻo ia i ka kui ʻana me kāna kālā i loaʻa mua. Ua kōkua au iā ia e pena i kona lauoho - ʻoiai inā ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi me ka shampo tint ma mua o ka mea lauoho no ka hapa o kona ola. A ʻehā aʻu mau pepeiao i loko o koʻu mau pepeiao ... ʻAʻole e haʻi ʻia i kekahi mau peʻa ʻelua i paʻa ai koʻu makuahine i kona puʻuwai.

I kēia manawa, ʻo wau ka makuahine makemake nui ʻia i ke kahawai. Makemake nā hoaaloha o Sasha iaʻu ma Facebook, a kamaʻilio pū wau me lākou i nā manaʻo.

ʻO kahi kiʻi mai kahi hōʻike, a ʻaʻohe mea hou aʻe. Ua ʻike anei ʻoe ʻaʻohe makuakāne i loko ona? Hele maoli ʻo ia i loko o ko mākou ola. Ua haʻalele mākou i 12 mau makahiki i hala aku nei, he ʻohana ʻokoʻa kāna, ʻaʻole hoʻomanaʻo iki ʻo ia i kāna kaikamahine hiapo, me ka ʻōlelo pololei. Mahalo paha i kēia, ua lilo pū māua ʻo Alexandra i mau hoa aloha.

Eia ke kī. ʻAʻole mākou he makuahine a he kaikamahine wale nō. He hoaaloha mākou. ʻOiaʻiʻo, hiki iaʻu ke ʻōhumu a me ka hōʻino. A kala mai hoʻi. No ka manawa lōʻihi, ua maʻa wau i ka ʻike ʻana i kaʻu kaikamahine he mea kūʻokoʻa, ʻaʻole kekahi ʻano o kaʻu mea hoʻopili. No laila, ʻoi aku ka nui o kā mākou ʻae ʻana. A ma ka laulā - ke kamaʻilio nei mākou. Ke kūkākūkā nei mākou i kā mākou mau hoaaloha (ʻae, loaʻa iaʻu, a ʻike ʻo Sasha iā lākou). ʻO kona mau hoa papa a me nā hoa papa. Ua ʻōlelo ʻino mākou no nā kumu. Hele pū mākou e inu kofe a holo kaʻa paha - ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke noʻonoʻo i kahi ʻoihana ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi. ʻAe, a me ka haʻalele ʻole i ka manaʻo o kahi hoaaloha, ʻoi aku hoʻi i ka wā e pili ana i kahi kumuhana nona - e hana ʻoe i kēlā? ʻAʻole wau.

A maopopo leʻa iā ia: aia mau wau ma kona ʻaoʻao. A inā ʻo Sasha e pepehi a ʻai i kekahi, e manaʻoʻiʻo maoli wau ʻaʻohe ona koho ʻē aʻe. A paʻa paʻa koʻu manaʻo e pane ʻo ia iaʻu me ke kākoʻo unconditional like.

Maʻaneʻi, pono paha e hana i kahi hoʻopaʻa. He 35 koʻu mau makahiki. Ua hānau wau i kaʻu kaikamahine i ke kakahiaka nui, ma ka 19. ʻO ia nō paha ke kumu ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka ʻimi ʻana iaʻu i kahi ʻōlelo maʻamau me ia. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, hoʻomanaʻo wau i kēlā mau manaʻo i hōʻeha i koʻu mau manaʻo i loko o kahi soufflé hihiu o nā tausani o nā mea hoʻohui. ʻO kēia ka manaʻo o ka pilikia o ka wā transitional ʻaʻole ia kahi pilikia o kahi keiki, akā ʻo kāu ponoʻī, i ulu aʻe mai kahi āpau hanauna? ʻAʻole kāpae ʻia. ʻAʻole ia ka pilikia ponoʻī, akā pehea ʻoe e ʻike ai.

ʻIke pinepine nā makuahine i ke keiki ma ke ʻano he papahana. A hoʻolālā lākou i kēia papahana mai ia ia e kekahi ʻano, me ka paʻa o satanic. A hāʻule ke ʻano o ke keiki ponoʻī i waho o ke kaʻina hana. ʻAʻole paha ia he makahiki. A pehea kou mākaukau e haʻi aku i kāu keiki: “He makua ʻoe. Aloha au iā ʻoe a pili wau iā ʻoe. ”A manaʻoʻiʻo maoli i ia.