Ke koho nei mākou i kēlā me kēia lā: ka mea e ʻaʻahu ai, ka mea e hana ai, me ka mea e hoʻolilo i ka manawa, a me nā mea ʻē aʻe.
Eia kekahi, hoʻonui ka mea mua i nā hiki ke loaʻa ka manaʻo, a ʻo ka lua e kaupalena iā lākou. ʻO kēia kumumanaʻo o ka mea psychologist nui loa ʻo Salvatore Maddi i hōʻoia ʻia e Elena Mandrikova, he haumāna puka o ke Keʻena ʻOihana Psychology o Moscow State University. MV Lomonosov. Ua kono ʻo ia i nā haumāna e koho i hoʻokahi o nā lumi papa ʻelua, me ka haʻi ʻana iā lākou i ka mea a lākou e hana ai i hoʻokahi, akā ʻaʻole hāʻawi i ka ʻike e pili ana i nā mea e kali nei iā lākou i ka lua. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ua like nā mea a pau - e hōʻoia i kā lākou koho a pane i nā nīnau o nā ho'āʻo pilikino.
ʻO ka hopena, ua māhele ʻia nā haumāna a pau i ʻekolu pūʻulu: ʻo ka poʻe i koho ʻole ʻia, ka poʻe i koho i ka mea i ʻike ʻia, a me ka poʻe i koho i ka mea ʻike ʻole. ʻO nā mea hope loa, e like me ka mea i ʻike ʻia, he ʻokoʻa loa ia mai nā mea ʻē aʻe: hilinaʻi nui lākou iā lākou iho, ʻoi aku ka waiwai o ko lākou ola, nānā lākou i ka honua me ka manaʻolana a ʻoi aku ka hilinaʻi i ko lākou hiki ke hoʻokō i kā lākou mau hoʻolālā.