No ka Kalikimaka, ʻaʻole hilahila kekahi mau mākua i kekahi mōhai no kā lākou mau keiki. Pehea e wehewehe ai i kēia pono e hāʻawi makana en masse?
ʻO Stéphane Barbas: Ke hāʻawi makana, aia mau a ke kuhi o ko kakou mau moeuhane a me na makemake. A i ka uhi ʻana o nā mākua i kā lākou mau keiki me nā mea pāʻani, he ala ia no lākou hoʻomāʻona i kēlā ʻāpana o ka noʻonoʻo. ʻO ka hōʻoluʻolu i kāu mau makemake ponoʻī he kūpono, akā he mea nui e hoʻomaopopo he hiki ke hana pau loa i ka paepae me na keiki.
No nā mea ʻē aʻe, kēia ka nui loa he ala ia e hoʻoponopono ai i nā kiʻi makua nahā a i ʻole ko lākou moʻolelo. Lilo nā makana i ala o hoʻihoʻi i kahi kūpono. No ka laʻana, ʻaʻole makaʻala ka poʻe i hala nui i ko lākou wā kamaliʻi i ka nui o nā mea pāʻani. Akā ma ka makemake e uku i kahi mea phantasmal, pale pinepine kēia i nā pākeke e hoʻolohe kamaliʻi.
ʻO ka mea hope loa, ʻaʻole e hōʻemi kekahi i kekahi mōhai no ka makaʻu i kā lākou keiki mai aloha hou aku ia lakou a e hooiaio ia lakou iho, ma ka pōkole, he mau makua maikai lakou.
I ka hihia hope, ua hoʻohana ʻia nā makana i mea hōʻoia o ke aloha?
SB : ʻOiaʻiʻo. He a hoʻomeamea a he ha'alele i ke aloha. Akā, ʻaʻole lawa nā makana, no ka mea ʻAʻole mākou makemake nui loa kā lākou mau keiki. Inā manaʻo lākou he pono nui e materialize i ko lākou aloha, nā mākua e haohao, no ka mea huna i na pilikia hohonu. He mea nui e hoʻomanaʻo i ke aloha ma mua o nā mea a pau.
Kalikimaka: ʻaʻole i ka blackmail o nā makana!
"Ma ke kūkākūkā ʻana, ʻike wau i kekahi manawa ua hoʻohana ʻia ka Kalikimaka i mea kaua e nā mākua. No ka hoʻokō ʻana iā lākou iho, hoʻohana lākou i ka blackmail: inā ʻaʻole ʻoe naʻauao, ʻaʻole ʻoe e loaʻa nā makana i ka Kalikimaka. Eia naʻe, hoʻohui kēia i kahi manaʻo pili ʻole pono ʻole. ʻO ka Kalikimaka a i ʻole lā hānau he mau lā hoʻomaha hōʻailona. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e hoʻopā iā ia. A inā mākou e hoʻopaʻi i ke keiki, e kali ʻo ia i hoʻokahi makahiki. He lōʻihi loa iā ia, "wahi a Stéphane Barbas.
Ma ka hoʻomāinoino ʻana i kā mākou mau keiki, ʻaʻole anei mākou e holo i ka pilikia o ka hoʻonāukiuki ʻana iā lākou a i ʻole ka hoʻolilo ʻana iā lākou i mea capricious?
SB : Ina e loaa i ke keiki a ke koho ʻana i nā makana, aia kekahi mau pilikia e hoʻopale, ʻoiaʻiʻo. I ka pau ʻana o nā lā hoʻomaha, pau nā makana i kahi kihi. Eia naʻe, hiki i kekahi poʻe liʻiliʻi ke hana e hoʻokele maikaʻi i kēia overabundance. ʻIke lākou i kā lākou mau mea pāʻani i kekahi mau pule ma hope o ka Kalikimaka.
Eia kekahi, ʻo ke keiki i loaʻa i nā makana āpau āna i makemake ai, ʻaʻole ia e lilo i capricious. ʻOiaʻiʻo, pāʻani hou aku ma ke kumu mau. Pono ʻoe e ʻike pehea e mālama ai i ka makemake o nā keiki, ʻike i ka ʻōlelo ʻole, mai manaʻo e kūʻai i kahi mea pāʻani liʻiliʻi i kēlā me kēia manawa āu e hele ai e kūʻai, no ka laʻana. Akaka, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe i loko o ka ʻoluʻolu koke.
E aʻo anei ʻoe i nā mākua e hahai i ka papa inoa Kalikimaka a nā keiki a i ʻole, e makemake i ka mea o ka pīhoihoi?
SB : He maikaʻi ka pīhoihoi, hāʻawi ʻia ʻaʻole e alakaʻi i kahi huhū ʻino i ke keiki ma ka hāʻawi ʻana i kahi makana kūʻē loa i kona makemake. Hōʻike kēia i nā mākua e manaʻo i nā makemake na kamalii, me ka pono ole e hooluolu ia lakou iho. No ka papa inoa, ʻoiai inā pili ia i ke ʻano o kēlā me kēia, manaʻo wau ʻaʻole pono ia hahai ma ka buke. Pono ʻoe e ʻike i nā keiki i nā manawa a pau makana punahele, nona ka hōʻailona ikaika ma mua o nā mea ʻē aʻe. Pela wale no ke hoʻolohe nei iā lākou e hoohauoli ia lakou.