PSYchology

E nā hoaaloha, makemake wau e kaʻana like i kaʻu ʻike ma nā kumuhana "Pelekia" a me "Nā hana". Loaʻa pū me nā haumāna o ke Kulanui, ka poʻe e hana i kahi mamao.

He aha ka mea i manaʻo ʻia he pilikia ma ka ʻōlelo a pehea e pani ai i ka pilikia?

ʻO ka mea mua a mākou i ʻaelike ai:

ʻO ka pilikia he moʻolelo e pili ana i kahi mea maikaʻi ʻole - e pili ana i nā ʻoiaʻiʻo, e pili ana i nā manaʻo, e pili ana i nā kānalua, e pili ana i ke kūlana o nā hana ma kekahi papahana..

Ua hele mai lākou me kahi kiʻi: ke kamaʻilio mākou e pili ana i kahi pilikia - ʻo ia hoʻi, e pili ana i kahi mea maikaʻi ʻole - e noʻonoʻo ʻoe e wehe ana ʻoe i kahi ipu me kahi mea popopo, nā halo a i ʻole kekahi mea ʻē aʻe. ʻO nā mea ʻala kupanaha mai kēia hue, a paʻa ʻoe i kāu mau hoa kamaʻilio: "E nā hoaaloha, aia iaʻu ma ʻaneʻi, e honi," a laila honi ʻoe iā ʻoe iho a hoʻomau: "Ugh, ʻae, ʻo ia! Nou keia!"

ʻoluʻolu loa i kēia manawa e kapa i ka pilikia he ipu hāmama. ʻIke ʻoe, hiki i kekahi poʻe ke wehe i ʻelua mau kakini o kēia mau kini i loko o ʻelima mau minuke o ke kamaʻilio ʻana.​​​​​​​

Nā laʻana?

"Ua hana au i kēia hoʻoikaika kino, akā, ʻaʻole i kūpono kekahi mea iaʻu, mai ka lā mua loa aia kekahi ʻano kūʻē, ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ... ma ʻaneʻi ..."

"Ke neʻe ʻole nei kekahi mea me kā mākou papahana, nā hoa hana, ʻaʻole maikaʻi kā mākou hana"

“E noʻonoʻo, ua piʻi hou ke kumukūʻai o ka ʻaila, no ka mea…”

Hooray, ua wehe ʻia ʻekolu mau panakō! Manaʻo ʻoe? 🙂

A pēlā:

Pono nā panakō-pilikia

Pehea e pani ai i ia mau panakō? He mea maʻalahi iā lākou ke ʻai ʻelua ʻano uhi.

ʻO ka mua: e haʻi i kāu mea e manaʻo ai e hana e pili ana i kēia.

“Ua hana au i keia hooikaika ana, aka, aole i holopono kekahi mea ia'u, mai ka la mua mai, ua loaa ke kue, a aole hiki ia'u… maanei… No laila, manao au e hoololi i ke ano o ka hooko i keia pule ae, e heluhelu au i ka ʻōlelo a nā haumāna ʻē aʻe, pehea lākou i hana ai a koho i kūpono iā ʻoe.

Ua pani ʻia kekahi panakō.

ʻO ka lua, ʻo ia ka hāʻawi ʻana i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo, ma ke ʻano pololei a i ʻole ke kuhikuhi (e laʻa, ma ke ʻano o kahi nīnau).

“Ke neʻe ʻole nei kekahi mea me kā mākou papahana, nā hoa hana, ʻaʻole maikaʻi kā mākou hana. Manaʻo wau i kēia pō e hui pū a hoʻoholo i kā mākou hana e hiki mai ana.

Paʻa ka panakō ʻelua.

Hoʻopau mau i nā pilikia me ka hoʻolaha ʻana i kāu mau manaʻo a i ʻole nā ​​​​ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo, i ʻole, e kala mai, pilau. ʻO wai ka mea e pono ai? Pololei, ʻaʻohe kanaka.

He aha kāu e hana ai i ka hoʻoikaika kino:

  • E hahai i kāu haʻiʻōlelo, ke ʻike koke ʻoe i kahi pilikia pahu hāmama - e pani koke iā ia.
  • E nānā no nā pilikia panakō i ka haʻi ʻōlelo a nā poʻe ʻē aʻe a ke ʻike koke ʻoe i kahi wehe, e nīnau i ka nīnau "He aha kāu e hoʻolālā nei e hana?" a i ʻole ka nīnau "He aha kā mākou e hana ai i kēia manawa?" (ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻokoʻa ka huaʻōlelo o nā nīnau ma muli o ka pilina me ke kanaka a me ka ratio o kāu mau kūlana).

ʻAe, inā hoʻopiha kāu "jar" i ka lewa me kahi ʻala ʻoluʻolu o nā hua hou a i ʻole vanilla, a i ʻole kahi ʻala hoʻoikaika o ka kofe hou, a laila mai kānalua e hāʻawi i kēia hoʻomaha i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe! ʻOiai, e pili ana kēia i kahi hoʻoikaika kino.


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