Ka hōʻoia o ka wahine hemo: pehea e hānai ai i kahi keikikāne ma ke ʻano he kāne maoli me ka ʻole o ka makuakāne - ka ʻike pilikino

ʻO Yulia, he 39 ona makahiki, ka makuahine o Nikita, he 17 ona makahiki, he kāne akamai a maikaʻi a haumāna hoʻi o ke Kulanui o Moscow State, i haʻi aku i kāna moʻolelo i ka lā o ka wahine. I nā makahiki ʻehiku i hala, ua haʻalele kā mākou heroine i kāna kāne a hānai wale i kāna keiki.

I koʻu waiho hoʻokahi ʻana me kahi keiki i ʻehiku makahiki i hala, ma mua ua maikaʻi nā mea āpau. Hana ʻia kēia ke hiki mai ka maluhia i ka hale. He ʻumi wale nō makahiki o kaʻu keikikāne, a ke kali nei ʻo ia no ka hemo ʻana ma lalo o kaʻu, no ka mea he kolohe nui kaʻu kāne - aia nā mea āpau ma lalo o kāna kaohi, ʻo nā mea āpau e like me kāna makemake, ʻaʻohe manaʻo kūpono ʻē aʻe . A pololei mau ʻo ia, ʻoiai ke hewa ʻo ia, pololei ʻo ia. He paʻakikī i kēlā me kēia e noho me kēia, a he mea paʻakikī loa ia i kahi ʻōpio i ka wā o ke "kipi kipi". Akā, ua hoʻomanawanui wau ma mua - like like, kahi ola ʻoluʻolu a hoʻonohonoho maikaʻi ʻia. Akā ʻo ka mauʻu hope loa naʻu, ʻo ia kona kuko no ke kākau ʻōlelo, aʻu i ʻike ʻole ai.

Ma hope o ka hemo ʻana, ua maopopo koke iaʻu ua hana pono wau i nā mea āpau. ʻAʻole i pīhoihoi kaʻu keiki ʻo Nikita i ke kelepona, ua hoʻomaka mākou e hoʻonui i ka manawa hou: kuke mākou i ka pizza, hele i ka hale kiʻiʻoniʻoni, hoʻoiho i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni a nānā iā lākou, pūliki pū kekahi me kekahi, i loko o ka lumi. Ua hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻo ia i koʻu papalina a ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia i loko o kā lākou papa o ka ulu ʻana o ka hapalua o nā keiki me ka ʻole o nā makuakāne, e hui maoli nō wau me kekahi kanaka maikaʻi ...

A laila hoʻomaka koʻu mau pilikia mua mai kahi hana ola i kapa ʻia ʻo "Divorce", kahi i hoʻohuli nui i kaʻu keiki.

Hana ʻekahi. Ua paʻa mau wau i ka male ma ke ʻano he ʻohana piha. No laila, ua hoʻāʻo wau e hele e kipa ma kahi o nā makuakāne maikaʻi. He ʻano laʻana kēia no ke keikikāne: pono ʻo ia e ʻike i nā waiwai ʻohana ʻokoʻa, hoʻopaʻa i nā kuʻuna, e komo i ka hana a nā kāne. A laila i kekahi lā, i koʻu hōʻea ʻana i ka dacha i kaʻu mau hoaaloha, ua ʻike wau i ka lawa ʻole o ka pane ʻana mai a kaʻu hoa aloha kula iaʻu. Ua kōkua kaʻu keikikāne a me koʻu hoa aloha ʻo Serezha i kona makuakāne e ʻokiʻoki i ka wahie, kū wau ma kahi kokoke, me ka hopohopo no ke ahi i ka pā. Kupaianaha ka lā. A laila ua nīnau ʻia wau i kahi nīnau: "Yul, no ke aha ʻoe e ʻānai nei me nā kāne i nā manawa āpau? ʻAʻole pono kaʻu kāne i ke kōkua. No kēia mea ʻo wau! ”Ua haʻalulu hoʻi au. Nā lili. Ua ʻike mākou kekahi i kekahi no ʻelua mau makahiki, a aia kekahi mea i koʻu kūlike me ke kūpono, akā ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke kānalua. Pēlā i pau ai ko kāua noho aloha ʻana.

ʻO ka hana ʻelua. A laila ua ʻoi aku ka hoihoi. No nā makahiki he nui o ka male ʻana, ua nui nā hoa aloha a māua ʻo kaʻu kāne. A ma hope o ko mākou hemo ʻana, hoʻomaka ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe. Akā ʻaʻole au i hoʻomaʻemaʻe - ua hoʻomaʻemaʻe ʻia wau mai nā puke e ka poʻe i ʻakaʻaka a kāhea no koʻu lā hānau. Ua kākoʻo kekahi i kaʻu ex me kāna wahine hou, a ʻae ʻia wau e komo i ko lākou hale inā ʻaʻole ʻo ia e kipa. Maopopo kēia. Akā ʻaʻole wau i pono i nā kono like. Ua alo wau i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo he nui nā kāne male makemake iaʻu ma ke ʻano kani o ke kani. Akā hoʻokahi ... ʻAe, nānā wau i kaʻu ʻoi loa, ʻōpio, mākaukau maikaʻi, mālie. Akā ʻaʻole wau i manaʻo i ka lili. ʻAʻole wau i hāʻawi i nā kumu a ʻaʻole wau i wikiwiki e pane i ka pili aloha o nā kāne ʻē aʻe. He hilahila ia. Uwē au. Ua hala wau i nā huakaʻi walaʻau i nā wahi hoʻomoana, nā huakaʻi like i waho.

No laila hele mai ka mehameha. Ua hoʻoili wau i koʻu aloha a pau, mehana a me ka nānā iā Nikita.

I hoʻokahi makahiki ma hope mai, loaʻa iaʻu kahi keiki pēpē a koʻu makuahine, ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hana i kāna haʻawina home iā ia iho, a hiamoe wale i loko o koʻu wahi moe, hoʻomaka e namunamu ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke kūʻai i kekahi mea ... He aha kaʻu i hana ai? Me he mea lā iaʻu ke hana nei i nā kūlana maikaʻi no ke keikikāne. I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, i kēia mau 11 mau mahina ua hoʻopakele wau iaʻu iho mai ke kaumaha. Ua lawe ʻo ia ma luna o kona poʻohiwi i nā mea āpau a kaʻu keiki i hiki ai ke hana nona iho. Ua hume wau i nā lua i loko o kuʻu ʻuhane, no laila ua pākuʻi wau i koʻu puʻuwai. Akā ʻo ka maikaʻi, nā lolo a me ka ʻike o ke ola i hāʻule koke i kahi.

Ua hiki iaʻu ke hana noʻu i ʻelima mau lula o ka hānai ʻana i kaʻu keiki wale nō.

ka muaka mea aʻu i ʻōlelo ai iaʻu iho: ke ulu nei kahi kāne i loko o koʻu hale!

Ka lua: no laila pehea inā liʻiliʻi kā mākou ʻohana a ʻaʻohe makua kāne. Ma hope o ke kaua, ʻaʻohe makua kāne o kēlā me kēia keikikāne ʻelua. A hānai nā makuwahine i mau kāne kūpono.

ʻO ke kolu: ʻaʻole mākou e noho i ka mokupuni wao akua. E ʻimi kākou i kahi laʻana kāne!

Ka ʻehā: mākou iho e hana i kahi hui o nā hoaaloha maikaʻi!

Ka lima: i kekahi manawa he hiʻohiʻona kāne maikaʻi ʻole i ka ʻohana nāna e ālai iā ʻoe mai ka lilo ʻana i kāne maoli. ʻAʻole kahi kaumaha ka male hoʻokaʻawale.

Akā ʻo ka hoʻolālā ʻana hoʻokahi mea. Pono ia, e kekahi hana mana, e hoʻokō i kēia mau lula. A laila hoʻomaka ka pilikia. Ua pūʻiwa loa kaʻu keiki kāne aloha, aloha nui i ka hoʻololi. Akā, ua kūʻē ʻo ia. Ua kaomi wau i ke aloha, uē a walaʻau ʻaʻole wau i aloha iā ia.

Ua hoʻomaka wau e hakakā.

ʻO ka mea mua, ua hana wau i kahi papa kuhikuhi o nā hana a ka home. He mea pono kēia no ka hānai ʻana i kahi keikikāne. ʻAʻole na ka makuahine e lele a puni ke keiki, akā pono ke keiki e nīnau i ka mea e pono ai ke hana. Maanei pono e paani iki. Inā hoʻohana au i hoʻokahi makahiki ma kaʻu kūʻai ponoʻī ʻana ma nā hale kūʻai nui a lawe i ʻelua ʻeke nui i ka home, i kēia manawa ua hui pū nā huakaʻi i ka hale kūʻai. Ua uē ʻo Nikita i ka ʻōhumu ʻana o ka makani ʻākau ma luna o nā waʻa lawaiʻa. Ua ahonui au. A i nā manawa a pau āna i ʻōlelo hou ai: "E ke keiki, he aha kaʻu e hana ai me ʻoe! Nani kou ikaika! I kēia manawa, nui kā mākou ʻuala. ” He ʻoʻoleʻa ʻo ia. ʻAʻole makemake ʻo ia e kūʻai. Akā, ua ʻike maopopo ʻia ʻo ia he kanaka mahiʻai.

Nīnau ʻia e hui ma ka puka ke hoʻi hope mai ka hana. ʻAe, inā ua loaʻa wau iaʻu iho! Akā ua ʻōlelo au ua makaʻu wau. ʻO nā mea āpau e pili ana i ke kaʻa, hana pū mākou: ua hoʻololi mākou i nā huila ma ka mea hoʻololi i nā huila, piha i ka aila, hele i ka MOT. A i nā manawa āpau me nā huaʻōlelo: "E ka Haku, nani wale ke kanaka o koʻu hale!"

Ua aʻo ʻo ia iaʻu pehea e mālama ai. I ka ʻelima o kēlā me kēia mahina, noho mākou i lalo i ka papa ʻaina me nā enope. Ua waiho lākou i nā uku a nonoi aku i kahi alimony. I kēlā me kēia manawa pono wau e kāhea i koʻu makuakāne a hoʻomanaʻo iā ia. Ua hoʻāʻo ʻo ia e kāhea i kāna keiki a nīnau inā e hoʻolilo ana kona makuahine iā ia iho. A laila ua lohe wau i kahi pane a kahi kāne maoli: “Pāpā, manaʻo wau he mea hilahila ke ʻōlelo ʻana pēlā. He kāne ʻoe! Inā ʻai ʻo Māmā i nā mea ʻono ʻelua no kāu ʻohana, pono wau e haʻi iā ʻoe e pili ana? ”ʻAʻohe kelepona hou. E like me nā makuakāne o ka hopena pule. Akā ua haʻaheo kaʻu keiki.

Ua kau inoa ʻia kā mākou envelopes:

1. Hale noho, pūnaewele, kaʻa.

2. ʻAi.

3. Lumi mele, ʻauʻau ʻauʻau, kumu aʻo.

4. Ka home (nā mea holoi, shampoos, popoki a me ka meaʻai hamster).

5. Kālā no ke kula.

6. Envelope melemele o ka hoʻokipa.

I kēia manawa ua komo ʻo Nikita i ke kaha kiʻi ʻana i ka moʻohelu kālā o ka ʻohana ma ka wāwae like. A maopopo maopopo iā ia ke kumu o ka lahilahi ka envelope melemele. No laila ua aʻo kaʻu keiki e mahalo i kaʻu hana, kālā, hana.

Ua aʻo ʻo ia iaʻu i ke aloha. Ua hana maʻamau ia. Hoʻonohonoho koke mākou i ke kālā no ka leʻaleʻa: nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni, nā lā hānau o nā hoaaloha, sushi, nā pāʻani. Akā ʻo ka manawa pinepine na ke keikikāne i ʻōlelo e hoʻolilo i kēia kālā i nā makemake nui. ʻO kahi laʻana, kūʻai i nā sneakers hou: nahaehae nā mea kahiko. Ua hāʻawi ʻo Nikita i mau manawa e hāʻawi kālā i ka poʻe nele. A ʻane ʻane wau e uē me ka hauʻoli. Kanaka! Ma hope o nā mea āpau, ua haʻalele nā ​​ahi ahi i nā poʻe he nui i ko mākou wahi me ka ʻole o nā mea a me nā hale. ʻO ka lua o ka manawa, ua hele ke kālā mai kahi envelope melemele e kōkua i ka poʻe i nele i ka home ʻole: pohā kahi paipu kinoea i loko o ko lākou hale. Ua ʻohi ʻo Nikita i kāna mau puke, nā mea, a hele pū mākou i ke kula, kahi o ke keʻena kōkua. E ʻike ke keikikāne i kēlā mea ma ka liʻiliʻi i hoʻokahi manawa.

ʻAʻole ia he kumu ua hōʻoki mākou i ka hele i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni a i ʻole e ʻai ʻana i ka pizza i nā ahiahi. Hoʻomaopopo wale ke keiki he mea pono e hoʻopanee. Pono wau e ʻōlelo ʻaʻole pono mākou i ke kālā ʻoiai ua male wau. A ua manaʻo maikaʻi ʻia lākou. Akā ua lawe mai ke ola hou iā mākou i nā pilikia hou. A kēia manawa mahalo i ka lani no kēia. A kaʻu kāne - nohea paha ke ʻano ʻē. Hana mākou ia! ʻAe, paʻakikī e ʻike i ka hala ʻana iā ia, hoʻopoina i ka uku kālā ʻana, kūʻai iā ia iho i kahi kaʻa maikaʻi hou, hoʻokele i kāna mau wahine i Bali, Prague a i Chile paha. Ua ʻike ʻo Nikita i kēia mau kiʻi a pau ma nā pūnaewele, a ua ʻeha au i ka waimaka o kaʻu keiki. Akā pono wau e ʻoi aku ke akamai. He manaʻo ko ke keikikāne ua aloha nā mākua ʻelua iā ia. He mea nui ia. A ua ʻōlelo au: “Nikit, hiki i ka makuakāne ke hoʻolilo kālā i kekahi mea. Loaʻa iā ia ia, he kuleana kāna. I ka wā i haʻalele ai mākou, ʻo ka pōpoki a me ka hamster i noho pū me mākou. ʻElua māua - ʻohana mākou. A ʻo ia wale nō. Ua mehameha ʻo ia. “

Ua hāʻawi wau ia i ka ʻāpana haʻuki. Ua loaʻa iaʻu kahi kaʻi. Wahi a nā loiloi ma nā kolamu. No laila ua hoʻomaka ke keiki e judo. ʻO ka aʻo, ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kahi kāne a me nā hoa, ka hoʻokūkū mua. Laki maikaʻi a me ka laki maikaʻi ʻole. Kāʻei. Nā mekala. Nā kahua haʻuki kauwela. Ua ulu ʻo ia i mua o kā mākou maka. ʻIke ʻoe, he mau makahiki ko nā keikikāne ... me he keiki lā a he ʻōpio ʻōpio wale nō.

Pīhoihoi nā hoaaloha i nā loli o ko mākou ola. Ua ulu ka'u keiki, a ua ulu au me ia. Hele mākou i ke kūlohelohe, lawaiʻa, dacha, kahi e hiki ai iā Nikita ke kamaʻilio me nā makuakāne, nā ʻanakala a me nā kupuna kāne o nā hoaaloha. ʻAʻole lili nā hoaaloha maoli. He kakaikahi paha lakou, aka, o ko'u wahi paa keia. Ua a'o ke keiki i ka hopu pike a me ka i'a ma Astrakhan. Hele mākou ma kahi hui nui ma ke ala mauna, noho i nā hale lole. Ua hoʻokani ʻo ia i nā mele a Tsoi lāua ʻo Vysotsky ma ke kīkā, a hīmeni pū nā kāne makua. Aia ʻo ia ma ke kūlana kūlike. A ʻo kēia ka lua o koʻu waimaka hauʻoli. Ua hana au i kahi pōʻai kaiaulu nona, ʻaʻole au i aloha iā ia me kaʻu aloha maʻi, ua hoʻokō au me ia i ka manawa. A no ke kauwela ua loaʻa iā ia kahi hana me koʻu mau hoaaloha ma kahi hui. No'u ka manao, aole nae oia i ike. Hele mai ʻo ia a nīnau: “Kahea mai ʻo ʻAnakala Lesha, hiki anei iaʻu ke hana nona?” ʻElua mahina i ka waihona. Hero! Ua mālama au i kaʻu kālā.

Maoli, nui nō nā pilikia. I ka wā ʻōpio, kuʻi ka lima o nā keiki kāne. Pono wau e heluhelu i nā tona o nā puke, e nānā i nā hanana ma nā kolamu, e kūkākūkā. A ʻo ka mea nui e maopopo ai he ʻokoʻa nā keiki i kēia manawa. ʻAʻole no lākou ka papa ʻaina. Pono e lanakila i ka mahalo o ke keiki i mea e manaʻo ai ke keiki he kuleana no ka makuahine. Hiki iā ʻoe ke alakaʻi i kahi kamaʻilio me ia - kūpaʻa, ma ke kaʻina kaulike.

ʻIke ʻo ia aloha wau iā ia. ʻIke ʻo ia ʻaʻole wau e ʻoi aku i ka palena o kāna ʻāina ponoʻī. ʻIke ʻo ia ʻaʻole loa wau e hoʻopunipuni iā ​​ia a hoʻokō i kaʻu mau hoʻohiki. Hana wau iā ʻoe, e ke keiki, akā he aha kāu hana? Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i haʻi iaʻu e lohi ana ʻoe, a laila hoʻoweliweli ʻoe iaʻu. Hoʻololi ʻo ia - hoʻomaʻemaʻe i ke keʻena holoʻokoʻa. ʻO wau iho. No laila ua ʻae ʻo ia he hewa kāna. ʻAe wau.

Inā makemake ʻoe e lawe i kaikamahine i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni, e hāʻawi wau iā ʻoe i ka hapalua o ke kālā. Akā e loaʻa iā ʻoe ka lua iā ʻoe iho. Lawe ʻo Nikita ma ka pūnaewele i ka hana ma ka unuhi ʻana i nā mele i ka Lūkini. Mea pōmaikaʻi, aia ka Pūnaewele.

Psychos? Aia. Hakaka paha mākou? ʻOiaʻiʻo! Akā aia nā lula i ka hakakā. ʻEkolu mau no e hoʻomanaʻo:

1. I ka hakakā, ʻaʻole hiki i kekahi ke hōʻino i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo a ke keiki i haʻi malū ai i ka hōʻike.

2. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hele i ka lawena, hea inoa ʻana.

3. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻōlelo i nā huaʻōlelo: “Ua kau wau i koʻu ola ma luna ou. ʻAʻole wau i male ma muli ou. ʻAiʻē ʻoe iaʻu, a pēlā aku.

ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu inā hiki ke ʻōlelo ʻia ua hānai au i ke kāne inā he 17 makahiki. Manaʻo wau ʻae. I nā lā hoʻomaha, mai ke kakahiaka nui, aia nā rosa ma kaʻu papaʻaina. E kaʻu mau mea aloha, pauda. Inā kauoha ʻo ia i ka sushi, a laila e kali ana kaʻu ʻāpana i loko o ka friji. Hiki iā ia ke hoʻokomo i kaʻu jeans i loko o ka mīkini holoi, me ka ʻike ʻana ua hele mai au mai kahi alanui lepo. Hoʻokipa mau ʻo ia iaʻu mai ka hana. A i koʻu maʻi ʻana, e like me ke kanaka, hoʻōho ʻo ia iaʻu ua maʻalili ke kī, a hamo mai ʻo ia iaʻu i ka ginger a me ka lemon. E hoʻokuʻu mau ʻo ia i ka wahine e hele a wehe i ka puka nona. A no kēlā me kēia lā hānau, mālama ʻo ia i ke kālā e kūʻai iaʻu i makana. Ka'u keiki. Makemake au iā ia. ʻOiai ʻaʻole ʻo ia i aloha iki. Hiki iā ia ke ʻōhumu a i kekahi manawa ke kamaʻilio koʻikoʻi me kāna kaikamahine. Akā, ua haʻi ʻo ia iaʻu i kekahi manawa ua hānai wau i kahi kāne maoli a ua mālie ʻo ia me ia. A ʻo ke kolu kēia o nā waimaka o koʻu hauʻoli.

PS I ka makahiki 14 o ka'u keiki, ua halawai au me kekahi kanaka. Ma Moscow, ma ka ʻaha kūkā. Hoʻomaka mākou e kamaʻilio. Ua inu kofe mākou i ka wā hoʻomaha. Ua hoʻololi mākou i nā kelepona. Hoʻomaikaʻi mākou i kekahi i kekahi no ka Makahiki Hou, a ʻeono mahina ma hope mai ua lele pū mākou i Emirates. ʻAʻole wau i haʻi i kaʻu keiki e pili ana iā Sasha no ka manawa lōʻihi, akā ʻaʻole naʻaupō kaʻu keikikāne, ʻōlelo ʻo ia: "E hōʻike mai iaʻu i kahi kiʻi!" Ua komo ʻo Nikita i ke kumu kula honua ma Moscow State University, e like me kāna makemake. A neʻe au i ke kula. Hauʻoli wau e aʻo hou i ke ola, kahi i loaʻa ai ke aloha, ka ʻike a me ka ʻoluʻolu.

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