"Make iaʻu": He mea e pili ana i ka hoaloha wahine

He aha nā kaikamahine i hana ʻia - nā kaikamahine hou i ka kanakolu, ma lalo o kanahā a ʻoi aku? Mai nā kāleka hōʻaiʻē - e uku i nā bila he nui: moraki, kūʻai, kumu no nā keiki. Mai nā ʻōpeʻapeʻa baseball - e pale i kou ʻāina. Mai nā margaritas e ho'ōla i nāʻeha i ka hui o kahi hoaaloha maikaʻi loa. ʻO Dead to Me ka hōʻike hoaloha wahine ʻoi loa āu i ʻike ai.

Ma ke kaulike, ʻaʻole i hoʻomaka ka "manawa wahine" i ka moʻo i nehinei: "Sex and the City" i 20 i ka makahiki i hala, "Desperate Housewives" he 15 i kēia lā.

Eia naʻe, ua ʻoi aku ka laulā o nā pilikia e kū nei i nā heroines hou a me nā kiʻi wahine. A i ka manawa like - a me ka papa inoa o nā kumuhana e hōʻike ana i nā ʻoiaʻiʻo o ka honua hou: kahi pilikia existential a me ka trauma kamaliʻi - ma «Matryoshka», hōʻino iā ia iho a me ka hāʻawi ʻia ʻana o ka maʻi Munchausen i ka «Sharp Objects», ka hana hoʻomāinoino a me ka pilina wahine i loko. "Big Little Lies", psychopathy - i ka "Killing Eve." Ma nā pūʻulu hope ʻelua (ke hoʻomau nei lākou i kēia manawa), ʻo ka manaʻo nui i ka pilina ma waena o nā wahine. Aia nō lākou ma ka puʻuwai o ka Netflix hou ʻeleʻele comedy Dead to Me.

He aha ke ʻano o ka pilina pili i ka wahaheʻe a me ka pepehi kanaka?

— Paʻakikī?..

Ua hui pū ʻia nā mea a pau ma ka hale o Jen Harding. Ua paʻi ʻia kāna kāne e kahi kaʻa a make: ua holo ka mea hoʻokele i kahi o ka hewa, a ua lawe kēia iā Jen i kahi huhū hiki ʻole ke wehewehe ʻia; akā naʻe, e like me ka mea i ʻike ʻia ma hope, ʻaʻole ʻo "ka hoʻokele huhū" ʻaʻole kāna mākau ikaika loa ma ka laulā. Paʻakikī kāna mau keiki i ka make ʻana o ko lākou makuakāne, ʻaʻole ʻo Jen i ʻike e pili ana, akā hoʻomaopopo ʻo ia ʻaʻole ʻo ia ka makuahine maikaʻi loa: aia nā hopohopo āpau e pili ana i kāna mau keiki kāne ma luna o kāna kāne. Ke kau nei ka ʻoihana ma ke koena: ʻo ka mea kūʻai aku me ke ʻano paʻa ʻole ʻaʻole ia he moeʻuhane o ka mea kūʻai aku.

Ma kahi hui kākoʻo no ka poʻe i pakele i ka nalowale, hui ʻo Jen me kahi kanaka ʻē - Judy. I kekahi mau lā, lilo nā wahine i mau hoaaloha maikaʻi loa, a ʻoiai e hoʻomaka ana nā wahaheʻe liʻiliʻi mai ka hoʻomaka ʻana, ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo i hele mai ʻo Judy i loko o kona ola no ke kumu, e hoʻomaopopo wale ʻo Jen ma ka hopena o ke kau, ma mua o ka mea nana.

Pehea e pale aku ai i ka nalowale o kahi mea aloha? Hiki paha ke noho ma lalo o ka hale hoʻokahi me ke kanaka a ʻike ʻole ʻo wai ʻo ia a me kāna mea e hana nei?

Paʻakikī loa ka mea nānā. I kēlā me kēia manawa, ʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe iho e pani ana i kou mau maka, ʻūhū me ka huhū a i ʻole ka huhū ʻana i nā kiʻi, ke aloha me lākou (e mahalo nui ʻia i ka duo phenomenal acting duo o Christina Applegate mai "Married ... me nā keiki" a me Linda Cardellini) a ʻike paha ʻoe Ua moni ʻia ʻekolu mau ʻāpana, ʻoiai ua noho ʻoe i lalo no ke kamepiula "no hoʻokahi minute wale nō." No ka mea, ua paʻi ʻia ʻo "Dead to Me" e like me nā canons a pau o ke ʻano.

A, e like me nā moʻolelo maikaʻi, he multi-layered a, i ka ulu ʻana o ka manaʻo, nīnau i ka mea nānā i nā nīnau ʻoluʻolu. Pehea e pale aku ai i ka nalowale o kahi mea aloha? Loaʻa i nā heroines kā lākou ʻano hoʻomaʻamaʻa ponoʻī: Judy - a i loko o kona ola ua loaʻa pū kekahi - ʻike iā ia iho i ka noʻonoʻo ʻana, hoʻolohe ʻo Jen i ka pōhaku paʻakikī a luku i nā kaʻa noʻonoʻo me ka ʻeke baseball. Hiki paha ke noho ma lalo o ka hale hoʻokahi me ke kanaka a ʻike ʻole ʻo wai ʻo ia a me kāna mea e hana nei? ʻAʻole hiki ke hoʻomaopopo ʻia ke hoʻopunipuni ʻia nei mākou? ʻO wai nā moeʻuhane a kākou e ola nei? He aha ka hewa a me ka mea huna a mākou e mālama ai iā mākou?

Ma ke ala, hele nā ​​mea kākau moʻolelo i nā ʻimi ʻuhane, a me nā leʻaleʻa esoteric, a me nā ʻōlelo hoʻoikaika - ʻo nā mea āpau me ka ʻole o ka mea paʻakikī ke noʻonoʻo i ke ola o kahi kanaka hou, huikau a palupalu, ikaika a palupalu, paʻakikī a wiwo ʻole. E like me ʻoe a i ʻole wau.

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