Contents
- Canteen: kā mākou ʻōlelo aʻo e hoʻoholo maikaʻi
- Paʻakikī kekahi mau mākua e haʻalele i kā lākou keiki i ka hale ʻaina. He aha ka ʻōlelo aʻo āu e hāʻawi ai iā lākou e lanakila ai i kēia manaʻo?
- Pehea inā ʻai liʻiliʻi ka poʻe liʻiliʻi ma ka hale ʻaina no ka mea ʻaʻole lākou makemake i ka wahi a me nā kīʻaha i hāʻawi ʻia?
- He aha nā pōmaikaʻi e loaʻa i nā keiki mai ka hale ʻaina?
- Ua ʻae kekahi mau kaona i nā mākua me ka ʻole o ka hana ʻoihana e hoʻopaʻa inoa i kā lākou keiki i ka hale ʻaina, hoʻokahi a ʻoi aku paha nā lā o ka pule. Makemake ʻoe iā lākou e hoʻohana i kēia manawa kūpono?
Canteen: kā mākou ʻōlelo aʻo e hoʻoholo maikaʻi
Pono au e hoʻopaʻa inoa i kaʻu keiki no ka hale ʻaina? He pilikia no kekahi mau mākua, e hewa ana i ka haʻalele ʻana i kā lākou keiki liʻiliʻi i ka lā a pau i ke kula. Akā ke hana ʻoe, ʻaʻohe āu koho ʻē aʻe. ʻOiaʻiʻo, pono ka ʻaina no nā haumāna liʻiliʻi. Hoʻohou me ka psychoanalyst Nicole Fabre nāna e alakaʻi iā ʻoe e ʻike maikaʻi i ke kūlana ...
Paʻakikī kekahi mau mākua e haʻalele i kā lākou keiki i ka hale ʻaina. He aha ka ʻōlelo aʻo āu e hāʻawi ai iā lākou e lanakila ai i kēia manaʻo?
ʻO ka mea mua, pono ʻoe e ʻae ʻaʻole hewa ke kākau inoa ʻana i kāu keiki i ka hale ʻaina. Pono nā mākua e haʻi iā lākou iho ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke hana i nā mea ʻē aʻe a ma mua o nā mea a pau e hana nei lākou i kā lākou maikaʻi loa i "kēia ʻole". He mea nui hoʻi e hoʻomākaukau i ke keiki no ka manaʻo o ka hale ʻaina ma ka wehewehe ʻana he nui nā haumāna e noho ana ma laila. Ma luna o nā mea a pau, ʻaʻole pono e waiho ʻia i mua o kahi fait accompli. A ʻo ka liʻiliʻi o ka hewa o nā mākua, ʻoi aku ka hiki iā lākou ke hōʻike i kēia ʻanuʻu ma ke ʻano kūlohelohe i kā lākou keiki.
Pehea inā ʻai liʻiliʻi ka poʻe liʻiliʻi ma ka hale ʻaina no ka mea ʻaʻole lākou makemake i ka wahi a me nā kīʻaha i hāʻawi ʻia?
I ka wā e haʻalele ai nā mākua i kā lākou keiki i ka hale ʻaina, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka mālama ʻana i kahi mamao. ʻOiaʻiʻo, hiki iā mākou ke nīnau i ke keiki inā ua ʻai maikaʻi ʻo ia, akā inā pane ʻo ia ʻaʻole, ʻaʻole pono mākou e hana keaka. “ʻAe, ʻaʻole ʻoe i ʻai, ʻino loa iā ʻoe”, “maikaʻi loa naʻe." ʻO ka mea ʻino loa, ʻo ia ke komo ʻana i kēia pāʻani ma ka hāʻawi ʻana iā ia, no ka laʻana, kahi ʻai no ka hoʻomaha.
He aha nā pōmaikaʻi e loaʻa i nā keiki mai ka hale ʻaina?
Nui nā pono o ka hale ʻaina. Hāʻawi nā hale ʻaina kula i kahi hoʻonohonoho no nā keiki. I kekahi mau ʻohana, ʻai ka poʻe a pau iā lākou iho a i ʻole hānai ʻia e like me ko lākou makemake, ma ke ʻano hiʻohiʻona. Hoʻomaopopo ka hale ʻaina i nā keiki he hola e ʻai ai. Pono nā haumāna i kā lākou ʻaʻahu, noho pū, kali i ko lākou manawa… He mea pono nō hoʻi ka hale ʻaina no ka launa pū ʻana o nā kamaliʻi ma muli o kā lākou ʻaina awakea me nā hoa. ʻO ka haʻahaʻa wale nō o kekahi mau hale ʻaina kula ʻo ka walaʻau. Hiki i kekahi manawa ke "hoʻoweliweli" i ka muli loa. Akā he mea kēia e pono ai nā mākua e ʻae ...
Ua ʻae kekahi mau kaona i nā mākua me ka ʻole o ka hana ʻoihana e hoʻopaʻa inoa i kā lākou keiki i ka hale ʻaina, hoʻokahi a ʻoi aku paha nā lā o ka pule. Makemake ʻoe iā lākou e hoʻohana i kēia manawa kūpono?
Ke hiki i nā keiki ke noho me ko lākou ʻohana, maikaʻi kēlā. Eia naʻe, pono paha i ke keiki liʻiliʻi ke ʻai i kekahi manawa a i ʻole ma ka hale ʻaina. ʻAe kēia iā ia e kamaʻāina iā ia iho me kēia wahi. E mākaukau hoʻi ʻo ia ke lawe ʻia mai kona mau mākua ma hope e haʻalele iā ia i ka hale ʻaina i kēlā me kēia lā. ʻO ka ʻai ʻana i hoʻokahi pule i ke kula, no ka laʻana, hāʻawi pū i ke keiki i kahi hoʻonohonoho o nā benchmarks a me ke kani. A hiki i nā mākua ke hāʻawi iā lākou iho i ke kūʻokoʻa iki i kēia lā. No laila he mea maikaʻi no nā ʻōpio a me nā ʻelemakule.