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Hiki iā mākou ke ʻike i ko mākou mau manaʻo, hoʻokele maikaʻi iā lākou. Akā ʻo ka hoʻolālā ʻana iā lākou… Me he mea lā ua ʻoi aku kēia ma mua o ka noʻonoʻo. Pehea e hiki ai iā mākou ke wānana i ka mea e hiki mai ana me ka ʻole o ko mākou komo ʻana? ʻAʻole paʻakikī kēia inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi mākaukau kūikawā.
ʻAʻole hiki iā mākou ke hoʻohuli pololei i ka puka ʻana o nā manaʻo. He hana olaola ia, e like me ka digestion, no ka laʻana. Akā ma hope o nā mea a pau, ʻo kēlā me kēia manaʻo he pane ia i kahi hanana a i ʻole hana, a hiki iā mākou ke hoʻolālā i kā mākou mau hana. Hiki iā mākou ke hana i nā mea i hōʻoiaʻiʻo ʻia e hana i kekahi mau ʻike. No laila, e hoʻolālā mākou i nā manaʻo iā lākou iho.
He aha ka hewa o ka hoʻolālā kuʻuna
Hoʻonohonoho mākou i nā pahuhopu ma muli o nā hopena. Loaʻa i kahi diploma, kūʻai i kaʻa, hele hoʻomaha i Paris. He aha nā manaʻo e loaʻa iā mākou i ke kaʻina o ka hoʻokō ʻana i kēia mau pahuhopu? Ma ke kiʻi maʻamau o ka honua, ʻaʻole ia he mea nui. ʻO ka mea nui ka mea a mākou e hoʻopau ai. ʻO kēia ke ʻano o ka huli ʻana maʻamau.
Ua ʻike mākou a pau he kikoʻī ka pahuhopu, hiki ke hoʻokō a hoʻoikaika. Mākaukau mākou ma mua ma ke ala e hele ai, ʻoi aku paha, pono ʻoe e kū i nā pilikia a kaupalena iā ʻoe iho i kekahi ala. Akā ke hiki mākou, e ʻike mākou i nā manaʻo maikaʻi - hauʻoli, hauʻoli, haʻaheo.
Hoʻohui mākou i ka hoʻokō ʻana i nā pahuhopu me ka hauʻoli.
A inā ʻaʻole? He aha inā inā mākou e hoʻoikaika nui e hoʻokō i ka pahuhopu, akā ʻaʻole mākou e ʻike i nā manaʻo i manaʻo ʻia? No ka laʻana, ma hope o nā mahina o ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana a me ka ʻai ʻana, e hiki anei ʻoe i kou kaumaha i makemake ʻia, akā ʻaʻole anei ʻoe e lilo i mea hilinaʻi a hauʻoli paha? A e hoʻomau i ka ʻimi ʻana i nā hemahema iā ʻoe iho? A i ʻole e hoʻokiʻekiʻe ʻia ʻoe, akā ma kahi o ka haʻaheo i manaʻo ʻia, e ʻike ʻoe i ke kaumaha a ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i kāu mea i makemake ai i kāu kūlana hope.
Hoʻohui mākou i ka hoʻokō ʻana i nā pahuhopu me ka manaʻo hauʻoli. Akā ʻo ka maʻamau ʻaʻole ikaika ka hauʻoli e like me kā mākou i manaʻo ai, a pau koke. Hoʻokumu mākou i kahi pahuhopu hou no mākou iho, hoʻokiʻekiʻe i ka pae a nānā i mua e ʻike hou i nā manaʻo a mākou i makemake ai. A pela pau ole.
Eia kekahi, ʻoi aku ka nui ma mua o ka ʻole, ʻaʻole mākou e hoʻokō i ka mea a mākou i hoʻoikaika ai. Inā he mau kānalua a me nā makaʻu o loko ma hope o ka pahuhopu, ʻoiai he mea makemake nui ʻia, a laila ʻaʻole hiki i ka loiloi a me ka manaʻo ke kōkua i ka lanakila ʻana iā lākou. E ʻike hou ana ka lolo i nā kumu e pōʻino ai ke hoʻokō ʻia. No laila e hāʻawi koke mākou. A ma kahi o ka hauʻoli, loaʻa iā mākou ka manaʻo o ka hewa ʻaʻole mākou i hoʻokō i ka hana.
E hoʻonoho i nā pahuhopu a i ʻole e ola me ka manaʻo
ʻO Danielle Laporte, ka mea kākau o Live with Feeling. Pehea e hoʻonohonoho ai i nā pahuhopu e moe ai ka ʻuhane "i hele mai i ke ʻano o ka hoʻolālā manaʻo ma ka pōʻino. I ka pō o ka Makahiki Hou, ua kākau ʻo ia a me kāna kāne i ka papa inoa maʻamau o nā pahuhopu no ka makahiki, akā ʻike ʻo ia ua nalowale kekahi mea mai ia mea.
Ua maikaʻi nā pahuhopu a pau, akā ʻaʻole hoʻoikaika. A laila, ma kahi o ka kākau ʻana i nā pahuhopu o waho, ua hoʻomaka ʻo Daniella e kūkākūkā me kāna kāne i ko lākou manaʻo i nā wahi like ʻole o ke ola.
Ua ʻike ʻia ʻaʻole lawe ka hapalua o nā pahuhopu i nā manaʻo a lākou i makemake ai e ʻike. A ʻaʻole pono e loaʻa nā manaʻo i makemake ʻia ma ke ala hoʻokahi. No ka laʻana, he mea nui ka huakaʻi i ka hoʻomaha no nā manaʻo hou, ka manawa kūpono e hoʻopau ai a hoʻolimalima manawa me kahi mea aloha. Akā inā ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hele i Paris, no ke aha e ʻike ʻole ai i ka hauʻoli ʻoi aku ka uku ma ka hoʻolimalima ʻana i ka hopena pule ma ke kūlanakauhale kokoke?
Ua loli nā pahuhopu o Daniella ma mua o ka ʻike ʻia ʻana a ʻaʻole like me kahi papa inoa hana hoʻoluhi. Hoʻopili ʻia kēlā me kēia mea me nā manaʻo ʻoluʻolu a piha i ka ikehu.
E hoʻonohonoho i kahi papa no nā manaʻo
Hoʻopau pinepine ka hoʻolālā pahu hopu iā ʻoe. ʻAʻole mākou i lohe i ko mākou mau makemake maoli a hoʻokō i ka mea a ko mākou mau mākua i makemake ai a i ʻole ka mea i manaʻo ʻia he hanohano i ke kaiāulu. Ke nānā nei mākou i ka hauʻoli ʻole, a ʻo ka hopena, hoʻoikaika mākou i ko mākou ola āpau no nā mea e hauʻoli ʻole ai mākou.
Pono mākou e pili i ka hoʻokele manawa koʻikoʻi a hana i nā mea leʻaleʻa e lawe i ka ikehu a hoʻohaʻahaʻa iā mākou e neʻe. Hoʻomaka mua mākou i ka hopena, hiki ke hōʻeha.
ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o nā manaʻo ma mua o ka makemake
ʻO ia ke kumu e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hoʻolālā naʻau. Hoʻonohonoho mua mākou i ka manaʻo o kā mākou makemake. ʻO ka ikaika, hilinaʻi, manuahi, hauʻoli. ʻO kēia ko mākou makemake maoli, ʻaʻole hiki ke huikau me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, hoʻopiha lākou i ka hoʻoikaika, hāʻawi i ka ikaika no ka hana. ʻIke mākou i nā mea e pono ai ke hana. A nānā mākou i ke kaʻina hana a mākou e hoʻomalu ai.
No laila, e hoʻolālā i nā manaʻo āu e makemake ai e ʻike, a laila e hana i kāu papa inoa hana e pili ana iā lākou. No ka hana ʻana i kēia, e pane i nā nīnau 2:
- He aha nā manaʻo aʻu e makemake ai e hoʻopiha i ka lā, pule, mahina, makahiki?
- He aha kāu e hana ai, loaʻa, kūʻai, kahi e hele ai e ʻike i kaʻu i hoʻopaʻa ai?
ʻO kēlā me kēia ʻoihana mai ka papa inoa hou e hāʻawi i ka ikehu a me nā kumuwaiwai, a i ka hopena o ka makahiki ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻike wale i nā ticks i mua o nā pahuhopu. E ʻike ʻoe i nā manaʻo āu i makemake ai.
ʻAʻole kēia manaʻo e hoʻōki ʻoe i ka hoʻoikaika ʻana no kahi mea hou aʻe, e loaʻa i kahi ʻāpana hauʻoli mai ke kīʻaha kī a me kāu puke punahele. Akā, e hoʻomaka ana ʻoe e lohe i kou makemake maoli, e hoʻokō a hana me ka leʻaleʻa, ʻaʻole "ma o ka hiki ʻole." Loaʻa iā ʻoe ka ikaika e hana a hoʻokō maʻalahi i ka mea i manaʻo ʻia he hiki ʻole. E ʻike ʻoe e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā manaʻo ma mua o ka makemake.
E loli ana kou ola. E nui aʻe nā hanana ʻoluʻolu a hauʻoli i loko. A na ʻoe e mālama iā lākou iho.